Ke kōkua nei i kāu keiki e hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻike maʻi ʻaʻai

Ke aʻo nei i kāu keiki i ke kanesa hiki ke ʻike i ka luhi a me ka makaʻu. Makemake ʻoe e pale i kāu keiki, ʻaʻole wale mai ka maʻi ʻaʻai, akā mai ka makaʻu e hiki mai ana me ka loaʻa ʻana i kahi maʻi koʻikoʻi.

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka wehewehe ʻana i ke ʻano o ka loaʻa ʻana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Eia kekahi mau mea e ʻike ai ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi keiki e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

Hiki ke hoʻowalewale ʻia e haʻi ʻole i nā keiki e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. ʻOiaʻiʻo makemake ʻoe e pale i kāu keiki mai ka makaʻu. Akā pono nā keiki āpau me ka maʻi ʻaʻai e ʻike he maʻi maʻi ko lākou. ʻO ka hapanui o nā keiki e ʻike i kekahi mea hewa a hana paha lākou i kā lākou mau moʻolelo e pili ana i kēia. Kūpono nā keiki e hoʻopiʻi iā lākou iho no nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e hana ʻia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻoemi ai i ke kaumaha o ke keiki, ka hewa, a me ka huikau.

ʻO nā huaʻōlelo lapaʻau e like me "maʻi ʻaʻai" e hoʻohana ʻia e nā mea lawelawe olakino a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. Pono e maopopo i nā keiki no ke aha lākou e kipa aku ai me nā kauka a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoʻokolohua a me nā lāʻau. Hiki iā ia ke kōkua i nā keiki e wehewehe i kā lākou hōʻailona a kūkākūkā i nā manaʻo. E kōkua ia i ka hilinaʻi i kou ʻohana.

Aia iā ʻoe ke haʻi aku i kāu keiki e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. ʻOiai hoʻowalewale ʻia ke waiho aku, ʻike paha ʻoe he maʻalahi ka haʻi koke ʻana i kāu keiki. E paʻakikī paha ia i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa. A ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no ka ʻike o kāu keiki a loaʻa ka manawa e nīnau ai i nā nīnau ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i ka lāʻau.

Inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe i ka wā a pehea e lawe ai iā ia, e kamaʻilio me kāu mea hāʻawi, e like me ka loea o ke ola keiki. Hiki i ke kime mālama ola ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka nūhou e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai a me nā mea e pono ai e pili ana.

Eia kekahi mau mea e noʻonoʻo ai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai o kāu keiki:

• E hoʻomanaʻo i ka makahiki o kāu keiki. Aia ka nui o kāu e kaʻana like ai me kāu keiki i ka makahiki o kāu keiki. ʻO kahi laʻana, pono wale paha nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e ʻike i ka ʻike maʻamau, ʻoiai e makemake paha kahi ʻōpio e ʻike i nā kikoʻī e pili ana i nā lapaʻau a me nā hopena ʻaoʻao.
• E paipai i kāu keiki e nīnau i nā nīnau. E hoʻāʻo e pane iā lākou ma ke ʻano ʻoiaʻiʻo a hāmama hoʻi i hiki iā ʻoe. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike i ka pane, maikaʻi ia e ʻōlelo pēlā.
• E ʻike paha i ka makaʻu o kāu keiki e nīnau i kekahi nīnau. E hoʻāʻo e ʻike inā loaʻa i kāu keiki kekahi mea i kona manaʻo akā makaʻu paha ʻoe ke nīnau. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā huhū kāu keiki ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i lilo ka lauoho, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā ʻōuli e loaʻa iā ia mai ka lapaʻau ʻana.
• E hoʻomanaʻo ua lohe paha kāu keiki i nā mea e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai mai nā kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe, e like me ke kīwī, nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a i ʻole nā ​​keiki ʻē aʻe. He mea maikaʻi ke nīnau aku i nā mea a lākou i lohe ai, no laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia he ʻike kūpono kā lākou.
• Noi i kōkua. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka kamaʻilio ʻana no ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Inā makemake ʻoe i kōkua me kekahi mau kumuhana, e noi i ka mea hāʻawi a kāu keiki a i ʻole ka hui mālama maʻi maʻi maʻi.

Aia kekahi makaʻu maʻamau i loaʻa i nā keiki he nui ke aʻo lākou e pili ana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Makaʻu paha kāu keiki e haʻi iā ʻoe e pili ana i kēia mau makaʻu, no laila he mea maikaʻi e hāpai iā lākou iho iā ʻoe iho.

