Kahi Alakaʻi Hoʻomaka i ka Hypnosis moekolohe

Anter

• He aha kēīa?
• No laila ʻaʻole ia he mea like me ka erotic hypnosis?
• Pehea e pili ana i ka sex therapy?
• ʻO wai ka pōmaikaʻi?
• Pehea e hana ai?
• Pehea e hana ai?
• Ua noiʻi ʻia ma nā mea āpau?
• Aia kekahi mau pilikia a pilikia paha e makaʻala?
• Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i kahi mea hāʻawi palekana?
• Ma hea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe?

Hoʻopili mākou i nā huahana a mākou e manaʻo nei he pono no kā mākou poʻe heluhelu. Inā kūʻai ʻoe ma o nā loulou i kēia ʻaoʻao, loaʻa iā mākou kahi kōmike liʻiliʻi. Eia kā mākou hana.

ʻO Viagra, kahi papaʻai aphrodisiac, therapy, a me ka lube kekahi o nā mea i kaulana loa no nā hana moekolohe e like me ka hana erectile, anorgasmia, a me ka wā kahiko ejaculation.

Akā aia kekahi ala ʻē aʻe, inā paha kani he woo-woo iki, hana paha: hypnosis moekolohe.

"ʻAʻole paha he hypology maʻamau ʻo hypnosis no nā pilikia moekolohe i kēia lā, [akā] ua hoʻohana ʻia ka hypnosis e mālama i nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole o ka moe kolohe no nā makahiki he nui," wahi a Sarah Melancon, PhD, sociologist a me ka sexologist clinical me Sex Toy Collective.

Akā he aha ka hypnosis moekolohe, pololei? A hana maoli paha ia? Pepa i lalo e aʻo hou ai.

He aha kēīa?

ʻIke ʻia ʻo hypnosis moekolohe therapeutic, hiki i ka hypnosis moekolohe ke kōkua i ka poʻe e hana ma o ka pilikia o ka moekolohe e hoʻopilikia nei i kā lākou ola wahine a i ʻole ka moekolohe.

O kahi laʻana:

• libido haʻahaʻa
• anorgasmia
• ka hana erectile
• ejaculation wā mua
• puʻuhonua
• moekolohe ʻeha
• hilahila a puni ka moekolohe a moekolohe paha

No laila ʻaʻole ia he mea like me ka erotic hypnosis?

ʻAʻole. ʻOiai hoʻohana pinepine ʻia nā huaʻōlelo i ka hoʻololi ʻia, aia nā ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa.

ʻO ke kumu o ka erotic hypnosis ka mea hoʻohenehene, hoʻowalewale, a leʻaleʻa, wehewehe iā Kaz Riley, kahi hypnotherapist lapaʻau i loea i ka hana pū ʻana me nā poʻe e ʻike nei i ka hana moekolohe.

"Hoʻohana ʻia i ka wā o ka moekolohe e hoʻonui ai i ka leʻaleʻa a i ʻole e paipai ai i ka orgasm, a i ʻole i kahi hanana BDSM ma ke ʻano he mana o ka kaohi," wehewehe ʻo Riley.

ʻO ka hypnosis moekolohe, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki ke kōkua i kekahi e hana ma waena o kahi pilikia moekolohe e hiki ai iā lākou ke hele i ka leʻaleʻa i kā lākou ola wahine pilikino a i ʻole i hui pū ʻia.

ʻO ka pane pōkole? ʻO ka hypnosis erotic e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa kēia manawa. ʻO ka hypnosis moekolohe e pili ana i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kou leʻaleʻa ma hope ke kau, ke mākaukau koke ʻoe no kekahi "manawa me" a i ʻole pāʻani pāʻani.

Pehea e pili ana i ka sex therapy?

Hypnosis paha kāhea ʻia hypnotherapy. Akā hypnotherapy ≠ psychotherapy.

Akā, hoʻohana ʻia ka hypnosis ma ke ʻano he addendum i ka therapy a i ʻole e nā poʻe i loaʻa ʻole ka kūleʻa i ka psychotherapy.

ʻO kahi kau me kahi mea hoʻoponopono moekolohe ke ʻano ʻokoʻa loa ma mua o kahi kau me kahi hypnotherapist i loea i ka moekolohe a me ka moe kolohe, e wehewehe ana ʻo Eli Bliliuos, pelekikena a hoʻokumu o ka NYC Hypnosis Center.

