8 mau hewa condom weliweli hiki iā ʻoe ke hana

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• ʻAʻole ʻoe i nānā i ka Condom
• Manaʻo ʻo ia ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ʻelua ma mua o hoʻokahi
• Kau ʻo ia iā ia i ka wā hewa
• ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻūlū i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
• Hoʻohana ʻoe i ke ʻano hewa o ka Lube (a i ʻole Skip It All)
• Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilina ma-hou, Off-Again me nā condom
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Eia kahi bummer stat: ua piʻi ka helu o chlamydia, gonorrhea, a me syphilis i kahi kiʻekiʻe loa ma ka US, e like me ka hōʻike hou a nā Centers for Disease Control and Prevent (CDC). (Ma ka 2015, ua hōʻike ʻia ma mua o 1.5 miliona mau hihia o ka chlamydia, he 6 pakeneka ka piʻi ʻana mai 2014. ʻO Gonorrhea ma 395,000 mau hihia, piʻi 13 pakeneka; a kokoke i 24,000 mau hihia o syphilis i hōʻike ʻia, he piʻi o 19 pakeneka.)

ʻO ke ala surefire wale nō e pale aku ai i ka ʻaelike ʻana i kahi STI he abstinence piha, akā pono kākou, ʻaʻole ʻike maoli kēlā, no laila ʻo ka condom ka mea ʻoi aʻe. (Hoʻohui, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i ka moekolohe ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi me kekahi o kēia mau condom ʻelima. Palekana iā ʻoe iho ma ka hōʻalo ʻana i kekahi o kēia mau hana hewa āpau.

ʻAʻole ʻoe i nānā i ka Condom

ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hele i nā Inspector Gadget a pau, akā e nānā pālua i ka lā hoʻopau ʻana a e hōʻoia i ka paʻa ʻole o ka ʻeke, wahi a Laurie Bennett-Cook, he kauka wahine lapaʻau ma Los Angeles. Aia kahi liʻiliʻi o ka ea inā ʻoe e kaomi i ka wahī a me kahi ʻano paheʻe o ka lube. A ʻaʻole pono e unsexy kēia nānā iki. "Ke hiki mai ka manawa e kau ai i ka condom, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo," E ʻae ʻoe iaʻu e lawe i kēlā mea nāu, "a hoʻohana i kēlā me kou manawa kūpono e nānā ai," wahi a Bennett-Cook. (ʻAno pīhoihoi paha? Maliʻa paha, akā hoʻokahi wale kēia kamaʻilio āu e pono ai no ke ola moekolohe olakino.) Ke nānā nui nei i ka pale pale he mea nui inā hāʻawi ʻo ia i nā mea hana. (ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻike, hiki ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia ka condom i kāna ʻeke kālā a i ʻole ka pahu mīkina lima o kāna kaʻa no hoʻokahi makahiki.) A i ka wā kahiko a mālama pono ʻole ʻia ka condom, haki ka latex, e hoʻonui ana i ka hopena o ka hāʻule.

Manaʻo ʻo ia ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ʻelua ma mua o hoʻokahi

"Manaʻo kekahi poʻe ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o lākou me ʻelua condom inā e haki hoʻokahi, akā ʻaʻole ia ka hihia," wahi a Lauren Streicher, M.D., he loea no ka lāʻau lapaʻau o nā mea hoʻopuka a me nā gynecology ma ke Kula ʻo Medicine Feinberg o Northwestern University. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo: hana ka ʻeke ʻelua i ka hakakā hou ma waena o nā condom, e hāpai ana i ka manawa e haki ai kekahi (a i ʻole ʻelua).

Kau ʻo ia iā ia i ka wā hewa

ʻO ka manawa maikaʻi loa e hele ai ka condom ma hope o ke kū ʻana o ka penis a ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina pili kino, wahi a Streicher. Ke kau nei i ka lohi he ala maʻalahi ia e kiʻi i kekahi mea āna e hele nei. Inā hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kau ma mua o ke kūkulu ʻana, e loaʻa paha iā ia ka pilikia i ke kau ʻana, ʻaʻole paha e noho pono ka condom ma luna o kāna peni, a hiki paha iā ia ke hoʻopilikia iā ia ke kūkulu ʻana i ke kūkulu piha.

ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻūlū i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo

Hana ʻia ka hapa nui o nā condom me kahi kihi wai i hoʻolālā ʻia e hopu i ka semen, akā inā ʻoe (a i ʻole kāu hoa) e hoʻohana i kahi i loaʻa ʻole ia hiʻohiʻona, e ʻike pono ua lawa ka hakahaka o ka piko. "Inā ʻaʻohe wahi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka haki ʻana o ka condom i ka wā e hoʻokuʻu ai kāu kāne no ka mea ʻaʻohe wahi e hele ai ka semen," wahi a Streicher. ʻO ka haʻalele ʻana i ka lewa ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo i kahi huʻa ea. Inā he ea i koe ma ka hope o ka condom, hoʻonui ia i ka likelike o ka haki, i ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo Rena McDaniel, M.Ed., kahi sexologist clinical. ʻO kāu neʻe: "Pinch i ka piko o ka condom ke kau nei ʻoe iā ia e hōʻole i ka ʻae ʻana ʻoiai e waiho ana kahi wahi o ka lumi ma luna," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

Ke hoʻohana nei i ka nui hewahewa

He mea nui ka nui i ka wā e pili ana i ka condom. "Inā hoʻokomo ke kāne i kahi nui i liʻiliʻi loa, ʻo ka mea mua, e loaʻa iā ia ka pilikia i ke kau ʻana, ʻaʻole ia e hōʻoluʻolu, a ʻo ka haki paha ia," wahi a Streicher. A inā hoʻohana ʻo ia i kekahi mea nui loa ia? Hiki iā ia ke hemo maʻalahi, hoʻohui ʻo Bennett-Cook. ʻOiai ua manaʻo paha kāu pakanā iā ia iho he kāne Magnum-ʻo ia wale nō, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia, e ʻōlelo. E haʻi wale iā ia makemake ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka condom ʻē aʻe. Loaʻa i kahi stash o kāu ponoʻī, i nā mana like ʻole a me nā nui, hiki ke kōkua. (BTW, e nānā i kēia mau condoms me ke kumu.)

Hoʻohana ʻoe i ke ʻano hewa o ka Lube (a i ʻole Skip It All)

Hiki i nā Condoms ke maloʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi e haki paha lākou. Hiki i ka squirt of lube ke hele i kahi lōʻihi. "Inā ʻoe (a i ʻole kāu pakanā) e hoʻokomo i kahi lube liʻiliʻi i loko o ka condom ma mua o kona kau ʻana, hoʻohui ia i hoʻokahi tone nona ke ʻano," wahi a McDaniel. Hiki i ka lube ma waho o ka condom ke kōkua i ka paheʻe ʻana o nā mea a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi. Akā, mai kiʻi i kekahi mea kahiko. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o nā lubricants me ka wai condoms. Hiki ke hoʻonāwaliwali i ka latex nā mea ʻaila (e like me ka petroleum jelly, ka aila lomilomi, ka lotion kino, a me nā mea ʻē a kou hoaaloha e hoʻāʻo ai).

Hoʻopili pū ʻoe me ia (a me ka Condom) Post-Sex

Ke pau ka hana, he mea maʻamau ka makemake e moe wale i laila i hoʻopili ʻia. Akā inā pili ʻo ia i loko ou, e hemo paha ka condom ke hele ʻo ia a palupalu, ʻo ia hoʻi e pau kāna mau keiki liʻiliʻi ma kahi āu e makemake ʻole ai. "ʻO ka manawa palekana loa e hemo ai i kahi condom ma hope pono o ka ejaculation ke paʻakikī ka penis," wahi a McDaniel. E hoʻololi mālie i nā kūlana a mai poina e hoʻopaʻa i ke kumu o ka condom i ka wā e wehe ai i ʻole e paheʻe, wahi āna.

Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilina ma-hou, Off-Again me nā condom

ʻO kekahi o nā hewa nui i hiki i kekahi ke hana me ko lākou olakino ke hoʻohana wale ʻana i ka condom i kekahi manawa (a i ʻole ka hapa nui o ka manawa). Hiki i kahi condom ke pale iā ʻoe wale ke hoʻohana ʻoe ia-ʻo ia nō kēlā me kēia manawa. Hoʻokahi wale nō manawa me ka hoʻopau ʻole ʻana i kahi mea e koi ai i kahi papa o nā lāʻau antibiotic (a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, kahi mea āu e pono ai. hiki ole kīloi aku). Hana i ka huaʻōlelo "ʻaʻohe mīkina lima, ʻaʻohe aloha" huaʻōlelo āu e ola nei.

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