Pehea wau e hālāwai ai me kekahi e lilo i wahaheu pathological?

Anter

• Ke wehewehe nei i kahi mea wahahe pathological
• ʻAʻohe o kā lākou pono hoʻopunipuni
• ʻO nā moʻolelo a lākou e haʻi pinepine ai, paʻakikī, a kikoʻī
• Hōʻike maʻamau lākou iā lākou iho me he meʻe a mea ʻino paha
• Manaʻo lākou i kekahi manawa i ka wahaheʻe a lākou e haʻi ai
• Wahaheʻe Pathological vs. wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo
• Ka wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo
• Wahaheʻe Pathological
• Keʻike nei i kahi mea wahahe pathological i kou ola
• Pehea e kū ai i kahi mea wahahe pathological
• No ke aha e hoʻohiwahiwa ai ka poʻe wahahe pathological i ka poʻe
• Ke hōʻike nei i kahi mea wahahe pathological
• Ke mālama nei i ka wahahe pathological
• Lawe aku

Wahahee Pathological

ʻO ka moe Pathological, i ʻike ʻia hoʻi me ka mitomania a me ka pseudologia fantastica, ka hana maʻamau o ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka wahaheʻe maʻamau.

ʻAʻole like me ka haʻi ʻana i ka wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo i kekahi manawa i mea e hōʻeha ai i ka manaʻo o kekahi a i ʻole ke hele ʻana i kahi pilikia, e wahaheʻe paha kahi mea wahahe pathological no ke kumu ʻole. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻonāukiuki a paʻakikī paha ke ʻike i ka mea e hana ai inā manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe ua hui ʻoe me kekahi.

ʻOiai ʻike ʻia ka wahaheʻe pathological no hoʻokahi kenekulia, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia kahi wehewehe ākea ākea o ke ʻano.

ʻO kekahi wahaheʻe pathological e hopena ʻia mai kahi maʻi noʻonoʻo, e like me ka maʻi antisocial pilikino (i kekahi manawa i kapa ʻia ʻo sociopathy), ʻoiai ʻaʻohe kumu olakino o kekahi no ka hana.

Ke wehewehe nei i kahi mea wahahe pathological

ʻO ka mea wahahe pathological kahi mea wahaheʻe koi. ʻOiai paha he nui nā kumu kūpono no ka wahahe pathological, ʻaʻole maopopo iki ke kumu e wahaheʻe ai kekahi i kēia ala.

Ua haʻi ʻia kekahi mau wahaheʻe i mea e hōʻike ʻia ai ka mea wahahe pathological i koa, a i ʻole e ʻae a hoʻokupu paha, ʻoiai ʻaʻole he mea e loaʻa ai mai nā wahaheʻe ʻē aʻe.

Manaʻo kekahi e pili ana nā pilikia e pili ana i ka ʻōnaehana waena i kekahi e moe wahaheʻe i pathological.

ʻO ka wahaheʻe hōʻeuʻeu kekahi ʻano i ʻike ʻia no kekahi mau ʻano pilikino, e like me ka maʻi ʻano antisocial. Hiki paha i nā ʻeha a poʻo paha ke poʻo i ke ʻano o ka moe pathological, a me kahi ʻano ʻē ma ka lakio hormon-cortisol.

ʻO kahi o ka mea e hana i ka lolo ke wahaheʻe ʻoe ʻike ʻo ka nui o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole o ka haʻi waha ʻana o ke kanaka, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi a me ka pinepine o ka wahaheʻe ʻana. Ua hōʻike pū ʻia nā hopena e pili ana ka hoihoi ponoʻī i ka pono ʻole.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole i nānā kikoʻī ke aʻo ʻana i ka wahahe pathological, hāʻawi paha ia i kekahi ʻike i ke kumu o ka wahaheʻe pathological wahaheʻe e like me ka maʻalahi e like me lākou.

ʻO nā mea aʻe kekahi o nā ʻano ʻepekema a me nā ʻano o ka wahahee pathological.

