ʻO ka ʻimi no ka V maikaʻi loa: No ke aha e ʻimi nei nā wahine hou aku i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hou?

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• ʻO ka honua o ka hoʻohou hou ʻana o ka ʻōpū
• No ke aha e ʻimi ai nā wahine i kēlā ʻano hana?
• No hea mai ke kumu o ka 'prettier'?
• Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau hōʻike e hōʻike nei ʻaʻole paha e hewa ka porn.
• Hiki i ke aʻo hou ke hoʻoikaika i ka maikaʻi o ke kino
• Ke loaʻa nei ke kaulike ma waena o nā pilikia kūwaho a me loko

"ʻAʻohe manaʻo paʻa loa kaʻu poʻe maʻi e pili ana i ke ʻano o kā lākou puʻukū ponoʻī."

ʻO ka "Barbie pēpē nānā" ke hiki i kāu mau pale vulva he oliki a ʻike ʻole ʻia, e hāʻawi ana i ka manaʻo he paʻa ka wehe ʻana o ka ʻōpū.

Nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe no ia? “Mahele maikaʻi.” "Symmetrical." "Hemolele." He hiʻohiʻona nō ia i kapa ʻia e kekahi poʻe noiʻi "."

Eia nō naʻe, ke noi nei nā wahine he nui a keu i kēia hiʻohiʻona, a i ʻole ka manaʻo, i ka wā e pili ana i ke kuʻina cosmetic wahine, a i ʻole - e like me ka mea i hoʻolaha pinepine ʻia e like me -

"I ka manawa e nānā pū ana kaʻu kāne a me kahi hōʻike kīwī a hana kahi mea hoʻohenehene e pili ana i ka wahine me koʻu ʻano labia. Ua hoʻohaʻahaʻa wau i mua o kaʻu kāne. "

Akā ma mua o kā mākou wehe ʻana i kēia mau kumu hoʻoikaika kino ma hope o ka hoʻōla hou ʻana o ka pūhaka a me kahi e kū mai ai lākou, he mea pono e kūkā kamaʻilio mua i nā huaʻōlelo.

ʻO ka honua o ka hoʻohou hou ʻana o ka ʻōpū

ʻO ka huaʻōlelo wahine he moʻolelo hoʻohana hewa ʻole i ka pāpāho. ʻOiai ʻo "vagina" e pili ana i ke kahawai āpau o loko, hoʻohana pinepine ka poʻe iā ia e hoʻohuli i ka labia, clitoris, a i ʻole ka puʻu pubic. No laila, ua hiki mai ka huaʻōlelo "hoʻoulu hou ʻana i ka maʻi" e wehewehe i nā kaʻina hana hou aʻe ma mua o ka ʻenehana.

Ke nānā ʻoe i ka hoʻoulu hou ʻana o ka ʻōpū ma ka pūnaewele, ʻike ʻoe i nā kaʻina hana e kamaʻilio ai i nā ʻano ʻoki a me nā hana nonsurgical ma luna o nā genitalia wahine holoʻokoʻa. Pākuʻi ʻia kēia:

• labiaplasty
• vaginoplasty a i ʻole "hoʻolālā wahine hana lima"
• hymenoplasty (ʻo ia hoʻi "wahine hou")
• ka O-shot, a i ʻole G-spot amplification
• hoʻoliʻiliʻi hood clitoral
• hoʻomālama labial
• mons pubic hoʻēmi
• hoʻoliʻiliʻi a hoʻoliʻiliʻi paha o ka ʻōpū

ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau kaʻina hana, a me nā kumu e loaʻa ai iā lākou, nā mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa a me nā nīnau kūpono.

Ua ʻike ʻia nā mea noiʻi ua ʻimi a hana ʻia nā hana no nā mea aesthetic a i ʻole moekolohe a liʻiliʻi no ka pono olakino.

I kēia mau lā aku nei, ua hoʻolaha aku ka U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ke kūʻai aku ʻana i nā ʻōnaehana hoʻoulu hou i nā ʻōpū.

Ua kūʻai aku nā hoʻolaha i nā ʻōlelo hoʻohiki i nā wahine i kā lākou mau ʻenehana e "hoʻopaʻa a hōʻoluʻolu" i kā lākou puʻupuʻu. Ua kuhi ʻia kekahi i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i nā hōʻailona postmenopausal, e like me ka maloʻo a me ka ʻeha i ka wā o ka wahine.

