Hōʻike ʻepekema Hou ʻO kēia nā mea maʻalahi ʻo 4 āu e pono ai no ka moekolohe kupaianaha

Anter

• E lilo i luna
• Hāʻawi i ke alakaʻi
• Hana e like me nā lā mua
• ʻoluʻolu = priority
• Nānā no

ʻO ka hōʻoia ʻana he mea nui loa ka climax e haʻalele i ka hopena. (Psst: ʻo ia paha ke kumu maoli ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokalakupua.) Ma kahi haʻawina hoʻomaka, ua nīnau nā mea noiʻi i nā wahine i ka mea e hana maoli ai no lākou ma kahi moe-a ʻike ʻia ʻo kēia mau neʻe maʻalahi ʻehā i mea ʻokoʻa.

E lilo i luna

No ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kou manawa o ka O, koho i kahi kūlana e hāʻawi kūlohelohe i nā hoʻoiho pololei nāu, e like me ka wahine ma luna, e ʻōlelo ana ʻo Lloyd. (ʻOiaʻiʻo leʻaleʻa: Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i ka inoa ʻepekema kūhelu no kēlā neʻe ʻo "ke kiʻekiʻena wahine.") Hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka kaohi hou aku e hoʻonohonoho i ka wikiwiki a me ka ikaika. (A i ʻole e hoʻāʻo i kekahi o kēia mau kūlana wahine.)

Hāʻawi i ke alakaʻi

ʻO ka haʻi pololei ʻana i kāu hoa pili i ka mea maikaʻi a me ka mea ʻaʻole i ka wā moe e hoʻonui ai i kou hiki ke loaʻa ka orgasm, ʻike ʻia ka haʻawina. Loaʻa iā mākou nā mea like ʻole a me nā makemake ʻole, a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e hiki ke ʻokoʻa i kēlā me kēia lā, ʻo ia ke kumu he mea koʻikoʻi ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā manaʻo manawa maoli, wahi a Frederick. ʻO ke kamaʻilio pololei ʻana me kāu kāne e wehe pū i ka puka i ka spontaneity. No ka laʻana, e ʻōlelo paha ʻoe, "E hoʻāʻo [e hoʻopiha i ka hakahaka]" - kahi mea āu e makemake mau ai e hana akā ʻaʻole loa ke aʻa e ʻōlelo. ʻO kēlā wiwo ʻole a me ka mea hou e hoʻonui ai i kou hiki ke hoʻopau nui.

Hana e like me nā lā mua

Hoʻomoe ka honi hohonu i nā wahine i ka orgasm. He hōʻailona ia o ka pili a me ke kuko, nā mea ʻelua e alakaʻi i ka moekolohe maikaʻi aʻe, i ʻōlelo ʻia e David Frederick, Ph.D., ke alakaʻi noiʻi no ke aʻo ʻana, paʻi ʻia i loko o ka Pūnaewele o ka moekolohe. (Bonus: ʻo ka honi ʻana i hōʻoia i nā pono olakino.) Kino, hoʻomehana pū kekahi i nā mea. "ʻO ka waha, ka lehelehe, a me ke alelo he mau ʻāpana erogenous," wahi a Elisabeth Lloyd, Ph.D., kekahi o nā mea kākau hoʻopaʻa haʻawina.

ʻoluʻolu = priority

ʻOiaʻiʻo makemake ʻoe e hōʻoia ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia iā ia iho. Akā mai poina iā ʻoe. "Ma kahi mamao, ʻo ka wānana maikaʻi loa o ka manawa pinepine a ka wahine orgasms i ka manawa pinepine e loaʻa ai ka moe waha," wahi a Frederick. Hoʻokumu ia i kahi ʻano kokoke e hiki ke lawe i nā mea i ka pae aʻe-a eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka hapalua o nā kāne a pau i ʻōlelo he maʻa mau ia o kā lākou hana maʻamau. "Hiki ke ʻoi aku ka pili ma mua o ka moe kolohe ʻana, a ʻo ia hoʻi ka manaʻo o ka wahine i makemake ʻia no ka mea ke nānā aku nei kāna hoa i ka leʻaleʻa iā ia," wahi a Frederick.

Nānā no