Inā Hana ʻoe i hoʻokahi mea i kēia mahina...E aʻo e ʻōlelo ʻAʻole

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Ke noi aku kou hoalauna iā ʻoe e kōkua me kahi mea ʻohi kālā a i ʻole kekahi kamaʻāina kahiko e koi ana iā ʻoe e hele i kāna pāʻina ʻaina, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka hōʻole ʻana, ʻoiai inā he kumu kūpono kāu. "Ua aʻo ʻia nā wahine e hānai, a makaʻu lākou i ka hōʻole ʻana i kahi noi e lilo lākou iā lākou iho me he mea lā," wahi a Susan Newman, Ph.D., he psychologist kaiaulu a me ka mea kākau o ʻO ka puke o No.: 250 mau ala e ʻōlelo ai-a me ke ʻano. "Akā ʻo ka hapa nui o mākou e hoʻonui i ka manaʻo hōʻole e hōhoka kekahi. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole e pili ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i kāu hōʻole-e neʻe wale lākou."

ʻO ka manawa aʻe e ʻike ai ʻoe i kekahi mea mai kahi pāʻina e kono aku i kahi noi no ke kūʻai ʻana i nā meaʻai bake, e kāohi i kēlā pane ʻae a nīnau iā ʻoe iho, E kali paha wau i kēia a makaʻu paha? Inā ʻo ia ka hope, e hōʻole. (E ho'āʻo, "Makemake au, akā paʻa loa au.") Ma hope o ka hōʻole ʻana i kekahi mau noi a ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole i hoʻopau ʻia nā mea ʻē aʻe e kāu hōʻole ʻana, e pau ʻoe i ka manaʻo hewa. "Hoʻohui, e hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻoe no ka mea e hopu hou ʻoe i ka manawa nāu e hana i nā mea āu e makemake maoli ai," wahi a Newman. ʻO kahi leʻaleʻa hou, kahi ahiahi hoʻomaha iā ʻoe iho, a ʻoi aku ka manawa me kāu mau keiki iā ʻoe no ke kumu kūʻai o hoʻokahi huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi.

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