ʻAʻohe o kā lākou pono hoʻopunipuni

ʻOiai e wahaheʻe paha ke kanaka e hōʻalo i kahi kūlana hōʻoluʻolu ʻole, e like me ka hilahila a i ʻole ke hele ʻana i kahi pilikia, haʻi wahahe kahi pathological wahaheʻe a i ʻole nā ​​moʻolelo i loaʻa ʻole kahi pono pahuhopu.

Hiki i nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana ke loaʻa kēia mea hoʻohoka nui loa no ka mea ʻaʻole kū ka mea wahaheʻe e kiʻi i kekahi mea mai kā lākou wahaheʻe.

ʻO nā moʻolelo a lākou e haʻi pinepine ai, paʻakikī, a kikoʻī

ʻO nā wahaheʻe pathological haʻi moʻolelo nui. ʻO kā lākou wahaheʻe e kikoʻī loa a kala.

ʻOiai maopopo leʻa i luna, hiki i ka mea wahahe pathological ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo loa.

Hōʻike maʻamau lākou iā lākou iho me he meʻe a mea ʻino paha

Me ka lilo ʻana i meʻe a i ʻole mea make paha i kā lākou mau moʻolelo, makemake nā wahaheʻe pathological e haʻi wahaheʻe e like me ke ʻano o ka mahalo ʻana, ke aloha, a me ka ʻae ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

Manaʻo lākou i kekahi manawa i ka wahaheʻe a lākou e haʻi ai

Wahi a kahi wahahe pathological wahaheʻe a me nā moʻolelo e hāʻule ma kahi ma waena o ka wahaheʻe noʻonoʻo a me ka hoʻopunipuni. Manaʻoʻiʻo lākou i kekahi manawa i kā lākou wahaheʻe ponoʻī.

He paʻakikī e ʻike pehea e hana ai me kahi mea wahahe pathological ʻaʻole paha e noʻonoʻo mau i kā lākou wahaheʻe. Hana pinepine kekahi ia mau mea i manaʻoʻiʻo ʻia ka poʻe loea ʻaʻole paha lākou e ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka mea maoli a me ka fiction ma hope o kekahi manawa.

Hoʻokumu pū kekahi nā mea wahahe pathological i nā mea hana maoli. Kūleʻa lākou a ʻike i ka hana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke kamaʻilio. He mea hana a kumu lākou, a me nā mea noʻonoʻo wikiwiki i hōʻike ʻole i nā hōʻailona maʻamau o ka wahaheʻe, e like me ka hoʻomaha lōʻihi a i ʻole ka hōʻalo ʻana i ka ʻike maka.

Ke nīnau ʻia nā nīnau, hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo nui me ka maopopo ʻole a pane ʻole paha i ka nīnau.

Wahaheʻe Pathological vs. wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo

Wahaheʻe ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i kekahi manawa a i kekahi. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi mua e haʻi mākou i ka awelika o 1.65 wahaheʻe i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau wahaheʻe ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he "wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo."

ʻO nā wahaheʻe pathological, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, haʻi mau ʻia a maʻa mau. Kūleʻa lākou i ka ʻole a hoʻomau mau.

Ka wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo

ʻO nā wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo kahi manawa a noʻonoʻo ʻia:

• fibs liʻiliʻi
• pōʻino ʻole
• me ka manao kolohe ole
• haʻi ʻia e mālama i ka manaʻo o haʻi a hōʻalo paha i ka pilikia

ʻO kekahi mau laʻana o ka wahaheʻe keʻokeʻo:

• e ʻōlelo ana he ʻeha kou poʻo e haʻalele ai i ka hele ʻana i kahi hālāwai
• e ʻōlelo ana ua uku ʻoe i ka bila kelepona ke hoʻopoina ʻoe i ka uku ʻana
• wahaheʻe e pili ana i ke kumu o kou lohi ʻana i ka hana

Wahaheʻe Pathological

ʻO nā wahahe pathological:

