Pehea e noho hauʻoli ai
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MELISSA RYCROFT, ʻo ia kekahi o nā wahine 25 e hoʻokūkū ana i ka maka o Jason Mesnick ʻO ke kēkelē. "Ua hele wau ma ka hōʻike me ka noʻonoʻo hāmama a me ka puʻuwai hāmama-a manaʻo wau ua ʻike nā mea āpau i ka hopena!" nā hoʻohenehene he 26 makahiki. (Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hala, ua noi ʻo Jason iā Melissa i ka hopena o ka manawa, a laila ua kāpae i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma kahi hanana hope i ʻeono pule wale nō ma hope mai e ʻimi i kahi pilina me ka lua o ka hōʻike.) Akā ma kahi o ka noho ʻana i kēlā lehulehu hoka, neʻe akula ʻo Melissa. Ua hopu ʻo ia i kahi kūlana kolu kupaianaha ma Ka hulahula ʻana me nā hōkū (DWTS) , lilo a ʻAmelika kakahiaka maikaʻi mea kōkua kūikawā, a launa hou me Tye Strickland, ka mea āna i aloha ai a hala ʻelua mau makahiki. A laila ʻo Kekemapa i hala, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Melissa lāua ʻo Tye "hana wau" i mua o 200 mau hoaaloha a me nā lālā o ka ʻohana ma ka ʻaoʻao ma ka moana ma Isla Mujeres, Mexico. "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke manaʻoʻiʻo," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "I kēia makahiki i hala aku nei, he moʻolelo moʻolelo koʻu ola!" Noho ʻo Melissa me Kinohi e kaʻana like i ka mea a kēlā "pupule" i aʻo ai iā ia e pili ana i ke aloha aloha, ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi male, a me ka ukali ʻana i kou puʻuwai no ka mea ʻole.
E loaʻa ʻoe i ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo
He mau kāne ʻo Melissa lāua ʻo Tye ma mua ʻO ke kēkelē, a ʻo ko lāua hoʻokaʻawale ka mea i hoʻonāukiuki iā Melissa e hele i ka hōʻike. "Ua kaumaha loa kuʻu puʻuwai, a ua manaʻo wau e lawe iaʻu mai Dallas a hōʻike hou iaʻu i ke ola," wahi a Melissa. "Eia kekahi, ua hāʻawi ka manawa iā Tye iaʻu." ʻAʻole i liʻuliʻu ma hope o ka hanana hope o ka hōʻike, ua hui hou ʻo ia me Tye, a ua hiki ʻole ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai ia manawa mai. "He ala pupule kā mākou, ʻo ia ke kumu o kā mākou mele male ʻo Rascal Flatt's 'Bless the Broken Road," wahi a Melissa. "Akā ke nānā mākou i hope iā ia, ʻike mākou he ʻāpana ia o kā ke Akua hoʻolālā no mākou. Hāʻule nā mea āpau i ka wā kūpono ka manawa.
"Ua lohe wau i kekahi e ʻōlelo ana inā ʻike ʻoe i kou aloha maoli, e ʻike ʻoe ma ka home i nā manawa āpau. Tye ʻo ia koʻu home: ʻO ia koʻu wahi maluhia, hōʻoluʻolu, a loaʻa iaʻu ka hauʻoli piha i nā manawa a pau aʻu e hoʻopuni ai iā ia."
