Wehe ʻo Jessie J no ka hiki ʻole ke loaʻa he keiki

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ʻO nā wahine hou aʻe i kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka infertility e kōkua i ka hōʻemi ʻana i ka stigma-a ʻo ka wahine hou i hele mai i mua me kāna mau hakakā ʻo ia ka mea mele ʻo Jessie J. Ma kahi ʻahamele i mua o nā tausani o ka poʻe, ua lawe ʻo ia i kahi manawa e haʻi aku i kāna poʻe pā e hiki iā ia. aole loa keiki. (Related: He aha ka makemake o Ob-Gyns i ʻike nā wahine e pili ana i ko lākou hānai ʻana)

"Ua haʻi ʻia mai iaʻu ʻehā mau makahiki i hala aku nei ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hānau keiki," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia i loko o kahi wikiō i kau ʻia e kahi mea pā ma Instagram. "ʻAʻole wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoukou no ke aloha no ka mea ʻo wau kekahi o nā miliona o nā wahine a me nā kāne i hele i loko o kēia a e hele i loko o kēia." (Ua ʻike anei ʻoe ʻaʻole pili ka helu o nā hua i loko o kāu mau ovaries i kou manawa e hāpai ai?)

ICYDK, ma kahi o 10 pakeneka o nā wahine e hakakā nei me ka infertility, e like me ka US Office on Women's Health-no laila he mea kūpono ke kamaʻilio ākea e pili ana. ʻAʻole e hōʻike ʻia, e piʻi ana kēlā helu i ka piʻi ʻana o ka awelika o nā makahiki makuahine. Ma 2015, 20 pakeneka o nā pēpē i hānau ʻia i nā wahine ma luna o 35 makahiki, ʻo ia ka makahiki i emi nui ai ka maikaʻi o ka hua manu. No laila paha e ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine e hakakā me nā pilikia infertility a ʻimi i nā ala ʻē aʻe e hānau keiki ai. (Pili: nā koina kiʻekiʻe o ka hānau ʻole: hoʻoweliweli nā wahine i ka panakalupa no kahi pēpē)

I kēlā mau wahine, hāʻawi ʻo Jessie i kekahi mau ʻōlelo kākoʻo a hāʻawi i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻo. "ʻAʻole ia he mea e wehewehe ai iā mākou, akā makemake wau e kākau i kēia mele noʻu iho i koʻu manawa o ka ʻeha a me ke kaumaha, akā e hāʻawi pū iaʻu iho i ka hauʻoli, e hāʻawi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kahi mea hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolohe i kēlā manawa e loaʻa ai ia. ʻoʻoleʻa loa, "i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "No laila, inā ua ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mea me kēia a ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi mea ʻē aʻe e hele ana a i ʻole ua nalowale kahi keiki, a laila e ʻoluʻolu e ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe wale nō i loko o kou ʻeha a ke noʻonoʻo nei au iā ʻoe ke hīmeni wau i kēia mele."

I kekahi mau lā i hala aku nei, ua haki ka nūhou ua hoʻomaka ʻo Jessie e launa me Channing Tatum, ka mea i lawe i Instagram e kaʻana like i kāna kākoʻo no kāna ipo wahine. "Ua ninini wale kēia wahine i kona puʻuwai ma ke kahua ma ka Royal Albert Hall," kākau ʻo ia. "ʻO ka mea ma laila e ʻike i kahi mea kūikawā. Wow."

Inā ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā manaʻo āpau, ʻaʻohe mea e hāʻawi.

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