Pehea e aʻo ai i kahi keiki 2 makahiki

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• Hoʻowahāwahā iā lākou
• Hele wāwae
• E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai ma kāu ʻōlelo
• E hoʻohuli a hoʻohuli i kā lākou nānā
• E noʻonoʻo e like me kāu kamaliʻi
• Kōkua i kāu keiki e mākaʻikaʻi
• Akā kau palena
• E hoʻokau iā lākou i ka manawa puka
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

E noʻonoʻo i kēia: aia ʻoe ma ka home, e hana ana ma kāu pākaukau. Hele mai kāu kaikamahine 2 makahiki iā ʻoe me kāna puke punahele. Makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe e heluhelu iā ia. ʻ telllelo ʻoe iā ia me ka momona ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe i kēia manawa, akā e heluhelu ʻoe iā ia i hoʻokahi hola. Hoʻomaka ʻo ia e pout. ʻO ka mea aʻe āu e ʻike ai, ke noho nei ʻo ia me ka wāwae wāwae ma luna o ke kapeta, e uē ana me ke kaohi ʻole.

Nui ka pohō o nā mākua ke hiki mai i ka kamaʻilio ʻana i nā huhū huhū o kā lākou keiki. Me he mea lā ke hele nei ʻoe i kahi ʻole no ka mea ʻaʻole hoʻolohe kāu keiki iā ʻoe.

No laila he aha kāu e hana ai?

ʻO ka tantrums kahi mahele maʻamau o ka ulu ʻana. ʻO lākou ke ala a kāu keiki 2 makahiki e hōʻike ai i ko lākou mau ukiuki ke loaʻa ʻole nā ​​huaʻōlelo a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo e haʻi iā ʻoe i nā mea e pono ai a manaʻo paha lākou. ʻOi aku ia ma mua o nā "ʻelua weliweli." ʻO ke ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana o kāu kamaliʻi e hana me nā pilikia hou a me nā mea hōʻeha.

Aia kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke pane i ka huhū a i ʻole ka lawena maikaʻi ʻole me ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole i kāu keiki 2 makahiki a me ko lākou ulu ʻana. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i nā ala kūpono e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai i kāu keiki kamaliʻi.

Hoʻowahāwahā iā lākou

He paʻakikī paha kēia, akā ʻo kekahi o nā ala nui o ka pane ʻana i ka huhū o kāu keiki ʻaʻole e hoʻopili iā ia. I ka manawa e huhū ana kāu 2 makahiki, ua loaʻa ka maikaʻi o ko lākou mau naʻau, a ke kamaʻilio pū me lākou a i ʻole ke hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā ana aʻo ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole e holo pono i kēlā manawa. E hōʻoia iā lākou e palekana, a laila e hoʻopau i ka tantrum. Ke noho mālie lākou, hāʻawi iā lākou i ka pūliki a hele me ka lā.

ʻAʻohe o ka maʻamau o nā makahiki he ʻelua mau makahiki ma ke kumu, ke ʻole lākou e aʻo ana ʻo ka huhū ke ala maʻalahi loa e hoʻohuli i kou manaʻo. E makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou e ʻike nei ke nānā ʻole nei ʻoe i kā lākou kūmākena no ka mea ʻaʻole kēlā ʻano ke ala e hoʻohuli i kou manaʻo.E haʻi ikaika iā lākou akā mālie e pono lākou e hoʻohana i kā lākou ʻōlelo inā makemake lākou e haʻi iā ʻoe i kekahi mea.

ʻAʻole paha iā lākou ka hopuna ʻōlelo piha e haʻi iā ʻoe, ʻoiai inā ʻike lākou i nā huaʻōlelo, no laila e paipai iā lākou ma nā ʻano ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu ʻōpio ʻōlima ʻōlelo no nā huaʻōlelo e like me "Makemake au," "ʻeha," "ʻoi aku," "inu," a "luhi" inā ʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio akā ʻaʻole paha e ʻōlelo akāka. ʻO ke loaʻa ʻana i nā ala ʻē aʻe e launa ai hiki ke kōkua i ka hōʻoki ʻana i ka huhū a kōkua iā ʻoe e kūkulu i kahi paʻa ikaika me kāu keiki.

