Loaʻa ʻo Gina Rodriguez i moho kupaianaha e pili ana i kāna ʻano pīhoihoi a me nā manaʻo Suicidal

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Mamua Kinohi ke kaikamahine uhi, ʻo Gina Rodriguez e wehe nei e pili ana i kāna ʻike pilikino me ka hopohopo i kahi ala āna i ʻike ʻole ai ma mua. I kēia mau lā, ua noho iho ka wahine ʻo 'Jane the Virgin' me Kate Snow ʻo NBC no ka Kennedy Forum's 2019 Makahiki Huakaʻi Huakaʻi Huina Huina. Ke hakakā nei ka hui nonprofit no ke kaulike olakino ma ka ʻimi ʻana e holomua i ka mālama ʻana i ke olakino noʻonoʻo a me nā mea hōʻalo.

Ma mua o Rodriguez i ke kahua, ua kamaʻilio ke kāne a Snow, ʻo Chris Bo e pili ana i ka pepehi kanaka o kona makuakāne a me ka hopena i loaʻa iā ia a me kona ʻohana. Ua hoʻonāukiuki kāna mau ʻōlelo iā Rodriguez e hāpai i kāna mau hakakā ponoʻī me nā manaʻo suicidal i ka wā i hala.

"Manaʻo wau ua hoʻomaka wau e hana me ke kaumaha ma kahi o 16," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ua hoʻomaka wau e hana me ka manaʻo o - kēlā manaʻo like aʻu e manaʻo nei e kamaʻilio ana kāu kāne - (e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mea āpau ke hele wau. E maʻalahi ke ola; e pau nā ʻino, a pau nā nā pilikia ... A laila ʻaʻole wau e hemahema a kūleʻa paha, ʻeā? A laila e hala kēia mau kaomi ʻana āpau. E hele wale nō ia. "

Nīnau akula ʻo Snow iā Rodriguez inā manaʻo maoli ʻo ia e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka honua ke ʻole ʻo ia.

"ʻĀ, ʻē," i ʻōlelo aku ʻo Rodriguez, me ka waimaka. "Ua manaʻo wau ma mua, ʻaʻole i lōʻihi loa, a he manaʻo maoli nō ia. A makemake wau i kāu kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu kāne no ka makaʻu ʻole e nīnau i kekahi inā manaʻo lākou pēlā no ka mea ... he ʻāina hou wale nō. . " (Pili: Makemake ʻo Gina Rodriguez e ʻike e pili ana i ka "ilihune manawa" —a me nā mea e hiki ke hana ʻia e kōkua)

Ua hoʻohui ʻo ia e like me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kūkākūkā ākea e pili ana i ke olakino noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau i loko o kona ʻohana, akā ke manaʻo nei ʻo ia e hiki ke hāpai ʻia ka stigma no nā hanauna e hiki mai ana. "ʻO ia ke kumu i lawe ai wau i kēia kamaʻilio," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia no ka manawa ninaninau, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio me nā wahine ʻōpio me ka maopopo ʻole a me ka hoʻopono iā lākou.

"ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke haʻi wale aku iā lākou e hele i waho e hoʻokō i kā lākou mau moeʻuhane a laila e haʻalele i nā mea āpau," wahi āna.

Ua ʻae ʻo Rodriguez pono ʻo ia e kau i kāna mau moemoeā ponoʻī e hoʻopaʻa i ka olakino noʻonoʻo. Ua wehewehe ʻo ia e pono iā ia e hoʻomaha ma ke kiʻi ʻana i ke kau hope loa o ʻO Jane ka Virgin ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pūʻulu o ka weliweli weliweli, a makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokūkū ʻaʻole hewa i ka lawe ʻana i kahi manawa nāu. (Pili: ʻO Sophie Turner e kiʻi i moho e pili ana i kāna kaua me ke kaumaha a me nā manaʻo Suicidal)

"Aia kahi kiko i hiki ʻole ai iaʻu ke kāomi i kēlā me kēia manawa," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ua hiki i kahi manawa - ʻo kēia ke kau mua e ... pono wau e hooki i ka hana ʻana. He manawa kūpilikiʻi maoli nō kaʻu."

Ke aʻo nei e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai e hana i kēlā manawa, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, akā ua ʻae pū nō ia ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ikaika e hana ai i kēlā kelepona paʻakikī. "ʻAʻole wau makaʻu, no ka manawa mua, e like me, 'ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. (Eia ka mea a Gina Rodriguez e noho kaulike ai)

Ma ka kaʻana like ʻana i kahi nānā pono ʻole i loko o kāna mau hakakā pilikino, ua kamaʻilio ʻia ka nīnauele a Rodriguez me he mea hoʻomanaʻo lā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ka mea a kekahi e hele nei. Akā ʻo ka mea nui loa, ke hōʻike nei ʻo ia ʻaʻohe mea hilahila i ka hana ʻana i kou olakino iho i mea nui nui.

Inā ʻoe e hakakā nei me nā manaʻo o ka pepehi kanaka a i ʻole kaumaha kaumaha loa i kekahi manawa, e kāhea i ka National Suicide Prevent Lifeline ma 1-800-273-TALK (8255) e kamaʻilio me kekahi e hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo manuahi a me ka hūnā ʻole 24 mau hola. he lā, ʻehiku lā o ka pule.

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