Kōkua! ʻAʻole e kuʻu pēpē i ka uē ʻana

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• I ka manawa hea e ʻimi ai i ke kōkua pilikia
• He aha ka colic?
• ʻO nā kumu maʻamau o ka uē ʻana
• I nā pēpē 3 mau mahina a ʻoi paha
• I nā pēpē ma mua o 3 mau mahina
• Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i ka uē ʻana o kāu pēpē
• E hānai i kāu pēpē
• E ʻike i ka uē o kāu pēpē
• Hoʻolaha i kā kāu pēpē 'haʻi'
• E hoʻokau iā ʻoe iho i ko lākou wahi
• E noʻonoʻo i nā hoʻolālā kōkua ʻē aʻe
• Hana i hoʻokahi mea i ka manawa
• E kamaʻilio i ke colic
• ʻAe wale lākou e uē (i loko o ke kumu)
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻO ka manawa kūpono, ʻo ka hōʻailona mua i loaʻa iā ʻoe ua hōʻea kāu keiki hānau he uē. He mea ʻole inā he uē kūpilikiʻi piha ia, kahi kani mālie, a i ʻole ke ʻano o ka ʻuā wikiwiki - he leʻaleʻa ka lohe ʻana, a hoʻokipa ʻoe me ka pepeiao hāmama.

I kēia manawa, mau lā a mau pule paha (a i ʻole mau mahina) ma hope, ke kiʻi nei ʻoe i nā earplugs. ʻO kāu pēpē paha mau loa pau ka uē ʻana?

Makemake nā mākua e piʻoloke kā lākou pēpē a uē, akā ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻomākaukau iā ʻoe no ka mea me he mea lā he uē kūmākena lā. E luʻu kākou i loko o ke ʻano o ke kāhea ʻana o kāu pēpē a me nā squalls - a pehea e hoʻēmi ai iā lākou i hiki i nā mea āpau ke ʻoliʻoli i kahi maluhia e pono ai.

I ka manawa hea e ʻimi ai i ke kōkua pilikia

Inā ʻoe e heluhelu ana i kēia, ke hana nei paha ʻoe me kahi pēpē bawling - a ke noʻonoʻo nei inā ke ʻoka ʻana i ke kaukō. E nānā hou i mua ke kāhea koke ʻia a kipa ʻia paha.

Kāhea koke i kāu kauka inā kāu pēpē:

• ʻoi aku kona mau makahiki ma mua o 3 mau mahina a he kuni (a ʻo kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa paha)
• ʻuā hikiwawe ka uē ʻana ma hope o ka noho mālie ʻana no ka mahina mua o ke ola, me kahi mau uē wale o kēlā me kēia lā (hiki ke kani keu, akā he mea ʻoi aku paha ke koʻikoʻi)
• ke uē nei a he wahi palupalu kona huʻi, ka luaʻi, nāwaliwali, a me ka neʻe ʻole o ka neʻe.
• ʻaʻole inu a inu iki paha ma mua o 8 mau hola
• ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaha ʻia ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻāʻo nei i nā mea āpau - hānai, lūlū, ʻaʻole luliluli, mele, hāmau, hoʻololi i kahi diaper haumia, a pēlā aku.

Me he mea lā he colic ka uē pau ʻole ʻana, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻike maopopo ʻaʻohe mea hewa.

He aha ka colic?

Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻo Colic ma ke ʻano o ka uē kiʻekiʻe ʻana i kū i ka “rula o 3” - 3 a ʻoi paha mau hola o ka uē ʻana i ka lā, 3 a ʻoi aʻe nā lā o ka pule, no 3 a ʻoi paha mau pule - a he ʻano maʻamau kona, e like me kēlā me kēia lā i ke ahiahi awakea a i ʻole ke ahiahi nui.

ʻOiai ke kūlike ka uē me ke kumu o colic, ke akamai i ka hoʻopili ʻana i kāu pediatrician, no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke haʻi iā ʻoe inā ʻo colic ka lawehala.

