He aha ke ʻano o ka demisexual?

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• He aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ka demisexual?
• He aha ke ʻano o ka pili e kamaʻilio nei ʻoe - ke aloha?
• E kali, no ke aha e pono ai kahi lepili?
• Ke hoʻohiki nei kahi pilina pili naʻau i ka hoʻomohala wahine?
• Kūpono paha kēia hoʻonohonoho i lalo o ka malu mau?
• Hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i kahi hoʻonohonoho kāne i kēia?
• He aha ke ʻano o ka demisexual i ka hana?
• Pehea kēia ʻokoʻa mai ka moe kolohe?
• Hiki paha ke lilo i mea like i ka manawa like a i ʻole fluctuate ma waena o nā mea ʻelua?
• Pehea e pili ana i nā wahi ʻē aʻe i ka pae? Hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe i waena o nā wā o ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe?
• Hiki i nā demisexual ke ʻike i nā ʻano ʻano hoihoi?
• He aha ka manaʻo o ka demisexual no nā pilina pili?
• OK paha ʻaʻole makemake iki i kahi pilina?
• Pehea e pili ana i ka moekolohe?
• Ma hea e kūpono ai ka masturbation i kēia?
• Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai ma hea ʻoe e kūpono ai ma lalo o ka malu o ka asexual - inā ʻaʻole?
• Ma hea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ka demisexual?

He aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ka demisexual?

ʻO Demisexualual kahi moe kolohe kahi e ʻike ai ka poʻe i ka moekolohe i nā poʻe a lākou i pili pili i ka naʻau.

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻike wale ka poʻe demisexual i ka moekolohe ma hope o ka hoʻokumu ʻana o kahi pilina naʻau.

He aha ke ʻano o ka pili e kamaʻilio nei ʻoe - ke aloha?

ʻAʻole pono ke aloha a aloha ʻole paha kēia pili aloha.

No kekahi poʻe demisexual, he aloha paha - me ka launa aloha platonic.

ʻAʻole paha lākou e aloha i ke kanaka - aloha paha a platonically paha.

E kali, no ke aha e pono ai kahi lepili?

Hoʻomaopopo kā mākou hoʻonohonoho i ka mea a mākou i makemake ai. ʻIke ka poʻe Demisexual i ka hoihoi i kahi hui kanaka.

Mahalo paha ʻoe, "Akā ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe o mākou e kali e ʻike i ka pilina o ka naʻau i kekahi ma mua o ka moekolohe ʻana me lākou?"

ʻAe, he nui ka poʻe e koho e moekolohe wale me nā poʻe a lākou kahi paʻa - inā he male, he pilina aloha aloha, a i ʻole he aloha hauʻoli a hilinaʻi hoʻi.

ʻO ka ʻokoʻa ka demisexualual ʻaʻole pili i ka moekolohe. E pili ana i ka hiki ke ʻike i ka moekolohe i ka poʻe kikoʻī.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻume ʻia i ka wahine me ka ʻole o ka moekolohe pū me lākou, a hiki iā ʻoe ke moekolohe me kekahi me ka ʻole o ka hoihoi iā lākou.

ʻAʻole wale ka poʻe demisexual i ka poʻe i hoʻoholo e aloha me kekahi no kekahi manawa lōʻihi ma mua o ka moekolohe ʻana me lākou. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ka moekolohe, akā e manaʻo i ka moekolohe i kekahi.

Ua ʻōlelo ʻia, koho paha kekahi poʻe demisexual e kali i kahi manawa ma mua o ka moekolohe ʻana me kahi hoa aloha - akā kūʻokoʻa kēia i kā lākou moekolohe.

Ke hoʻohiki nei kahi pilina pili naʻau i ka hoʻomohala wahine?

ʻAʻole!

Hoʻopili kolohe nā kāne Heterosexual i nā wahine, akā ʻaʻole lākou i ʻume ʻia i kēlā me kēia wahine a lākou e hui ai.

Pēlā nō, ʻaʻohe manaʻo o ka demisexualite e ʻumeʻume ʻia kahi kanaka demisexuale i kēlā me kēia kanaka a lākou i pili ai ka naʻau hohonu.

