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ʻAʻole paha i hana maikaʻi ka mamao lōʻihi e like me kāu i manaʻo ai. A i ʻole paha ʻoe i kaʻawale maoli. Inā ʻaʻohe hanana cataclysmic i alakaʻi iā ʻolua e wāwahi, ʻoi aku paha ka hoʻowalewale ʻia e noho i ka nano, a la ʻO Idina Menzel a ʻO Taye Diggs, ka mea e ʻōlelo nei e hoʻolālā lākou e noho kokoke ma hope o ka hemo ʻana.

Akā ʻoiai nā manaʻo maikaʻi, ʻōlelo ka poʻe loea ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi. "ʻOiai i loko o nā kūlana kahi i kuʻikahi ai ka hoʻoholo hoʻokaʻawale, e loaʻa mau ana ka ikaika o ka manaʻo o kekahi kanaka ma mua o ka mea ʻē aʻe," i ʻōlelo aʻo aku ai iā Lisa Thomas, ka mea hoʻoponopono ma ka ʻaoʻao ma Denver. "Ke ʻike nei naʻe i kekahi i kekahi akā ʻaʻole hiki i ka hui pū ʻana ke hāpai i nā manaʻo he nui a ʻeha paha kekahi."

ʻAʻole ia manaʻo e hoʻokaʻawale loa ʻoe iā ia mai ke ola ʻana. Ma aneʻi, pehea e lawelawe ai i kāu ex ke hiki mai kēia mau hanana ʻoluʻolu ʻekolu. [Tweet i kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo!]

Ka Hui Holoi

Inā loaʻa ʻoe a me ia i nā pōʻai kaiapuni, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka ʻōlelo ʻana ma mua o ka hana. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoʻolālā ma kahi-he hoaaloha hiki ke komo a i ʻole kahi papa inoa o nā kumuhana āu e makemake ai a ʻaʻole e kūkākūkā ʻia-ʻo ia ke kī, ʻoi aku hoʻi no kēlā mau mahina mua, wahi a Thomas. "ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mea e hana ai ma mua, ʻaʻole ia e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa ma mua o kou naʻau, a hoʻi hou ʻoe i loko no ka wā kahiko nā hana. "

Ke Kono Hoʻokele

ʻOiai e hoʻowalewale nei e paʻi i ka hale ʻaina ʻĀnia āu e aloha ai, e nīnau iā ʻoe iho pehea ka pōmaikaʻi o ke ahiahi iā ʻoe-ʻoiaʻiʻo inā e pili ana ʻoe i kahi ex hou. Inā makemake ʻoe e hui pū, a i ʻole makemake e ʻokiʻoki i nā mea no ka maikaʻi me ke ʻano hanohano, he mea maikaʻi wale nō iā ʻoe e hōʻike iā ia, wahi a Thomas. "Akā ke lilo ka manawa nui i ke kau pū ʻana me kāu ex, ua nele ʻoe i nā manawa kūpono e ulu ai, me ka ʻole o ke pani ʻana iā ʻoe iho i nā manawa pili aloha ʻē aʻe," hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Thomas. Inā ʻo ia mai ka wā kahiko, ʻoluʻolu loa kahi hopu pōkole - hele wale me nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia.

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Ma muli wale nō o ka maopopo o kou lolo no ke aha e pono ai ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻaʻole ia he kumu e ukali wale ai kou kino Ka Manuahi Manuahi ʻo Kauka Karen. ʻOiai ʻo ka hiamoe pū ʻana ʻaʻole ia e loli i ka manaʻo o kekahi e pili ana i ka haʻihaʻi, kūlohelohe ia i ka lua o nā koho a kānalua paha i nā mea, ʻoiai inā maikaʻi ka pō, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. ʻO ia ke kumu e ukali ai ʻoe i nā hoʻolaulea e like me kēia me kahi wā hōʻoluʻolu e ʻike ai ke kumu o ka hopena. No ka mea ma kahi hoʻokahi wale nō ʻolua? No ka makemake o ʻolua i kahi manawa lua ma ka pilina? ʻO nā mea a pau ka hoʻoholo, e ʻike pono e kūkā kamaʻilio ia i ke ao, ʻoiai nā lole, e ʻōlelo ana ʻo Ruskin.

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