Nā Mākua: ʻO kēia ka manawa no ka mālama ponoʻī, nā pale, a me ka ʻoki ʻana i kahi lohi

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• Ua loli nā mea
• Pono e hoʻololi i ka makua

Ke kū nei mākou i kahi maʻi ahulau i ke ʻano ola, no laila maikaʻi ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kāu mau kūlana a hoʻokuʻu i nā mea e heʻe. Welina mai i koʻu Life Perfect Perfect Mom.

Kūpono ʻole ke ola, ʻoiai i nā lā maikaʻi. 'Lelo pinepine wau. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, kākau wau e pili ana iā ia i nā manawa āpau i kaʻu kolamu hoʻomākeʻaka syndicated a me kaʻu mau puke makua. A hoʻomanaʻo wau i kaʻu mau kaikamahine ʻelua iā ia kokoke i kēlā me kēia lā, no ka mea, he ʻoiaʻiʻo.

He mea nui a mākou e hoʻāʻo ai e holo pono ke ola, ʻoiai ʻo nā mākua, aia mau ke ao holoʻokoʻa e pīhoihoi iā mākou i ka pepeiao e hoʻomanaʻo iā mākou i kekahi mau mea ma mua o kā mākou kaohi a i kekahi manawa pono mākou e hana i nā mea kūpono a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi. a me ke kahua.

ʻO Kinda e like me kēia manawa. No ka mea inā ʻo ka noho ʻana ma waena o kahi mea e like me ka f up a me ka epic ma ke ʻano he maʻi ahulau me kā mākou poʻe keiki ʻaʻole ka nui o ka pepeiao pepeiao o nā mea āpau, a laila ʻaʻole wau i ʻike he aha ia.

No laila e ʻokiʻoki iā ʻoe iho i kahi lohi.

I kahi mea o hoʻokahi lā, ua hele mākou āpau mai ka hana mau, nā mākua maʻamau i ka hoʻouna ʻana i kā mākou keiki i ke kula a i ka mālama lā a i ʻole ke holoholo ʻana iā lākou i ka pāka, i ka ukali ʻana i kahi kauoha noho ma ka home āpau no kahi manawa hāmama. , kaawale aku ka nohona mai ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha, nā lālani pepa wili e ʻai ana, a me ke ʻapo ʻana iā TikTok ma ke ʻano he hoaaloha hou loa na mākou.

I kēia manawa ua home kā mākou keiki, aia mākou i ka home, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā mea a mākou e haʻalele ai i ka hale no ka mea e hana nei ma ka home, a ua lawe mākou i ka hana a nā mākua, kumu, hoa pāʻani, kumu aʻo, kahu, mea hoʻoponopono, a me ka holoholo. luna hoʻomalu āpau i wahī ʻia i hoʻokahi kanaka. A nui kēlā kaomi. ʻAe, a e wehewehe wale nō, ʻaʻohe o mākou kuhi no kēlā.

No laila e ʻoki i nā mea āpau i kahi lohi.

Ua loli nā mea

I kēia mau lā, ke noho nei mākou ma waena o The New Normal, i ka quarantine me ko mākou mau ʻohana a ke hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻokele i ka honua ma hope o nā puka paʻa, me ka ʻole o nā haki, a me ke kiʻi ʻole i ka poʻe a me nā mea a me nā hana maʻamau a mākou i maʻa mau ai. hiki ke helu.

I ka pō, ua hoʻokomo ʻia kā mākou papa kuhikuhi choreographed āpau i kēlā me kēia lā a me nā hana a me nā papa inoa hana. Ua hoʻoponopono hou ʻia nā mea e like me ke kula a me ka hana a me ke ola maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā, a ke ʻike wale nei mākou i nā ala e mālama ai i ko mākou koʻikoʻi a kaumaha i nā mea a pau i nalowale. A ke hana nei mākou i kēlā me ke kōkua ʻana i ka manawa like i kā mākou poʻe keiki.

ʻAʻole e hōʻike ʻia i ka manaʻo o nā mākua ma nā wahi āpau i kēia hewa nui a me ke kaomi e hoʻomau i kā mākou keiki a aʻo a neʻe a holomua a hoʻokipa hoʻi i kēlā me kēia minuke o ka lā.

Hoʻohui, nā poʻe o mākou e hana nei mai ka home i ka pākuʻi hoʻohui o ke kaulike i nā mea āpau me ka hana a me nā hea Zoom a me FaceTime a me nā hālāwai virtual. ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia ka poʻe e haʻalele nei i ka hale no ka hana me ke kanalua ʻole i ke koʻikoʻi o ka mālama ʻana i nā mea āpau me ka mālama ʻana i ko lākou mau ʻohana a me ka hana ʻana i kā lākou mau hana. A nui ia.

No laila ʻoki kekahi i kekahi slack.