Kūpono paha kēia hoʻonohonoho i lalo o ka malu mau?

ʻO kēia nīnau ke kumu o ka nui o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma nā kaiāulu asexual, grey, a me demisexual.

ʻIke liʻiliʻi kahi kanaka moe kolohe ʻole i ka hoʻohihi wahine. ʻO ka "ʻumeʻume moekolohe" e pili ana i ka ʻimi ʻana i kekahi e hoʻowalewale i ka moekolohe a makemake e moekolohe me lākou.

ʻO ka ʻaoʻao o ka asexual ka moekolohe, i kapa ʻia hoʻi he allosexual.

Manaʻo pinepine ʻia ʻo Graysexual i ka "midpoint" ma waena o ka moekolohe a me ka allosexuality - ʻaʻole ʻike iki ka poʻe hina i ka moekolohe, a i ʻole ʻike lākou me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa.

Kūkākūkā kekahi poʻe ʻaʻole kūpono ka demisexualu ma lalo o ka malu o ka asexual no ka mea pili wale ia i nā kūlana e ʻike ai ʻoe i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole pono ia e ʻōlelo i ka pinepine a i ka nui o kou ʻike ʻana i ka moekolohe.

ʻO kekahi mea makemake e hoʻoweliweli i ka moekolohe kokoke i nā hoa a me nā hoapili kokoke loa - akā ʻaʻole i nā hoalauna a i ʻole nā ​​malihini - manaʻo paha lākou he demisexual akā ʻaʻole asexual āpau.

ʻO kekahi mea hoihoi wale i ka wahine i hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau hoa pili a i ʻole nā ​​hoapili, akā ʻaʻole pinepine a ikaika ʻole paha, e ʻike ikaika paha me ka moekolohe a i ʻole ka moekolohe.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hoʻopaʻapaʻa ka poʻe e hāʻule ka demisexuality ma lalo o ka hae asexual. ʻO kēia no ka wehewehe ʻana o ka demisexual i kahi kūlana kahi wale nō ʻoe e ʻike ai i ka moekolohe ma nā kūlana palena.

I ka hopena o ka lā, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kahi e hāʻule ai kēia kuhikuhi i ka laulaha asexual-allosexual.

ʻAe ʻia ʻoe e ʻike akā makemake ʻoe, a ʻoluʻolu ʻoe e koho i nā lepili he nui e wehewehe i kāu moe kolohe a me ke aloha.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i kahi hoʻonohonoho kāne i kēia?

ʻO ka hapa nui o nā lepili moe kolohe - e like me ka homosexual, bisexual, a i ʻole pansexual - e kuhikuhi i nā kāne a me nā poʻe a mākou e ʻumeʻume nei.

He ʻokoʻa ʻo Demisexual no ka mea pili ia i ke ʻano o kā mākou pilina i ka poʻe a mākou i makemake ai. Maikaʻi ke makemake e hoʻohana i kahi wehewehe e pili ana hoʻi i ka hoʻonohonoho wahine.

No laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke demisexual a me ka homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, heterosexual, a pēlā aku.

He aha ke ʻano o ka demisexual i ka hana?

ʻO ka demisexual ke ʻano ʻokoʻa i nā poʻe like ʻole.

Inā he demisexual ʻoe, pili paha ʻoe i nā manaʻo a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano aʻe:

• ʻAʻohe wau e hoihoi i ka moekolohe i ka poʻe aʻu e ʻike ai ma ke alanui, nā malihini, a kamaʻāina paha.
• Ua hoihoi wau i ka moekolohe i kekahi mea aʻu i kokoke ai (e like me kahi hoa aloha a hoa aloha paha).
• Pili koʻu pili ʻuhane me kekahi inā hoihoi wau iā lākou i ka moekolohe.
• ʻAʻole wau i ala a hoihoi paha i ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe me kekahi aʻu e ʻike ʻole ai, ʻoiai inā nani lākou a i ʻole he ʻano ʻoluʻolu.