ʻO nā kumu maʻamau o ka uē ʻana

I nā pēpē 3 mau mahina a ʻoi paha

ʻAʻole loaʻa iki nā pēpē i ke ala o nā pono hana e hiki ai iā mākou ke pane i kā lākou pono, wahi a Kauka David L. Hill, FAAP, ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono o "Ka mālama ʻana i kāu pēpē a me kāu keiki ʻōpio, 7^ʻ.Hoʻopuka, Hānau i 5 mau makahiki.” "Ke nani ke nānā aku, a ke uē nei kekahi. Kuhi kēia mau mea hana i ka laulā, akā ʻaʻole palena lākou i ka mana. Lawe ʻia mākou e pane i nā pēpē e uē ana. ”

Nui nā mea nui a kāu pēpē e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe. I nā mahina mua o ke ola, ke uē paha lākou no ka mea:

• pololi
• loaʻa i kahi diaper mākū a lepo paha
• hiamoe a overtired paha
• mehameha a luhi paha
• ua overfed (ke kumu o ka ʻōpū ʻōpū)
• pono e ʻaʻā
• anuanu a wela loa
• pono hōʻoluʻolu a i ʻole aloha
• overstimulated mai ka walaʻau a me ka hana
• hoʻonāukiuki ʻia e ka lole ʻino a i ʻole ka lepili
• pono e lūlū ʻia a kāʻei ʻia
• ʻeha a maʻi paha

Kahaha ka mea i hele ʻole ai ke kinoea ʻōpū mai ka papa inoa? Wahi a ka American Academy of Pediatrics, ʻaʻohe ʻeha ke gas e hele ma waena o ka ʻōnaehana digestive haʻahaʻa o ka pēpē. Manaʻo paha ʻoe ʻo ia ke kumu o ko lākou pilikia no ka mea ke hoʻokuʻu nei lākou i ka nui o ke kinoea i ka wā o nā lole e uē ana, akā he kaʻao ia e paʻa ai ke kinoea i loko o nā ʻōpū a hana i ka ʻeha.

ʻOiai aia kekahi mau kumu no ka uē ʻana, hiki i ka mea nui ke kuhikuhi i ka pilikia. Paipai ʻo Hill i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi papa inoa, keu hoʻi i ke aumoe o ka pō. Ke kūleʻa nei ʻoe ma kahi o ka hiamoe ʻole, he ala maikaʻi ia e noʻonoʻo pono ai i kēlā me kēia manawa no ke kumu o nā squalls, a kiʻi i kāu pēpē - a iā ʻoe iho - kahi hoʻomaha.

I nā pēpē ma mua o 3 mau mahina

ʻO ke kumu o ka uē hānau hou kahi kumu physiological, e like me ka pōloli, a hilinaʻi nā pēpē i ka makua e hōʻoluʻolu iā lākou, wehewehe ʻo Patti Ideran, OTR / L CEIM, kahi mea hoʻoponopono ʻoihana pediatric nāna e nānā i ka mālama ʻana i nā pēpē me ka colic, ka uē ʻana, a me nā pilikia hiamoe a hānai ʻana paha.

ʻO nā pēpē i ʻoi aku ma mua o 3 a 4 mau mahina paha ke akamai i ka hōʻoluʻolu iā ia iho, ma o ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi manamana nui, ka lima a i ʻole ka pacifier. Akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻohe o lākou manawa kani leo. Huhū paha lākou, kaumaha, huhū, a i ʻole hopohopo hoʻokaʻawale (ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka pō) a hoʻohana i ka uē ʻana ma ke ʻano he ala e kamaʻilio ai i kēlā mau manaʻo.

ʻO ka ʻeha niho hoʻi ke kumu nui o ka uē ʻana i nā pēpē ʻelemakule. Puta ka hapa nui o nā pēpē i kahi niho mua ma waena o 6 a me 12 mau mahina. Ma waho aʻe o ka pīhoihoi a me ka uē ʻana, pehu a palupalu paha nā kāʻei o kāu pēpē, a hemo aku paha lākou ma mua o ka maʻamau.

I mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ka niho, hāʻawi i kāu pēpē i kahi kapa holoi hoʻomaʻemaʻe a pulu paha a i ʻole ke apo paʻa paʻa niho. Inā hoʻomau ka uē, e kamaʻilio me kāu pediatrician e pili ana i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi lāʻau kūpono o acetaminophen (Tylenol). Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ibuprofen (Advil) inā ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu pēpē ma mua o 6 mau mahina.

Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i ka uē ʻana o kāu pēpē

Eia nā mea e hoʻāʻo ai inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea hōʻoluʻolu ʻole.

E hānai i kāu pēpē

Makemake ʻoe e lilo i pre preferive liʻiliʻi me kēia. I ka wā i uē ai kāu pēpē, ʻo kēia paha ka mea mua āu i hana ai, akā ʻaʻole paha i loaʻa nā hopena āu i manaʻo ai. Ke hāʻawi nei i ka umauma a ʻōmole paha ma hope ke piʻi nei ka uē ʻana i kekahi manawa nā hopena i ka omo frantic a me ka disorganized.

"Inā hiki i kahi keiki hānau hou i ke kiko ke uē nei ʻo ia no ka mea ua pōloli ʻo ia, ua hala mua ʻoe," wahi a Hill.

E nānā i nā hōʻailona e hoʻomaka ana kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e pōloli: Hoʻokahi hōʻailona ke omo lākou i ko lākou mau lima a i ʻole aʻaʻa ikaika a puni ka piko. I mea e pale aku ai i ka uē aloha ʻole ʻana - a me ka mea i hoʻonāukiuki ʻia, ʻaʻole i kūleʻa pinepine, e hānai ʻana ma hope - e hāʻawi i ka umauma a i ʻole ʻōmole ʻoiai lākou e mālie.

E ʻike i ka uē o kāu pēpē

ʻO ka maʻamau, ʻo ka uwa nui, lōʻihi, kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe, ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻeha, ʻoiai ka uē pōkole, haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa e ala a hina i ka wī. Akā ʻo ka haʻi ʻana i kahi uē kikoʻī hoʻokahi mea no nā mea āpau ʻaʻole hiki i nā pēpē.

ʻO ka uē he mea mai kēlā me kēia pēpē a hiki i kahi pēpē, a he pili nui me ke ʻano. Inā he chill nui kāu keiki mua, a ʻo kēia hānau hou, maikaʻi, ʻaʻole nui loa, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe inā paha aia kekahi mea kūpono ʻole iā lākou.

ʻAʻohe paha hewa, wahi a Hill. Loaʻa i kekahi mau pēpē kahi ʻano koʻikoʻi o ka naʻau a, no laila, ʻoi aku ka pīhoihoi i kā lākou uē ʻana.

Inā ʻoe e nānā a hoʻolohe i kāu pēpē i kēlā me kēia lā, e hoʻomaka ana ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i nā leo like ʻole o kā lākou kāhea ʻana. Inā ʻuā kāu pēpē ke pōloli lākou, hoʻolohe i kēlā uē a pehea ʻokoʻa mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

Kōkua ia i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ke aʻo nei ʻoe i kahi ʻōlelo haole. (Hilinaʻi iā mākou.) Inā ʻoe e nānā pono i kēlā mau leo ​​uē, i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, hoʻomohala ʻoe a me kāu pēpē i kāu huaʻōlelo ponoʻī.

Hoʻolaha i kā kāu pēpē 'haʻi'

Aia kekahi, subtler, nā ʻōuli e hāʻawi i kahi peek i loko o ka mea e pono ai kāu pēpē, a me ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia mau mea hiki ke pale i nā ʻāpala uē.

Maopopo kekahi mau mea, e like me ka hamo ʻana i ko lākou mau maka a i ʻole ke ʻuʻā ʻana ke luhi lākou.

