He aha ke ʻano o kou moekolohe ʻana

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• No ke aha e uē ai kekahi poʻe ~ nui loa i ka wā moe
• No ke aha e kanikau ole ai kekahi poe
• ʻO nā leo maikaʻi loa = nā kani ʻoiaʻiʻo
• Pehea e ʻike ai i kāu kani ʻoiaʻiʻo ma kahi moe
• 1. Hoʻolohe i nā leo moe kolohe o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
• 2. ʻōniu.
• 3. Hoʻokani pila.
• 4. E kau i ka porn ma ke kua.
• 5. E kia i kou hanu.
• 6. E kamaʻilio me kāu hoa!
• Ka Laina Lalo
• Nānā no

Moan a mew. Grunt, groan, gasp, a i ʻole gurgle. Uā a [hoʻokomo i ke kani o ka hāmau]. ʻO nā kani a ka poʻe e hana ai i ka moekolohe, maikaʻi, ʻokoʻa e like me ka poʻe iā lākou iho. Eia nō naʻe, me nā rom-com a pau, nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni maikaʻi loa i helu ʻia ma XXX, a me nā haʻalulu piha i waho, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo iki iā ʻoe iho e pili ana i kāu uē wahine - a nele paha.

Inā paha ʻoe e pili ana i kēlā kani leo e kani ana i ka wā e kani ana, a i ʻole makemake ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa paʻa i kou mau lehelehe i luna ʻoiai kou mau lehelehe i lalo ... ʻaʻole, eia mākou e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe i kahi mea hūnā.

Ma ʻaneʻi, hoʻokaʻawale nā ​​​​poʻe loea wahine i ke kumu o ka uē ʻana o kekahi poʻe a ʻaʻole ʻē aʻe kekahi - a no ke aha ke kumu o ka wehe ʻana i kāu leo ​​wahine maoli ke kī i ka moe maikaʻi.

No ke aha e uē ai kekahi poʻe ~ nui loa i ka wā moe

E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kaniʻuhū āu e hoʻokuʻu ai ma hope o kou hele ʻana i ka lumi ʻauʻau ma hope o ka lōʻihi o kahi huakaʻi hele. A i ʻole, ʻo ka uwē maʻalahi e hele pū me ka hoʻohemo ʻana i kou mau wāwae o nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae ma hope o kahi lā o ka ʻaʻahu. "ʻO ka hana ʻana i nā leo he ala kūlohelohe ia, he ala pinepine hoʻi e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ka huhū piʻo," wahi a Jill McDevitt Ph.D. kamaaina sexologist ma CalExotics — a ʻo ia pū kekahi me ka ukiuki moekolohe pent-up. ʻO ke kumu, i kekahi manawa e ʻūmū ʻoe no ka mea he manaʻo maikaʻi ia, inā he moan moekolohe a i ʻole nā ​​mea ʻē aʻe.

ʻO kekahi hiki ke uē nei ʻoe i ka wā e moe kolohe ai. "He mea paahana kamaʻilio maoli nō ia," wahi a McDevitt. "ʻAe ʻo Moaning iā ʻoe e alakaʻi i kāu hoa i ke ala kūpono me ka hoʻohana ʻole ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo - he ala ʻē aʻe ia o ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻe, ʻē, ʻoi aku o kēlā!"

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻaoʻao, hōʻike ka noiʻi i kekahi manawa nā leo wahine ʻaʻole e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i kāu leʻaleʻa ponoʻī, akā e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa i kāu hoa. No ka laʻana, kahi noiʻi liʻiliʻi 2010 o nā kāne heterosexual i paʻi ʻia ma ka puke pai Pūnaewele o ka moekolohe ʻike ʻoi aku ka leo nui o nā wahine ma mua o ka piko o kā lākou kāne pakanā. Wahi a nā kānaka noiʻi, hōʻike kēia ma ka liʻiliʻi he mau "peku" kekahi mau wahine i mea e kōkua ai i ka piko o kā lākou hoa.

