Hiki ke wela ka moekolohe - No laila pehea e manamana lima ai kekahi i loaʻa iā Vulva

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• ʻO ka mea mua ma mua
• Loli ka Labia i ke kala, ke ʻano, a me ka nui
• Pēlā hoʻi ka lauoho pubic
• Aia paha he pilau
• A inā ʻoe e lawe i nā mea hou aʻe ... ʻike he ʻono kekahi
• E hoʻomanaʻo: Loaʻa ka makaʻu i ka moekolohe lima (a ʻo ka waha kekahi)
• Nā nīnau maʻamau
• He aha inā he manamana manamana hou koʻu?
• E noho wau ma waho?
• He aha inā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa ka clit?
• He aha kaʻu e hana ai inā luhi koʻu lima?
• No ke aha e noho mālie ai kaʻu hoa? Hana maikaʻi wau?
• He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻōpena?
• Āhea wau e kū ai?
• Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kumu, iho mākaukau ʻoe e neʻe
• Pehea wau e hana ai i nā mea?
• Kūpono ke kūlana?
• Nā lole a ʻaʻohe lole?
• Ehia mau manamana aʻu e hoʻohana ai?
• OK, e komo ana wau i loko. Ano?
• E holoi i kou mau lima
• Hoʻonohonoho i ka wikiwiki
• E nānā i kā lākou ʻōlelo kino
• Laka nā maka
• Pākuʻi lube
• E nānā i ka clit
• Akā, mai ~ pili wale ~ ma laila
• E kuapo i nā mea i luna
• Mai noʻonoʻo nui loa!
• E hoʻohui paha i kahi mea pāʻani
• E kū paha wau ma aneʻi? He aha kaʻu e hana ai ma hope?
• Pehea wau e ʻike ai inā e hoʻomau wau i ka hele?
• He aha inā makemake wau e hoʻonāukiuki?
• Pehea e pili ana ke pau ana?
• Ke laina lalo

Ma ka mea maikaʻi loa, wela ka pīhoi ʻana o ka manamana lima. Makemake, maoli wela.

Akā i ka mea ʻoi loa, hiki ke ʻoi aku ka ʻeha / hoʻonāukiuki / hoʻonāukiuki ma mua o ke kiʻekiʻe o kāu hoa (i kēia manawa) a koi iā ʻoe e noho ma waena o 2 mau hola o nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi i ka pō lā ...

Ma laila e komo ai kēia alakaʻi mākaukau i ka moekolohe lima. E heluhelu ia manawa, a e hoʻomaikaʻi aku kāu hoa iā ʻoe (heluhelu: ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa) ma hope.

ʻO ka mea mua ma mua

"Inā manaʻo kekahi e pili ana iā lākou iho pehea e pilau ai kā lākou vulva, ʻono, a i ʻole nānā, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻoluʻolu," wahi a Sarah Melancon, PhD, sociologist a me ka sexologist clinical me The Sex Toy Collective.

No laila, ma mua o kou ʻōlelo ʻana i nā ʻāpana o kāu hoa, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea aʻe.

Loli ka Labia i ke kala, ke ʻano, a me ka nui

"Ua like ʻo Labia me nā hau hau," wahi a Melancon. (Hoʻomanaʻo: ʻO ka labia nā lehelehe e like me ka lehelehe o ka ʻili a puni ka wehe ʻana o ka ʻōpū.) Cheesy ke kani, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo.

Pōkole kekahi, loloa kekahi, pōkole kekahi ma kekahi ʻaoʻao a lōʻihi hoʻi ma kekahi ʻaoʻao. Pelu kekahi, ʻoluʻolu kekahi. Puffy a voluptuous kekahi, lahilahi a palule kekahi.

No ke ʻano o ka ʻokoʻa o ka labia e nānā ai mai kēlā me kēia kanaka, e nānā i ka The Great Wall of Vaginas a i ʻole The Labia Library.

