E hoʻohana pinepine ana paha ka Vibrator i kaʻu Clitoris?

Anter

• ʻO ka pane? ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole e hōʻino kāu vibe i kāu V
• Inā ʻōlohelohe ʻoe, ʻaʻole ka vibe kou vibe
• ʻAʻole hiki i ka orgasm i ka manawa o ka moekolohe?
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻO wau kahi mea kākau moekolohe nāna i hoʻokolohua-hoʻokele a laila kākau e pili ana i nā mea pāʻani wahine.

No laila, i ka manawa e kiola ʻia ana ka huaʻōlelo ʻo "vagina Syndrome make" a puni ka pūnaewele e wehewehe i ka helu o ka helu nether i hoʻokomo ʻia e ka vibrator, ua noʻonoʻo wau: Pono wau i ka comp o nā limahana? E ʻoki paha wau i ka buzz?

Ua kāhea aku wau i kaʻu poʻe hele a pili wahine a me nā loea vulva e kōkua i ka pane ʻana i kēia nīnau nui loa: Hiki i ka manawa maikaʻi keu me nā haʻalulu ʻoiaʻiʻo desensitize i koʻu clit a i ʻole pilikia me nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe o kuʻu puki?

ʻO ka pane? ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole e hōʻino kāu vibe i kāu V

Wahi a ka sexologist loea ʻo Jill McDevitt, PhD, me CalExotics, ʻo "dead vagina syndrome" kahi manawa nonmedical, hopohopo weliweli i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka poʻe i maopopo ʻole i ka wahine kahe ʻana, ka orgasms, ka leʻaleʻa, a i ʻole ka anatomy vaginal and vulvar anatomy.

ʻOi aku paha ka maikaʻi o ka poʻe i kākoʻo i kēia ʻike faux ma mua o ka poʻe i ʻōlelo ʻaʻole lākou e "hilinaʻi i ka lube" (cue eye roll).

"Manaʻo ke kaiāulu a aʻo i nā wahine e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole me ka manaʻo o nā wahine e ʻike nei i ka leʻaleʻa no ka leʻaleʻa a me ka haʻalele ʻana iā lākou iho," wahi a McDevitt. ʻO ka hopena, "haʻi ʻia nā poʻe me ka vulvas i kahi vibrator e 'hōʻino' iā lākou no ka moekolohe a ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻonele i kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe." Akā he stigma kēia, ʻaʻole ʻepekema, e ʻōlelo nei.

"He kaʻao holoʻokoʻa ia e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke desensitize i kāu puʻupaʻa a i ʻole clitoris mai ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi vibrator," wahi a Kauka Carolyn DeLucia, FACOG, ka mea i hoʻokumu ʻia ma Hillsborough, New Jersey. A like like me nā vibe me ka vroom ʻoi aku ma mua o ka lawn mower (hilinaʻi iaʻu, ʻike wau i kekahi o kēlā mau hoʻonohonoho mana i ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kou manaʻo).

"ʻAʻole pono e loaʻa kahi pilikia a me ka helu ʻole mai nā haʻalulu e hana i kahi ʻano vibrator kiʻekiʻe maoli a i ʻole ka ikaika," wahi a DeLucia. ʻO ke kumu, ua ʻae ʻia ke kauka ʻo Hitachi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā mea āpau āu e makemake ai - inā ʻaʻole ʻeha pono ʻole a ʻoluʻolu ʻole ʻoe no kekahi kumu, ʻoiaʻiʻo.

Aia kekahi haʻawina liʻiliʻi i paʻi ʻia ma The Journal of Sexual Medicine i ʻike ʻia ʻaʻohe hopena hopena o nā mea haʻalulu. ʻO ka hapanui o nā mea hoʻohana vibrator i hōʻike i ka zip, zilch, zero adverse a i ʻole nā ​​hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole i ko lākou genitalia ma muli o kahi hopena.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kūʻē i nā manaʻo o ka poʻe alarmist vibrator, aia he hōʻike nui loa e pili ana ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka vibrator i nā hopena maikaʻi. Pākuʻi ʻia kēia mau mea:

• hoʻokahakaha
• hoʻonui lubrication
• hoʻēmi i ka ʻeha
• ʻoi aku ka likelika o ka ʻimi ʻana i nā loiloi gynecological

No laila vibe, e nā poʻe.