He mea maikaʻi ʻole paha kēlā? I kekahi mau hihia, ʻae. Ma luna o ʻelua hapakolu o nā wahine i loko o ka haʻawina e hōʻike ana i ka uē hoʻopunipuni no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i hōʻoluʻolu a ʻoluʻolu paha i ka wahine. ʻO ke ʻano, ma mua o ka kamaʻilio ʻana i kā lākou hoa pili i ke ʻano o ka leʻaleʻa o ke kāne iā lākou a i ʻole makemake lākou e hoʻōki, ua hoʻāʻo lākou e "holo wikiwiki" ka wahine.

Ua ʻōlelo ikaika ʻo McDevitt (!) e kūʻē i ka uē ʻana no kēia mau kumu ʻelua. No ka mea, he mea hoʻoikaika maikaʻi ke kaniʻuhū ʻana, inā e hana ana kāu hoa i kekahi mea a ke kanikau nei ʻoe me he mea lā e hana ana lākou i kahi mea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kiʻekiʻe, ʻo ia ke "hoʻomaʻamaʻa" i kāu hoa e hoʻomau i ka hana ʻana pēlā- no laila mea, wehewehe ʻo ia. ʻO ke kanikau. (Pili: ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī no ka Orgasm Kupaianaha. Hiki i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke kōkua).

ʻO kēlā ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole ʻo ka uē hoʻopunipuni i ka wā moe mau he mea maikaʻi ʻole, e like me kā McDevitt e hāʻawi nei i kahi manaʻolana hou aʻe: "ʻO ka hana ʻana i nā mea e maikaʻi ai ka manaʻo o kāu hoa oe maikaʻi nō hoʻi, "i ʻōlelo ai ʻo ia. ʻO ka manaʻo ʻana, inā lawe ka moaning hoʻopunipuni i ka leʻaleʻa o kāu pakanā a lawe iā ʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa, ʻaʻole ia e like me ke kaumaha ʻana iā ia iho me he mea lā he waiwai ke alo.

Hele ʻo Ditto inā ʻoe i hoʻokalakupua iā ʻoe iho a ke kani nei nā leo kaniʻuhū no ka mea kōkua ka mea hoʻolohe i kāu hoa i laila. E like me kā McDevitt e kau nei, ʻo ka hana ʻana i nā mea e kōkua ai i ka leʻaleʻa o kāu hoa ʻaʻole ia he ʻano maʻamau (a i ʻole maʻamau hoʻi!) Kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo paha ʻoe a me kāu hoa i ka maikaʻi o ka kamaʻilio ʻana i nā mea āu e pono ai e loaʻa ai ka leʻaleʻa, wahi āna.

No ke aha e kanikau ole ai kekahi poe

E akāka loa: ʻAʻole pono ka moekolohe ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka wahine. "ʻOi aku ka mālie o kekahi poʻe i ka wā o ka moekolohe, a he ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoiai ke loaʻa iā lākou ka moekolohe ʻoi loa o ko lākou ola," wahi a McDevitt.

Inā ʻoe maoli (kūlohelohe ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo nui ma aneʻi) ma ka ʻaoʻao mālie i ka wā o ka moekolohe, mai makaʻu. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu loa kāu kāne ma mua o kāu mau hoa leo nui. Pēlā nō, inā ʻaʻole hana kolohe kāu hoa i ka wā o coitus, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole lākou e leʻaleʻa iā lākou iho. (E pili pū ana: 5 mau mea e pono ai nā kānaka a pau e ʻike e pili ana i ke kāne a me ka launa pū ʻana, e like me ka mea lapaʻau pilina)