ʻAʻole maopopo iki ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, e like me ka averting i ko lākou nānā ke loaʻa ka lawa o ka stimulate. E nānā pono i kāu pēpē - kā lākou neʻe ʻana i ke kino, nā kūlana, nā helehelena a me nā leo kani (e like me ke kaniʻuhū) - i nā manawa like ʻole o ka lā e aʻo ai i kēia mau hōʻailona.

E hoʻomanaʻo, kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia pēpē. ʻOiai no ka mea ua omo kāu pēpē mua i ko lākou lima ke pōloli lākou ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ka lua. Akā, e ʻōlelo paha kēia hana, "Pono wau e hoʻomālielie."

E hoʻokau iā ʻoe iho i ko lākou wahi

Inā ʻaʻohe ʻike o kā pēpē uē a i ʻole hōʻike paha i ka mea e hoʻopilikia nei iā ia, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea e hoʻopilikia ai ʻo ʻoe inā ʻo ʻoe ʻo lākou. Ua nui loa paha ke kīwī? ʻOi aku ka mālamalama o ka malamalama o luna? E luhi paha ʻoe? A laila e hana i nā hana kūpono.

Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua huhū kāu pēpē, e hali ana iā lākou i kahi mea lawe i mua a lawe iā lākou i waho i kahi stroller hāʻawi i kahi hoʻololi hoʻokipa o ka hiʻona.

No ka pale ʻana i nā leo ambient i loko o ka home a hana hou i ka holoi ʻana i kāu keiki hānau hou i lohe ʻia i loko o ka ʻōpū, hāʻawi i ka leo keʻokeʻo mālie, e like me ka hoʻohuli ʻana i kahi peahi a i ka mea holoi lole.

E noʻonoʻo i nā hoʻolālā kōkua ʻē aʻe

Inā he mea pohihihi ke kumu o ka uē ʻana, hoʻāʻo:

• luliluli pēpē i kahi noho a i ʻole i kou mau lima (ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka neʻe ʻana o nā neʻe liʻiliʻi no ka hoʻomaha ʻana)
• hoʻopulapula i kāu pēpē (e nīnau i kāu kaukuna a kahu maʻi paha pehea a nānā i kā mākou pehea)
• ke hoʻonoho nei iā lākou i kahi kuapo makani
• e hāʻawi ana iā lākou i kaʻauʻau mahana
• e mele ana iā lākou

Inā ʻoe e kuhi i ka ʻeha o kāu pēpē, e nānā i nā lima, nā wāwae, a me nā genitalia no kahi "hoʻokūkū lauoho" (kahi lauoho i ʻāwī paʻa ʻia a puni ka manamana lima, ka manamana wāwae a i ʻole ka penis), ka mea hiki ke hoʻonohonoho pono i kāu pēpē.

Hana i hoʻokahi mea i ka manawa

I mea e hōʻoki ai i ka pronto uē, e hōʻiliʻili pinepine nā mākua i kahi hoʻolālā ma luna o kekahi, i ka wikiwiki.

"Paʻa mau nā mākua, kuʻi, shush, hīmeni, pā, hoʻololi i nā kūlana - i ka manawa hoʻokahi! E hoʻāʻo nō hoʻi lākou e hoʻololi i ka diaper, hānai, a hala loa i ka makua ʻē aʻe no ka huli ʻana. ʻO ka pinepine o kēia mau mea āpau i loko o nā minuke ʻelua. ʻO ka mea wale nō e hana ai i ka overstimulate o ka pēpē, "wahi a Ideran.

Ma kahi o, e hoʻokō i hoʻokahi hana i ka manawa - e like me ka lūlū ʻana, paʻi wale ʻana, a hīmeni wale nō paha - a pili me ia ma kahi o 5 mau minuke e ʻike inā e noho ana kāu pēpē. Inā ʻaʻole, e hoʻāʻo i kahi hana kōkua ʻē aʻe.

