SOS! Loaʻa iaʻu ka pīhoihoi pilikanaka a ʻike maopopo ʻole i kekahi ma kēia ʻaoʻao

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• 1. E hoʻopono
• 2. E hoʻomākaukau i kou kapa ma mua
• 3. E lokomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho
• 4. E hoʻohuli iā ʻoe iho
• 5. E kamaʻilio me nā poʻe
• 6. E kua i hope
• Ua hana ʻoe!

Ia hana. He hanana hana. ʻO kaʻaina ahiahi me ka ʻohana o kāu pakanā. Nīnau aku kahi hoa aloha iā ʻoe e lilo i minuke hope loa no lākou. Pono mākou āpau e hele i nā hanana kahi ʻike maoli ʻole i kekahi.

No kahi kanaka me ka hopohopo pili kaiaulu, hiki iaʻu ke hōʻuluʻulu i ko mākou mau manaʻo a me ko mākou mau manaʻo i hoʻokahi huaʻōlelo maʻalahi:

“ARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!”

Me he mea lā ke noi aku nei i ka mea makaʻu i ke kiʻekiʻe e lele i waho o kahi mokulele.

ʻO ka manawa mua aʻu i hele ai i kahi pāʻina me kaʻu kāne, ʻo ka manawa wale nō kaʻu e ʻae ai iā ia e haʻalele i koʻu ʻaoʻao ke pono ʻo ia i ka lua. A ʻoiai, ua hāʻawi wau iā ia i nā maka pahi kaua! Hele paha wau me ia, inā ʻaʻole i hana iaʻu e like me ka paila bunny! Inā lākou wale nō i ʻike-ʻaʻole ia ka waiwai, he hopohopo.

I loko o nā makahiki, ua ʻae wau he mea kēia e pono ai wau e hoʻokele. Ma ke ʻano he mea kākau, ua kono ʻia wau i nā hanana pinepine a ʻaʻole wau i makemake e hoʻomau i ka hoʻohuli iā lākou i lalo. Pono wau e alo i ka daimonio, no ka ʻōlelo.

No laila, eia kaʻu mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui e ola ai no ka hana ʻana me nā hanana kaiaulu inā loaʻa ka hopohopo pili kaiaulu.

1. E hoʻopono

Inā hiki, e wehe e pili ana i kou hopohopo i ka mea hoʻokipa, kahi hoaaloha, a i ʻole i ka mea nāna ʻoe i kono. ʻAʻohe mea koʻikoʻi a ma luna paha o ka piko. ʻO kahi leka uila a leka uila paha e wehewehe ana ʻike ʻoe i ka hopohopo i ka wā o ka nohona.

E kiʻi koke kēia i kāu kanaka ma kou ʻaoʻao, a hāpai i ka kaumaha i kou poʻohiwi.

2. E hoʻomākaukau i kou kapa ma mua

Koho i nā mea āu e komo ai ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi lā ma mua. He mea ia e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai iā ʻoe, a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi.

Auē, a koʻikoʻi, ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa e hoʻokolohua ai me kahi lauoho hou a i ʻole nānā makeup. Hilinaʻi iaʻu. ʻO ka huli ʻole ʻana ma ke ʻano he wahine mare ʻo Dracula ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi e hana ai.

3. E lokomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho

ʻO ka huakaʻi i ka hanana ke hoʻomaka maoli kou aʻa e ʻoki. No laila, e mālama i kēia ma ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i kou ʻano koa. Hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe iho, i ka holo lōʻihi, e kōkua kēia ʻike i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kou hopohopo kaiāulu.

4. E hoʻohuli iā ʻoe iho

Eia nō naʻe ma ke ala ma laila, kōkua mau ia iaʻu e loaʻa i kekahi mau mea hoʻoliʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā ​​hana hoʻohoka ma ka lima. ʻO kahi laʻana, ua lilo hou wau i mea hopohopo hou me Angry Birds. ʻAʻohe mea i lawe i koʻu manaʻo mai koʻu hopohopo e like me ka luku ʻana i kēlā mau puaʻa ʻōmaʻomaʻo ʻakaʻaka!

5. E kamaʻilio me nā poʻe

ʻIke wau, weliweli paha kēia! ʻO ka mea nui ke makemake ʻoe e hūnā i ke kihi, a i loko o ka lua.

I ka mua, ua manaʻo wau hiki ʻole i ka poʻe ke hele aku i kahi poʻe: He kai o nā helehelena aʻu i ʻike ʻole ai, hohonu loa i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke manaʻolana e ʻae ʻia wau. Eia nō naʻe, ua hoʻomaka wau e hoʻāʻo i kēia taktika, a he maikaʻi loa nā hopena.

E hoʻokokoke aku i ʻelua a i ʻole ʻekolu mau poʻe a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo: "E kala mai iaʻu i ka hoʻopilikia ʻana, ʻo ia wale nō ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i kekahi ma aneʻi a ke noʻonoʻo nei wau inā hiki iaʻu ke hui pū me kāu kamaʻilio?" He mea weliweli ia, akā e hoʻāʻo a hoʻomanaʻo i ka poʻe ... maikaʻi, kanaka!

He manaʻo ikaika ʻo Empathy, a inā ʻaʻole lākou i piha i ka bonkers - i kēlā manawa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāu kamaʻilio ʻole ʻana me lākou - a laila e hauʻoli lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe.

Ua hana kēia ʻenehana i ka 89 pākēneka o ka manawa naʻu i kēia makahiki. ʻAe, makemake au i nā stats. ʻO ka manawa hope loa aʻu i hoʻāʻo ai i kēia, ua ʻae ākea kahi kaikamahine: "Ua hauʻoli loa wau i kāu ʻōlelo ʻana, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu kekahi."

6. E kua i hope

Aia kekahi mau poʻe koho i koʻu ola aʻu i ʻike hiki ai iaʻu ke leka inā makemake au i ka paipai. ʻO kahi laʻana, e leka uila wau i kaʻu hoaaloha maikaʻi a ʻōlelo: "Aia wau i kahi pāʻina a ke hele nei wau i waho. E haʻi mai iaʻu i nā mea nui ʻekolu e pili ana iaʻu iho. ”

Pane maʻamau ʻo ia me kekahi mea e like me, "He koa ʻoe, nani, a hilarious ke koko. ʻO wai ka makemake ʻole e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe? ” E kahaha paha ʻoe i ka nui o nā hōʻoia i hiki ke kōkua maoli.

Ua hana ʻoe!

Ke haʻalele ʻoe a ke hele nei i kou home, e hāʻawi pono iā ʻoe iho i kahi hōʻailona hōʻailona ma ke kua. Ua hana ʻoe i kahi mea e hoʻonāukiuki ai iā ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻokuʻu iā ia e kāohi iā ʻoe.

He mea haʻaheo kēlā.

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