ʻO ka maʻi aloha obsessive
Anter
- He aha nā hōʻailona o ka maʻi aloha pīpī?
- He aha ke kumu e hoʻomohala ai i kahi kanaka i ka maʻi aloha obsessive?
- Nā maʻi hoʻopili
- Ka maʻi maʻi pilikino
- Lili luhi
- ʻO Erotomania
- ʻO ka maʻi obsessive-compulsive (OCD)
- Lili obsessional
- Pehea e ʻike ʻia ai kahi maʻi aloha obsessive?
- Pehea e mālama ʻia ai ka maʻi aloha obsessive?
- He aha ke kuanaʻike no ke kanaka me ka maʻi aloha keu?
He aha ka maʻi aloha obsessive?
"ʻO ka maʻi aloha obsessive" (OLD) e pili ana i kahi kūlana kahi e lilo ai ʻoe i mea pīhoihoi me kahi kanaka āu e manaʻo ai he aloha paha kāu. ʻIke paha ʻoe i ka pono e pale aku i kāu mea i aloha ai, a i ʻole lilo i ka kaohi ʻana iā lākou me he mea lā he waiwai lākou.
ʻOiai ʻaʻohe hoʻokaʻawale olakino a i ʻole psychological hoʻokaʻawale no OLD, hiki pinepine ke hele pū me nā ʻano maʻi maʻi noʻonoʻo. E kamaʻilio me kāu kauka inā manaʻo ʻoe he maʻi paha kāu a i ʻole kahi mea aloha. Hiki i ke kōkua ke hōʻemi i nā ʻōuli a ke pale nei hoʻi i nā pilikia me nā pilina.
He aha nā hōʻailona o ka maʻi aloha pīpī?
Pākuʻi ʻia paha nā ʻōuli o ka OLD:
- mea hoʻohiwahiwa nui loa i kekahi kanaka
- mau manaʻo pulakaumaka e pili ana i ke kanaka
- ke manaʻo nei i ka pono e "pale" i ke kanaka āu i aloha ai
- mau manaʻo a me nā hana
- lili nui loa ma luna o nā pilina kanaka ʻē aʻe
- manaʻo hoʻohaʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa
ʻAʻole paha e lawe maʻalahi ka poʻe i loaʻa iā OLD. I kekahi mau hihia, hiki i nā ʻōuli ke hōʻino i ka hopena o kahi pilina a i ʻole inā hōʻole kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe. Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe o kēia maʻi, e like me:
- nā leka hou, nā leka uila, a me nā kelepona ʻana i ke kanaka a lākou e makemake ai
- he pono mau no ka hōʻoia
- pilikia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoaaloha a i ʻole ka mālama ʻana i ka launa me nā lālā o ka ʻohana ma muli o ka pīpī i hoʻokahi kanaka
- ka nānā ʻana i nā hana a kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe
- ke kaohi ʻana i kahi a kekahi e hele ai a me nā hana a lākou e komo ai
He aha ke kumu e hoʻomohala ai i kahi kanaka i ka maʻi aloha obsessive?
ʻAʻohe kumu hoʻokahi o OLD. Ma kahi o, pili paha ia i nā ʻano kīnā o ke olakino noʻonoʻo e like me:
Nā maʻi hoʻopili
ʻO kēia hui o nā maʻi e pili ana i ka poʻe i loaʻa nā pilikia pili i ka naʻau, e like me ka nele o ke aloha a i ʻole ka pulakaumaka me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.
ʻO nā ʻano o nā maʻi hoʻopili e komo pū me ka disinhibited social engagement maʻi (DSED) a me ka reactment attachment maʻi (RAD), a hoʻomohala lāua ʻelua i ka wā kamaliʻi mai nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole me nā mākua a i ʻole nā mea mālama makua ʻē aʻe.
I loko o DSED, ʻoluʻolu loa paha ʻoe a ʻaʻole e mālama i nā mea ʻē. Me RAD, hoʻohoka paha ʻoe a pilikia i ka hele pū ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Ka maʻi maʻi pilikino
Kuhi ʻia kēia maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo e kahi haunaele me ke kiʻi ponoʻī i hui pū ʻia me nā loli ʻano nui. Hiki i ka maʻi pilikino pilikino ke hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe e huhū nui loa i loko o kahi mau minuke a mau hola paha.
Kū kekahi nā pīhoihoi a me nā manaʻo kaumaha. Ke noʻonoʻo nei i nā maʻi aloha obsessive, hiki i nā maʻi pilikino ke kumu i ka hoʻololi ʻana ma waena o ke aloha nui i ke kanaka e hoʻowahāwahā loa ai.
Lili luhi
Ma muli o nā kuhi hewa (nā hanana a i ʻole nā ʻike āu e manaʻoʻiʻo ai he ʻoiaʻiʻo), hōʻike ʻia kēia maʻi e ke koi ʻana i nā mea i hōʻoia ʻia he wahaheʻe. I ka pili ʻana i ke aloha obsessive, hiki i ka lili delusional ke hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo i ka mea ʻē aʻe i pānaʻi i ko lākou mau manaʻo no ʻoe, ʻoiai inā ua hōʻike lākou ʻaʻole maoli kēia.
Wahi a, pili pili paha ka lili delusional i ka wai ʻona i nā kāne.
ʻO Erotomania
ʻO kēia maʻi he kuʻina ma waena o nā maʻi aloha delusional a obsessive. Me ka erotomania, manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe he aloha kekahi iā ʻoe a i ʻole ke kūlana nohona kiʻekiʻe. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻomāinoino i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, e like me ka hōʻike ʻana i ko lākou home a i ʻole kahi hana.
