ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ka wā he makuahine ʻoe me ka ʻeha mau

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• Ke ʻimi nei i nā ala e mālama ai i ka ʻeha
• Ke hoʻopono me kaʻu kaikamahine
• ʻO nā pale kālā o ka endometriosis

Ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kaʻu hōʻailona, ​​ua manaʻo wau ʻaʻohe mea o ka endometriosis ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi wā "ʻino". A ʻoiai, ua manaʻo wau ʻo ka manaʻo ʻana o ka cramp ʻino iki. He hoa noho koʻu ma ke koleke i loaʻa iā endo, a hilahila wau i ka ʻae ʻana ua manaʻo wau he ʻano pīhoihoi wale nō kāna i ka hoʻopiʻi no ka maikaʻi ʻole o kāna wā. Ua manaʻo wau e ʻimi ana ʻo ia i ka nānā.

He hūpō wau.

He 26 koʻu mau makahiki i ka manawa aʻu i ʻike mua ai i ke ʻano o nā wā maikaʻi ʻole no nā wahine me ka endometriosis. Ua hoʻomaka wau e hoʻolei i kēlā me kēia manawa ke loaʻa iaʻu koʻu manawa, ʻo ka ʻehaʻeha loa e aneane makapō ana. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hele wāwae. ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻai. ʻAʻole hiki ke hana. He minamina ia.

Ma kahi o ʻeono mau mahina ma hope o ka hoʻomaka mua ʻana o kaʻu mau wā e lilo i mea hiki ʻole, ua hōʻoia kahi kauka i ka ʻike o ka endometriosis. Mai laila mai, ua ʻino wale ka ʻeha. I loko o kekahi mau makahiki aʻe, ua lilo ka ʻeha i ʻāpana o koʻu ola i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua ʻike ʻia wau me ka endometriosis pae 4, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole nā ​​mea maʻi i koʻu wahi pelvic wale nō. Ua pālahalaha ʻia i nā welau aʻa a kiʻekiʻe e like me kuʻu ʻāpana. ʻO nāʻiʻo o kēlā me kēia pōʻaiapili aʻu e hana nei i kuʻu mau ʻōpala e fuse pū.

ʻIke wau i ke kī ʻana i ka ʻeha ma lalo o koʻu mau wāwae. ʻEha i kēlā me kēia manawa aʻu i hoʻāʻo ai e moekolohe. ʻEha mai ka ʻai ʻana a me ka hele ʻana i ka lua. I kekahi manawa ʻeha ʻoiai ka hanu ʻana.

ʻAʻole hele mai ka ʻeha me kaʻu mau kau. Me aʻu i kēlā me kēia lā, kēlā me kēia manawa, me kēlā me kēia wāwae aʻu i lawe ai.

Ke ʻimi nei i nā ala e mālama ai i ka ʻeha

ʻO ka hopena, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi kauka i loea i ka mālama ʻana i ka endometriosis. A ma hope o ʻekolu mau hana nui me ia, ua loaʻa iaʻu ka maha. ʻAʻole kahi mea hoʻōla - ʻaʻohe mea e pili ana i kēia maʻi - akā he hiki ke hoʻokele i ka endometriosis, ma mua o ke kau wale ʻana iā ia.

Ma kahi o hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope o kaʻu ʻoki hope loa, ua hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia wau me ka manawa kūpono e hānai ai i kaʻu kaikamahine liʻiliʻi. Ua kāʻili ka maʻi iaʻu i kahi manaʻolana o ka hāpai mau ʻana i kahi keiki, akā ʻo ka lua o kaʻu kaikamahine i loko o koʻu mau lima, maopopo iaʻu ʻaʻohe mea nui. ʻO wau mau kāna makuahine.

Eia nō naʻe, he makuahine wau hoʻokahi me kahi maʻi ʻeha mau. ʻO kahi e hiki iaʻu ke mālama pono ma lalo o ka kaohi mai ke kīkō ʻana, akā kahi ʻano i loaʻa kahi ala e hahau ai iaʻu mai ka polū a kīkēkē iaʻu i koʻu mau kuli i kēlā me kēia manawa.

ʻO ka manawa mua i hana ai, ua emi kaʻu kaikamahine ma mua o hoʻokahi makahiki. Ua hele mai kahi hoaaloha no ka waina ma hope o koʻu waiho ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine e hiamoe, akā ʻaʻole mākou i hiki a hiki i ka wehe ʻana i ka ʻōmole.

Ua haehae ka ʻeha i koʻu ʻaoʻao ma mua o kā mākou hiki ʻana i kēlā kiko. Ua haki kahi cyst, e hōʻeha ana i ka ʻeha weliweli - a me kekahi mea aʻu i hana ʻole ai i nā makahiki he nui. Mahalo, aia koʻu hoaaloha ma laila e noho i ka pō a kiaʻi i kaʻu kaikamahine i hiki iaʻu ke lawe i kahi ʻeha ʻeha a wili i loko o ka ipu wai wela.

Mai ia manawa, ua kuʻi a nalowale koʻu mau wā. Hiki ke mālama ʻia kekahi, a hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomau i ka lilo ʻana i makuahine me ka hoʻohana ʻana o NSAID ma kahi o kekahi mau lā mua o koʻu pōʻaiapuni. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o kekahi ma mua o kēlā. ʻO nā mea hiki iaʻu ke hana ʻo ka noho ʻana i kēlā mau lā i kahi moe.