Akā hoʻokahi pilikia. Hāʻawi ʻia i ka loaʻa ʻole o nā noi wā lōʻihi, ʻaʻohe mea hōʻoia i kēia mau therapies e hana maoli a palekana paha.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi anamanaʻo o nā makasina wahine 10 i nā kiʻi o nā wahine i ʻōlohelohe a i ʻole ka ʻaʻahu ʻana i nā kapa paʻa, ua uhi pinepine ʻia ka wahi pubic a i hōʻike ʻia paha ma ke ʻano he pelu, pelu pālahalaha ma waena o nā ʻūhā.

ʻOiai ke kōkua ʻana o ka FDA e kōkua i ke olakino o nā wahine e hoʻoponopono hou ʻia a palekana i ka neʻe ʻana i mua, ke loaʻa nei ka traction rejuvenation.

Hōʻike kahi hōʻike 2017 mai ka ʻAhahui ʻAmelika o nā Surgeons Plastika i ka hoʻonui ʻia o nā kaʻina labiaplasty e 39 pākēneka i ka 2016, me nā kahakaha he 12,000. Pili nā Labiaplasties i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka labia minora (labia o loko) no laila ʻaʻole lākou e kau ma lalo o ka labia majora (labia waho).

Eia naʻe, ke aʻo nei ke Kulanui ʻAmelika o nā Obstetricians a me nā Gynecologists (ACOG) i kēia mau kaʻina hana, e kāhea ana i ke kaʻina kūʻai - kikoʻī i nā mea e hōʻike nei i ka ʻae ʻia ʻana o kēia mau ʻoki a me nā hana maʻamau - hoʻopunipuni.

Ke hiki mai i nā moe kolohe, koi aku ʻo ACOG i nā wahine e hele i waena o kahi loiloi kūpono a e hoʻomaopopo pono ʻia no nā pilikia kūpono a me ka nele o nā hōʻike e kākoʻo ana i kēia mau kaʻina hana no ka mālama ʻana.

No ke aha e ʻimi ai nā wahine i kēlā ʻano hana?

Wahi a kahi noi 2014 i loko o ka puke pai ʻO ka Lapaʻau Lāki, ua ʻike ka poʻe noiʻi he hapa nui ka poʻe e ʻimi nei i ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi wahine no nā kumu naʻau, i hoʻokumu nui ʻia i ka noʻonoʻo ponoʻī.

Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo mai nā wahine i ke aʻo ʻana:

• "Ke inaina nei wau i kaʻu, inaina, inaina, HATE ia! Me he alelo lā e kūlia ana no ka lani! "
• "He aha inā lākou e haʻi aku i nā poʻe āpau i ke kula," ʻAe, nani ʻo ia akā aia kekahi mea hewa i lalo. "

Ua ʻae ʻo Kauka Karen Horton, kahi kauka lula ea ma Kapalakiko i loea i ka labiaplasties, hiki ke kipaku ʻia ke kaʻina hana e nā mea estetika.

"Makemake nā wahine i kā lākou labia minora i hoʻopili ʻia, maʻemaʻe, a maʻemaʻe, a ʻaʻole makemake e ʻike i ka labia minora e kau ana i lalo," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

Ua haʻi aku kekahi mea hoʻomanawanui iā ia "makemake wale ʻo ia e nani kona nānā ʻana ma lalo."

No hea mai ke kumu o ka 'prettier'?

Ma muli o ka nele o ka ʻike a me ke kamaʻilio wehe e pili ana i nā mea maʻamau ke hele mai i ka hiʻona a me ka hana o ka wahine wahine, ʻo ka ʻimi no kahi ʻōpala maikaʻi loa ʻaʻole paha pau.

Manaʻo paha kekahi mau wahine e kau inoa no nā kaʻina hana e like me labiaplasty a me ka O-shot e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia a lākou "inaina" a noʻonoʻo paha i nā mea maʻamau. A ma kahi e loaʻa ai ka manaʻo e inaina i ko lākou mau kino mai loko mai paha o nā kumuwaiwai, e like me nā makasina wahine e hōʻike nei i nā ea, nā ʻāpana kūpono ʻole.

Ke hoʻoulu nei paha kēia mau kiʻi i ka makaʻu ʻole a i ʻole nā ​​mea i manaʻo ʻia o ka mea "maʻamau" i nā mea nānā, a no laila ke hāʻawi nei i ka uptick i loko o nā kaʻina hana hoʻohou hou.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi anamanaʻo o nā makasina wahine 10 i nā kiʻi o nā wahine i ʻōlohelohe a i ʻole ka ʻaʻahu ʻana i nā kapa paʻa, ua uhi pinepine ʻia ka wahi pubic a i hōʻike ʻia paha ma ke ʻano he pelu, pelu pālahalaha ma waena o nā ʻūhā.

