Pehea e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e kū i ka maʻi ʻaʻai

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• ʻO nā keiki a i 6 mau makahiki
• Pehea kou manaʻo?
• He aha e hana ai?
• Nā keiki mai 6 a 12 mau makahiki
• Pehea kou manaʻo?
• He aha e hana ai?
• Nā ʻōpio 13 a 18 paha makahiki
• Pehea kou manaʻo?
• He aha e hana ai?
• I ka wā o ka mālama ʻana, he mea maʻamau ia ʻaʻole makemake nā keiki e ʻai a me ka lilo ʻana o ka paona, no laila e ʻike pehea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka makemake o ke keiki no ka mālama ʻana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

Ke pane nei nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio i ka hōʻailona o ka maʻi ʻaʻai i ka ʻokoʻa, e like me ko lākou mau makahiki, ulu a me ke ʻano. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau manaʻo e maʻa mau i nā keiki o ka makahiki like a, no laila, aia kekahi mau hoʻolālā i hiki i nā mākua ke hana e kōkua i kā lākou keiki e kū i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

Hiki ke loaʻa ʻana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai, akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa mau ka hōʻea ʻana o ka nūhou ma ke ala maikaʻi loa, me ka hoʻohui ʻana i ka lapaʻau me nā hopena ʻē aʻe i pili. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau hoʻolālā e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e lanakila i kēia pae lahilahi i kahi ala maʻalahi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi.

ʻO nā keiki a i 6 mau makahiki

Pehea kou manaʻo?

Makaʻu nā keiki o kēia au i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai nā mākua, a makaʻu a huhū hoʻi no ka mea pono lākou e hana i nā kauka olakino ʻeha, a he huhū paha lākou, ʻalalā, pā a nahu paha. Hoʻohui ʻia, loaʻa paha iā lākou nā moeʻuhane, hoʻi i nā ʻano kahiko e like me ka hoʻomoe ʻana i ka moena a i ʻole ka omo ʻana i ka manamana nui a hōʻole e launa pū, pale aku i nā kauoha a hui pū paha me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

He aha e hana ai?

• ʻO ka hōʻoluʻolu, ʻapo ʻana, cuddling, mele ʻana, pāʻani ʻana i kahi mele na ke keiki a hoʻowalewale paha iā ia me nā mea pāʻani;
• Noho mau me ke keiki i ka wā o nā hoʻokolohua a me nā kaʻina hana olakino.
• E hāʻawi i nā holoholona i piha i ka punahele a ke keiki, ka ʻahu a me nā mea pāʻani paha i loko o ka lumi;
• E hana i kahi lumi hoʻokipa hauʻoli, waihoʻoluʻu kala, me nā kukui maikaʻi, me nā mea ponoʻī o ke keiki a me nā kiʻi i hana ʻia e ke keiki;
• Mālama i ka papa hana maʻamau a ke keiki, e like me ka moe a me ka manawa ʻai;
• Lawe i ka manawa o ka lā e pāʻani me ke keiki, pāʻani a hana ʻana paha i kahi hana.
• E hoʻohana i ke kelepona, kamepiula a i ʻole nā ​​mea ʻē aʻe i hiki i ke keiki ke ʻike a lohe i ka makua hiki ʻole ke noho pū me lākou;
• E hāʻawi i nā wehewehe maʻalahi loa o ka mea e hana nei, ʻoiai ke kaumaha a uē paha ʻoe, no ka laʻana "Ke kaumaha iki nei au a luhi hoʻi i kēia lā a ke kōkua nei ka uē iaʻu e hoʻomaikaʻi hou";
• E aʻo i ke keiki e hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo i ke ʻano olakino e like me ke kaha kiʻi ʻana, ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ke kuʻi ʻana i kahi uluna, ma kahi o ka nahu ʻana, ka walaʻau ʻana, ke kuʻi ʻana a me ke kī ʻana paha.
• E uku i ka hana maikaʻi a ke keiki ke hui pū ʻo ia me nā loiloi olakino a i ʻole nā ​​kaʻina hana, e hāʻawi ana i ka ʻaikalima, ʻo kahi laʻana, inā hiki kēia.

Nā keiki mai 6 a 12 mau makahiki

Pehea kou manaʻo?

E huhū paha nā keiki o kēia au no ka haʻalele ʻana i ke kula a ʻike ʻole i nā hoa aloha a me nā hoa kula, hewa i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ua hana lākou i ka maʻi ʻaʻai a hopohopo e noʻonoʻo nei e loaʻa ana ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Hiki i nā keiki ma waena o 6 a 12 mau makahiki ke hōʻike i ka huhū a me ke kaumaha ua lilo lākou i maʻi a ua loli ko lākou ola.