ʻLelo kēlā, he ʻokoʻa nā demisexual āpau, a malia paha he demisexual paha ʻoe inā ʻaʻole pili ʻoe i ka mea i luna.

Pehea kēia ʻokoʻa mai ka moe kolohe?

ʻIke wale ka poʻe demisexual i ka moekolohe ma hope o ka pili o ka pilina pili i ka naʻau. He ʻokoʻa kēia i ka manawa kakaʻikahi e ʻike i ka moekolohe.

Hiki paha i ka poʻe demisexual ke ʻike i ka moekolohe pinepine a me ka ikaika, akā me nā poʻe kokoke loa lākou.

Pēlā nō, ʻike paha ka poʻe hina kolohe ke ʻike lākou i ka moekolohe, ʻaʻole pono ia me nā poʻe a lākou kahi pilina pili naʻau.

Hiki paha ke lilo i mea like i ka manawa like a i ʻole fluctuate ma waena o nā mea ʻelua?

Ae. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike like i ka demisexual a me ka grey a i ʻole demisexual a i ʻole asexual. He maikaʻi loa ia e lele i waena o nā hoʻonohonoho.

Pehea e pili ana i nā wahi ʻē aʻe i ka pae? Hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe i waena o nā wā o ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe?

Ae. E like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua, ʻike paha ka poʻe demisexual i asexual, hina wahine, a i ʻole allosexual.

ʻO ka moekolohe a me ka orientation he wai. ʻIke paha ʻoe i kou hiki no ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi wahine i ka manawa. ʻO kahi laʻana, hele paha ʻoe mai ka allosexual a i ka hina hina i ka asexual.

ʻO ka mea e mahalo ai, ua ʻike ʻo 2015 Asexual Census ma kahi o 80 pākēneka o kāna mau mea i pane ʻia i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he kūlana ʻē aʻe ma mua o ko lākou ʻike ʻia he asexual, e hōʻike nei pehea e hiki ai i ka moekolohe wai ke lilo.

E hoʻomanaʻo: ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole pono lākou i kēlā me kēia ʻano a lākou i ʻike ai ma mua, a ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole like ka moekolohe i kēia manawa.

ʻAʻole kūpono iki nā kūmole o ka wai ma mua o nā mea ʻole ka wai.

Hiki i nā demisexual ke ʻike i nā ʻano ʻano hoihoi?

Ae! Hiki i ka poʻe demisexual ke ʻike i nā ʻano mea hoihoi aʻe. Hoʻopili paha kēia:

• ʻUmeʻume Romantic: ke makemake nei i kahi pilina aloha me kekahi
• ʻUme ʻaʻano Aesthetic: ʻume ʻia i kekahi e pili ana i ko lākou ʻano
• ʻAno ʻino a kino paha: makemake e hoʻopā, paʻa, a cuddle paha i kekahi
• ʻUmeʻa Platonic: makemake e hoa me kekahi
• ʻUmeume manaʻo: makemake i ka pilina naʻau me kekahi

He aha ka manaʻo o ka demisexual no nā pilina pili?

Makemake paha ka poʻe demisexual i ka pilina aloha a me nā pilina.

I nā pilina, koho paha ka poʻe demisexual i ka moekolohe. I kekahi poʻe demisexual, ʻaʻole nui ka moekolohe i ka pilina. I kekahi poʻe, he mea nui ia.

Manaʻo paha kekahi poʻe demisexual ʻaʻole pili pono kā lākou paʻa me kā lākou hoa pili iā lākou e ʻike i ka moekolohe i kā lākou hoa.

Koho paha kekahi e kali a pili a pili pono lākou i kā lākou hoa, a koho paha kekahi i waho āpau.

Hiki i kekahi ke moekolohe me kā lākou hoa me ka ʻole o ka hoihoi ʻana i ka moekolohe i kā lākou hoa. ʻOkoʻa kēlā me kēia kanaka demisexual.

OK paha ʻaʻole makemake iki i kahi pilina?

Ae. ʻAʻole makemake ka poʻe he nui - e like me ka poʻe demisexual - pili a maikaʻi loa ia.

