Kahi alakaʻi e kōkua ai i nā keiki e hoʻomaopopo i ka maʻi ʻaʻai

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• MAKAHIKI MAKAHIKI 0 i 2 MAKAHIKI
• MAKAHIKI MAKAHIKI 2 i 7 MAKAHIKI
• KEIKI MAKAHIKI 7 a 12 MAKAHIKI
• MAKAHIKI MAKAHIKI 12 MAKAHIKI ME KA MAKAHIKI

Ke kuhi ʻia kāu keiki me ka maʻi ʻaʻai, ʻo kekahi o nā mea paʻakikī āu e hana ai ʻo ia ka wehewehe ʻana i ke ʻano o ka maʻi ʻaʻai. E ʻike i ka mea āu e haʻi aku ai i kāu keiki e kōkua i kāu keiki e alo i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā mea me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka pae kūpono no ka makahiki o kāu keiki e kōkua i kāu keiki e makaʻu iki.

Hoʻomaopopo nā keiki i nā mea ʻokoʻa ma muli o ko lākou mau makahiki. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka maopopo ʻana i kāu keiki, a me nā nīnau a lākou e nīnau ai, hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike ʻoi aku ka mea e ʻōlelo ai.

ʻOkoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki. Hoʻomaopopo kekahi mau keiki ma mua o kekahi. Pili kāu ala i kēlā me kēia lā i ka makahiki a me ke oʻo o kāu keiki. Eia kahi alakaʻi laulā.

MAKAHIKI MAKAHIKI 0 i 2 MAKAHIKI

Nā keiki i kēia makahiki:

• Hoʻomaopopo wale i nā mea i hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ka hoʻopā a me ka ʻike
• Mai maopopo i ka maʻi ʻaʻai
• ʻO ka nānā i ka mea e hana nei i kēia manawa
• Makaʻu i nā hoʻokolohua olakino a me ka ʻeha
• Makaʻu i ka haʻalele ʻana i ko lākou mau mākua

Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā keiki 0 a 2 mau makahiki:

• E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki e pili ana i nā mea e hana nei i ka manawa a i kēlā lā.
• E wehewehe i nā kaʻina hana a me nā hoʻokolohua ma mua o kou hōʻea ʻana. ʻO kahi laʻana, e hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki e ʻeha iki ke kui kele, a maikaʻi ka uē ʻana.
• E hāʻawi i kāu keiki i nā koho, e like me nā ala leʻaleʻa e lawe i nā lāʻau, nā puke hou a i ʻole nā ​​wikiō i ka wā o ka mālama ʻana, a i ʻole ka hoʻohuihui ʻana i nā lāʻau me nā wai ʻokoʻa.
• E hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki ma kou ʻaoʻao mau ʻoe ma ka haukapila.
• E wehewehe pehea ka lōʻihi o ko lākou noho i ka haukapila a i ka manawa a lākou e hoʻi ai i ka home.

MAKAHIKI MAKAHIKI 2 i 7 MAKAHIKI

Nā keiki i kēia makahiki:

• Hoʻomaopopo paha i ka maʻi ʻaʻai ke wehewehe ʻoe i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo maʻalahi.
• E nānā no ke kumu a me ka hopena. Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻino i ka maʻi i kahi hanana kikoʻī, e like me ka hoʻopau ʻole ʻana i ka ʻaina ahiahi.
• Makaʻu i ka haʻalele ʻana i ko lākou mau mākua.
• Makaʻu paha e noho lākou i ka haukapila.
• Makaʻu i nā hoʻokolohua olakino a me ka ʻeha.

Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā keiki mai 2 a 7 mau makahiki:

• E hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo maʻalahi e like me "nā pūnaewele maikaʻi" a me nā "ʻino maikaʻi" e wehewehe ai i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo he hoʻokūkū ia ma waena o nā ʻano ʻelua o nā hunaola.
• E haʻi i kāu keiki e pono lākou i ka lāʻau i mea e hele ai ka ʻeha a ʻoi aku ka ikaika o nā hunaola.
• E ʻike pono i ʻike kāu keiki ʻaʻohe mea a lākou i hana ai i loaʻa ai ke kanesa.
• E wehewehe i nā kaʻina hana a me nā hoʻokolohua ma mua o kou hōʻea ʻana. E hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki i ka mea e hiki mai ana, a maikaʻi ka makaʻu a uē paha. E hōʻoia i kāu keiki he mau ʻano ko nā kauka e hōʻemi ai i ka hōʻeha.
• E ʻike pono iā ʻoe a i ʻole ke kime mālama ola o kāu keiki e hāʻawi nei i nā koho a me nā makana.
• E hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki aia ʻoe ma ko lākou ʻaoʻao ma ka haukapila a hoʻi lākou i ka hale.