"I loko o kahi kau hoʻolauleʻa moekolohe, ke kamaʻilio nei ʻoe a me kahi mea hoʻoponopono ma o kāu pilikia," wahi a Bliliuos. "I loko o kahi hālāwai hypnotherapy, ke kōkua nei ka hypnotist iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono hou i ka noʻonoʻo subconscious."

ʻO wai ka pōmaikaʻi?

Inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka pono moekolohe, ʻaʻole kahi hypnotist kāu hana mua - he kauka lapaʻau.

No ke aha mai? Ma muli o ke kīnā ʻana o ka moekolohe hiki ke lilo i hōʻailona o kahi ʻano kūlohelohe.

ʻO ka inoa wale nō kekahi, pili pū kēia:

• maʻi maʻi puʻuwai
• kolesterol kiʻekiʻe
• maʻi maʻi metabolic
• endometriosis
• maʻi maʻi pelvic

ʻO kēlā, hoʻoholo paha ʻoe e hoʻokomo i kahi hypnotist i kāu hoʻolālā hoʻōla, ʻoiai inā ʻike kāu kauka aia ke ʻano olakino olakino ma hope o kāu mau ʻōuli.

"Ma kahi e hele ai ka manaʻo e ukali ke kino," wahi a Riley.

Hoʻomau ʻo ia e wehewehe inā piliwi ʻoe a makaʻu paha e ʻeha ka moekolohe, a i ʻole ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi a mālama i kahi kūkulu, e hoʻomau ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma hope o ka haʻi ʻia ʻana o ke kumu kino.

"Hiki i kahi hypnotist ke kōkua i ka rewire i ka subconscious e hōʻoki i kēlā mau manaʻo noʻonoʻo mai ka hoʻopilikia ʻana me ka leʻaleʻa i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma ka reframing ʻana iā lākou i ka noʻonoʻo," wahi a Riley. Mea mana!

Pehea e hana ai?

E loli ke ala pololei a ka hypnotist e pili ana i ka hana pono ʻole. Akā ʻo ke kumumanaʻo o ka hana ma muli o ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa like.

"ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaka mākou me kahi aʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka moekolohe," wahi a Riley. "Hiki i ka hypnosis ke hoʻoponopono i kahi glitch i ka papahana, akā ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana makemake mākou e hōʻoia e holo nei lākou i ka papahana kūpono."

ʻO kahi laʻana, inā hopohopo ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻole like kāu ola moekolohe i ka mea āu e ʻike ai i ka porn, ʻo ka mea āu e pono ai ʻaʻole hypnosis akā kahi aʻo e pili ana i ka porn (hoʻokipa) a ʻaʻole (aʻo).

A laila, e kamaʻilio ka hypnotist me ʻoe e pili ana i kāu mau pahu hopu kikoʻī. E nīnau pū lākou e pili ana i nā trauma i hala e ʻike i nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā ​​kumuhana i hiki ke hoʻomaka ʻia.

ʻO ka hope, e neʻe ʻoe i ka mahele hypnosis o ke kau.

Pehea e hana ai?

Hoʻomaka ka hapa nui o nā kau hypnosis me ka hoʻomaha a me nā hana hanu e kōkua i ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi o kou kino. (E noʻonoʻo: Hanu i loko no kahi helu o 3, a laila no ka helu o 3.)

A laila, na ka hypnotist e alakaʻi iā ʻoe i kahi ʻano hypnotic.

"Hiki i ka hypnotist ke hoʻohana i kahi hana i hiki ke ʻike ʻia o ka hoʻoluliluli ʻana i kahi wati i mua a hoʻi," wahi a Bliliuos. "Akā maʻamau, na ka hypnotist e alakaʻi iā ʻoe i kahi ʻano trance me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi hui o ka ʻōlelo waha a me nā hana hanu."

E akāka loa: Aia kahi zero (0!) Pili i pili.

"Ma loko o ka moe hypnosis e pili ana mākou i nā manaʻo hoʻāla a me nā moekolohe, akā ʻaʻohe mea e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma ke kau," wahi a Riley.

Ke komo ʻoe i loko o kēia ʻano trance, e kōkua ka hypnotist iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka ʻāpana o kou manaʻo subconscious ʻo ia ka "limiter," a laila e hoʻohana i ke aʻo ʻana i alakaʻi ʻia e ka leo e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono hou iā ia.

"I kekahi manawa he 2 hola ka lōʻihi o ka hana ʻana i nā manawa ʻē aʻe, he mau hola ʻē aʻe ka lōʻihi," wahi a Riley.

