ʻO ke kumu kumu wahine 1 no ka hoʻopunipuni

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Manaʻo paha ʻoe i ka male ʻana o kahi hoa hoʻopunipuni he male ma kona mau wāwae hope, ʻeā? Ua noi ʻia kahi noiʻi hou i hōʻike ʻia ma ka 109th o ka hui o ka American Sexological Association e ʻokoʻa. Nui ka hauʻoli o nā hoa i kā lākou male ʻana-akā ke ʻimi pū nei nō hoʻi i kahi hihia, ke aʻo ʻana o 100 mau wahine ma waena o 35 a 45 mau makahiki i loaʻa. (Kahakaha: Lawe i kēia me kahi hua paʻakai, ʻoiai he mau lālā no ka hoʻopaʻa haʻawina kekahi o nā lālā o AshleyMadison.com, kahi pūnaewele no kēlā me kēia kanaka e ʻimi nei i nā mea pili i ka wahine.) Akā ka mea hoihoi loa o ka noiʻi? ʻAʻohe o nā wahine i loko o ka haʻawina i hōʻike i ka makemake e haʻalele i kā lākou male. Kanaonokūmāhiku pākēneka i ʻauana no ka mea makemake lākou i "kuko aloha."

A ʻoiai he kani paha ia ma kahi o ka liʻiliʻi o ka pilikia e hoʻonohonoho maʻalahi i kahi pō o ka lā, ʻōlelo nā kānaka noiʻi i komo i loko o ka noiʻi ʻaʻole hana pēlā. "ʻO ka lōʻihi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka moekolohe i ka moekolohe me ka mea like e luhi," i wehewehe ai ka mea kākau noiʻi ʻo Eric Anderson, Ph.D., he polofesa no ke kāne ma ke Kulanui o Winchester ma ʻEnelani, a ʻo ka luna ʻepekema nui hoʻi ma AshleyMadison.com .

A ʻoiai e ʻimi nei i ka moekolohe ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe e hana paha no kekahi mau kāne (e noʻonoʻo ʻo Frank lāua ʻo Claire Underwood i Hale Kāleka), ʻaʻole wale kēlā ke ala e hele ai (a i ʻole ka hopena ʻoi loa!). Hoʻomaka, ma kahi o ke kamaʻilio maʻalahi ʻana. "ʻO ka nui o nā kāne, ʻo ka poʻe i aloha nui, ʻaʻole maopopo i ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe," wahi a Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., he mea lapaʻau wahine a me ka pilina a me ka luna o The Intimacy Institute ma Boulder, CO .

Inā ʻoluʻolu iki ʻoe a me kāu pakanā e pili ana i ke kumuhana-akā makemake ʻelua e lawe i nā mea ʻala i loko o ka lumi moe-e kau inoa no kahi hale hana ma kahi hale kūʻai kūloko no kāu pō aʻe e hiki mai ana. Hiki iā ia ke kōkua e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻolua i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka mea e hoʻohuli iā ʻolua a me ka mea ʻole. Ua waiho ʻia nā lole, akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi loea e kamaʻilio ana i nā ʻenehana a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻē aʻe e maʻalahi iā ʻoe ke wehe ma hope o ka papa a me ka leʻaleʻa i ka hana ʻana i kahi mea sexy. hui pu.

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