ʻO nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka makua lawnmower

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• Lawnmower vs. helicopter makua: He aha ka ʻokoʻa?
• 1. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻae i kāu keiki e lawelawe i ka hakakā
• 2. Hoʻopiha ʻoe i ka haʻawina home o kāu keiki
• 3. Hoʻokuʻu ʻoe i kāu haʻawina home ke hoʻopoina kāu keiki iā ia ma ka home (a i ʻole ʻohi i ka palau na lākou)
• 4. Wehe ʻoe i kāu keiki mai nā hana paʻakikī
• 5. Hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu keiki i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai
• 6. Ke hui mau nei ʻoe me nā kumu
• He maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha ka makua lawnmower?
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

Hoʻopili kou puʻuwai i nā kaulike epic ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kāu mau keiki. ʻO kēlā mau lōʻihi lōʻihi āu e hele ai i ka pale ʻana iā lākou mai ka hōʻino he kūlohelohe wale nō ia a hōʻike i kou aloha hohonu a me kou hopohopo.

Ua lohe paha ʻoe i kekahi mau mākua e lawe i kahi ʻanuʻu hou aʻe a pale i kā lākou keiki mai kekahi ʻano o ka holo pono ʻole a me ka pilikia. Maliʻa paha ua haʻi aku ʻoe e hana ʻoe i kēia. Inā pēlā, pili paha ʻoe i kahi hānau hou o nā mākuahine a me nā mākua i ʻike ʻia he mau mākua "lawnmower".

ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi aia kou puʻuwai i kahi kūpono. Akā hiki i ka hemo ʻana i kēlā me kēia keakea ke alo o kāu keiki e hoʻopilikia iā lākou i ka wā lōʻihi?

Eia ka mea e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike e pili ana i ka lawnmower makua, a me nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e lanakila ai i kekahi o nā ʻino.

Pili: He aha ke ʻano o nā mākua e kūpono iā ʻoe?

Lawnmower vs. helicopter makua: He aha ka ʻokoʻa?

Kākoʻo ʻia ʻo ia nā mākua "snowplow" a i ʻole nā ​​mākua "bulldozer", makemake nui nā mākua lawnmower e pale i kā lākou keiki mai nā ʻano hakakā a i ʻole nā ​​mea keʻakeʻa. A ʻo ka hopena, ua ʻōlelo ʻia lākou e "mow" i nā pilikia a pau a kā lākou keiki e alo ai, a me ka pale ʻana i nā pilikia mai kahi mua.

He ʻano like paha kēia me kekahi ʻano mākua, ka makua helikopter.

Hoʻokele ka makua helikopter a nānā pono i kā lākou keiki i kēlā me kēia neʻe. Hiki paha i nā mākua lawnmower ke hele i luna nā hana āpau me ka hoʻopakele ʻana i kā lākou keiki.

E hōʻike i ka ʻokoʻa, hiki i kahi makua helikopter ke nānā mau i nā haʻawina home a kā lākou keiki a i ʻole nā ​​papa ma ka pūnaewele a hoʻomanaʻo mau iā lākou e huli i nā hana.

Eia nō naʻe, hiki i kahi makua lawnmower ke hoʻopau i nā haʻawina home a me nā papahana "no" kā lākou keiki - ʻike a ʻike ʻole paha. (Eia hou, makemake kēia mau mākua i ka mea maikaʻi loa no kā lāua keiki.)

Eia kahi nānā i ʻeono mau ʻano e hōʻike ana he makua lawnmower paha ʻoe.

1. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻae i kāu keiki e lawelawe i ka hakakā

ʻO ka hakakā ka ʻāpana o ke ola. Akā hiki ke ʻeha ke nānā aku, keu nō a hoʻomaka i ka wā ʻōpio. E hakakā paha nā kaikaina a me nā hoahānau me kekahi, a loaʻa i kāu mea liʻiliʻi he hoʻokahi kuha me kahi keiki ʻē aʻe ma ke kahua pāʻani.

ʻOiai paha e ʻike kekahi mau mākua i kēia mau ʻike ma ke ʻano he mahele maʻamau o ka wā kamaliʻi, ʻo ka manaʻo o kāu keiki i makemake ʻole ʻia a i ʻole huhū paha ma mua o ka hiki iā ʻoe ke lawelawe i ka naʻau - loaʻa iā mākou, hilinaʻi iā mākou.

I mea e hana ʻole ai kā lāua keiki i kēia ʻano pilikia, hiki i kahi makua lawnmower ke hoʻopau i nā lā pāʻani a i ʻole ālai i ka hiki i kā lākou keiki ke pāʻani me kekahi mau keiki. Kāhea paha lākou i kā lākou kula e hōʻike i kahi keiki i hoʻopilikia i kā lākou keiki, ʻoiai i nā hanana liʻiliʻi.