ʻAʻohe mea e like me ka male male maikaʻi loa
"Makemake au i koʻu ʻohana a me ko Tye ʻohana e hauʻoli i ka male, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo makemake wau e hauʻoli pū kekahi," wahi a Melissa. "No laila ua lawelawe wau i nā ʻano meaʻai like ʻole a pāʻani i kahi hui o nā mele, a ua hōʻoia wau i kēlā me kēia kikoʻī malihini mai ka halihali ʻana i nā hana i uhi ʻia." ʻO kāna ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo punahele no nā wahine mare: Hoʻomaha wale a hana kou lā maikaʻi loa. "ʻO kaʻu akeakamai kaʻu e ʻai ai i ka meaʻai, hulahula i ke mele, a hoʻolilo manawa me kaʻu kāne-a ʻaʻole e waiho i nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me nā mea kikowaena a i ʻole nā ʻūlū e hoʻokūpī iaʻu. Ua pau wau i ka make, akā, ʻo kaʻu male ma ke ʻano hemolele iaʻu. "
Pono mau kou leo o loko
I ka wā i pili ai i kāna kikoʻī male-ʻo nā mea āpau mai ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoa aloha ʻehā wale nō i kāna pāʻina male a hiki i ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi melemona-ʻike maoli ʻo Melissa i kāna makemake a hilinaʻi hoʻi i kāna ʻano. "Ua hele au iā Alfred Angelo no kuʻu lole, a ua aloha au i ka lole mua aʻu i ʻike ai i loko o kā lākou papa inoa," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ua hoʻouna ʻia iā lākou, ua hoʻāʻo au iā ia, a ʻo ia nō ka lole. Ua hoʻonohonoho ka hale kūʻai iaʻu no kahi manawa ʻekolu hola, akā ua hele wau i waho i 20 mau minuke!"
A ʻo ka meli, pololei kāna ʻōpū e pili ana i kēlā: "Ke hoʻomaka nei ʻo Tye i kāna ʻoihana i Ianuali, no laila ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka hele ʻana," wahi a Melissa. "Ua ʻōlelo nā kānaka āpau ua pono mākou e lawe i kahi meli ma muli o ka hōʻailona, akākā mākou Ke hoʻomaka nei mākou me ka hōʻailona. "
Mai hoʻokuʻu i ka makaʻu iā ʻoe
I ka manawa i hāʻawi ʻia ai ʻo Melissa i ka manawa kūpono e pani ai iā Nancy O'Dell (ma hope o kēlā manawa– Loaʻa iā Hollywood hōʻeha pū ka heleuma i ka wā hōʻike hōʻikeʻike) ma ʻO DWTS, hoʻokahi mea i hopu ʻia: ʻElua wale nō ona lā e aʻo ai i ka hana maʻamau. "Ua makaʻu wau i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, 'E makemake paha nā mea a pau i kēia a i ʻole e inaina lākou iā ia," wahi āna. "Akā i koʻu puka ʻana i waho o ke kahua, hele helehelena ka lehulehu. Hiki iaʻu ke hoʻololi i koʻu ola i kēlā manawa."
Pololei ʻo ia: Kāʻala kāna ʻO DWTS alakaʻi i ka hana a Melissa ma ke ʻano he mea kōkua kūikawā ma ʻAmelika kakahiaka maikaʻi. "Aneane au i nīnau i nā mea hana, 'Ua maopopo anei ʻoe?'" wahi āna. "Akā ua ʻōlelo lākou makemake lākou iaʻu e lawe i koʻu ʻano i loko o ka hōʻike, a manaʻo wau, 'ʻĀ, hiki iaʻu ke hana i kēlā.' He holo kamahaʻo ia, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke manaʻoio ke holo nei nō kēia. "
Mai hoʻopilikia i kēlā me kēia lā
ʻOiai ʻo kāna ʻoihana hou i ka ʻoihana hōʻikeʻike, ʻaʻohe manaʻo o kēia alakaʻi ʻoliʻoli mua o Dallas Cowboys e neʻe i Los Angeles a i New York City. "ʻO kā mākou mau ʻohana, nā hoaaloha, a me kā Tye hana aia ma Texas āpau," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "E mālama mākou i ko mākou ola ma hea lākou a ma hea lākou i noho mau ai." No ka mea male hou, ʻo ia hoʻi he mau lā ma ke ala. "Hele au i nā manawa he nui i ka mahina," wahi a Melissa. "I kekahi manawa hele mai ʻo Tye me aʻu, a ʻo ia ka mea e leʻaleʻa ai.Akā inā hiki ʻole iā ia, he kānāwai kā mākou ʻaʻole e kaʻawale no ʻehā a ʻoi mau lā. "