E kamaʻilio i ke colic

Inā hōʻoia kāu kauka he colic kāu pēpē, e hoʻomanaʻo mua ʻaʻohe mea i pili me kāu mākau mākua.

I mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ka uē ʻana, koi ʻo Ideran iā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo i kahi lomilomi pēpē kikoʻī no nā pēpē colicky. Kōkua ia i ka hoʻomalie ʻana, ka hiamoe ʻana, a me ka digestion, a kōkua pū kekahi i ka pilina ma waena ou a me kāu pēpē.

Aia he mau wikiō YouTube no nā lomilomi colic ma ka-wahi. A i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i kahi mea aʻo lomilomi pēpē e aʻo iā ʻoe pehea e kōkua ai i kāu pēpē colicky.

ʻAe wale lākou e uē (i loko o ke kumu)

Hānai ʻia kāu pēpē a hoʻololi ʻia. Ua lūlū ʻia lākou, pākuʻi ʻia, mele ʻia, a peku ʻia lākou. Māluhiluhi ʻoe, uluhua, a luʻuluʻu. Ma laila nā mākua o kahi hānau hou.

Ke hoʻokokoke nei ʻoe i ka wahi haʻihaʻi, maikaʻi loa ke waiho ʻana i kāu pēpē i kahi wahi palekana, e like me kā lākou moena moe, a haʻalele i ka lumi.

Ke kāhea nei i kāu hoa a i ʻole i lālā ʻohana hilinaʻi a i ʻole hoa aloha e lawe i kahi koho. Inā ʻaʻole, e hoʻomaopopo i ka waiho ʻana i kāu pēpē e "kāhea iā ia" no kahi manawa pōkole ʻaʻole e hana i kahi ʻeha mau loa.

"ʻIke mākou i ka waiho ʻana i nā pēpē e uwē i kekahi ʻaʻole ia e hōʻino iā lākou i ka naʻau. Ua aʻo ʻia kēia i nā manawa he nui. Ehia? Pili paha ia iā ʻoe a me kāu pēpē, akā i ka wā lōʻihi, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻoluʻolu e pili ana i ka waiho ʻana i kāu pēpē e uē inā pono ʻo ia e uē i ka neʻe ʻana mai kahi ala ala i kahi noho hiamoe, a ʻoi aku inā ʻo ʻoe ke kuʻi i kāu palena palena o ka naʻau ponoʻī, "wahi a Hill.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ke hoʻomau nei e hoʻāʻo e hōʻoluʻolu i kāu pēpē hiki ʻole ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻia i ka hopena o kou wit Mei hana ʻino mau loa. Kū pinepine ka maʻi lulu pēpē i ka wā e hiamoe ʻole ai kahi makua, huhū ʻole hiki ʻole ke kiʻi hou i ka uē.

Ke ʻike ʻoe i kou palena, hanu i ka hohonu, hemo i kahi mau minuke, a ʻike ʻo kēia gig makua paʻakikī.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

He mea hiki ʻole paha iā ʻoe i kēia manawa, akā ʻo nā ʻanela uē makemake ma hope e hoʻolohi.

Wahi a kahi noi 2017, i nā pule mua ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, uē nā keiki hānau hou ma kahi o 2 mau hola i ka lā. Hoʻonui a piʻikoi ke kaniʻuhū ma 2 a 3 mau hola i kēlā me kēia lā e 6 mau pule, a ma hope iho ua emi iho ia (haleluia!) I ka manawa o 4 pēpē o ka pēpē, hoʻohui wale paha kā lākou uē ʻana i kahi ʻoi aku o 1 hola i ka lā.

ʻOi aku ka hōʻoluʻolu: Ma ia manawa e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻike nui i ke aʻo ʻana e heluhelu i nā ʻōuli a kāu pēpē a me nā uē ʻana, no laila ke mālama nei i kā lākou mau pono e pale ai i ka uē aloha ʻole ʻana i hōʻailona no ko lākou mau pule mua. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kēia.