KEIKI MAKAHIKI 7 a 12 MAKAHIKI

Nā keiki i kēia makahiki:

• Hoʻomaopopo i ka maʻi ʻaʻai ma ke ʻano kumu
• E noʻonoʻo i ko lākou maʻi e like me nā ʻōuli a me nā mea hiki ʻole iā lākou ke hana ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā keiki ʻē aʻe
• E hoʻomaopopo i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maikaʻi mai ka lawe ʻana i nā lāʻau a me ka hana ʻana i ka mea a nā kauka e ʻōlelo ai
• ʻAʻole paha lākou e hōʻino i ko lākou maʻi i kekahi mea a lākou i hana ai
• Makaʻu i ka ʻeha a ʻeha ʻia
• E lohe i ka ʻike e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai mai nā kumuwaiwai o waho e like me ke kula, TV, a me ka Pūnaewele

Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā keiki mai 7 a 12 mau makahiki:

• Wehewehe i nā hunaola maʻi ʻaʻa ma ke ʻano he ʻula.
• E haʻi i kāu keiki he ʻano ʻokoʻa nā kino o ke kino e pono ai e hana i nā hana like ʻole i ke kino. Loaʻa i nā hunaola maʻi ʻaʻai ke ala o nā hunaola maikaʻi a kōkua nā mālama ʻana e kāpae i nā hunaola maʻi ʻaʻai.
• E wehewehe i nā kaʻina hana a me nā hoʻokolohua ma mua o kou hōʻea ʻana a he maikaʻi ia e hopohopo a maʻi paha iā ia.
• E noi i kāu keiki e haʻi iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā mea a lākou i lohe ai e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai mai nā kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe a i ʻole nā ​​hopohopo a lākou. E hōʻoia i ka pololei o ka ʻike i loaʻa iā lākou.

MAKAHIKI MAKAHIKI 12 MAKAHIKI ME KA MAKAHIKI

Nā keiki i kēia makahiki:

• Hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i nā manaʻo paʻakikī
• Hiki ke noʻonoʻo i nā mea i hiki ʻole iā lākou
• Nui paha nā nīnau e pili ana i ko lākou maʻi
• E noʻonoʻo i ko lākou maʻi e like me nā ʻōuli a me nā mea a lākou e nalo ai a hiki ʻole paha ke hana inā hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā keiki ʻē aʻe
• E hoʻomaopopo i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maikaʻi mai ka lawe ʻana i nā lāʻau a me ka hana ʻana i ka mea a nā kauka e ʻōlelo ai
• Makemake paha ʻoe e kōkua i ka hoʻoholo ʻana
• E hopohopo paha e pili ana i nā hopena ʻino e like me ka nalo ʻana o ka lauoho a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kaumaha
• E lohe i ka ʻike e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai mai nā kumuwaiwai o waho e like me ke kula, TV, a me ka Pūnaewele

Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā keiki mai ka makahiki 12 a ʻoi paha:

• E wehewehe i ka maʻi ʻaʻai ma ke ʻano he maʻi ke hele hihiu kekahi a ulu koke.
• Hoʻopili nā hunaola maʻi ʻula i ke ʻano o ka hana a ke kino.
• E make nā mālama ʻana i nā hunaola maʻi ʻaʻai i hiki ai i ke kino ke hana maikaʻi a hele aku nā ʻōuli.
• E mālama pono e pili ana i nā kaʻina hana, nā hoʻāʻo, a me nā hopena ʻaoʻao.
• Kamaʻilio hāmama me kāu ʻōpio e pili ana i nā koho lapaʻau, nā hopohopo, a me nā makaʻu.
• No nā keiki nui, aia paha he mau papahana pūnaewele i hiki ke kōkua iā lākou e aʻo e pili ana i kā lākou maʻi ʻaʻai a me nā ala e kū ai.

Nā ala ʻē aʻe e kamaʻilio ai i kāu keiki e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

• E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai ma mua o kou hāpai ʻana i nā kumuhana hou me kāu keiki.
• E noi i ka mea mālama ola o kāu keiki no ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pehea e wehewehe ai i nā mea.
• E loaʻa i kahi ʻohana ʻē aʻe a i ʻole kahi mea hoʻolako me ʻoe ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai a me nā ʻano lāʻau.
• E hoʻopaʻa pinepine me kāu keiki e pili ana i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana o kāu keiki.
• E hoʻopono.
• Kaʻana i kou mau manaʻo a noi i kāu keiki e kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo.
• E wehewehe i nā huaʻōlelo lapaʻau i nā ala e hiki ai i kāu keiki ke hoʻomaopopo.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke ala ma mua, e hoʻomanaʻo i kāu keiki ua hoʻōla ʻia ka hapa nui o nā keiki me ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

ʻAhahui ʻAmelika o ka Clinical Oncology (ASCO) pūnaewele. Pehea e maopopo ai i ke keiki i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. www.cancer.net/coping-and-emotions/communication-loved-ones/how-child-understands-cancer. Hoʻohou ʻia Kepakemapa 2019. Loaʻa iā Malaki 18, 2020.

Pūnaewele ʻo National Cancer Institute. ʻO nā ʻōpio a me nā ʻōpio ʻōpio me ka maʻi ʻaʻai. www.kaleo.gov/types/aya. Hoʻohou i Ianuali 31, 2018. Loaʻa iā Malaki 18, 2020.

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