Ka hana ʻino kūloko

ʻO ka hana ʻino kūloko ke hoʻohana ʻia ke kanaka i ka hana kolohe e kāohi ai i kahi hoa a ʻohana ʻē aʻe paha. Hiki ke hōʻino i ke kino, manaʻo, hoʻokele waiwai, a i ʻole ka moekolohe. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopili i nā poʻe o nā makahiki, ka wahine, ka moʻomeheu, a me ka papa. Ke kuhikuhi ʻia ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home i kahi keiki, kapa ʻia ka hana hoʻomāinoino keiki. ʻO ka hana ʻino kūloko kahi hewa.

Hiki i ka hana ʻino kūloko ke hoʻopili i kekahi o kēia mau ʻano:

• ʻO ka hōʻino kino, e like me ke kuʻi ʻana, ke keʻehi ʻana, ka nahu ʻana, ka pā ʻana, ka ʻāʻā ʻana, a me ka hōʻeha ʻana paha me kahi mea kaua
• ʻO ka hōʻino moekolohe, kaohi ʻana i kekahi i kekahi ʻano moekolohe āna e makemake ʻole ai
• Hana hoʻomāinoino i ka naʻau, e like me ka hea ʻana i ka inoa, hoʻohaʻahaʻa, hoʻoweliweli i ke kanaka a i ʻole kona ʻohana, a i ʻole ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ka mea e ʻike i ka ʻohana a i ʻole nā ​​hoa aloha.
• ʻO ka hana ʻino waiwai, e like me ka kaohi ʻana i ke komo ʻana i ke kālā a i ʻole nā ​​waihona panakō

ʻAʻole hoʻomaka ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ka pilina kolohe. Hoʻomaka mālie ka hana hoʻomāinoino a maikaʻi i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, ke hohonu ka pilina.

ʻO kekahi mau hōʻailona e hōʻino paha kāu hoa me:

• Ke makemake nei i ka hapa nui o kou manawa
• Ke hōʻeha nei iā ʻoe a ʻōlelo ʻana no kou hewa kēlā
• Ke hoʻāʻo nei e kaohi i kāu hana a i ʻole āu e ʻike ai
• Ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe mai ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻohana a i ʻole nā ​​hoa aloha
• Ke lili nui nei i ka manawa āu e lilo ai me haʻi
• Kaomi ʻana iā ʻoe e hana i nā mea āu e makemake ʻole ai e hana, e like me ka moekolohe a me ka hana ʻana i nā lāʻau
• Ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe mai ka hele ʻana i ka hana a kula paha
• Ke hoʻokau nei iā ʻoe i lalo
• Ke hoʻoweliweli nei iā ʻoe a i ʻole hoʻoweliweli i kou ʻohana a i ʻole nā ​​holoholona
• Ke hoʻopiʻi nei iā ʻoe no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hihia
• Ka mālama ʻana i kāu kālā
• Ke hoʻoweliweli nei e hōʻeha iā ia iho inā haʻalele ʻoe

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi pilina hōʻino. E makaʻu paha ʻoe e hōʻeha mai kāu pakanā iā ʻoe inā ʻoe e haʻalele, a i ʻole ʻaʻohe o kāu kākoʻo kālā a me ke ʻano e pono ai ʻoe.

ʻAʻole nou ka hana ʻino i ka home. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoki i ka hōʻino a kāu hoa. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā ala e kiʻi ai i kōkua nou iho.

• E haʻi aku i kekahi. ʻO ka hana mua i ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi pilina hoʻomāinoino e haʻi pinepine nei i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me kahi hoaaloha, ʻohana ʻohana, kahu mālama ola, a i ʻole lālā lālā pule.
• Loaʻa kahi hoʻolālā palekana. He hoʻolālā kēia inā pono ʻoe e haʻalele koke i kahi hanana kolohe. E hoʻoholo i kahi āu e hele ai a me kāu mea e lawe mai ai. E hōʻiliʻili i nā mea nui āu e pono ai, e like me nā kāleka hōʻaiʻē, kālā, a i ʻole nā ​​pepa, inā pono ʻoe e haʻalele wikiwiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻūlū i kahi ʻeke a mālama iā ia me kahi lālā o ka ʻohana a i ʻole he hoa aloha.
• Kāhea aku i kōkua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhea i ka National Free Domestic Violence Hotline me ka uku ʻole ʻia ma 800-799-7233, 24 mau hola i ka lā. Hiki i nā limahana ma ka laina hotline ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i nā kumuwaiwai no ka hana ʻino kūloko i kou wahi, me ke kōkua kū kānāwai.
• E kiʻi i ka mālama olakino. Inā ʻeha ʻoe, e kiʻi i ka mālama olakino mai kāu mea lawelawe a i ʻole ke keʻena pilikia.
• Kāhea ka mākaʻi. Mai kānalua i ke kāhea ʻana i ka mākaʻi inā pilikia ʻoe. ʻO ka hana ʻino kūloko kahi hewa.

Inā hōʻino ʻia kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha, nui nā ala hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua.

• Kākoʻo hāʻawi. E makaʻu paha kāu mea aloha, hoʻokahi, a hilahila paha. E hōʻike iā ia ma laila ʻoe e kōkua ai akā hiki iā ʻoe.
• Mai hoʻokolokolo. He paʻakikī ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi pilina hōʻino. E noho paha kāu mea aloha i loko o ka pilina me ka hōʻino ʻole ʻia. A i ʻole, haʻalele paha kāu mea aloha a hoʻi i nā manawa he nui. E hoʻāʻo e kākoʻo i kēia mau koho, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻaelike me lākou.
• Kōkua me kahi hoʻolālā palekana. E hōʻike i kāu mea i aloha ai e hana i kahi hoʻolālā palekana inā pilikia ka pilikia. Hāʻawi i kou home ma ke ʻano he wahi palekana inā pono ʻo ia e haʻalele, a i ʻole kōkua e ʻike i kahi wahi palekana ʻē aʻe.
• E ʻike i ke kōkua. Kōkua i kāu mea i aloha ai e hoʻopili me kahi laina laina aupuni a i ʻole kahi ʻoihana hoʻomāinoino kūloko i kou wahi.

Ka hana ʻino hoa pilikino; Hana hoʻomāinoino i ka wahine; Hōʻino makua; Hana hoʻomāinoino keiki; Ka hoʻomāinoino i ka moekolohe - ka hana ʻino kūloko

Feder G, Macmillan HL. Ka hana ʻino hoa pilikino. I: Goldman L, Schafer AI, eds. ʻO Goldman's Cecil Medicine. 26th ed. Piladelapia, PA: Elsevier; 2020: chap 228.

Mullins EWS, Regan L. ʻO ke olakino wahine. I: Feather A, Waterhouse M, eds. ʻO Kauka Lapaʻau ʻo Kumar lāua ʻo Clarke. 10 o ka lā. Piladelapia, PA: Elsevier; 2021: chap 39.

ʻO ka pūnaewele Nationalline Domestic Violence Hotline. Kōkua i kahi hoa a ʻohana paha. www.thehotline.org/help/help-for-friends-and-family. Loaʻa iā ʻOkakopa 26, 2020.

ʻO ka pūnaewele Nationalline Domestic Violence Hotline. He aha ka hana hoʻomāinoino home? www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/abuse-defined. Loaʻa iā ʻOkakopa 26, 2020.

• Hana hoʻomāinoino home