Kēia hoʻokokoke ʻana i ka makua hiki weliweli i kekahi mau hanana no ka mea ʻaʻole ia e ʻae i kāu keiki e kūkulu i ka ikaika o ka noʻonoʻo, i hiki ke kōkua iā lākou e lilo i mea kūpaʻa hou. Hoʻohui, ʻaʻole paha e ʻae i kāu keiki e hānai i nā mākau hoʻonā pilikia, i hiki ke kōkua iā lākou e lanakila i nā pilikia.

2. Hoʻopiha ʻoe i ka haʻawina home o kāu keiki

ʻAʻohe hewa iki i ke kōkua ʻana i kāu keiki me nā haʻawina home. ʻO kēia ka hana a nā mākua paʻa. Eia nō naʻe ka pilikia, ʻo ia ka hana ʻana a nā mākua lawnmower i nā hana home a kā lākou keiki a me nā papahana papa na lākou.

Hiki i kēia ke hoʻomaka i ke kula haʻahaʻa ke paʻakikī ka keiki me nā hakina a i ʻole ka hoʻonui. Hiki i ke kumu ke lawe i ke kula waena a i ʻole ke kula kiʻekiʻe, kahi e hele ai kekahi mau mākua a hiki i ke kākau ʻana i nā pepa noiʻi, inā he nui ka hana a hana paha i ka kaomi no ke keiki.

Eia nō naʻe, hele kēia mau keiki i ke koleke a me ka poʻe paʻahana. Inā ʻaʻohe o lākou ʻike i ka mālama ʻana i nā palena palena manawa a me ka hoʻokele manawa, hiki i ka mea paʻakikī iā lākou e hoʻomaʻa i ke ola koleke wikiwiki a i kahi hana koi.

E hoʻomanaʻo: Ke makemake nei e pili he maikaʻi loa ʻano. Akā inā ʻoe e manaʻo i kahi ʻoihana e koi nui ana i kāu keiki, makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻohana i nā mākua ʻē aʻe ma ke ʻano he hōʻike litmus a i ʻole kamaʻilio pū me ke kumu.

3. Hoʻokuʻu ʻoe i kāu haʻawina home ke hoʻopoina kāu keiki iā ia ma ka home (a i ʻole ʻohi i ka palau na lākou)

Hoʻomanaʻo kekahi ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana e lilo i kanaka kuleana e lawe i ka home a me nā papahana - a i ʻole nā ​​hale hoʻoikaika kino a i ʻole nā ​​palapala ʻae i kau inoa ʻia - i ke kula. Akā inā he makua lawnmower ʻoe, e hana ʻoe i nā mea āpau e pale aku ai i kāu keiki mai ka pāpā ʻia ʻana a i ʻole ke kiʻi haʻahaʻa ʻana no ka mea poina iā lākou kahi hana ma ka home.

No laila inā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi papahana, hana home, a puke puke waihona paha i waiho ʻia ma hope, e hāʻule ʻoe i nā mea āpau a holo wikiwiki i kā lākou kula. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole aʻo kēia i ke kuleana. Ma kahi, e aʻo paha ʻoe ma laila mau ʻoe e hoʻopakele a hoʻokuʻu iā lākou i waho.

Aia kahi laina maikaʻi no kēia. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā aia kahi huakaʻi hele a poina i kāu keiki i kā lākou ʻae ʻae i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha, malia paha kūpono kūpono lawe iā ia i ke kula inā hiki iā ʻoe. Akā inā he maʻa mau ka hoʻopoina, ʻo ka nalo ʻana i ka huakaʻi hele kula he ala maikaʻi paha ia e hoʻomanaʻo ai lākou i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

4. Wehe ʻoe i kāu keiki mai nā hana paʻakikī

ʻAʻohe mea e makemake e ʻike i kā lākou keiki hoka. Akā he lawnmower makua paha ʻoe inā hemo ʻoe i kāu keiki mai nā papa paʻakikī a i ʻole nā ​​hana.

E hoʻomaopopo he backfire paha kēia, e hoʻouna ana i ka leka āu i manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole ai i kāu keiki - ka mea a mākou e ʻike nei ʻaʻole ia ka hihia. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻoulu iā lākou i ka insecurities a me ka hilinaʻi haʻahaʻa iā lākou iho. (E hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi, ʻo kahi hopena kūlohelohe i nā mea kiʻekiʻe i manaʻo ʻia e ala aʻe iā lākou.)

5. Hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu keiki i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai

Inā loaʻa i ke keiki ma ke alanui he paikikala hou, kūʻai ʻoe i kāu keiki i keke kaʻa hou. Inā lawe kekahi ʻohana i kā lākou keiki i kahi paka leʻaleʻa, hoʻonohonoho ʻoe i kekahi lā huakaʻi kekahi.

ʻAʻole kēia e "mālama pū me nā Jones." Ke hōʻoia nei ʻaʻole e manaʻo kāu keiki i ka waiho ʻia a hōʻemi ʻia - e hōʻike ana i kou aloha nui. Akā ma ke ʻano he hopena, pau paha kāu keiki i nā mea āpau a lākou e makemake ai. ʻOiai mākou e makemake i ke ola e like me kēia mau loa, ʻaʻole. Ua ulu aʻe paha kāu keiki me ka manaʻo e loaʻa mau iā lākou nā mea a haʻi.