Pēlā hoʻi ka lauoho pubic

E like me ke poʻo, ke kino, a me ka lauoho maka, hiki i nā lauoho pubic ke ʻokoʻa i ke kala, ka mānoanoa, a me ka momona.

Hoʻohui, koho kēlā me kēia i ke ʻano ʻokoʻa i kā lākou mau hale inu. ʻAʻohe pube-do i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ʻoi aku ka "hoʻomaʻemaʻe," a ʻoi aku paha ka nani ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Loaʻa ia?

Aia paha he pilau

"He ʻala ʻokoʻa kā kēlā me kēia e hāʻule i waena o kahi pae," wahi a Melancon.

A ʻo kēlā ʻaʻala ʻaʻole kēlā o nā pua freakin '! Akā, ʻo ka hapanui o nā vulva ʻaʻala musky, lepo, musty, sour, a keleawe paha.

"No ka mea ʻaʻole ʻaʻala e like me ka ʻiʻo popopo a iʻa iʻa popopo paha - ʻelua ʻala i hiki ke hōʻike i ka maʻi - he manawa kūpono ke olakino loa o ka vulva," wahi a Melancon.

A inā ʻoe e lawe i nā mea hou aʻe ... ʻike he ʻono kekahi

Hiki i nā moekolohe lima ke nani keu ma kāna iho. Akā inā ʻae kāu pakanā, e hui pū ana me kahi puahiohio alelo? Pōmaikaʻi maikaʻi!

ʻIke wale: ʻO Vulvas ʻaʻole ono-ʻole! ʻIke paha kahi vulva olakino:

• paʻakai
• ʻawaʻawa
• metala-y
• ʻawaʻawa
• ʻoiʻoi
• tangy

Eia hou, ʻo kāu hopohopo wale nō inā ʻono maikaʻi ʻole a iʻa paha.

"ʻO ia ka manawa no kekahi e hele i ke kauka, no ka mea aia paha he maʻi," wahi a Melancon.

E hoʻomanaʻo: Loaʻa ka makaʻu i ka moekolohe lima (a ʻo ka waha kekahi)

"E pili ana i nā STI, ʻo ka moekolohe ka hana haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa," wahi a Melancon. "Eia naʻe, hoʻoili STI is hiki. ”

Inā laʻa, loaʻa kekahi i ka maʻi lele (STI) i hoʻolaha ʻia i loko o nā wai o ke kino - e like me gonorrhea a i ʻole chlamydia - a pili lākou iā lākou iho a laila pili iā ʻoe, hiki ke lawe.

Hōʻike pū kekahi nā noiʻi inā loaʻa iā lākou ka HPV a hoʻopā iā ʻoe ma hope o ka pā ʻana iā lākou iho, hiki ke hoʻouna ʻia ʻo HPV iā ʻoe.

E hoʻemi i ka makaʻu o ka lawe ʻana ma ke kau ʻana i kahi moe lima, a i ʻole ka mīkina lima o ka nitrile a i ʻole ka hopena, inā he STI ʻoe a i ʻole kāu hoa pili a ʻike ʻole paha i kou kūlana.

E hoʻomanaʻo: Hiki ke hoʻoili ʻia nā STI inā aia kekahi humping manuahi pantie a me ka wili e lawe ai ma mua a ma hope paha o ka pāʻani lima, a ma o ka moekolohe waha paha.

Nā nīnau maʻamau

Ma mua o ko mākou hele ʻana i ka ʻiʻo o ka pāʻani lima, e pane mākou i kekahi o nā manamana lima FAQ.

He aha inā he manamana manamana hou koʻu?

Hiki i nā kui kuʻikuʻu a ʻoi hoʻi ke hōʻeha i ka ʻili lahilahi a i ʻole nāʻiʻo puʻupuʻu, ʻo ia ke kumu i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Melancon, "He hana maikaʻi e hōʻoia i ka pōkole o kou mau kui a manicured maikaʻi ma mua o ka manamana lima o kekahi."