Poina e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i kahi labia o waho e kū ana. ʻAʻohe o kahi outline o ka labia majora.

Ke hana nei i ka labia me he mea liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻohe paha - kahi hōʻike kūpono ʻole - hiki ke hoʻomaopopo wahaheʻe a hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo o nā wahine e ʻike ʻia kā lākou labia.

"ʻAʻohe manaʻo o kaʻu poʻe maʻi i ka ʻano o ka 'normal' vulvas e like ai a ʻaʻole loaʻa ka manaʻo paʻa e pili ana i ke ʻano o kā lākou iho." - Annemarie Everett

ʻO kekahi poʻe, e like me Meredith Tomlinson, manaʻoʻiʻo i ka ponokala kiʻi ka mea e hoʻokau nei i ka ʻimi no ka puʻupuʻu maikaʻi a me ka ʻōpū.

"Ma hea kahi e ʻike nei mākou i kahi kokoke o nā wahi pilikino o kekahi wahine?" Nīnau ʻo ia.

A pololei paha ʻo ia. ʻO Pornhub, kahi pūnaewele punaewele punahele, i hoʻokipa ma mua o 28.5 biliona mau malihini kipa i ka makahiki i hala. I loko o kā lākou hōʻike makahiki, ua hōʻike lākou i ka ʻōlelo hulina i makemake nui ʻia ʻo 2017 ka "porn for women." Aia kahi ulu 359 pakeneka i waena o nā mea hoʻohana wahine.

Hōʻike ka poʻe loea mai King's College London i ka "pornification" o ka moʻomeheu o kēia au e hoʻokau nei paha i nā helu o ka hoʻoulu hou ʻana i nā ʻōpū, ʻoiai ke ʻike nei nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka porn ma o ka pūnaewele ma mua.

"ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo wau i ka manaʻo o ka 'vagina hemolele a me ka vulva" i hoʻokumu ʻia mai ka loaʻa ʻole o ka ʻike pololei e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka vulva, "wahi a Annemarie Everett, he loea olakino wahine i hōʻoia ʻia e ka papa a me ka pelvic a me nā peletric a me nā mea hoʻoponopono kino.

"Inā ʻo ka mea wale nō a mākou e kuhikuhi ai ʻo ka porn a me ka manaʻo maʻamau i manaʻo ʻia he mea liʻiliʻi a palupalu ke kino, a laila ʻo kekahi mea ma waho o ia mea he mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole ia, a ʻaʻohe a mākou ala e ʻaʻa ai i kēlā manaʻo," .

Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau hōʻike e hōʻike nei ʻaʻole paha e hewa ka porn.

ʻO kahi noi 2015 e pili ana i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka hōʻoluʻolu o ka wahine, ka hāmama i labiaplasty, a me nā mea hoʻokele o ko lākou hauʻoli a me ka hoihoi i ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi hou ʻana o nā ʻōpū. Ua ʻike lākou i ka nānā ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi e pili ana me ka hāmama i labiaplasty, ʻaʻole ia he wānana i ka hōʻoluʻolu o ka wahine.

Ua kānalua kēia mau hopena i ka manaʻo o ka ponokala kiʻi ka mea hoʻokele mua o ka hoʻoulu hou ʻana o ka ʻōpū, a "aia kekahi mau wānana hou aʻe e pono e hoʻopili ʻia i nā hiʻohiʻona e hiki mai ana."

ʻO nā wahine i ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne i helu i kā lākou makemake ʻole ma mua o nā makemake e pili ana i kā lākou puʻupuʻu a me kā lākou puʻupuʻu.

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ka porn wale nō ka hewa, ʻo ia paha kekahi o nā kumu hāʻawi. ʻO kekahi kumu hou aʻe paha ua ʻike wale nā ​​wahine i nā manaʻo o nā kāne e makemake ai a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia he maʻamau ke pili ʻana i ka ʻōpū a me ka puʻupuʻu.

"ʻAʻohe manaʻo o kaʻu poʻe maʻi i ka ʻano o ka 'normal' vulvas i manaʻo ʻia a kākaʻikahi ka manaʻo paʻa e pili ana i ke ʻano o kā lākou iho," wahi a Everett. "ʻO ka moʻomeheu, hoʻolōʻihi mākou i ka manawa i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hūnā i kā mākou anatomies a me ka manawa liʻiliʻi e hoʻolohe ai i ka poʻe ʻōpio i ke ʻano o ka maʻamau."

