5 mau ʻōkuhi e haki i ka makamae (a i ʻole Pāpā) i ka hopohopo

Anter

• E hoʻokaʻawale i nā hana
• Haʻalele
• E hoʻolilo i ka manawa kūikawā i mea nui
• Hoʻonui i ka manawa ʻohana
• Aloha nō iā lākou

Me he mea lā lanakila ka wahi ʻelua ... a pili i ka makua. He mea maʻamau no nā keiki e hoʻokaʻawale i hoʻokahi makua a hilahila hoʻi mai kekahi. I kekahi manawa, ʻeli lākou i ko lākou mau kuʻekuʻe wāwae a hōʻole e ʻae i ka makua ʻē aʻe e holo i ka ʻauʻau, e pahu i ka stroller, a i ʻole e kōkua i ka hana home.

Hoʻokumu nā keiki i nā mea paʻa i kā lākou mau kahu mua, a i nā manawa he nui, ʻo ia ka manaʻo o Mommy, ʻoiai ʻo Papa e like me ke kolu o ka huila. E hoʻomaha maʻalahi inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea ma waho e nānā ana - hoʻololi kēia mau hoʻopili i ka manawa - a he mau ʻanuʻu hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e kūkulu i ka hoʻopili.

ʻLelo Aʻo: Ke aloha palena ʻole a me ke ahonui e koi ʻia ana.

Pehea e haki ai i ka mommy (a makua paha) pulakaumaka:

E hoʻokaʻawale i nā hana

Hele nui kaʻu kāne. I kona nalowale ʻana, hana wau i nā mea āpau e mālama i ke olakino a hauʻoli hoʻi o kēia mau keiki a e holo mau ana ka hale. Manaʻo lākou he mana nui koʻu - kāhea wau ia kope. Ma kēlā a me kēia ʻaoʻao, mālama ʻo Mommy 24/7 no nā mahina i kēlā me kēia manawa.

I ka liʻiliʻi, ikaika kā lākou hoʻopili ʻana iaʻu. Akā ke hoʻi mai kaʻu kāne i ka home, hoʻokaʻawale mākou i nā hana a nā mākua i ka hiki. Loaʻa iā ia ka wā ʻauʻau ke home ʻo ia no ia, a heluhelu ʻo ia i ka puke mokuna i kā mākou 7 makahiki ke hiki. Lawe pū ʻo ia iā lākou i ka pāka a me nā ʻano huakaʻi ʻē aʻe.

ʻOiai ke pale aku kāu ipo aloha aloha i ka mua, he mea nui ka hāʻawi ʻana i kekahi o nā hana a nā mākua iā Pāpā ke hiki, ʻo ia hoʻi nā mea hōʻoluʻolu e kōkua i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi paʻa paʻa. Maikaʻi ke kaʻana like i ke aʻo a me ka hoʻonohonoho palena ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi, no laila ke kū mai kēlā pae kipi, ʻaʻole mau ka makua i ke kāne maikaʻi ʻole.

Kōkua ia e hana i kahi papahana. Hana ʻo Pāpā i ka ʻauʻau a me ka manawa hiamoe i kekahi mau pō, a ʻo Mommy ke alakaʻi i nā pō ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, kūʻē nā keiki i ka makua ʻē aʻe no ka mea makaʻu lākou i ka loaʻa ʻole o ka ʻike hōʻoluʻolu a lākou e ʻiʻini ai. Ke lawe aʻe ka makua ʻē aʻe a hoʻolauna i nā manaʻo leʻaleʻa hou, hiki ke hoʻoliʻiliʻi maoli i kēlā mau makaʻu a kōkua i kāu keiki e hoʻoponopono.

ʻO nā "tuba pupule" a Pāpā i makemake nui ʻia a puni kēia hale, ʻo ia nō.

Haʻalele

He paʻakikī i ka makua ʻē aʻe e lawe a loaʻa i ke kī o ka hana ʻana i nā mea ke kū mau ka makua makemake ma laila. E hele i waho o ka hale! Holo! ʻO kou manawa kūpono ia e hoʻomaha ai i ka wā kūpono i ka wā e hōʻike ai ka makuakāne (a i ʻole mommy) i nā mea i waho.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, e waimaka ka mua, a malia paha he kūʻē ikaika, akā i ka manawa e lawe ai ka makuakāne lapuwale i ka lumi kuke a hana i ka ʻaina kakahiaka no ka ʻaina awakea, e huli paha ka waimaka i ka ʻakaʻaka. E waiho ʻo ia. Hiki iā ia ke mālama iā ia.

E hoʻolilo i ka manawa kūikawā i mea nui

Pono kēlā me kēia mākua e hoʻonohonoho i kahi lā o kēlā me kēia pule me kēlā me kēia keiki. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka hale a hoʻolālā paha i kahi huakaʻi nui. ʻO ka mea e pono ai kāu keiki i kēlā me kēia pule (wānana) manawa me kēlā me kēia mākua kahi āna e koho ai i ka hana a leʻaleʻa i ka manawa kū ʻole me kēlā me kēia mākua.

E nā mākua, e hoʻopau i kēlā mau pale a hūnā i kāu kelepona i kahi drawer. ʻO ka manawa kūikawā ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ke koena o ka honua i ka wā e hāʻawi ana ʻoe i 100% o kou nānā i kāu keiki no hoʻokahi hola.

Hoʻonui i ka manawa ʻohana

Noho mākou i loko o kahi honua hana me nā kuleana he nui. Hiki ke paʻakikī ke komo i ka manawa ʻohana maʻamau ke lilo nā koi o ka hana, ke kula, a me nā hana he nui no nā keiki he nui.

E hana ana nō. E hoʻolilo i ka pō pāʻani ʻohana i mea nui i nā hopena pule. E koho i kēlā me kēia keiki i kahi pāʻani. E ʻike i ka manawa no hoʻokahi pāʻina ʻohana ma kēlā me kēia lā, a e ʻike pono aia a pau o ʻoukou, ma ke kino a me ka naʻau. (Kaha: ʻAʻole pono ka ʻaina awakea.)

ʻO ka nui o ka manawa o ka ʻohana e hauʻoli ai kāu keiki, ʻo ka nui o ka hoʻomaka o ka hana ʻana o kou ʻohana ma ke ʻano he anakahi.

Aloha nō iā lākou

ʻO ka hōʻole ʻana i kahi keiki hiki ke ʻeha maoli. Aloha nō i kēlā keiki. E ninini ma nā ʻūlū a me nā honi a me nā hoʻolaha o ke aloha, a hoʻokau i kēlā me kēia auneke o ke ahonui i loaʻa iā ʻoe.

Ke aloha mākou i kā mākou poʻe keiki me ka ʻole o ka hōʻike, hōʻike mākou iā lākou aia mākou ma laila no lākou no nā mea āpau.

ʻO ka nui o kā lākou ʻōlelo i loko i ka ʻōlelo e noho mau ana ʻo Mommy lāua ʻo Pāpā, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka hoʻopili ʻana a lākou me kēlā me kēia mākua.