Ua noiʻi ʻia ma nā mea āpau?

"Loaʻa i ka hypnosis kahi stigma nui nui e pili ana iā ia, me nā ʻepekema he nui he kuhi karnival wale nō ia," wahi a Melancon. "Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau haʻawina liʻiliʻi e hōʻike ana aia kekahi mau pōmaikaʻi, a me ka anecdotally he nui ka poʻe i ʻike he mea kōkua no ka hoʻokele ʻana i nā mea hoʻopaʻa wahine."

Hoʻokahi o ka loiloi 1988 i paʻi ʻia i loko o ka puke pai ʻO Sexology hoʻopau ʻia ka hoʻohiki ʻana o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hypnosis no ka moe kolohe.

A ʻo kahi noiʻi 2005 i paʻi ʻia ma ka American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis i pau ai: "Hāʻawi ka [hypnosis moekolohe] i nā mea maʻi i kahi ʻike hou i loko e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻokele i kā lākou moekolohe mai loko mai, kūlohelohe a me ka ʻole o ka hoʻāʻo nui ʻana, me ke koho a me ke kūʻokoʻa nui aʻe ma mua.

Kau ʻia kēia mau haʻawina? ʻOiaʻiʻo nō! Pono hou kahi noiʻi? Piliwaiwai ʻoe!

Akā ke noʻonoʻo nei e male ana ka hypnosis moekolohe i nā kumuhana ʻelua - hypnosis a me ka moekolohe - aneane hiki ʻole ke loaʻa kālā, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo kaumaha ʻaʻole paha e hoʻokō ʻia i kēlā me kēia manawa koke. Kanikau.

Aia kekahi mau pilikia a pilikia paha e makaʻala?

ʻAʻole weliweli ka hypnosis iho.

"ʻAʻole ʻoe e lilo i ka kaohi o kāu hana ʻoiai ma lalo o ka hypnosis," wehewehe ʻo Riley. "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi mea ʻoiai e hoʻoleʻaleʻa i kāu mea ponoʻī ʻole."

Eia nō naʻe, pono e hana ʻia e kahi mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa a hoʻomaʻamaʻa loea.

Hypnosis hiki weliweli ke alakaʻi ʻia e kahi hypnotist unethical. (ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i ka mea like ke ʻōlelo ʻia e pili ana i nā psychotherapist unethical a me nā lāʻau lapaʻau.)

Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i kahi mea hāʻawi palekana?

ʻAʻohe kānalua, e ʻimi ana i ka "hypnosis moekolohe" ma Google i nā hopena he miliona. No laila pehea ʻoe e pale aku ai i ka mea legit (a palekana!) Me ka mea ʻole?

Wahi a Bliliuos aia ʻelua mau mea e nānā ai i kahi mea hāʻawi.

1. ka hōʻoia, kikoʻī mai ka National Guild of Hypnotists a i ʻole ka International Association of Counselors and Therapists
2. ʻike

Ke ʻike ʻoe i kekahi me kēlā mau mea ʻelua, hāʻawi ka hapa nui o ka poʻe loea i kahi kāhea kūkākūkā e hoʻoholo ai inā he kūpono maikaʻi.

Ma kēia kelepona e makemake ʻoe e aʻo:

• He aha ka hana a kēia hypnotist? Loaʻa iā lākou kahi ʻike e hana pū ana me nā poʻe me kaʻu hana pilikino pilikino?
• ʻOluʻolu wau me kēia loea? Maluhia paha wau?

Ma hea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe?

ʻO Riley's YouTube channel, "Trending in the Sheets," kahi wahi maikaʻi e hoʻomaka ai.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, loaʻa iā ia kahi mahele, "The Big O," kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kiaʻi iā ia i ke alakaʻi me kekahi me ka anorgasmia i ka orgasm e ʻike ai i ka manaʻo o ka wā o ke kau.

ʻO nā kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe:

• "Hoʻoholo i ka hōʻino kolohe: Solution-Focused Therapy and Ericksonian Hypnosis for Adult Survivors" na Yvonne Dolan
• "Ke alakaʻi iā ʻoe iho i ka hypnosis: Hōʻalo iā Vaginismus" na Anna Thompson
• "E nānā i koʻu mau maka: Pehea e hoʻohana ai i ka hypnosis e hoʻopuka i ka mea ʻoi loa i kāu ola kolohe" na Peter Masters

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