ʻO nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi e ulu nei i ka ʻike ʻana i kā Barbie kālai pono ʻia ʻana, ʻo ka "V" palakiko ma ke ʻano he hiʻohiʻona wale nō o ka "awelika" ʻo ka vulva paʻakikī e kōkua i nā mea.

Hiki i ke aʻo hou ke hoʻoikaika i ka maikaʻi o ke kino

Ua noi aku ʻo A i nā kāne 186 a me nā wahine 480 e pili ana i kā lākou makemake a makemake ʻole e pili ana i ka puʻupuʻu a me ka ʻōpua e hoʻomaopopo pono ai i nā ʻano i ka wahine wahine ma muli o nā leka moʻomeheu a me nā pilikanaka.

Nīnau ʻia nā mea komo, "He aha nā mea āu e makemake ʻole ai e pili ana i nā genital o nā wahine? Aia kekahi mau ʻano āu i makemake ai ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe? ” ʻO nā kāne i pane, ʻo ka hā o ka pane maʻamau ʻo "ʻaʻohe mea."

ʻO ka makemake ʻole ka honi, ukali ʻia e ka lauoho pubic.

ʻ saidlelo kekahi kanaka, "Pehea ʻoe e makemake ʻole ai iā lākou? He mea ʻole ka topology pākahi o kēlā me kēia wahine, aia mau ka nani a me ke kū hoʻokahi. "

Ua wehewehe pinepine ʻia nā kāne e makemake i nā genital like ʻole. "Makemake au i nā ʻano a me nā nui o ka labia a me ka clitoris," i pane ʻia e kekahi.

Ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi, ma nā kikoʻī kikoʻī loa, "Makemake au i nā lehelehe lōʻihi, laumania, symmetrical - kahi mea voluptuous, e hopu i ka maka a me ka manaʻo. Makemake au i nā clits nui, akā ʻaʻole wau e pīhoihoi ma luna o lākou e like me kaʻu e hana nei ma luna o nā lehelehe a me nā pale. Makemake au i ka puʻupuʻu nunui, wehe ʻia nā lehelehe, a hohonu i kona wahi. ”

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine ma mua o nā kāne i helu i kā lākou makemake ʻole ma mua o nā makemake e pili ana i kā lākou puʻupuʻu a me kā lākou puʻupuʻu, e alakaʻi ana i nā mea kākau e hoʻopau: ko lākou genital a kau i nā loiloi. ”

ʻEono pule a me $ 8,500 kālā o nā lilo ma waho o ka ʻeke ma hope, ua loaʻa ʻo Meredith i kahi maʻi ʻeha - a me kahi ʻano ola i hoʻōla ʻia iā ʻoe iho.

A ʻo nā leka maikaʻi ʻole, ke hiki mai lākou, hiki ke hoʻomāinoino a hōʻino hoʻi, keu hoʻi e noʻonoʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi ʻo V.

ʻO nā kāne i wehewehe i kā lākou makemake ʻole i huli i nā huaʻōlelo lokoino, e like me "nui," "flappy," "flabby," "protruding," a "lōʻihi loa." Ua hōʻike aku kekahi wahine ua weliweli kahi kāne moe kolohe e kāna mau lehelehe o loko nui a hoʻohana i ka huaʻōlelo "pale lole" e wehewehe iā lākou. Ua ʻōlelo kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, "Manaʻo wau he nui ke ʻena huluhulu i ka wahine, he mea ʻole ia i kāna wahi pilikino."

Inā hōʻike nā makasina i ka wahine wahine wahine maoli i ko lākou nui, liʻiliʻi, huluhulu, a lauoho ʻole, malia paha e lilo kēia mau ʻōlelo hōʻeha a ʻeha hoʻi i ka hopena.

Inā he ʻoi aku ka nui o ka ʻike e pili ana i ka nānā ʻana o ka wahine a me ka puʻu wahine i ko lākou wā e ola ana, maliʻa paha e hōʻeuʻeu ʻia kahi ala i ka ʻae ʻana i ke kino a me ka maikaʻi.

Ke loaʻa nei ke kaulike ma waena o nā pilikia kūwaho a me loko

Akā he aha ka mea e hana nei i kēia wā no nā hanauna i hele aku me ka ʻole o ka naʻau a ʻike paha i ka pono o ka hoʻōla hou ʻana i ka ʻōpū?

ʻO Meredith, i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua, e noʻonoʻo pono iā ia iho i kāna labia mai kona wā kamaliʻi. ʻO ke kikoʻī, no ka mea ʻo ka labia o loko e kau haʻahaʻa ana ma mua o kāna labia waho, he mau kenimika ma lalo o kāna labia majora.

