ʻO 5 mau ala e ʻike ai ʻo Taylor Swift Ma waho o ka Lāʻau ʻo ia

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Ma ke aumoe o ka Poalua, superstar mele ʻO Taylor Swift (a me ka wahine cat extraordinaire) hāʻawi i kāna mau mea pā me kahi mele hou mai kāna album e hiki mai ana, 1989, i kapa ʻia ʻo "Out of the Woods." ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i inoa i kekahi inoa (ahem, ʻO Harry Styles) ma ka synth-heavy track, haʻi aku ʻo T. Swift ʻAmelika kakahiaka maikaʻi 'o ia ke mele e "hopu i ka palupalu a me ka nahaha o ka pilina."

With lyrics like "Are we out of the woods yet? Are we in the clear yet?" Hoʻohālikelike ke kani hopu i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka pili i kahi pilina hou. ʻO ia ka manaʻo o "pīhoihoi, akā, no ka hopohopo nui a me ka manaʻo pīhoihoi o ka haʻohaʻo," e like me kā Swift i ʻōlelo ai.

Kamaʻāina ke kani? ʻO mākou kekahi. Mai hopohopo, e Taylor-ua hele mākou a pau ma laila. He leʻaleʻa ka pili aloha ʻana me kekahi āu e pupule ai akā e hoʻoweliweli i ka manawa like. No laila pehea mākou e ʻike ai ke "palekana" i ka pilina? Ua kamaʻilio mākou iā Patti Feinstein, he kanaka akamai i ka launa pū ʻana a me ka pilina, e aʻo i ʻelima mau hōʻailona hōʻailona ʻoe "ma ka maopopo."

1. ʻAʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka wā hea ʻo ia e kelepona mai ai.

Ma mua o ka nānā ʻana i kāu kelepona i ka lā holoʻokoʻa ke kali nei no ka hōʻike ʻia o kona inoa, hiki iā ʻoe ke noho a hoʻomaha no ka mea hilinaʻi ʻoe e lohe ana iā ia-a i ʻole he hoʻolālā paha kāu. "ʻLelo ʻo ia, 'E hui pū kāua i ka Pōʻalima. E kiʻi wau iā ʻoe ma 9,'" wahi a Feinstein. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe ou manaʻo paʻa, kikokiko ʻo ia, "Pehea kou lā?" no laila ʻike ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana iā ʻoe.

2. Ua oluolu loa oe a puni ia.

Ua ʻike ʻoe ua pā ʻoe i ka loteri pili i ka wā e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lilo iā ʻoe iho me ia-sans makeup, me ka hanu kakahiaka, a i ʻole i kou manawa-a ʻoluʻolu pū me ia, wahi a Feinstein. A i ka wā e leʻaleʻa ai kāu kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio kūkākūkā e pili ana i ke anilā-no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea hopohopo me kahi hamū hilahila ʻole.

3. Ua hālāwai ʻoe me nā ʻohana o kekahi.

ʻO kahi mea nui nui i kēlā me kēia pilina, ke kipa ʻana i kona ʻohana e hōʻailona i ka hiki, male ʻana i loko. A e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole ia he hoʻāʻo e ʻike inā makemake lākou iā ʻoe, wahi a Feinstein. "E nānā i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o kona ʻohana: Pehea ka pilina o kona mau mākua? Pehea lākou e mālama ai kekahi i kekahi?" Makemake ʻoe e nānā i ka waiwai o kona ʻohana me kāu.

4. Ua hakakā ʻoe-a ua hala ʻoe ma ia mea.

He mea maʻalahi ka launa pū ʻana i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka fluttery mua, akā ʻo ka mea koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi i kēlā me kēia pilina ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kuʻikahi-a hoʻoponopono ʻoe iā ia. "E hoʻopaʻapaʻa hou ana ʻoe i ka wā e hiki mai ana, no laila makemake ʻoe e hiki ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi a hele pū i kēlā ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe," wahi a Feinstein. No ka nui a i'ole ka li'ili'i o ka pilikia (inā paha e kauoha i ke Kepanī no ka helu 'aina ahiahi), hiki iā 'oe ke ho'oholo i ia pilikia-me ka mālie.

5. ʻAʻole ʻoe e nīnau hou i kēia mau nīnau.

"ʻO kēia ka hōʻailona helu hoʻokahi e maikaʻi nā mea a pau," wahi a Feinstein. Nā nīnau e like me "Maopopo paha kāua?" e hele kūlohelohe ke ʻike ʻoe i kou puʻuwai ʻo ia kēlā, a ma mua o ka hopohopo a hopohopo paha, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻano o ka maluhia holoʻokoʻa.

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