E hoʻomanaʻo i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pilina naʻau me kekahi ʻaʻole like ia me ka makemake a makemake paha i kahi pilina aloha me lākou.

No laila, hiki i kahi kanaka demisexual ke hoʻopaʻa i ka naʻau me kekahi a manaʻo hoihoi iā lākou, akā ʻaʻole makemake i kahi pilina aloha me kēlā kanaka.

Pehea e pili ana i ka moekolohe?

ʻAʻole pili ka demisexual i kou hiki no ka leʻaleʻa wahine, ʻo ka moekolohe wale nō.

Aia kekahi ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻumeʻume i ka moekolohe me kekahi me ka moe ʻole ʻana me lākou, a hiki iā ʻoe ke moekolohe me kekahi āu e puni ʻole ai i ka moekolohe.

Nui nā kumu e moekolohe ai ka poʻe, e like me:

• e hāpai keiki
• ʻike i ka pilina
• no ka pili pili naʻau
• no ka leʻaleʻa a me ka leʻaleʻa
• no ka hoʻāʻo ʻana

No laila, ʻo ka poʻe demisexual - e like me nā hui ʻē aʻe o ka poʻe - hiki ke moe kolohe me nā poʻe i puni ʻole i ka moekolohe iā lākou.

No ka poʻe asexual a me ka hina wahine, kū hoʻokahi lākou āpau, a hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa nā manaʻo ʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka moekolohe. ʻO nā huaʻōlelo i hoʻohana ʻia e wehewehe i kēia mau manaʻo me:

• repulsed ka moekolohe, ʻo ia hoʻi makemake lākou i ka moekolohe a makemake ʻole e loaʻa
• moekolohe ʻole, ʻo ia hoʻi manaʻo lākou he lukewarm e pili ana i ka moekolohe
• punahele, ke ʻano o ko lākou makemake a hauʻoli i ka moekolohe

Ma hea e kūpono ai ka masturbation i kēia?

Hiki i ka poʻe moekolohe a me ka wahine ke kuʻi.

Hoʻopili kēia i nā poʻe demisexual i hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia he asexual a i ʻole greekehue. A ʻae, hiki ke ʻoluʻolu iā lākou.

Eia hou, kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia kanaka, a ʻo ka mea a kekahi kanaka demisexual e hauʻoli ai ʻaʻole paha ia e like me ka makemake o kekahi kanaka.

Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai ma hea ʻoe e kūpono ai ma lalo o ka malu o ka asexual - inā ʻaʻole?

ʻAʻohe hōʻike e hoʻoholo inā he asexual ʻoe, hina wahine, a demisexual paha.

E ʻike paha ʻoe he mea kōkua ke nīnau iā ʻoe iho i nā nīnau e like me:

• ʻO wai wau e ʻike ai i ka moekolohe?
• Pehea koʻu manaʻo e pili ana i kēia poʻe?
• Ehia mau manawa e loaʻa ai iaʻu ka moekolohe?
• Pehea ka ikaika o kēia hoʻokalakupua?
• He mea nui i ka moekolohe ka koho ʻana i ka mea aʻu e ʻike ai?
• ʻIke paha wau i ka moekolohe i nā malihini a kamaʻāina paha?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe pane pololei a hewa paha. E pane ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia kanaka demisexual ma muli o ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā ʻike.

Eia nō naʻe, ke nīnau nei iā ʻoe iho i kēia mau nīnau hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo a hana i kou mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe.

Ma hea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ka demisexual?

Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ka demisexualual ma ka pūnaewele a i ʻole i nā hālāwai kūloko o ke kanaka kūloko. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kaiāulu LGBTQA + kūloko, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui me nā poʻe demisexual ʻē aʻe ma aneʻi.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe mai:

• Pūnaewele wiki ʻo Visibility Visibility and Education Network, kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i nā wehewehe ʻana o nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka orientation.
• Ke kikowaena waiwai ʻo Demisexualual
• nā kolamu e like me ka hālāwai kūkā ʻo AVEN a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻo Demisexuality
• Nā pūʻulu Facebook a me nā kolamu pūnaewele ʻē aʻe no ka poʻe demisexual

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