Pono e hoʻololi i ka makua

Eia naʻe ka mea - a ʻo kēia ke kī - ʻoiai ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia ka makemake e makua i ke ala a mākou e maʻa mau ai - me ke ʻano a me nā hana maʻamau a me nā tona o nā hana e hoʻomau i kā mākou keiki a hoʻoulu, i kēia manawa, pono mākou e kū wale. Wale. Kū. A hanu. A laila pono mākou e puliki i kā mākou keiki, exhale, a hoʻokuʻu iā ia.

ʻAʻole kēia ka manawa e lilo i makuahine helikopter a i ʻole makuakāne lawnmower, ke kaohi ʻana i kēlā me kēia kekona o kā mākou keiki. ʻO kēia ka manawa e hoʻolilo i kā mākou keiki i keiki.

No laila e hana lākou i nā pā kaua a pāʻani i nā pāʻani a hoʻomoʻa i nā kuki a hana i ka pala a hoʻohana i nā hāmeʻa. Ma muli o ka mea maʻalahi, aia mākou āpau i ke ʻano ola, a ʻaʻohe o nā lula maʻamau no ke ola ola wale nō i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou.

ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻo ka mea wale nō i koe e hana ai i ka mea e manaʻo ai he kūpono, a e nānā ana i kahi ʻokoʻa iki no mākou āpau.

No mākou nā mākua, ʻo ia paha ke hele nei i loko o kā mākou Insta hānai i kahi manawa pinepine e hoʻopili aku me ka honua. No kā mākou keiki ʻelemakule, hiki ke nānā aku e like me kahi manawa keu FaceTiming i kā lākou mau hoaaloha e hōʻemi ai i kahi kaʻawale a pili hou aku. A no kā mākou ʻōpio, ʻoi aku paha he mau hola i mua o kā lākou wikiō punahele ma ke ʻano e hōʻoluʻolu i ko lākou ʻuhane liʻiliʻi. No ka mea ua loli ka honua o kēlā me kēia kanaka a ua pio ka mele a kēlā me kēia.

No laila, inā aia kekahi manawa no ka mālama pilikino, aia i kēia manawa. ʻO ia nā mea e pono ai kāua e hilinaʻi a hiki i ka pau ʻana o kēia. ʻO nā mea e hoʻopiha ai i ko mākou naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo me ka reprieve a i ʻole ka ʻaka a i ʻole ke kī ʻana o ka mālie e kākoʻo iā mākou.

Pono mākou e hāʻawi i kā mākou poʻe keiki i ka bandwīwī keu e hoʻokele i ka mamao kaiāulu e hoʻohana ana i ka ʻenehana i loaʻa iā lākou ma ko lākou manamana lima, no ka mea, laki mākou i loaʻa iā lākou

ʻAe ʻia, ʻaʻole wau e ʻōlelo e hāʻawi iā lākou iā FaceTime a nānā iā Netflix 19 mau hola i ka lā, akā pono mākou e hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi ala lōʻihi e hoʻohana pono ai i kēlā mau ala o ka hoʻopili ʻana e kōkua i ke kaulike i nā unahi hoʻokaʻawale iki.

No laila e ʻoki i kāu mau keiki i kahi lohi.

E like me ka ʻōlelo a ka poʻe loea, ke ola nei mākou i ka mōʻaukala. No laila pono mākou e hōʻoia he paʻakikī kēia. Paʻapū ʻo Reeeeally. A i kēia manawa nō, ʻo ka mea nui ka mālama ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo, noʻonoʻo, a me ke olakino o kēlā me kēia, kahi pilikia nui ia e noʻonoʻo nei e noho pū ana nā kāne a me nā hoa ma mua o ka wā ma mua. Me ka ʻole o kahi pale pale. A ma muli o kēlā, ke holo nei nā hakakā ma kahi kiʻekiʻe loa.

No laila ʻoki i kāu wahine a pakanā paha i kahi lohi.

ʻO ka laina lalo, pono i nā mea āpau i ka ʻae e lilo i wahi pahuhopu liʻiliʻi ʻole i kēia manawa. Hiki iā mākou āpau ke pakele mai ke ʻano like o kēlā me kēia lā i nā ʻano āpau e kūpono ai no mākou. A inā ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻolilo nei kā mākou poʻe keiki i kahi manawa i loko o kahi puke a i ʻole i mua o kahi pale i kēia manawa, a laila. No ka mea ʻo kā mākou papahana ola ia.

No laila e ʻoki i kou ʻohana i kahi lohi.

E like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai, he mau manawa ʻano ʻē, ʻano ʻē kēia, no laila e ʻae ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hoʻokokoke i nā mea e hoʻohauʻoli ai iā ʻoe a me kou ʻohana i kēia manawa, a e hoʻokuʻu i ke koena. E hoʻokuʻu wale. No ka mea ke hoʻonohonoho mākou i ke kani, e hāhai kā mākou poʻe keiki.

Loaʻa iā mākou kēia, e nā hoaaloha. I mua

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