"Manaʻo wau he ʻokoʻa wau, akā ua ʻike wau i ka wā ʻōlohelohe e pili ana i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe he ʻokoʻa maoli wau," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

ʻO ka hopena, pale ʻo Meredith i nā ʻauʻau ʻauʻau i nā koina āpau. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i makemake e makaʻala i kāna labia o loko e heʻe ana i waho no ka honua e ʻike. Ua manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke ʻaʻapo i kēlā mau palule yoga paʻa paʻa, no ka mea, hinted lākou i ke ʻano a me ka anatomy o kāna puʻupuʻu.

Ke komo ʻo ia i ka jeans, pono ʻo ia e hoʻohana i ka maxi pad, inā paha ʻo ka hoʻomaka o ka ʻalalā a me ke kahe o kāna labia. "I hoʻokahi manawa, ma hope o kahi lā o ke kaʻa paikikala," hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia, "ua ʻike au i ke kahe ʻana o ka labia. He ʻeha loa ia. ”

Ua pili kēia i kāna mau pilina ma mua, ʻoiai ʻo Meredith e hopohopo e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻōlohelohe a hoʻopā ʻia i lalo. He aha inā e haka pono lākou, nahā i kahi ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka e pili ana i ka 'pūlehu pipi wahine,' a i ʻole manaʻo he turn ia?

A ma hope o ka male ʻana, ua ʻike ʻo Meredith i ka hilahila ʻole.

"I ka manawa e nānā pū ana kaʻu kāne me kahi hōʻike kīwī a hana kekahi mea hoʻomākeʻaka e pili ana i ka wahine me koʻu ʻano labia," hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia. "Ua hoʻohaʻahaʻa wau i mua o kaʻu kāne."

Ma hope o ka heluhelu ʻana i kahi ʻatikala pūnaewele e pili ana i ka ʻoki lula, ua hina ʻo Meredith i ka huaʻōlelo ʻo labi labiana - kahi ʻano o ke kaʻina hana palaka e ʻoki ai i ka labia o loko o ka wahine.

"ʻO kēia ka manawa mua aʻu i ʻike ai aia kahi ala e hoʻololi ai i ka mea aʻu e hakakā nei a he nui ka poʻe i like ke kūlana me aʻu," hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia. "Maʻalahi ke manaʻo kaʻawale me kēia mau pilikia. Ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia kēia. ”

Ma hope koke iho o kāna ʻike pūnaewele ʻana, ua hele ʻo Meredith i kahi kūkā kūkākūkā me Kauka Karen Horton. "ʻAʻole aʻu kiʻi, akā ua hāʻawi ʻo Kauka Horton i mau manaʻo no kahi e ʻoki ai i kaʻu labia o loko," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

A ʻaʻohe kāne a Meredith i ʻōlelo a koi iā ia e alualu i kahi labiaplasty. "Kahaha ʻo ia akā kākoʻo," hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia. "Ua haʻiʻo ia iaʻu ʻaʻole ia e mālama a ʻaʻohe oʻu pono e hana ai, akā e kākoʻo ʻo ia iaʻu inā he aha."

I kekahi mau pule ma hope mai, ua loaʻa iā Meredith kahi labiaplasty, kahi kaʻina hana hoʻokahi lā āna i wehewehe ai ma ke ʻano he "maʻalahi, wikiwiki, a pololei," ʻoiai ʻo ka anesthesia āpau e koi ʻia. Paipai ʻo Kauka Horton e haʻalele i ka pule ma mua o ka hana, pale i ka hoʻoikaika kino no ʻekolu pule, a me ka hōʻole ʻana i ka moekolohe no ʻeono pule.

Akā ua ikaika ʻo Meredith e hoʻi i ka hana i ka lā aʻe.

ʻEono pule a me $ 8,500 kālā o nā lilo ma waho o ka ʻeke ma hope, ua loaʻa ʻo Meredith i kahi maʻi ʻeha - a me kahi ʻano ola i hoʻōla ʻia iā ʻoe iho.

"ʻAʻohe oʻu mea e minamina ai, a he waiwai loa ia," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "ʻAʻole au e peʻe hou. Manaʻo wau he maʻamau. ” A ʻae - komo i kēia manawa i ka lalo bikini, jeans me ka ʻole o ka maxi pad, a lele pinepine i kāna keke no nā holo lōʻihi.

Mai ke kaukō ʻana, ʻaʻole kūkā iki ʻo Meredith a me kāna kāne i ke kaʻina hana. "Ua hana piha wau naʻu iho. He hoʻoholo pilikino ia. "

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