ʻOiai ʻo ka uē kekahi ala e kamaʻilio ai i ka wā moe, ʻaʻole ia wale ke ala, wehewehe ʻo McDevitt. ʻO nā hōʻailona hoʻolohe ʻole e like me ka nānā ʻana i ka maka a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kou mau lima e hoʻokuke aku i kāu hoa, a i ʻole e huki iā lākou a kokoke, a ʻo nā ʻōlelo hoʻolohe e like me ke kamaʻilio ʻana a i ʻole ka hanu nui ʻana, hiki ke aʻo (a ʻoi aku paha!) Malia paha, kanaka ʻaʻole uē no ka mea ke hoʻohana nei lākou i kēia mau mea kamaʻilio ʻē aʻe, ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

Eia nō naʻe, i kekahi mau hihia, ʻaʻole ʻū ka poʻe no ka mea no lākou kū ana lakou iho mai ke kaniuhu. "Hoʻomaʻalulu ka poʻe he nui i ko lākou kaniʻuhū a me ka namunamu i loko o nā kaniʻuhū a me ke kaniʻuhū, a i ʻole kani iki paha," wahi a Jess O'Reilly, Ph.D., ka mea hoʻokipa o ka @SexWithDrJess Podcast.

No ke aha mai? Malia paha ua maʻa ʻoe i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kou lehelehe ma hope makahiki o ka paʻi ʻana me ka mālie i hiki i ka hale piha a i ʻole ka moekolohe ʻana ma nā wahi āu e makemake ʻole ai e lohe nā poʻe ʻē aʻe (e noʻonoʻo: lumi moe kamaliʻi a i ʻole ke keʻena moe o ke koleke). Akā, i kekahi mau hihia, no ka mea ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ʻoe manaʻo ʻia e noho mālie i loko o ka lumi moe, wahi a O'Reilly.

ʻO ka pilikia me kēlā? ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana i kāu pane leo moe kolohe e pili ana i kou ʻano hanu. "ʻO ka hanu ʻana a me ka hoʻololi ʻana e hele mai me ka noho mālie hiki ke hopena i ke kahe o ke koko a me ka oxygenation o nā mākala, ka mea e hoʻopilikia i ka pane orgasmic," wahi a O'Reilly. ʻO ke kahe o ke koko i nā genital (kikoʻī nā puʻupuʻu pelvic papahele) kahi ʻāpana nui o ka hoʻāla ʻana-ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ka mea e ʻae ai i ka ʻōpū e hoʻopulu iā ia iho, wehewehe ʻo ia. No laila inā ʻoe e paʻa nei i kou hanu a i ʻole ke kaohi ʻana i ka moʻo o ka moekolohe, hiki iā ʻoe ke keakea i kāu leʻaleʻa ponoʻī.

ʻO nā leo maikaʻi loa = nā kani ʻoiaʻiʻo

ʻO ka hope, inā ʻoe kūlohelohe he uē nui a i ʻole ʻoluʻolu, ke hana pololei nei ʻoe! "He mea maʻamau ka hana ʻana i nā leo ma ke ʻano he hopena kūlohelohe i ka leʻaleʻa, a ʻo ka hana ʻole ʻana i kekahi leo ma ke ʻano he hopena kūlohelohe i ka leʻaleʻa he mea maʻamau," wahi a McDevitt. Eia hou, ʻo ka huaʻōlelo koʻikoʻi ma ʻaneʻi ʻo "maoli." (No ka moʻolelo, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hapanui o nā mea āpau i kou moekolohe ke ʻole ʻoe e hana kūlohelohe.)

