ʻAkslelo ʻo Jennifer Lopez e pili ana i nā pilikia waiwai
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No ka hapanui o mākou, Jennifer Lopez (ke kanaka) pili like ia me Jenny mai ka Block (ka persona): kahi kaikamahine hilinaʻi nui, ʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu hoʻi mai ka Bronx. Akā e like me ka mea a ka mea mele a me ka mea hana keaka i hōʻike ai i loko o kahi puke hou, Aloha 'oiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole mau ʻo ia i nā mea āpau.
ʻO ka hoʻomanaʻo pilikino hohonu, i loaʻa i ka lā ʻapōpō, e ʻimi i ka manawa e pili ana i kāna hemo ʻana mai ex Marc Anthony. I loko o kēlā manawa i ka makahiki 2011, kākau ʻo Lopez, "ua kūʻē ʻo ia i kāna mau pilikia nui loa, ʻike ʻo ia i kāna mau makaʻu nui loa, a i ka hopena i puka mai ai he kanaka ikaika aʻe ma mua o kona wā ma mua."
He mea paʻakikī ka lohe ʻana iā J. Lo-he wahine i ʻike ʻia i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, ka ʻano, a me ka hilinaʻi-e hōʻike ana i ka haʻahaʻa o ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, ka makaʻu i ka noho kaʻawale, a me nā manaʻo o ka hemahema. Ma kahi ninaninau kūʻokoʻa ma I keia la, Ua haʻi aku ʻo Lopez iā Maria Shriver ua ʻike ʻo ia he pilikia koʻikoʻi ʻo ia i nā makahiki i hala aku nei, i ka wā i lohe ai kekahi luna i kāna hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana a me ke noi ʻana me kāna hoa kāne i kēlā manawa. "Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻo nui a me ke akamai o ke alanui. Ua hilinaʻi wau i ka mea hiki iaʻu ke hana," haʻi ʻo ia iā Shriver. "ʻAʻohe oʻu hilinaʻi nui i ka mea aʻu a me ka mea aʻu e hāʻawi ai e like me ke kaikamahine."
He paʻakikī paha e manaʻoʻiʻo, akā ʻo kēia dichotomy o ka pilikino pilikino i maʻa mau i nā poʻe e hana no kahi noho, e like me Lopez, i ʻōlelo ʻo Sari Cooper, he kāne a he wahine hoʻōla i hōʻoia ʻia. Me he mea lā ke hele aku nei kēia poʻe ma ke kahua, akā "uhi pinepine i ka manaʻo o ka lawa ʻole a me ka hilahila i loaʻa iā lākou i ko lākou ola pilikino," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻoiai ua nui ka wiwo ʻole o Lopez ma luna o ke kahua, ua loaʻa ʻo ia i ka nele i kona ola aloha, e lele ana mai ka pilina a i ka pilina no ka makaʻu i ka noho hoʻokahi. He mau lā wale nō ma hope o kona haʻalele ʻana ʻO Ben Affleck, no ka laʻana, pili hou ʻo ia me Anthony, kāna kāne kāne.
Akā i kēia lā, no ka manawa mua o kona ola, ua hoʻokahi ʻo Lopez. A ʻo ka noho hoʻokahi ka mea maikaʻi loa no kāna mau pilikia pili, wahi a Cooper. Inā ʻoe, e like me J. Lo, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hoʻomaka i nā pilina hou me ka ʻole o ka manawa haʻahaʻa ma hope o ka hope, ʻo ka hana mua nui loa e hana ai, ʻo ia ka manawa e ʻike ai iā ʻoe iho, ʻōlelo ʻo Cooper. "E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e ʻimi ai i loko-ʻaʻole i waho, a aʻo pehea e noʻonoʻo ai i hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo pehea e mālama ai i kēlā mau manaʻo hopohopo."
ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ke hoʻololi nei ka wehewehe a Lopez o ke aloha. Hana ʻo ia e hānai i ka fairytale a mākou e lohe ai i ka wā kamaliʻi: "E aloha mau ʻo ia iaʻu, a aloha wau iā ia no ka wā pau ʻole, a he maʻalahi maoli ia," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "A ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ia." A kūpono ke poʻo inoa o kāna puke no kāna kuanaʻike hou. "Ke aʻo nei ke aloha maoli i ke aloha iā ʻoe iho, ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me ʻoe iho, a ke hana nei i nā mea iā ʻoe iho," wahi a Cooper. "Maʻalahi ke aloha i kāu hoapili, akā pono ʻoe e loaʻa kēlā aloha like iā ʻoe iho." A hauʻoli mākou i ka ʻike ʻana iā J. Lo e lawe wale ana i ka manawa kūpono e hana i kēlā!