Inā aloha ʻoe i kou mau kui lōʻihi, e hoʻopuni i nā kihi. A laila kau i nā pōpō pulupulu ma lalo o ke kui a komo i ka mīkina lima.

E noho wau ma waho?

Ke hiki mai i ka pāʻani lima, ma waho-i i kāu mākia.

ʻO ka manaʻo, e hoʻomaka ma nā ʻūhā o loko, labia, puʻu pubic, a me ka clitoris ma mua (me ka ʻae hoihoi a kāu hoa) e neʻe nei i ke aʻa aʻa.

"ʻO ka nui o ka hoʻāla ʻia o kāu hoa ma mua o ke komo ʻana o ka penetration, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka manaʻo," wahi a Melancon.

He aha inā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa ka clit?

"ʻO ka clitoris ka Hōkū ʻĀkau o ka vulva," wahi a Melancon. "Aia ia ma ke kihi o ka labia o loko."

Kūlana nui kekahi mau clits, ʻoiai kanu ʻia kekahi ma lalo o ka pale.

"Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kekahi mea, pāʻani wale a ʻike i ka hopena o kāu hoa." "ʻO ka hapa nui o nā poʻe e pane i ka hoʻopā ʻia ma kēlā wahi i kū ʻole i nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe o kā lākou puʻupuʻu."

ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe: noi i kāu hoa e hōʻike iā ʻoe.

He aha kaʻu e hana ai inā luhi koʻu lima?

Ke hāʻawi a loaʻa paha iā ʻoe, e leʻaleʻa ka pāʻani lima no ʻolua! No laila, inā luhi kou lima a piʻipiʻi paha, maikaʻi ia e hoʻomaha.

E ʻōlelo paha ʻoe:

• "Aloha aloha wau iā ʻoe, akā he cramp kaʻu. Makemake au e nānā iā ʻoe e hoʻopā iā ʻoe iho a hui hou i kahi manawa. "
• "Pehea ʻoe e manaʻo ai e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka vibrator?"
• "E Babe, e luhi iki ana koʻu lima, akā makemake wau e hoʻomau i ka pāʻani ʻana. Pehea kou manaʻo e iho ana wau i luna ou? ”

No ke aha e noho mālie ai kaʻu hoa? Hana maikaʻi wau?

Ua hāʻawi paha ʻo Porn iā ʻoe i ka illusion e hele mau ana ka leʻaleʻa me nā leo o nā holoholona, ​​akā ʻaʻole pēlā ka hihia.

ʻ mew auwē kekahi poʻe a ʻuwē, uē kekahi, ʻūʻū, a walaʻau paha, a ʻaʻohe walaʻau iki.

Akā me ka nānā ʻole i ka leo nui a i ʻole ka hāmau o kāu hoa, ʻo ke ala maikaʻi e ʻike ai pehea lākou e hana nei e noi.

He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻōpena?

Aia ia i ka mea nona ka ʻōpala, inā ʻaole paha ʻoe e kau ana i ka mīkina lima, ma hea lākou i loko o kā lākou pōʻai menstrual, pehea lākou e ala ai, a me nā mea hou aku.

Mai kahaha inā manaʻo ke kahawai:

• wela a mehana
• puʻupuʻu a kikokiko paha
• piliki a ʻākiki paha, hoʻokuʻu a ākea paha

Āhea wau e kū ai?

Ke makemake ʻoe a i ʻole kāu hoa e kū - a i ʻole hoʻololi i kahi mea ʻokoʻa.

E akāka loa: ʻAʻole kahi orgasm ka "hopena hopena" o ka manamana lima. ʻOluʻolu ka!

A ʻaʻole makemake ka orgasm i ka makemake o kāu pakanā e kū ʻoe. Nā orgasms lehulehu, ʻo wai?

Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kumu, iho mākaukau ʻoe e neʻe

Inā ʻoe e kinipōpō maka nei i kēia alakaʻi, ʻike paha ʻoe i ka manamana lima i kou wā e hiki mai ana. Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua aku iā ʻoe mai ka hoʻomaka a i ka hopena.

Pehea wau e hana ai i nā mea?

Inā ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kahi mea mai kēia ʻatikala, e hana i kēia: Ma waho o ka ʻae, pehea ke ala ʻana o kāu hoa ma mua o ka manamana maoli ka ʻāpana nui o ka manamana lima. (ʻAʻole ʻenehana.)

Ma mua o kou noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻokele hema, e hoʻopau i kāu hoa me:

• honi ʻana
• honi ʻāʻī
• pāʻani nipple
• moʻo waha
• hoʻohenehene pepeiao

Kūpono ke kūlana?

"Ke manaʻo nei mākou i ka manamana lima, loaʻa pinepine iā mākou ke kiʻi noʻonoʻo o ka hoa loaʻa ma ko lākou kua a hāmama ka wāwae," wahi a Melancon.

ʻO kēia, i ʻike ʻia ma ka manamana mikanele, kahi kūlana maikaʻi loa e hoʻomaka no ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ke alo o kāu poʻe hoa a hoʻohana i ko lākou helehelena e like me ka pane.

Wahi a kēlā, hiki i nā kūlana ʻokoʻa ke hāʻawi i nā ʻano manaʻo like ʻole a me nā ʻami.

"Inā makemake nui kāu pakanā iā ia hohonu, e hoʻāʻo paha ʻoe i ka kaila ʻīlio, nāna e wehe iā lākou," wahi a Melancon. ʻO kahi kaila ʻo Doggy kahi koho maikaʻi inā hauʻoli kāu pakanā i ka manawa like o ka anal a me ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i ka ʻōpū.

"Inā ʻoluʻolu kāu pakanā i ke komo papau a i ʻole ka hoʻonāukiuki kūwaho wale nō, maikaʻi loa ke kūlana spooning," hoʻohui ʻo ia.

Inā ʻoluʻolu kāu ipo i ke ʻano koʻikoʻi, e kukuli paha ʻoe ʻoiai lākou e kū ana.

Nānā ʻole i ke kūlana, "e ʻoluʻolu ʻoluʻolu ʻolua," i ʻōlelo ʻo Caitlin V, MPH, ka sexologist clinical no Royal, kahi condom a friendly condom and a lubricant company.

Nā lole a ʻaʻohe lole?

Hoʻomaka ma luna o nā lole e hoʻonui i ka lana.

"ʻO ka kīʻaha ʻana i ka vulva ma luna o nā lole a me ka hana ʻana i kekahi mau pōʻai māmā a i ʻole undications hiki ke hoʻomaka i ka nui o nā kaʻa o ka poʻe," wahi a Searah Deysach, he mea aʻo i ka moekolohe ma mua a he mea nona ka Early to Bed, kahi hui huahana ʻoluʻolu i hoʻokumu ʻia ma Chicago.

Inā makemake kāu hoa i ka nui o ke kaomi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kou mau knuckles.

A laila, hemo i ko lākou mau lalo a hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa i ka hoʻohenehene ʻana iā lākou ma o ka lole o kā lākou panty. ʻO ka hope, nīnau iā lākou inā hiki iā ʻoe ke wehe i kā lākou lole komo, a i ʻole makemake lākou e hemo i kā lākou lole komo iho.

Ehia mau manamana aʻu e hoʻohana ai?

E hoʻomaka me hoʻokahi.

"Inā hoʻohana koke ʻoe i nā mea he nui loa, hiki iā ia ke pepehi maoli i ka vibe a ʻehaʻeha hoʻi," wahi a Melancon.

Hoʻohui wale nō i kekahi inā noi kāu hoa iā ia.

OK, e komo ana wau i loko. Ano?

