Pehea i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ai e kēia mea ʻauʻau ʻauʻau SI i kāna wahine kupanaha i loko e paʻi hope i ka Cyberbullying

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Ua hele ʻo Paige Spiranac i viral i ʻelua mau makahiki i hala aku nei ma ke ʻano he kolepa uʻi loa me ka ʻūlū loea. A i kēia manawa ʻo ia kekahi o nā 36 wahine i ka 2018 Hōʻikeʻike haʻuki ʻO ka hoʻopuka Swimsuit, ma kahi o like me Kate Upton lāua ʻo Ashley Graham. I hoʻokahi SI kiʻi, Spiranac pōhaku i kahi hiʻohiʻona e hoʻomanaʻo ai iā Wonder Woman, e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika a me ka mana. ʻO ka mea hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke haʻi mai ke kiʻi ʻo ia kona ala i ka mana i pouli maoli.

Me 1,3 miliona mau ukali "makemake" i kāna mau kiʻi a me nā haneli he mau kaukani e nānā ana iā ia ma kāna kolepa kolepa YouTube, ua lilo ʻo Spiranac i hōʻailona o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa i ka hoʻolei ʻana o nā nūpepa a me nā hoa kolepa i ka malu e pili ana i kāna mau lole Spandex a hoʻokau pono ʻole i kāna mau pono, nā tālena haʻuki, a ʻo ia pū kekahi. ohana. ʻOiai ʻo ka nui o kēia inaina he mea hou iā ia, haʻi ʻo Spiranac Kinohi, "no ka lōʻihi o koʻu hoʻomanaʻo ʻana, ua hoʻoweliweli ʻia au."

"Ke ulu nei wau, he ʻano lauoho koʻu ma kahi e hina maʻalahi ai koʻu lauoho, a loaʻa iaʻu ka hānō maikaʻi ʻole," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ua manaʻo nā keiki he ʻano ʻē wau, a i ʻole manaʻo he maʻi koʻu, no laila kuha ana lākou i kaʻu mau mea inu a kīloi i nā pōhaku iaʻu, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana," kū he 10 kapuaʻi ka mamao mai ona aku i nā manawa āpau. "

Ua alakaʻi kēia hana hoʻomāinoino i nā mākua o Spiranac i ka home kula i kā lāua kaikamahine ma o ke kula kiʻekiʻe, a ua hoʻomau ʻia ka hoʻomāinoino ma loko o ke koleke. Ma hope o ka puka ʻana, ua hoʻomaka ʻo kāna ʻoihana kolepa e lele a pēlā nō kona alo pūnaewele ʻana e alakaʻi nei i ka cyberbullying koʻikoʻi no nā makahiki ʻelua i hala.

"Ke koi nei au i kaʻu mea e ʻaʻahu ai, ʻaʻahu au e like me ka mea haʻuki [ma mua o ka pāʻani kolepa ʻo ia he haʻi haʻuki], a ʻōlelo ka poʻe i nā mea ʻino," wahi āna. "Ua hoʻohilahila ʻia wau, hoʻomāʻewaʻewa ʻia, ʻeleʻele ʻia, a hoʻouna i nā ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli o ka make no ke kau ʻana i nā pākeke a i ʻole nā ​​pale lole kūpono. ʻAʻohe mea e nānā i ke kanaka aʻu."

Ua lawe ʻo Cyberbullying i kahi pōpilikia weliweli i ka huakaʻi mua o Spiranac i ʻEulopa. Kono ʻia e pāʻani ma Dubai ʻeono mau mahina ma hope o ka puhi maoli ʻana o ka puahiohio ma ka pūnaewele, ua hōʻea ʻo ia i ka hoʻokūkū me ka manaʻo e hoʻokō ʻia kāna mau moemoeā kolepa. Ua launa ʻo ia me nā nūhou e hoʻopiʻi ana i kāna pono, ʻano, a me kāna hānai ʻana-i nā mea āpau e lilo ai ke kanaka i kanaka maoli. Ua hui pū nā hoa āna i mahalo ai ma ke ao kolepa i ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka hoʻoweliweli. "Ua manaʻo wau hoʻokahi wale nō," ʻae ʻo ia. "E noho ana wau i loko o ka lua i loko o ka lua e nānā ana i nā mea āpau a loaʻa iaʻu ka breakdown nui loa. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hanu, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻōki i ka uē ʻana. Ua nānā au i ka paipu a i kēlā manawa ua manaʻo wau ʻo ke ala wale nō i waho e noho hou ʻole ai. . Ma laila koʻu kaikuahine a ua kōkua ʻo ia iaʻu ma o, ua kāhea ʻo ia i kekahi no ke kōkua. " (E ʻike i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo: ʻo kēia kou lolo e pili ana i ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa.)

