Ke noho nei ʻoe ma kahi noho huila, hiki ke paʻakikī ka nani o ka hoihoi - eia ke kumu

Anter

• He ala hou o ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea
• ʻO kahi manaʻo hou o ka iho
• Lawe aku

ʻO ka nani inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kīnā he mea paʻakikī ia, wehewehe ʻo Annie Elainey, ka mea hoʻouluulu. keu hoʻi ke hoʻohana ʻoe i nā kōkua hoʻoneʻe.

ʻO kāna mua he kō. ʻOiai he hoʻoponopono ia, ua manaʻo ʻo ia he manaʻo maikaʻi kāna e nānā aku ai. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, nui nā huapalapala me nā kōkō i ka pāpaho i ʻike ʻia he nani, e like me Kauka House mai "Hale" - a hōʻike pinepine ʻia nā ʻohe i kahi ala maʻamau.

“Maikaʻi wau. Ua manaʻo wau, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e like me ka mea i hāʻawi mai iaʻu i kahi 'oomph', "hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia me ka ʻakaʻaka.

Akā i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai ʻo Annie e hoʻohana i kahi noho huila, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hakakā ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka nani.

Ma kahi pae naʻau, no ka poʻe me nā kūlana holomua, ʻo ka nalo ʻana o kekahi mau hiki ke alakaʻi i kahi wā o ke kanikau. ʻ sayslelo ʻo Annie e pili ana i ke kanikau ʻana i kahi mea nui loa iā ʻoe. "Makemake nui kā mākou mau hiki iā mākou - ʻoiai mākou e lawe wale ia mau mea," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

He ala hou o ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea

I ka mua, ua hopohopo ʻo Annie i kona ʻano i kona noho huila hou. A ʻaʻole mākaukau ʻo ia no ka loli kiʻekiʻe, kahi mea hoʻopūʻiwa. Ke kū nei, ana ʻo ia i 5 kapuaʻi 8 ʻīniha - akā noho, ʻo ia ka wāwae holoʻokoʻa pōkole.

Ma ke ʻano he kanaka i maʻa i ke kiʻekiʻe, ʻano ʻē ke nānā mau ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. A pinepine i nā wahi lehulehu, nānā ka poʻe a puni iā ​​ia, ma mua o ka.

Ua maopopo iā Annie ke ʻano ʻokoʻa o kāna ʻike iā ia iho mai ka ʻike ʻana o haʻi iā ia. ʻOiai ʻo ia e ʻike iā ia iho he kanaka ikaika e hele aku ana i ka honua, he nui wale ka poʻe i ʻike i kāna noho huila.

"Aia kekahi poʻe makemake ʻole nana ma aʻu. Nānā lākou i ka mea nāna e hoʻokuke iaʻu, akā ʻaʻole lākou e nānā ʻo wau. A ua kūleʻa loa koʻu manaʻo ponoʻī. ”

Ua ʻike ʻo Annie i ka maʻi maʻi dysmorphic a hoʻomaka i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e like me: “Wow, ua manaʻo wau ua maikaʻi ʻole wau ma mua. He pāʻani maoli nō i kēia manawa. ʻAʻohe mea e aloha iaʻu i kēia manawa. "

ʻAʻoleʻo ia i manaʻo he "nani" a makemake paha, akā ua hoʻoholo paʻa ʻaʻole e waiho i kāna ola.

ʻO kahi manaʻo hou o ka iho

Ua hoʻomaka ʻo Annie e ʻimi ma ka pūnaewele a ʻike i kahi kaiāulu o nā poʻe kīnā ʻole e kaʻana like ana i nā kiʻi o lākou iho me nā hashtags e like me #spoonies, #hospitalglam, #cripplepunk, a i ʻole #cpunk (no ka poʻe makemake ʻole e hoʻohana i ka slur).

ʻO nā kiʻi, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia, e pili ana i ka hoʻopiʻi hou ʻana i ka huaʻōlelo ʻo "ʻoʻopa," e pili ana i ka poʻe me ke kino kīnā e haʻaheo nei e kīnā a e hōʻike ana iā lākou iho me ka hanohano. He mana ia a ua kōkua iā Annie e ʻike hou i kona leo a me kona ʻike, no laila hiki iā ia ke ʻike iā ia iho ma ʻō aku o ka ʻike ʻana o haʻi i kona noho.

"Ua like wau: Wow, kāne, nani ka poʻe kīnā e like me ʻā. A inā hiki iā lākou ke hana, hiki iaʻu ke hana. E hele kaikamahine, e hele! E hoʻokomo i kekahi o kēlā mau lole āu i maʻa ai i ke kīnā ʻole. ”

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Annie ma kekahi ʻano, hiki i ke kīnā a me nā maʻi maʻi mau ke lilo i kānana maikaʻi. Inā ʻike wale kekahi iā ʻoe no kou kīnā a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe ʻo wai ʻoe - inā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i kou ʻano pilikino - a laila ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kahi mea e hana ai me lākou e hoʻomaka.

Lawe aku

Ua hoʻomaka ʻo Annie e ʻike i kāna mau kōkua neʻe ma ke ʻano he "accessories" - e like me kahi ʻeke a i ʻole ʻeke a i ʻole ʻāʻī - e hoʻomaikaʻi pū ʻia hoʻi kona ʻano o ke ola.

Ke nānā ʻo Annie i ke aniani i kēia manawa, aloha ʻo ia iā ia iho e like me ia. Lana kona manaʻo me ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka ʻike, hiki i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke hoʻomaka e ʻike iā lākou iho i ka mālamalama like.

"ʻAʻole wau hoihoi no ka mea ua ʻumeʻa ka poʻe iaʻu. ʻIke wau aia kekahi poʻe e ʻume mai iaʻu. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, 100 mau pākēneka koʻu maopopo he poʻe ʻume ʻia iaʻu no ka mea ʻaʻole wau i hele me ka ʻole o nā noi a me nā mea alualu ... ʻO ka mea nui ua loaʻa hou iaʻu kuʻu ʻike. Ke nānā au i ke aniani, ʻike wau naʻu iho. A aloha wau naʻu iho.”

He luna hoʻoponopono ʻo Alaina Leary, he luna media media, a he mea kākau mai Boston, Massachusetts. ʻO ia ka mea hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono o Equally Wed Magazine a me kahi hoʻoponopono media no ka nonprofit We Need Diverse Books.