6. Ke hui mau nei ʻoe me nā kumu

Inā he makua lawnmower ʻoe, ʻike paha nā kumu a kāu keiki a me ke kākāʻōlelo alakaʻi iā ʻoe ma kou inoa. ʻAʻole ia he mea maikaʻi ʻole nona iho, akā…

Hoʻokahi wale nō hoʻopiʻi mai kāu keiki a aia ʻoe ma ke kula e hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei no lākou. Inā manaʻo kāu keiki he kūpono ʻole ka papa haʻahaʻa, lawe koke ʻoe i ko lākou ʻaoʻao me ka lohe ʻole ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo.

Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻaʻike pinepine aku i kā lākou aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ke kaʻina noi noi ʻana o ke koleke. A ke kamaʻilio nei no ka noi ʻana i ke koleke, koho paha ʻoe i nā kula āu e manaʻo ai ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, hoʻopiha i kā lākou noi komo komo kula, a hoʻoholo pū i kā lākou papa papa.

ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e launa me nā kumu o kāu keiki. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, kahi pilina hoʻomau me kā lākou mau mea aʻo - keu hoʻi inā he kūlana kūikawā kāu keiki e koi ai iā ia, e like me kahi hoʻolālā aʻo pilikino (IEP) - kahi mea maikaʻi.

He maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha ka makua lawnmower?

He mau manaʻo maikaʻi ko nā mākua lawnmower. ʻAʻole ʻokoʻa ka mea a lākou e makemake ai no kā lākou keiki mai ka makemake o nā mākua āpau - kūleʻa a me ka hauʻoli.

Akā ʻoiai he mea maikaʻi loa nā alahele e "hōʻoki" ana i kahi mea liʻiliʻi no ka kūleʻa, hiki ke hana i nā mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka maikaʻi.

ʻO nā hakakā a me nā pilikia e aʻo i nā keiki pehea e hana ai me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole, hōʻeha, a me nā haʻalulu - a kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomōhala i ka ikaika o ka noʻonoʻo. ʻO kēia ala, lilo ia i mea maʻalahi no lākou e kāohi i ke ola.

Me ka nui o nā mākua komo, hiki i kekahi mau keiki ke ʻike i ka hopohopo nui i ka wā a lākou he ma lalo o ke koʻikoʻi ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kāohi. Hoʻohui, nui ʻole ke komo ʻana o nā mākua me ka naʻau ʻole e hoʻomākaukau i kekahi mau ʻōpio no ke koleke, hiki ke hoʻokani i ka hoʻololi o nā haumāna o ka makahiki mua.

Wahi a kahi ninaninau āpau o 1,502 U.S. ʻōpio ʻōpio e neʻe ana mai ke kula kiʻekiʻe a i ke koleke, ma kahi o 60 pākēneka i makemake i ko lākou mau mākua i hoʻomākaukau hoʻomākaukau iā lākou no ke koleke. A 50 pākēneka i ʻōlelo e pono lākou e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou ola kūʻokoʻa i ke komo ʻana i ke koleke - a ua hana ʻia kēia koho mawaho ke nānā aku nei i nā kaila helekopa a i ʻole lawnmower.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

No laila he aha kāu e hana ai inā manaʻo ʻoe he makua lawnmower ʻoe a makemake e loli?

Makemake e hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka wāwae i hiki ke maopopo. E ʻike wale he hiki ke lilo i makua paʻa me ka hele ʻole i ka moana. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he hana maikaʻi mua paha ia e hoʻomaka ai ma ka ʻike ʻana i ka waiho ʻana i kāu keiki momona i ka pilikia is he wāwae i luna, no ka wā e hiki mai ana.

E hoʻomanaʻo i hiki i ka makua makua a makua nui paha i hiki ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho a me ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, a ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomākaukau iā lākou no ka honua maoli. No laila e ʻae i kāu keiki e kū ma ko lākou mau wāwae ʻelua.

Hilinaʻi i kāu keiki e lilo i kuleana no ka hana home a me nā papahana papa, a paio i ka makemake e hoʻopakele iā lākou inā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi hakakā iki. E ʻae i kahi no lākou e hana ai i loko o kā lākou mau hakakā ponoʻī, ʻoiai maikaʻi loa ke hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo - i kēia manawa a i ka wā makua, ke mahalo paha lākou iā ia.

E ʻae pū i kāu keiki e hana i nā hewa a mālama i nā hopena o kēia mau hewa. Kāhāhā paha ko lākou kūpaʻa iā ʻoe. Ma mua o ka nānā ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā mea hōʻeha ma ke ʻano he keakea nui i ke ola, e nānā iā lākou he mau manawa kūpono no kāu keiki e aʻo a ulu aʻe.

ʻO ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me nā hoa mākua a me nā kākāʻōlelo kula he ala maikaʻi loa ia e ʻike ai i nā mea e hana nei no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.