Hele wāwae

ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu palena ponoʻī kekahi ʻāpana o ke aʻo ʻana i kāu keiki 2 makahiki. Inā huhū ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, hele. E hanu.

E hoʻomanaʻo i ka maikaʻi ʻole o kāu keiki a i ʻole ke hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe. Akā, huhū lākou iā lākou iho a ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo i ke ʻano o ka poʻe mākua. I ka manawa e mālie ai ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻi kūpono i kāu keiki i kahi ala e hōʻeha ʻole ai.

E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai ma kāu ʻōlelo

Lālau kāu kamaliʻi i ka ipu wai a ke hoʻāʻo nei e wehe. Manaʻo ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e pau kēia i ka ʻino. Hiki iā ʻoe ke walaʻau i kāu keiki e iho i ka wai momona.

Akā, e lawe mālie i ka ipu mai iā lākou. E hōʻoia iā lākou e wehe ʻoe i ka ʻōmole a ninini iā ​​lākou i ke aniani. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopili i kēia hana i nā hanana ʻē aʻe, e like me inā e kiʻi ana lākou i kahi mea i loko o ka lumi kuhina a i ʻole ke kīloi nei lākou i kā lākou mea pāʻani no ka mea ke paʻakikī nei lākou i ka loaʻa ʻana i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai.

Hāʻawi ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka lima kōkua i kēia ala iā lākou e hiki iā lākou ke noi no ke kōkua ke pilikia lākou ma kahi o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana iā lākou iho a hana i kahi kolohe. Akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e loaʻa iā lākou kēlā mea, e hoʻohana i kahi leo palupalu e wehewehe i ke kumu o kou lawe ʻana aku a hāʻawi i kahi pani.

E hoʻohuli a hoʻohuli i kā lākou nānā

ʻO kā mākou naʻau ma ke ʻano he makua e ʻānai i kā mākou keiki a neʻe iā lākou mai nā mea weliweli a lākou e hele nei. Akā hiki i kēlā ke hoʻoulu i kahi huhū no ka mea ke lawe nei ʻoe iā lākou mai ka mea a lākou i makemake ai. Inā lākou e hele i kahi pilikia, e like me ke alanui hana, a laila maikaʻi. E hele kekahi mau makahiki 2 i kahi ala e aʻo i ka mea hiki a hiki ʻole iā lākou ke hana; ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia kēlā me kēia huhū.

ʻO kahi hana ʻē aʻe ke kau ʻole ka palekana e hoʻohuli a hoʻohuli. Kāhea i ko lākou inoa e kiʻi i kā lākou nānā. Ke kau ʻia ma luna ou, kāhea iā lākou iā ʻoe a hōʻike iā lākou i kahi mea ʻē aʻe e makemake lākou e palekana ia.

Hiki i kēia ke hana ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka huhū e hoʻohuli iā lākou mai ka mea a lākou e huhū nei ma mua.

E noʻonoʻo e like me kāu kamaliʻi

Maʻalahi e huhū i ka wā e hana kolohe ana kāu keiki. I kēia lā, ua huki lākou i nā paia āpau me kā lākou mau peni kala. 'Onehinei, ua alualu lākou i ka lepo mai ka pāʻaniʻana i ka pā o hope. I kēia manawa ua koe ʻoe e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i nā mea āpau.

Akā e hoʻāʻo a noʻonoʻo e like me kāu mea liʻiliʻi. ʻIke lākou i kēia mau hana he leʻaleʻa, a maʻamau kēlā! Ke aʻo nei a ʻike lākou i nā mea a puni lākou.

Mai hoʻoneʻe iā lākou mai ka hana, no ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki paha ia. Ma kahi, kali i kekahi mau minuke a hele paha lākou i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. A i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hui pū a alakaʻi kūpono iā lākou. ʻO kahi laʻana, e hoʻomaka i ka pena ʻana i kekahi mau pepa a kono iā lākou e hana like.