• haʻi pinepine ʻia a koi ʻia hoʻi
• haʻi ʻia no ke kumu a me ka loaʻa ʻole o ka loaʻa
• mau ana
• haʻi ʻia e hōʻike i ka mea haʻi i ke ʻano heroic a i ʻole ka mea i hōʻino ʻia
• ʻaʻole e keakea ʻia e ka hewa a i ʻole ka makaʻu i ka ʻike ʻana

Nā laʻana o ka moe pathological:

• ke hana nei i kahi mōʻaukala wahaheʻe, e like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua hoʻokō a i ʻike paha lākou i kahi mea i loaʻa ʻole iā lākou
• ke koi nei he maʻi hoʻoweliweli ko lākou
• haʻi wahaheʻe e hoʻopūʻiwa i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana pili lākou i kekahi kanaka kaulana

Keʻike nei i kahi mea wahahe pathological i kou ola

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea wahahe pathological. ʻOiai he ʻano kanaka ke ʻano kānalua i kekahi mea i ʻike ʻia he "maikaʻi loa ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo," ʻaʻole ʻo nā wahaheʻe āpau i haʻi ʻia e nā mea wahahe pathological i luna loa.

ʻ telllelo pū lākou i nā wahaheʻe "maʻamau" i haʻi ʻia e kekahi me ka ʻole o kahi koi koi e wahaheʻe.

Eia kekahi mau hōʻailona e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi mea wahahe pathological:

• 'ōlelo pinepine lākou e pili ana i nā ʻike a me nā hoʻokō ʻana i hōʻike ʻia he heroic
• ʻo lākou nō ka mea i hōʻino ʻia i ka nui o kā lākou mau moʻolelo, e ʻimi pinepine nei i ke aloha
• kā lākou moʻolelo makemake e elaborate a kikoʻī loa
• pane lākou me ka wehewehe a me ka wikiwiki i nā nīnau, akā maʻa mau nā pane a hāʻawi ʻole i kahi pane i ka nīnau
• he mau mana ʻokoʻa paha kā lākou o ka moʻolelo like, i kumu mai ka hoʻopoina ʻana i nā kikoʻī o mua

Pehea e kū ai i kahi mea wahahe pathological

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea wahahe pathological hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki nui no ka mea he mea ʻole ka wahaheʻe.

Hiki iā ia ke hoʻāʻo i ka hilinaʻi i kekahi pilina a paʻakikī hoʻi i ke kamaʻilio maʻalahi ʻana me ke kanaka.

Eia kekahi mau kuhikuhi e kōkua iā ʻoe e lawelawe i kahi kamaʻilio me kahi mea wahahe pathological:

Mai haʻalele i kou huhū

ʻOiai he mea hoʻonāukiuki paha ia, he mea nui ʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu i kou huhū iā ʻoe ke kūʻē i kahi mea wahahe pathological. E kākoʻo a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi, akā kūpaʻa.

Lana ka hōʻole

ʻO ka mea wahaheʻe pathologically paha ka manawa e pane mua me ka wahaheʻe. Inā ʻoe e kūʻē iā lākou e pili ana i kā lākou wahaheʻe, hiki paha iā lākou ke hōʻole.

Ua huhū paha lākou a hōʻike i ka haʻalulu i ka hoʻopiʻi.

E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole pili iā ʻoe

He paʻakikī ʻaʻole e lawe i ka wahaheʻe iā ʻoe iho, akā ʻo ka wahahe ʻole pathological ʻaʻole pili iā ʻoe. Hoʻokele ʻia ke kanaka e kahi maʻi pilikino, nā hopohopo, a me nā manaʻo haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa.

E kākoʻo

Ke kamaʻilio nei i ke kanaka e pili ana i kā lākou wahaheʻe, e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou ʻaʻole pono lākou e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohoka iā ʻoe. E haʻi iā lākou e mahalo ana iā lākou no ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo lākou.