Ke loaʻa ʻoe i ka pilikia ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e pāʻani i ke ʻano ʻo Moaning Muse a i ʻole Silent Sex Master no ka mea ʻo ia nō kou manaʻo manaʻo ʻia e kani. A no hea mai kēia manaʻo? (Ding, ding, ding) Pūnaewele. "Nui ka poʻe e nānā i ka porn, a laila mimic i kēlā mau leo ​​i ka wā o ko lākou ola ponoʻī ʻana no ka mea manaʻo lākou pēlā lākou e kani ai," wahi a O'Reilly. ʻO ka pilikia, makemake ʻia ka porn e hoʻokipa, ʻaʻole e aʻo iā ʻoe pehea e moekolohe ai pehea e kani ai i ka wā o ka moekolohe, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. (E nānā ana i ka porn e aʻo i ke kani ʻana o ka hanky-panky "pono" i ka nānā ʻana Ke Aliʻi Tiga e aʻo pehea e aʻo ai i nā tigers.)

I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ka porn, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e aʻo iā ʻoe pehea ʻoe e "manaʻo" ai e kani. TD; LR: ʻAʻohe kani "pono". ʻOiai he ʻoiaʻiʻo lākou, ʻaʻohe hewa a pololei. (Maliʻa paha ke kani o kāu lawelawe leʻaleʻa me he moan wahine lā - a maikaʻi nō hoʻi.)

"ʻO kāu mau leo ​​kūlohelohe (a i ʻole nā ​​​​leo ʻole) he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o kāu pane ʻana i ka moekolohe," wahi a O'Reilly. "Inā ʻoe e censoring iā lākou a i ʻole faking iā lākou a hoʻolaʻa i ka ikehu iā hana ʻO ka mālie a me ka leo nui ma kahi moe, e hoʻopilikia ʻia kou leʻaleʻa a me kou orgasm."

Pehea e ʻike ai i kāu kani ʻoiaʻiʻo ma kahi moe

Inā ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa nei i kāu mau kani a hoʻopunipuni paha iā lākou ma kahi moe, hiki i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i kāu leo ​​ʻoiaʻiʻo.

1. Hoʻolohe i nā leo moe kolohe o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

ʻO nā hemahema, ʻo nā kani wahine wale nō āu e ʻike ai ka poʻe āu i hiamoe ai. (A i ʻole, ʻo kou hoapapa, hoanoho, a i ʻole kēlā kiʻina porn āu e hoʻi ai.) hōkeo ʻikepili o ~ nā leo uʻi maoli ~.

Hoʻolauna: ʻO ka Orgasm Sound Library, kahi kiʻi kiʻi o nā leo wahine (ʻoiaʻiʻo) mai nā kānaka maoli ʻike ʻole i hiki i kekahi ke hoʻouka ma ka pūnaewele. E hoʻolohe i nā leo like ʻole i hoʻouka ʻia e aʻo ai pehea e kani ai nā poʻe āpau āpau i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kā lākou hae freak.

2. ʻōniu.

E ʻike ai i nā kani kūlohelohe iā ʻoe me ka aʻo, ua ʻōlelo ʻo O'Reilly e hoʻopā iā ʻoe iho. "I ka wā masturbation, ua hoʻoneʻe ʻia ke kaomi hana (hoʻokumu ʻia) a pau, no laila ʻo ia ka manawa kūpono e ʻae ai i kāu mau leo ​​e puka me ka ʻole o ka pale ʻana," wahi āna. "Hanu, ʻū, ʻū, a mai hoʻoponopono i kāu kani e kani ai wahine a kāne paha ... e kahe wale lākou," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

Ke ʻoluʻolu ʻoe me kāu mau leo ​​ponoʻī i ka manawa o ka moekolohe, e lilo ʻoe i ʻoluʻolu me kāu mau leo ​​ponoʻī i ka manawa o ka moekolohe. (Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e loooove i ka masturbating, e kōkua kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.)

Pono e ʻōlelo ʻia: He ʻokoʻa nā ʻike like ʻole a me ka pāʻani pāʻani. No laila, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke noho maʻamau (aia kēlā huaʻōlelo!) hāmau i ka wā e masturbate ai ʻoe, akā e hoʻokani leo i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana—a i ʻole, wahi a Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D., ke kaukaʻi o ka moekolohe kanaka ma ke Kulanui o New York a me ka wahine sexpert. no ka brand LELO. "ʻO ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe he olakino," wahi āna.

