Ua kaʻana kēia Māmā i kahi kiʻi o nā kaha kikoʻī o kāna kāne e hana i kahi kikoʻī e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i ke kino

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ʻAʻole hoʻokae nā kaha kikoo—a ʻo ia ka mea a Milly Bhaskara i manaʻo ai e hōʻoia i ke kino.

Ua lawe ka makuahine ʻōpio i Instagram ma mua o kēia pule e kaʻana like i kahi kiʻi o kāna kāne ʻo Rishi mau kiko kiko, i pena ʻia i ka ʻālohilohi kālā. Ma ke kiʻi, ʻike ʻia kā lāua keiki ʻo ʻEli, e kau ana kona poʻo ma ka ʻūhā o kona makuakāne a me ka ʻakaʻaka. (Related: Ke hoʻohana nei kēia wahine i ka Glitter no ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i ka poʻe a pau he nani nā ʻōlima)

"Loaʻa i nā kāne nā kaha kauō," kākau ʻo Bhaskara ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka kiʻi ikaika. "He mea maʻamau lākou no nā kāne a pau."

Ma ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka lokomaikaʻi iā lākou iho, ʻōlelo ʻo Bhaskara ua manaʻo ʻo ia a me kāna kāne e aʻo i kā lāua keikikāne e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i ke kino i ka wā ʻōpiopio. "Hana mākou i ka ʻōlohelohe i loko o kēia hale, hana mākou i nā kino maʻamau a me nā māka maʻamau, nā puʻupuʻu, a me nā puʻupuʻu," kākau ʻo ia. "Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou i ke kanaka me ke kino kanaka." (Related: Hōʻike kēia Wahine Pono Kino i ka pilikia me 'Loving Your Flaws')

"Lana ka manaʻo e kōkua iā ia me kona ʻae ʻana i kona kino ke nui ʻo ia," i hoʻohui ʻia.

I ka lā aʻe, ua hōʻike ʻo Bhaskara i kahi kiʻi o kāna mau kiko kikoʻī me kahi ʻōlelo like: "E hoʻomaʻamaʻa maʻamau (ʻo ka mea maʻamau) nā kino i kāu mau keiki," kākau ʻo ia. "Hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻōlohelohe nonsexual, scars, platonic touching, ʻae, palena kino, ʻae kino [a] ʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho."

ʻOiai ʻo nā kūlana nani maoli ʻole — e komo pū me ka manaʻo kuhihewa e hūnā ʻia nā kaha kauō, ma mua o ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻia - ka laha loa i ka pāpāho maʻamau, he manawa kūpono nā mākua e ʻaʻa i kēlā mau kūlana ma ka home me kā lākou poʻe keiki, inā koho lākou pēlā. Mai ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi pilina maikaʻi me ka meaʻai a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā ʻano nohona olakino, hiki i nā keiki ke ʻohi i nā ʻano o ko lākou mau mākua mai ka wā ʻōpiopio.

E like me kā Bhaskara i ʻōlelo ai iā ia iho: "Lohe kāu mau keiki i kāu ʻōlelo. ʻIke lākou i kou mālama ʻana i kou kino no laila e lokomaikaʻi ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a me kou kino inā ʻoe e hoʻopunipuni mua iā lākou!"

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