Kōkua i kāu keiki e mākaʻikaʻi

ʻO kāu kamaliʻi, e like me nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi, makemake e ʻimi i ka honua.

Hoʻopili ka ʻāpana o kēlā ʻimi i nā mea āpau ma lalo o ka lā. A paʻa ʻoe i ka huhū me kā lākou hopu lima impulsive.

Ma kahi o, e kōkua iā lākou e ʻike i ka mea e palekana a palekana ʻole e hoʻopā. E hoʻāʻo i ka "no touch" no nā mea palena ʻole a palekana ʻole paha, "pā palupalu" no nā helehelena a me nā holoholona, ​​a me "yes touch" no nā mea palekana. A e leʻaleʻa i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā hui huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe e like me ka "pā wela," "ke anuanu," a i ʻole ka "owie touch" i mea e kōkua ai i ke kolohe i nā manamana lima o kāu keiki liʻiliʻi.

Akā kau palena

"No ka mea ua ʻōlelo wau pēlā" a "no ka mea ua ʻōlelo wau ʻaʻole" ʻaʻole kōkua i nā ala kōkua e hoʻopaʻi ai i kāu keiki. Ma kahi o, e kau i nā palena a wehewehe i ke kumu o kāu keiki.

ʻO kahi laʻana, inā huki kāu keiki i ka hulu o kāu pōpoki, hemo i kona lima, haʻi iā ia ua ʻeha ka pōpoki ke hana ʻo ia i kēlā, a hōʻike iā ia ma kahi e hānai holoholona ai. E hoʻonoho i nā palena me ka mālama ʻole ʻana i nā mea (e noʻonoʻo i nā ʻoki a me nā pahi i nā huki paʻa, pani ʻia ka puka pantry).

E huhū paha kāu keiki ke hiki ʻole iā lākou ke hana i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, akā ma ke kau ʻana i nā palena e kōkua ʻoe iā lākou e aʻo i ka kaho pono.

E hoʻokau iā lākou i ka manawa puka

Inā hoʻomau kāu keiki i kā lākou hana maikaʻi ʻole, a laila makemake ʻoe e waiho iā lākou i ka timeout. Koho i kahi wahi luʻuluʻu, e like me ka noho a i ka papahele o ke alaloa.

E noho i kāu kamaliʻi i kēlā wahi a kali iā lākou e hoʻomaha. Pono ka manawa hoʻopau ma kahi o hoʻokahi minuke no kēlā me kēia makahiki i ka makahiki (ʻo kahi laʻana, pono kahi keiki 2 makahiki i ka manawa no ʻelua mau minuke, a me kahi makahiki 3 no ʻekolu mau minuke). E hoʻihoʻi i kāu keiki i kahi i haʻalele ʻia inā hoʻomaka lākou e auwana ma mua o ka hala ʻana o ka manawa. Mai pane i kekahi mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai a i ʻole hana a hiki i ka pau ʻana o ka manawa. I ka manawa e mālie ai kāu keiki, e wehewehe iā lākou no ke aha ʻoe e hoʻokau ai iā lākou i ka manawa a no ke aha i hewa ai kā lākou hana.

Mai paʻi a hoʻohana i nā ʻano hana spank-control e hoʻopaʻi i kāu keiki. ʻO ia ʻano hana ʻeha i kāu keiki a hoʻoikaika i ka lawena maikaʻi ʻole.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻO ke aʻo ʻana i kāu kamaliʻi koi iā ʻoe e kaulike i ka sternness a me ke aloha.

E hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā huhū huhū kahi mahele maʻamau o ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki. Kū nā Tantrums ke ʻike ʻole kāu keiki pehea e hōʻike ai i nā mea e hoʻonāukiuki nei iā lākou.

E hoʻomanaʻo e noho mālie a mālie hoʻi, a mālama i kāu keiki me ke aloha i ka wā e hōʻike ana i ka pilikia. ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau kiʻina hana e kōkua i ka pale ʻana i nā tantrums e hiki mai ana.