Mai hoʻopili iā lākou

Ke ʻike ʻoe i ka mea wahaheʻe, mai hoʻokomo iā lākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, i hiki ke paipai iā lākou e kāpae i ka wahaheʻe i kēlā manawa.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo iā lākou ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio ke hana pono ʻole lākou.

Hōʻike i ke kōkua olakino

Me ka hoʻokolokolo ʻole a hilahila ʻole paha, e manaʻo e noʻonoʻo lākou i ke kōkua ʻoihana a hōʻike iā lākou i kāu manaʻo mai ka hopohopo maoli no ko lākou pono.

E mākaukau me ka ʻike e pili ana i ka moe pathological, e like me ka paʻi ʻana o kahi ʻatikala a i ʻole kahi puke liʻiliʻi e hiki ai iā lākou ke heluhelu ke mākaukau lākou. Ke hōʻike nei ke hopohopo nei ʻoe e pili paha kā lākou hana i kahi ʻano olakino maʻi.

No ke aha e hoʻohiwahiwa ai ka poʻe wahahe pathological i ka poʻe

ʻO kahi wahahe pathological kahi haʻi moʻolelo a me ka mea hana maikaʻi loa. ʻIke lākou i ke ʻano e hoʻopio ai i kā lākou mea hoʻolohe ma o ka haʻi ʻana i nā moʻolelo elaborate a maikaʻi loa i ka wā e animated loa.

Me ka ʻike pehea e ulana ai a hōʻike ai i kahi moʻolelo kikoʻī, pīhoihoi nō kekahi i ka mea e hoʻokē i kahi kanaka e wahaheʻe.

Kūlohelohe ka makemake e ʻike i ke kumu o ko lākou wahaheʻe, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole he kumu maopopo no kā lākou wahaheʻe.

Ke hōʻike nei i kahi mea wahahe pathological

Ke paʻakikī nei ke kuhi ʻana i kahi mea wahahe pathological ma muli o nā kumu he nui o ka hana. ʻO ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ke kanaka a me ke alakaʻi ʻana i ka mōʻaukala olakino a me ka nīnauele ʻana ʻaʻole lawa ka hana ʻana i kahi hōʻailona ma muli o ka makemake o ke kanaka e wahaheʻe.

ʻO kahi ʻāpana nui o ke kuhi ʻana i kahi mea wahahe pathological ke maopopo inā ʻike lākou he wahaheʻe lākou a manaʻoʻiʻo paha i nā wahaheʻe a lākou e haʻi ai.

Hoʻohana kekahi mau loea i kahi polygraph, i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he mea ʻike ka ʻike ʻike wahaheʻe. ʻAʻole no ka hōʻoia e hopu iā lākou i ka wahaheʻe, akā e ʻike i ka maikaʻi a pinepine paha "paʻi" lākou i ka polygraph e like me ka mea e hōʻike nei ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei lākou i kā lākou wahaheʻe a i ʻole ua lilo i mea maikaʻi i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā hana ʻē aʻe e hōʻoia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kā lākou wahaheʻe.

Ninaninau pū kekahi ʻoihana i nā lālā o ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha i ke kuhi hewa ʻana i kahi wahahe pathological

Ke mālama nei i ka wahahe pathological

Kaukaʻi e kaukaʻi ʻia ma inā ʻaʻole paha ka wahahe pathological kahi hōʻailona o kahi ʻano psychiatric i lalo.

E hoʻopili pū ka mālama ʻana i ka psychotherapy a hiki pū me ka lāʻau no nā pilikia ʻē aʻe e hoʻouluulu ana paha i ka hana, e like me nā lāʻau i hoʻohana ʻia e mālama ai i ka hopohopo a i ʻole ke kaumaha.

Lawe aku

Pehea e empathize ai a kū me kahi mea wahahe pathological e iho i ka ʻike i ka mea e hoʻomoe ai i kēia kanaka ke kākoʻo.

Maliʻa paha he hōʻailona ka wahaheʻe o kahi hihia ʻē aʻe hiki ke mālama ʻia. Paipai iā lākou e kiʻi i ke kōkua e pono ai.