ʻO ia ka manawa, i kāna mau manawa haʻahaʻa loa, ua hoʻoholo ʻo Spiranac i ka hoʻoholo ʻaʻole e lilo i mea pōʻino, akā ma kahi o ka hopena. Ua lilo ʻo ia i ʻelele no ka hui anti-bullying Cybersmile. "Laki nō wau i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻōnaehana kākoʻo, akā inā he 12 a 13 paha kāu mau makahiki a loaʻa kēlā manaʻo, i hoʻopī ʻia e ka honua waho, manaʻo ʻoe ʻo ke ala wale nō i waho e lawe i kou ola ponoʻī," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

ʻO kekahi o nā noi nui loa i hana ʻia ma ka cyberbullying ma waena a me nā haumāna o ke kula kiʻekiʻe, i paʻi ʻia i ka makahiki i hala, e hōʻike ana he 70 pākēneka o nā haumāna i laha e pili ana iā lākou ma ka pūnaewele, me nā kaikamahine e ʻike paha i ka cyberbullying. I kēia manawa, i kahi hanana i hala iho nei ma Florida, ua hoʻopiʻi ʻia ʻelua mau haumāna o ke kula waena i ka cyberbullying ma hope o ka pepehi kanaka ʻana o kekahi haumāna. Wahi a nā mākaʻi, ua hoʻomaka nā cyberbullies i nā lono e pili ana i ka mea i loaʻa i nā maʻi i lawe ʻia i ka moekolohe, hana i ka inoa ʻino, a hoʻoweliweli e hōʻike i ka ʻike pilikino. (Pili: Hiki i kēia Chrome Extension ke hoʻokū i nā Haters Pūnaewele)

"He pilikia maoli nō ia," i ʻōlelo hou ai iā Spiranac.Mai kona hoʻoholo ʻana e kākoʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka hoʻoweliweli ʻia, ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua loaʻa iā ia kona leo, a ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo nei ʻo ia me kāna paʻipaʻi ʻole ʻana i ka poʻe inaina.

Ua hoʻoweliweli ka mea hoʻolaha wahine ESPN i ka makahiki 2018 SI ʻO nā wahine ʻauʻau, e ʻōlelo ana ʻo ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi olohelohe ʻaʻole ia e hoʻoikaika i nā wahine, e hoʻohilahila a hoʻopailua. Ua pane koke ʻo Spiranac i kāna kākau ʻana, "Ua manaʻo nā wahine ʻokoʻa i ka mana ma nā ʻano like ʻole, a ʻaʻole kūpono ke haʻi aku i kekahi i ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hana."

ʻO kēia hilinaʻi hou i loaʻa mai ka vibes hoʻokiʻekiʻe o ka SI pana, wahi a Spiranac. "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hūnā ma hope o kekahi mea a ʻo ia ka mana," wahi āna. "Hāʻawi kēia pilikia holoʻokoʻa i ka mana i nā wahine. He paʻakikī i nā wahine i kēlā me kēia lā; pono mākou e maikaʻi, akā ʻaʻole pū kekahi maikaʻi, ambitious, akā ʻaʻole pū kekahi he makemake nui. Kau kaomi nui i ka mea pono a hiki iā mākou ke lilo. "

A i ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo Spiranac, ʻaʻole wehewehe ʻia ka "mana" e kahi ʻāpana lole. He manaʻo.

"ʻaneʻane nā wahine aʻu i hālāwai ai me ka hoʻoweliweli," wahi āna. "ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona ma o SI mahalo nui wau ua ʻōlelo wau e pili ana i ia, no ka mea, hoʻomāinoino mau ʻia lākou-no ka lahilahi, piha piha, nā mea āpau e pili ana i ko lākou helehelena. ʻO ka pahuhopu nui ka nānā ʻana o ka wahine iā ia iho i ke aniani a manaʻo kupanaha iā ia iho. Ke manaʻo neiʻoe i ka mana, he manaʻo a kupaianaha ia, a makemake wau i kēlā me kēia e mana i kēlā mana. "

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