He mau koho ʻokoʻa ko kēlā me kēia mea nona ka vulva, no laila hiki i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke alakaʻi iā ʻoe i ke ala maʻamau ākea, hiki i kāu boo ke alakaʻi maikaʻi iā ʻoe.

E holoi i kou mau lima

Lana ka manaʻo ua hana ʻoe i kēia ma mua o kēia manawa, akā inā ʻaʻole, e haʻi aku i kāu pakanā pono ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka lumipaku me ka wikiwiki a holoi i kou mau lima me ka wai mehana.

Hoʻonohonoho i ka wikiwiki

"Māmā i hoʻokahi knuckle i kēlā me kēia manawa, a laila hoʻomaka mālie e hoʻoneʻe i kou manamana lima i loko a i waho i kahi neʻe mau," wahi a Deysach.

"He nui ka poʻe e hoʻāʻo e hana hou i ka neʻe ʻana o kahi peni i ka wā o ka pilina P-in-V me ko lākou mau manamana lima, a lele wikiwiki loa," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole kēia ke ala maʻamau e hoʻonāukiuki ai i nā wahi wela o loko o kāu hoa."

ʻO kāna ʻōlelo paipai: E paheʻe i kou mau manamana lima i 1 a i ʻole 2 ʻīniha, a laila e neʻe i kahi neʻe e neʻe i kā lākou ʻupena urethral (aka ka G-spot).

A i ʻole makemake kāu pakanā i ka hoʻoulu hohonu ʻana, hana i kēia i kahi mau ʻīniha hou aku e hoʻoulu ai i kā lākou A-spot a i ʻole cervix.

E nānā i kā lākou ʻōlelo kino

"Hiki i nā hōʻailona nonverbal ke haʻi nui iā ʻoe," wahi a Deysach. E nānā inā paha e hoʻololi ana kāu hoa i ko lākou pūhaka i kou mau lima, pehea ko lākou hanu ʻana, a me nā mea a ko lākou mau lima e hana nei.

Laka nā maka

Hoʻokahi huaʻōlelo: pili.

ʻOi aku ka pili loa, i ʻōlelo ʻo Caitlin V, ka mālama ʻana i ka maka o ka maka ke hanu pū nei.

Pākuʻi lube

"He mea kupaianaha ka Lube i ka aneane o nā hana, me ka pāʻani lima," wahi a Deysach. "E ʻae iā ʻoe e heʻe i kou mau manamana lima āpau me ka huki ʻole a i ʻole ka huki ʻana i kahi ala ʻoluʻolu ʻole. Maikaʻi ʻo Slippery! ”

E nānā i ka clit

"ʻO ka clitoris ke kumu o ka leʻaleʻa no nā mea nona nā puʻuwai," i ʻōlelo ʻo Caitlin V.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono ka hapa nui o nā mea nona nā puʻupuʻu i ka stimulus clitoral i ka climax.

Akā, mai ~ pili wale ~ ma laila

… Ke ʻole hōʻike kāu ipo makemake lākou e kuhikuhi iā ʻoe nā mea āpau kou noonoo i ko lakou aloha nub!

Inā ʻaʻole, ʻōlelo ʻo Caitlin V, "E nānā pono i ka G-spot, ka perineum (aia ma waena o ka puʻu a me ka anus), a me ka puka aniani a me nā ʻauwai anal."

E hoʻomanaʻo wale nō: ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻi i ka ʻōpala ma hope o ke kuʻu ʻana o kahi manamana lima i ka lua o hope. E holoi mua.

E kuapo i nā mea i luna

Ke hana nei i ka mea like i kūpono ʻole ka manawa āpau ke ʻole ʻo ia ka makemake o kāu hoa.