3. Hoʻokani pila.

I ka wā o ka moekolohe a i ʻole ka hui ʻana, "inā e lohe ana i kāu mau leo ​​mua ponoʻī e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe iho, e hoʻohuli i nā mele e hoʻomoe hapa iā lākou," ʻōlelo ʻo O'Reilly. (Wahi wale nō: ʻO ka hopena pule, nā panakō, a me PartyNextDoor he mea kupaianaha no ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i ke ʻano.)

4. E kau i ka porn ma ke kua.

ʻIke ʻoe ke kāohi nei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho? "E pāʻani pū paha ʻoe i ka porn ma ke kua i hiki i kēlā [mau leo ​​ke hoʻohui ʻia me] nā leo o kāu hoa ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kāu ponoʻī, i ʻōlelo ʻo O'Reilly." Me he mea lā e hoʻokumu ana i kahi orchestra o nā leo o erotica. "

No kēia, "paipai ikaika wau e haʻalele i ka porn mainstream, e koho ma kahi o ka ethical a i ʻole ka amateur porn ma kahi o," wahi a Vrangalova, ka mea hana hiʻohiʻona e ʻoliʻoli nei iā lākou iho i kahi ala maoli, e nānā iā Bellesa, CrashPadSeries, a me Frolic. ʻO wau. E hoʻomanaʻo wale: Ke kaomi nei ʻoe i ka pāʻani e kōkua iā ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu i ka hana ʻana i kāu mau leo ​​ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā leo e hoʻohālike. (Psst. Aia kekahi ton o ka manuahi, ala, pūnaewele erotica āu e aloha ai.)

5. E kia i kou hanu.

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i ka walaʻau, e hanu wale! Sure, hanu ≠ uē. Akā ʻo ka hanu ʻana i ka walaʻau a pili i ka leʻaleʻa, e like me O'Reilly.

"ʻO ka hanu kaumaha ka mea hoʻokomo nui i ka hana ʻana i nā rompus hou aku," wahi a McDevitt.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo me kēia mau hana hanu 3 no ka wahine maikaʻi. A i ʻole, e nānā paha ʻoe i kēia mp3 kahi o ka loea tantra Barbara Carrellas, he sexologist hōʻoia a me ka mea kākau o Urban Tantra: Ka Moe Laa No Ka Iwakalua Kumakahi Keneturi hele iā ʻoe ma ka hana tantric o ka hanu erotic, i kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu. (Pili: He aha ka wahine Tantric, a pehea ʻoe e hana ai)

6. E kamaʻilio me kāu hoa!

Hiki i nā mea ʻelua ke hoʻopaʻa i kāu ʻupena a me ka ʻuwā ʻana ke lilo i mea leʻaleʻa inā ʻaʻole he ʻoiaʻiʻo, no laila inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono e pili ana i nā leo āu e hana nei a i ʻole hana, pono ia e lawe pū me kāu hoa.

"E noi no ka hōʻoia e ʻoluʻolu a paipai ʻia kāu walaʻau moekolohe i ko lākou hanohano mua," wahi a McDevitt. "A i ʻole, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou ʻo kou noho mālie ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa ka manawa o kou ola."

Ka Laina Lalo

Inā ʻoe e kani e like Ooohh ahh, ah ah ah, ooo. O O O Oh YEAH, [noho mālie], a i ʻole ma waena, he mea maʻamau!

No laila ma mua o ka walaʻau ʻana ma kahi o kahi walaʻau no ka mea ʻo ia ka mea āu e manaʻo ai e hana, "e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe iho ke pili i nā walaʻau āu e hana ai ʻaʻole paha e hana," wahi a O'Reilly. "Ma hope o nā mea āpau, e hoʻokuʻu ana iā ʻoe iho i mea nui i ka hoʻowahāwahā manaʻo."

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