Ma ke ʻano he māmā hoʻokahi, paʻakikī kēlā. ʻAʻole wau makemake e lawe i kekahi mea ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o NSAIDs; ke kūlike a loaʻa i kaʻu kaikamahine kahi mea nui. Akā huhū nō wau i ke kaohi ʻana i kāna mau hana no nā lā ma ka hopena ke moe wau i kahi moe, ʻūlū ʻia i nā pale hoʻomehana a kali wau e ʻike hou i ke kanaka.

Ke hoʻopono me kaʻu kaikamahine

ʻAʻohe pane kūpono, a haʻalele pinepine wau me ka lawehala ke pale ka ʻeha iaʻu mai ka makuahine aʻu e makemake ai. No laila, hoʻāʻo nui wau e mālama iaʻu iho. ʻIke loa wau i kahi ʻokoʻa i kaʻu mau ʻehaʻeha ke ʻaʻole lawa wau ka hiamoe, ʻai pono ʻana, a lawa ʻole ka hoʻoikaika kino. Hoʻomaʻo wau e noho i ke olakino hiki ke hiki i koʻu mau ʻehaʻeha ke noho i kahi pae hoʻokele.

Ke holo ʻole paha ia? Kūpono wau me kaʻu kaikamahine. I ka 4 o kona mau makahiki, ua ʻike ʻo ia i kēia manawa ua ʻuʻē ʻo Mommy i kāna ʻōpū. Hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia ʻo ia ke kumu i hiki ʻole ai iaʻu ke hāpai i kahi pēpē a no ke kumu i ulu ai ʻo ia i loko o kāna ʻōpū mama ʻē aʻe. A ke ʻike nei ʻo ia, i kekahi manawa, nā auhue a Mommy e pono mākou e noho i ka moena e nānā ana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

ʻIke ʻo ia ke ʻeha maoli wau, pono wau e lawe i kāna ʻauʻau a hana i ka wai i wela loa i hiki ʻole iā ia ke hui pū me aʻu i ka pā. Hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia i kekahi manawa pono wau e pani i koʻu mau maka e pale i ka ʻeha, ʻoiai inā ʻo ia ka waena o ka lā. A ʻike ʻo ia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke hoʻowahāwahā wau i kēlā mau lā. Makemake au ʻaʻole ma ka 100 pakeneka a hiki ke pāʻani me ia e like me kā mākou hana maʻamau.

ʻIno wau iā ia i ka ʻike ʻana iaʻu i kuʻi ʻia e kēia maʻi. Akā maopopo iā ʻoe he aha? ʻO kaʻu kaikamahine liʻiliʻi kahi pae o ke aloha āu e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole ai. A ke loaʻa nei iaʻu nā lā ʻehaʻeha, ʻoiai he mau mea a mamao loa ma waena o kā lākou e maʻa mau ai, aia ʻo ia ma laila, mākaukau e kōkua iaʻu i kēlā me kēia ala e hiki ai iā ia.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia e namunamu. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e whine. ʻAʻole ia e lawe i ka pono a hoʻāʻo e pakele me nā mea inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ia. ʻAʻole, noho ʻo ia ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka ipu wai a mālama ʻo ia iaʻu i hui. Koho ʻo ia i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni no mākou e kiaʻi pū. A ke hana nei ʻo ia me he mea lā ʻo ka pīpī pīpī a me nā ʻohani jelly aʻu e hana ai nāna nā mea ʻai kupaianaha loa i loaʻa iā ia.

Ke hala kēlā mau lā, ke ʻike ʻole wau i ka hahau ʻia e kēia maʻi, ke neʻe mau nei mākou. Ma waho mau. ʻImi mau. Hele mau i kahi makana makuahine

ʻO nā pale kālā o ka endometriosis

Manaʻo wau nona - kēlā mau lā ke ʻeha au - i kekahi manawa he hoʻokipa maikaʻi. Makemake ʻo ia i ka mālie o ka noho ʻana i loko a kōkua iaʻu i ka lā.He kuleana wau e koho ai nona? ʻAʻole loa. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu kekahi makua e makemake ana i kā lāua keiki e ʻike i ka haʻihaʻi ʻana o lākou.

Akā, ke noʻonoʻo wau e pili ana, pono wau e ʻae he mau ʻāpana kala i ka ʻeha aʻu e ʻike ai i kekahi manawa ma ka lima o kēia maʻi. ʻO ke minamina a kaʻu kaikamahine e hōʻike nei he kūlana maikaʻi haʻaheo wau e ʻike iā ia. A malia paha aia kekahi mea e ʻōlelo ʻia no kāna aʻo ʻana ʻoiai ʻo kāna momi paʻakikī kāna mau lā maikaʻi ʻole i kekahi manawa.

ʻAʻole loa wau i makemake e lilo i wahine me ka ʻeha mau. ʻAʻole loa wau i makemake e lilo i makuahine me ka ʻeha mau. Akā manaʻoʻiʻo maoli wau hoʻohālikelike ʻia mākou āpau e kā mākou ʻike. A ke nānā aku nei i kaʻu kaikamahine, ke ʻike nei i kaʻu hakakā ʻana ma o kāna mau maka - ʻaʻole au inaina he ʻāpana kēia o ka mea e hoʻoliʻiliʻi iā ia.

Mahalo wale wau i koʻu mau lā maikaʻi i ʻoi aku i ka maikaʻi ʻole.

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