Kuhikuhi ʻo McDevitt i loko o ke aʻo ʻana, “Ma laila ua kekahi mau mea i hōʻike i ka manaʻo numbing, [akā] i ʻōlelo ua hala ka manaʻo i loko o hoʻokahi lā. "

Hoʻohālikelike ʻo Megan Stubbs, Ed.D sexologist i kahi numbness manawa ma hope o ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka vibrator i ka numbness a kou lima e ʻike ai ma hope o ke ʻoki ʻana i ka mauʻu a i ʻole ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kahi Theragun. "ʻAʻole mau loa ia. Me kekahi ʻano stimulate ikaika, pono i kou kino i kahi manawa e hoʻihoʻi a ola hou, "i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. Hele pū kekahi me ka moekolohe. ʻO nā lono maikaʻi no nā mea aloha vibrator.

Inā ʻōlohelohe ʻoe, ʻaʻole ka vibe kou vibe

Inā ʻoe he mea hoʻohana vibrator maʻamau a ʻike i ka nalo o ka noʻonoʻo, ʻōlelo ʻo Stubbs aia paha he mea ʻē aʻe a ʻaʻole na kāu buzzer lima e hoʻopiʻi.

ʻOiai e hopohopo nei e hoʻopilikia kāu mea haʻalulu i kou hiki ke hauʻoli i ka moekolohe pili manuahi ʻole ʻenehana hiki e lilo i ka mea e mālama nei iā ʻoe mai ka haʻalele.

"No ka poʻe me ka vulvas, no ka lolo ka hapa nui o ka orgasm, a ʻo ke koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ka hoʻowahāwahā kahi ala nui," wahi a McDevitt. Yep, hiki ke lilo i wānana hoʻokō ponoʻī.

Eia nō naʻe, manaʻo ʻo DeLucia e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kāu manawa me kāu OB-GYN inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka helu o ka clitoris, vulva, a i ʻole kekahi ʻāpana o kāu ʻōpala. ʻO nā mea e like me ke koʻikoʻi, ke kaumaha, ka lāʻau, a i ʻole ke ʻano o ke olakino olakino hiki i nā mea āpau ke kuʻi i kou ʻike, no laila he mea nui e ʻike i nā mea desensitizing iā ʻoe i lalo.

ʻAʻole hiki i ka orgasm i ka manawa o ka moekolohe?

ʻO ka mua, hanu. He mea maʻamau kēlā. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo he hewa kekahi.

"Ma kahi o 10 pākēneka o ka piko o nā wahine e hoʻopau maʻalahi," wahi a DeLucia. "A ʻaʻole hiki i ka hapa nui o nā wahine ke hoʻopau me / mai ka moekolohe wale nō a pono ka hoʻonāukiuki clitoral pololei i ka piko." No laila, i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā vibrator no ka mea hāʻawi lākou i kēlā stimulate a laila kekahi.

Wahi a DeLucia ʻo ia ke kumu i hiki ai i kekahi mau wahine ke hoʻokalakupua me ka mea pāʻani akā ʻaʻole hoa. ʻAʻole ia ka hoʻopā hoʻopilikia kēlā me ka O, pololei; ʻo ia ka wahi o ka hoʻopā, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

No laila, inā kī ʻia kāu clit i ka ʻaoʻao i ka manawa o ka manawa pāʻani (aka sex penetrative), lawe mai i kēlā pēpē i loko no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana.

ʻO ia paha ka hoʻohana ʻana i kou lima a i ʻole ke noi ʻana i kāu pakanā e hoʻohana i ko lākou lima. Akā manaʻo paha ia i ka lawe ʻana mai i kāu bozzy boo i loko o ka hui. Ma kēlā a me kēia ʻaoʻao, e nānā wale i ka nānā ʻana o kāu clitoris i hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i waho.

"ʻIke wau ʻaʻohe mea e huki ana i kahi mea haʻalulu i ka wā o ka moʻo ʻana o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, akā ʻo ka moekolohe kiʻi ke ʻano o ke ola maoli !," wahi a Stubbs. "He nui nā wahine hana e koi i kahi vibe e haʻalele me kā lākou mau hoa, a ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻohilahila mau iā ʻoe no ia mea. "

Hilahila Vibe? ʻAʻole i koʻu hale.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i ka helu o ka vibrator.

ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi ʻole? "ʻO ka hihia maʻamau ʻaʻole pili i ka helu a me ka desensitizing. ʻO ka pilikia ka pilikia o ka poʻe me ka leʻaleʻa o nā wahine a me ke kuhi hewa ʻole o ka anatomy, "wahi a McDevitt. Ke emi nei paha ka stigma o ka leʻaleʻa wahine, akā he ala nō naʻe kā mākou e hele.

No laila e noho, hoʻomaha, a leʻaleʻa i kēlā vibrator no ka lōʻihi (a i ʻole no kekahi mau orgasms) e like me kou makemake.

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