E hoʻāʻo:

• ke kuʻi ʻana a puni ka clitoris (ʻaʻole pili pono iā ia)
• ke kāomi nei i ka pale clitoral
• ke kau nei i ke kaomi ma ka puʻu pubic
• ke kuʻi ʻana i nā pōʻai nui a puni ka vulva holoʻokoʻa
• ke holo ʻana i hope a ma waho hoʻi o ka perineum

Mai noʻonoʻo nui loa!

"Ke nānā nui nei ka poʻe he nui i ka ʻike ʻana i ka hahau kūpono a me ke kaomi a poina iā lākou ke ʻoliʻoli i ke kaʻina," wahi a Caitlin V. "Hoʻokomo i ka palaualelo! Minoʻaka! Akaaka! E hauʻoli ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. ”

E hoʻohui paha i kahi mea pāʻani

"ʻO nā mea pāʻani (ʻo ka mea nui o nā manamana lima) he mea hoʻohui maikaʻi loa i ka manamana lima," wahi a Caitlin V.

"Inā ʻoe e hoʻohana i kahi mea haʻalulu, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa i kāu hoa ma ka holo ʻana i nā mea āpau o kā lākou puʻupuʻu, a me kā lākou mau ʻūhā a me nā nipples o loko," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

E kū paha wau ma aneʻi? He aha kaʻu e hana ai ma hope?

Hilinaʻi i kāu hoa.

"No nā poʻe he nui, kahi hālāwai moekolohe lima maikaʻi kahi hana kūpono ia nona iho, akā no kekahi he papa hoʻokahi wale nō ia i loko o ka papa ʻaina ʻelima," wahi a Deysach.

Pehea wau e ʻike ai inā e hoʻomau wau i ka hele?

Kamaʻilio! "E nānā me kāu hoa a ʻike pehea ko lākou manaʻo," wahi a Deysach.

E nīnau paha ʻoe:

• "Pehea kou manaʻo? Ke makemake nei ʻoe i kahi mea ʻē aʻe? "
• "Makemake ʻoe e lawe i kahi hanu a hoʻi hou i kahi moe?"
• "Manaʻo wau wela paha iā [X], pehea kou manaʻo e pili ana i kēlā?"

He aha inā makemake wau e hoʻonāukiuki?

ʻAʻohe kānalua, ke hoʻohuli nei i kāu pakanā hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i kāna pono ponoʻī. Eia nō naʻe, makemake paha ʻoe i kahi mea hoʻonāukiuki hou aʻe. Hiki iā ʻoe:

• E noi i kāu hoa e hoʻohana i kahi stroker a vibrator ma luna ou.
• E hoʻokomo i kahi puʻupuʻu a i ʻole ka haʻalulu pantie.
• Wili kuʻe i ka moena.
• Masturbate.

Pehea e pili ana ke pau ana?

E haʻi iā lākou i ka nui o kou aloha i ka manamana iā lākou a i ka maikaʻi a lākou i manaʻo ai e hoʻopuni ana i kou mau manamana lima.

Wela pū (inā ʻaʻohe pilikia o STI): E hānai i kou mau manamana lima maʻemaʻe, a i ʻole e hoʻokuʻu i kāu pakanā.

Ke laina lalo

Hiki ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia i ka moekolohe lima, akā ke hana pono ʻia hiki ke wela loa. Hele, hoʻohana i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a hele aku e ʻike iā ʻoe iho.

ʻO Gabrielle Kassel kahi mea kākau wahine a me ke olakino ma New York – a ʻo CrossFit Level 1 Trainer. Ua lilo ʻo ia i kanaka kakahiaka, ua hoʻāʻo ma luna o 200 mau haʻalulu, a ʻai ʻia, ʻona, a palaki ʻia me ka lanahu - nā mea āpau ma ka inoa o ka puke pai. I kona manawa kaʻawale, hiki ke loaʻa ʻo ia i ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke kōkua nona iho a me nā puke aloha, kaomi ʻana i ke keʻena, a me ka hulahula lāʻau paha. E hāhai iā ia ma Instagram.