He aha e hana ai?

• E wehewehe i ka hōʻailona a me ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau i kahi ala maʻalahi e hoʻomaopopo ai ke keiki;
• E pane pololei a maʻalahi hoʻi i nā nīnau a ke keiki. ʻO kahi laʻana inā nīnau ke keiki "E maikaʻi paha wau?" paneʻoiaʻiʻo: "ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu, akā e hana nā kauka i nā mea āpau loa";
• Koi a hoʻoikaika i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole i hoʻokumu ke keiki i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.
• E aʻo i ke keiki he kuleana kona e kaumaha a huhū paha, akā e kamaʻilio ʻo ia me kona mau mākua no ia mea;
• E kaʻana like me ke kumu a me nā hoa papa i nā mea e hana nei i ke keiki, me ka paipai aku i ke keiki e hana pū kekahi.
• Hoʻonohonoho i nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā o ke kākau ʻana, ke kaha kiʻi ʻana, ka pena ʻana, a me ka hoʻoikaika kino ʻana;
• Kōkua i ke keiki e launa me nā kaikaina, nā hoaaloha a me nā hoa kula ma o ke kipa ʻana, nā kāleka, nā kelepona ʻana, nā leka uila, nā pāʻani wikiō, nā hui pūnaewele a i ʻole ka leka uila;
• E hoʻolālā i kahi hoʻolālā no ke keiki e pili pono me ke kula, ke nānā nei i nā papa ma o ke kamepiula, ke kiʻi ʻana i nā mea a me nā hana home, no ka laʻana;
• E paipai i ke keiki e hālāwai me nā keiki ʻē aʻe me ka maʻi like.

Nā ʻōpio 13 a 18 paha makahiki

Pehea kou manaʻo?

Huhū nā ʻōpio i ka haʻalele ʻana i ke kula a haʻalele i ka noho pū ʻana me kā lākou mau hoaaloha, me ka manaʻo ʻaʻole o lākou kūʻokoʻa a kūʻokoʻa paha a pono lākou i ke kākoʻo o kā lākou mau hoaaloha a kumu paha, ʻaʻole mau ma laila. Hiki i nā ʻōpio ke pāʻani pū me ka loaʻa o ke kanesa iā lākou a hoʻāʻo paha e noʻonoʻo maikaʻi a i kekahi manawa ʻē aʻe, kipi kūʻē i ko lākou mau mākua, kauka a me nā lāʻau lapaʻau.

He aha e hana ai?

• Hāʻawi i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ke aloha, a hoʻohana i ka hoʻomākeʻaka e hana ai me ka huhū;
• Hoʻopili i ke ʻōpio i nā kūkā kamaʻilio āpau e pili ana i ka hōʻailona a me ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau;
• E paipai i ka ʻōpio e nīnau i nā nīnau a nā kauka;
• Koi a hoʻoikaika i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole i hoʻokumu ʻia ka ʻōpio i ka maʻi ʻaʻai;
• E ʻae wale aku ka ʻōpio i nā ʻoihana olakino wale nō.
• E paipai i nā ʻōpio e kaʻana like i nā nūhou e pili ana i ko lākou maʻi me nā hoaaloha a e launa pū me lākou;
• E paipai i ka ʻōpio e kākau i kahi diary i hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo;
• E hoʻonohonoho i nā kipa ʻana e nā hoaaloha a hoʻolālā pū i nā hana, inā hiki;
• E hoʻolālā i kahi hoʻolālā no ka ʻōpio e pili pono me ke kula, ke nānā ʻana i nā papa ma o ke kamepiula, ke kiʻi ʻana i nā mea a me nā hana home, e laʻa me;
• Kōkua i ka ʻōpio e launa me nā ʻōpio ʻē aʻe me ka maʻi like.

ʻEha pū nā mākua me kā lākou mau keiki me kēia hōʻailona a, no laila, e mālama pono iā lākou, pono lākou e mālama i ko lākou olakino ponoʻī. Hiki ke hoʻopau ʻia ka makaʻu, ka palekana ʻole, ka hewa a me ka huhū me ke kōkua o kahi psychologist, akā he mea nui ka kākoʻo ʻohana e hoʻohou hou i ka ikaika. No laila, koi ʻia i nā mākua e hoʻokaʻawale i nā manawa i ka pule e hoʻomaha a kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.

I ka wā o ka mālama ʻana, he mea maʻamau ia ʻaʻole makemake nā keiki e ʻai a me ka lilo ʻana o ka paona, no laila e ʻike pehea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka makemake o ke keiki no ka mālama ʻana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.