Pono e leʻaleʻa nā hana
Hoʻomaʻamaʻa no ʻO DWTS koi ʻia nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa he ʻewalu hola, ʻehiku mau lā o ka pule, ka mea i haʻalele iā Melissa ʻokiʻoki a luhi ʻia akā ua luhi. "ʻO wau i ke ʻano maikaʻi loa o koʻu ola," wahi āna. "I kekahi manawa ua nānā au i koʻu abs a hiki iaʻu ke helu iā lākou! Akā, ʻaʻole ia koʻu kino maoli, a ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomau i ka hana i kēlā ikaika." A ma hope o ka hōʻike, hoʻopau loa ʻo Melissa i ka hoʻoikaika kino. "Pono wau e haʻalele, no ka mea, ʻaʻole oʻu makemake e nalowale i ka hauʻoli o ka hana ʻana. Ke holo nei ʻo ia i ʻelua a ʻekolu paha mile ʻehā a ʻeono lā o ka pule, a me nā kaʻaahi ikaika ma ka home. A ʻoiai ke nānā aku ke kālai ʻia he mea hoʻohui ia, ʻōlelo ʻo Melissa ʻo ka hoʻoikaika kino ke kōkua iā ia e noho ikaika i ka naʻau. "He mea hōʻoluʻolu koʻikoʻi kēia, a ʻo koʻu manawa kēia e noho kaʻawale ai a hoʻoponopono i koʻu mau manaʻo," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ma hope o ka holo ʻana, ua pau koʻu haʻalulu a ʻoluʻolu mau wau i ke koena o ka lā."
ʻO ke olakino ka nohona
ʻAʻole hilahila ʻo Melissa e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i kāna haʻihaʻi ʻana mai ka hana ʻana i lilo ai i meaʻai no ka manuahi pū kekahi. "E ʻai māua ʻo Tye i waho i nā pō he nui i ka pule a loaʻa nā ʻano momona nā ʻanoʻai āpau," i ʻōlelo ai ʻo ia. "Akā i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hoʻoikaika kino hou, ua ʻike mākou he pono nō kā mākou e ʻai pū-he mea nui ia no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hopena." Ma kahi o ka ʻai ʻana, ua hana nā kāne i nā loli maʻalahi, me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hapa nui o nā meaʻai ma ka home ma mua o nā hale ʻaina. "I kēia manawa, ʻai mākou i waho i hoʻokahi wale nō i ka pule-ma ka Pōʻalima a i ʻole ka Pōʻaono-a kuke wau i nā lā ʻē aʻe," wahi a Melissa. "No nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua mālama au iaʻu iho, a i kēia manawa ke hauʻoli nui nei au i ka ʻai ʻana ma ka papaʻaina ke hoʻi ʻo Tye i ka home- e ʻike mākou i ka lōʻihi o ka lōʻihi! moa, akā, ua aʻo au i ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana i ke ahi tuna, a ʻono ia!"
Ua loaʻa iā Melissa kahi ala e ʻai ai i ke olakino me ka haʻalele ʻole ʻana i ka meaʻai wikiwiki. "Ke makemake nui wau i kahi mea e like me nā manamana moa a me nā french fries, he ʻai wale kaʻu keiki," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ua lawa ia e māʻona ai koʻu ʻiʻini."
Aia ma mua o hoʻokahi wehewehe ʻana o ka sexy
Ua ʻike ʻo Melissa i ka mea huna i ka haohao ʻana no ka pehea o kona ʻano a me kāna mea e kau ai: ka hōʻoia ponoʻī. "ʻO ka hilinaʻi, a pehea ʻoe e hōʻike ai iā ia, he moekolohe ia," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ke hana nei au ma ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka hauʻoli a me ka huʻihuʻi. ʻAʻole wau ʻo Megan Fox sexy, akā ʻo wau ke kaikamahine-next-door sexy-a ʻike wau ua ʻike ʻo Tye i kēlā mea nani loa. - a hoʻonani iā ia!"