• Na kāu keiki ka maʻi ʻaʻai. He mea maʻamau no nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e noʻonoʻo ua hoʻokumu lākou i ka maʻi ʻaʻai e ka hana ʻana i kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki i ka mea ʻole a lākou i hana ai i loaʻa ai ke kanesa.
• He maʻi lele ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Manaʻo nā keiki he nui hiki i ka maʻi ʻaʻai ke hoʻolaha aku mai kekahi kanaka i kekahi kanaka. E ʻike pono i kāu keiki ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke "hopu" i ka maʻi ʻaʻai mai haʻi.
• Make nā kānaka āpau mai ka maʻi ʻaʻai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe he maʻi nui ka maʻi ʻaʻai, akā he mau miliona ka poʻe i ola i ke kanesa me nā hoʻoponopono o kēia ao. Inā ʻike kāu keiki i kekahi i make i ka maʻi ʻaʻai, e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou he nui nā ʻano maʻi ʻaʻai a ʻokoʻa ka maʻi ʻaʻai o kēlā me kēia.

Pono paha ʻoe e hana hou i kēia mau helu i nā manawa he nui i ka wā o ka mālama ʻana o kāu keiki.

Eia kekahi mau ala e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e kū i ka wā o ka mālama ʻana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

• E hoʻāʻo e noho ma kahi papa manawa maʻamau. ʻOluʻolu nā papa kuhikuhi i nā keiki. E hoʻāʻo e mālama i kahi papa manawa maʻamau e like me kāu hiki.
• Kōkua i kāu keiki e launa me nā hoa papa a me nā hoa aloha. ʻO kekahi mau ala e hana ai i kēia me ka leka uila, kāleka, leka uila ʻana, nā pāʻani wikiō, a me nā kelepona ʻana.
• E hoʻomau me nā hana papa i hala. Hiki i kēia ke kōkua i ka pili o kāu keiki i ke kula a hoʻoliʻiliʻi i kekahi hopohopo no ka hāʻule ʻana i hope. Hoʻomaopopo pū kekahi i nā keiki e hoʻomākaukau ana lākou no ka wā e hiki mai ana no ka mea he mua ko lākou.
• E ʻike i nā ala e hoʻohui i ka hoʻomākeʻaka i ka lā o kāu keiki. E nānā pū i kahi kīwī kīwī a i ʻole kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a kūʻai i kāu keiki i kekahi mau puke hoʻomākeʻaka.
• E kipa aku me nā keiki ʻē aʻe i loaʻa i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. E noi i kāu kauka e hoʻopili iā ʻoe me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe i kūleʻa maikaʻi i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.
• E hoʻomaopopo i kāu keiki he maikaʻi ke huhū a kaumaha paha. Kōkua i kāu keiki e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia mau manaʻo me ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi.
• E hōʻoia i ka leʻaleʻa o kāu keiki i kēlā me kēia lā. No nā keiki ʻōpio, hiki i kēia ke hoʻohālikelike i ka pena ʻana, ke nānā ʻana i kahi hōʻike kīwī punahele, a i ʻole ke kūkulu ʻana me nā palaka. Makemake paha nā keiki kahiko e kamaʻilio me nā hoaaloha ma ke kelepona a pāʻani paha i nā pāʻani wikiō.

Pūnaewele ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa ʻAmelika. Ke loaʻa ʻana o ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo ke loaʻa i kāu keiki ka maʻi ʻaʻai. www.cancer.org/content/cancer/en/treatment/ keiki-and-cancer/when-your-child-has-cancer/during-treatment/help-and-support.html. Hoʻohou ʻia Kepakemapa 18, 2017. Loaʻa iā ʻOkakopa 7, 2020.

ʻAhahui ʻAmelika o ka Clinical Oncology (ASCO) pūnaewele. Pehea e maopopo ai i ke keiki i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. www.cancer.net/coping-with-cancer/talking-with-family-and-friends/how-child-understands-cancer. Hoʻohou ʻia Kepakemapa 2019. Loaʻa iā ʻOkakopa 7, 2020.

Pūnaewele ʻo National Cancer Institute. Nā keiki me ka maʻi ʻaʻai: Kahi alakaʻi no nā mākua. www.cancer.gov/publications/patient-ed edukasyon/ keiki- me-cancer.pdf. Hoʻohou ʻia Kepakemapa 2015. Loaʻa iā ʻOkakopa 7, 2020.

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