Wahi a Comprehensive Psychiatry, hoʻokaʻawale pinepine ka poʻe me ka erotomania me kekahi mau hoa aloha, a he hana ʻole paha lākou.
ʻO ka maʻi obsessive-compulsive (OCD)
ʻO ka maʻi obsessive-compulsive (OCD) kahi hui pū o nā manaʻo pulakaumaka a me nā hana koʻikoʻi. Kūpono kēia mau mea e hoʻopilikia i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā. Hiki iā OCD ke koi iā ʻoe e pono i ka hōʻoia mau, hiki ke hoʻopili i kāu mau pilina.
ʻLelo ʻia kekahi poʻe e pili i ka pilina OCD, kahi e pili ai nā pulakaumaka a me nā koi i ka pilina. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole kēia kahi subtype ʻike ʻia o OCD.
Lili obsessional
ʻAʻole like me ka lili delusional, ka lili obsessional kahi preoccupation nondelusional me ka ʻike pono ʻole o ka hoa. Hiki i kēia preoccupation ke alakaʻi i nā hana repetitive a me compulsive i ka pane ʻana i nā hopohopo infidelity. Hoʻohālikelike kēia ʻano me OCD ma mua o ka lili delusional. Hiki i kēia ke kumu i ke kaumaha nui a hōʻino paha i ka hana o kēlā me kēia lā.
Pehea e ʻike ʻia ai kahi maʻi aloha obsessive?
Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo OLD me ka loiloi piha loa mai ka psychiatrist a i ʻole kekahi ʻoihana olakino noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka mea mua, e nīnauele lākou iā ʻoe ma ka nīnau ʻana iā ʻoe i nā nīnau e pili ana i kāu mau hōʻailona, a me kou mau pilina. E nīnau pū lākou iā ʻoe e pili ana i kou ʻohana a inā paha ʻike ʻia nā maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo.
Pono ʻia kahi hōʻailona olakino mai kāu kauka mua e kāpae i nā kumu ʻē aʻe. Ma muli o ke kuʻi ʻana o ka maʻi aloha obsessive me nā ʻano ʻano kīnā o ke olakino noʻonoʻo, ʻaʻole ia i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ma ka Diagnostic and Manual Manual of Mental Disorder (DSM) o ka American Psychological Association.
No nā kumu maopopo ʻole, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine ma mua o nā kāne.
Pehea e mālama ʻia ai ka maʻi aloha obsessive?
ʻO ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau pololei no kēia maʻi e pili ana i ke kumu kumu. Eia naʻe, pili pinepine ia i ka hui pū ʻana o ka lāʻau a me ka psychotherapy.
Hiki ke hoʻohana i nā lāʻau e hoʻoponopono ai i nā kemika o ka lolo. Ma ka huli, hiki i kēia ke hōʻemi i nā hōʻailona o ka maʻi. E ʻōlelo paha kāu kauka i kekahi o kēia mau mea:
- nā lāʻau lapaʻau anti-hopohopo, e like me Valium a me Xanax
- antidepressants, e like me Prozac, Paxil, a i ʻole Zoloft
- antipsychotics
- nā mea hoʻonāukiuki i ke ʻano
Hiki iā ia ke hala i mau pule no ka hana o kāu lāʻau. Pono paha ʻoe e hoʻāʻo i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a hiki i kou ʻike ʻana i kahi e kūpono loa iā ʻoe. E kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i nā hopena hopena, e like me:
- loli ka makemake
- waha maloo
- luhi
- ʻeha poʻo
- ʻōlohelohe
- lilo o ka libido
- nausea
- loaʻa kaupaona
- nā ʻōuli ʻino
He mea kōkua nō hoʻi ka Therapy no nā ʻano OLD āpau. I kekahi manawa he mea kōkua i nā ʻohana e pili me nā kau hoʻōla, keu hoʻi inā pili ka maʻi aloha obsessive mai nā pilikia i ka wā kamaliʻi. Kaukaʻi ʻia i ka nui o ka maʻi a me kāu mau makemake ponoʻī, hiki iā ʻoe ke komo i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa pākahi a hui paha. I kekahi manawa e paipai kahi loea olakino i nā ʻano ʻelua.
ʻO nā koho Therapy pū kekahi:
- hoʻōla kino noʻonoʻo
- dialectical behavioral therapy
- pāʻani i ka therapy (no nā keiki)
- kūkā kamaʻilio
He aha ke kuanaʻike no ke kanaka me ka maʻi aloha keu?
ʻOiai ke nānā aku nei ʻo OLD, he mea liʻiliʻi loa ia. Ua manaʻo ʻia he emi ma mua o ka poʻe i loaʻa i kēia maʻi.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe a i ʻole kahi mea aloha i nā ʻōuli o ka maʻi aloha obsessive, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka. Hiki iā lākou ke kuhikuhi iā ʻoe i kahi psychiatrist e kōkua ai e hoʻoholo inā he OLD maoli kāu. Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kekahi maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo.
Ke kuhi a mālama ʻia, loaʻa paha kahi hopena maikaʻi i ka OLD. Eia naʻe ke kī, ʻaʻole e haʻalele i ka lāʻau a i ʻole ka lāʻau ʻana inā manaʻo ʻoe ua ʻoi aku kou maikaʻi. Hiki koke i kāu mālama ʻana ke hōʻeha i nā ʻōuli, a i ʻole hoʻihoʻi iā lākou.