No ke aha ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e koho ma waena o nā ʻiʻo a me ka wahine, Wahi a Kelsey Wells
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I ka pili ʻana i nā kino o nā wahine, ʻaʻole hiki i nā kānaka ke kāohi i kā lākou ʻōlelo hōʻino. Inā hoʻohilahila ʻia paha, hoʻomāinoino ʻia i ka ʻili, a i ʻole nā wahine hoʻokamakama, hoʻomau mau ke kahe mau o nā ʻōlelo kū ʻole.
ʻAʻole ʻokoʻa nā wahine haʻuki - kahi kuhi a Kelsey Wells i hana ai i kahi kūlana Instagram ikaika. (Related: Ke mālama nei ʻo Kelsey Wells i ka mea maoli e pili ana i ka paʻakikī loa iā ʻoe iho)
"ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e koho ma waena o ka ikaika a i ʻole nāwaliwali. Hoʻohaʻahaʻa A kūpaʻa paha. Muscular A i ʻole wahine. Conservative A i ʻole ʻekekeke. Ke ʻae nei a i ʻole kūpaʻa i kāu mau waiwai," i kākau ai ka mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa SWEAT. "ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke ola A i ʻole paʻakikī, maikaʻi OR paʻakikī a ʻaʻole piha kou puʻuwai a ʻehaʻeha." (Pili: Māhele ʻo Kelsey Wells i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo e hoʻoikaika ʻia e ka hoʻoikaika kino)
Ua haʻi aku ʻo Wells i kēia mea hoʻomanaʻo nui ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā kiʻi ʻaoʻao ʻelua iā ia iho. I hoʻokahi kiʻi, e ʻaʻahu ʻo ia i nā lole hoʻoikaika kino, e paʻa ana i kahi dumbbell, a e wili nei i kona mau mākala. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ua hoʻonani ʻia ʻo ia a ʻaʻahu ʻia i kahi ʻaʻahu nani o ka papahele. ʻO kāna kiko? He wahine like ʻo ia ma nā kiʻi ʻelua, ʻoiai ʻokoʻa ka manaʻo o kekahi poʻe. (Related: Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Sia Cooper i kona manaʻo "ʻoi aku ka wahine ma mua o ka wā ma hope" ma hope o ka wehe ʻana i kāna mau umauma umauma)
"Inā he wahine ʻoe, nani maoli kou kino a ʻaʻole pili ka wahine i ka nui o ke kino a i ʻole ke ʻano o ke kino a i ʻole ka nui no ka mea he WAHINE ʻoe," i kākau ai ʻo ia. "E ho'ōki i ka hakakā ʻana e komo i loko o ke ʻano o ka honua i hāʻawi ʻia no ʻoe mai nā manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me nā kūlana e loli mau nei o ka nohona. (E ʻike i ke kumu e makemake ai ʻo Kelsey Wells e noʻonoʻo ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu kaumaha pahuhopu.)
Kūlohelohe ka makemake e hoʻokaʻawale i nā mea i ke ʻano a Wells e wehewehe nei. Akā loaʻa pinepine ka nani maoli i nā wahi hina o ke ola, ʻo ia ka mea a Wells e paipai nei iā ʻoe e ʻapo. Hoʻoholo ʻoe i ka nani, a ʻo ka wahine ka mea āu e hana ai.
"ʻO ʻoe ʻo AND, ʻaʻole ʻo OR," kākau ʻo Wells, e hoʻopau ana i kāna pou. "ʻO ʻoe nā ʻāpana a pau o ʻoukou. Ua hemolele ʻoe, ʻo ʻoe. E apo i kāu ʻoiaʻiʻo a komo i kāu wehewehe ponoʻī. E HAʻE I KOU MANA."