ʻO ka lolo kāne ma: lili

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"Ua hoʻopilikia ʻia wau me ia." ʻO ia nā huaʻōlelo a Oscar Pistorius i hoʻohana ai i loko o ka ʻaha e wehewehe i ke aloha āna i aloha ai i kāna ipo wahine, ʻo Reeva Steenkamp, ​​nāna i kī a pepehi a make i ka makahiki i hala. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hilinaʻi i ka moʻolelo o ka Blade Runner e pili ana i ke kuhi hewa ʻana i kāna ipo no ka ʻaihue, ua ʻae ʻo ia i ka lili a me ka loaʻa iā ia.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, mālama ka hapa nui o nā kāne i ka lili i kā lākou lili. Akā nui ʻaʻole. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, kokoke i nā kāne āpau e ʻike i ke ʻano infatuation a Pistorius i ʻae ai ma lalo o ka hoʻohiki. "Hana pinepine ʻia nā hewa o ke kuko e nā kāne," wahi a Helen Fisher, Ph.D., he anthropologist meaola a me ka mea kākau o No ke aha mākou e aloha ai: Ke ʻano a me ke kemika o ke aloha aloha. He ʻelua a me ka hapa paha ka manawa o nā kāne ma mua o ka make ʻana o nā wahine i ka pepehi kanaka, i ʻōlelo ʻo Fisher, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana, ʻo ka naʻau, nā kāne pinepine ka palupalu a ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā kāne ʻelua ke pili i nā pilina (ma ka liʻiliʻi ma nā pae mua).

ʻOiai ʻaʻole nui ka ʻepekema paʻakikī ma ka neurology o ka lili, eia ke ʻano e kolohe ai me ka lolo o ke kāne inā kūkulu a kūkulu.

Nā lā 1: ʻO ka pule mua o ka pilina

Hōʻike nā noiʻi i ka wahine (a i ʻole ka hiki wale o ka moekolohe) ke kumu o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana o ka testosterone, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hormone makemake. Ua hoʻopiha ʻo Testosterone i ka moku hypothalamus o ka lolo o kāu kāne a kipaku i kona makemake e hānau hou. Minamina, hoʻopiʻiʻo T hoʻi i kāna huhū a me ka paʻa ʻana i mea e makaʻu ai i nā mea hoʻopiʻi ʻē aʻe, i ʻōlelo ʻo Fisher. Pēlā e wehewehe ai i ke kumu e koho ai ʻo ia i nā hakakā me kāu mau hoa kāne kāne a nānā i lalo i kekahi kanaka i waena o 20 kapuaʻi ou. ʻO kekahi kumu o kēia huhū mua e pili paha me ka piʻi ʻana o ka pae o ka hormone vasopressin, kahi i pili ai kekahi mau holoholona i kahi ʻano kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻāina ma waena o nā kāne male.

ʻO ka lā 27: ʻO ka pule ʻehā o ka pilina

Hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia nā pae T o kāu kāne. A i kēia manawa ke hana nei ʻoe i kahi pilina aloha kokoke loa, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Fisher e loaʻa ana paha iā ia nā kemika euphoric lolo e like me ka dopamine (nāna e hoʻouna i kona pae ikehu a kia ma waena o ka hale) a me norepinephrine (kahi e hāʻawi ai i kahi kiʻekiʻe naʻau). Hoʻohui ʻia me ka lili, hiki i kēia mau hormoni ke alakaʻi i ka hana obsessive, ke kuhiakau ʻo Fisher. Hiki i nā pae kiʻekiʻe o norepinephrine ke hōʻemi i kona makemake inā he lili.ʻO ke kumu, ʻo ia he "sup" o kēia mau mea ʻokoʻa lolo āpau, i hiki ai ke hoʻolilo iā ia i aka no kāna mea maʻamau, wahi a Fisher.

Lā 85: Mahina ʻekolu o ka pilina, a ma hope aku

ʻOiai he mau noiʻi iki e pili ana i nā hopena o ka lili lōhi ma ka lolo, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Fisher ʻaʻole ʻo ia e pūʻiwa inā he hopena koʻikoʻi ko ke kāne lōʻihi i ka kino a me ka noʻonoʻo o kāu kāne. ʻO Testosterone he mea hoʻoheheʻe ʻia, ʻōlelo ʻo ia, a hiki iā ia ke hoʻokuʻu i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o nā hormones hopohopo e like me cortisol, i hoʻopili ʻia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kaumaha, ke kaumaha, a me nā hemahema ʻē aʻe. Ke kāohi nei paha ʻo testosterone a me cortisol i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana o ka serotonin hormone regulator moe, hōʻike ʻia e ka noiʻi mai ke Kulanui o Pisa ma Italia. A ʻo kahi hopena, ʻaʻole e loaʻa i kāu kāne ka hiamoe paʻa i ka pō, hiki ke kōkua i ka haunaele o ka naʻau. Hiki i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o kēia mau hormones ke hoʻokiʻekiʻe i kāna ʻōnaehana pale, e hoʻokiʻekiʻe ana i kona pae ʻona, wahi a Fisher. Hiki iā ia ke maʻi hou aku, e ʻōlelo ana nā noiʻi.

Ma luna o nā mea a pau, ua hoʻopili kekahi mau noiʻi hou mai ka ʻIseraʻela i ka oxytocin i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e like me ka inaina. Ua kapa pinepine ʻia ʻo Oxytocin "ʻo ka hormone aloha" no ka mea e piʻi ana ia i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana hou ma waena o nā mea aloha. Akā hiki paha i ka throttle i nā pane o ka naʻau o nā ʻano āpau-maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha - i hiki ke kōkua i ka wehewehe ʻana i kahi ʻano ʻawaʻawa nui iā ʻoe, e ʻōlelo nā mea kākau.

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