Pehea e ʻapo ai i kāu Badass i loko

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I kēia au kikohoʻe me ka helu ʻole ʻana, he maʻalahi ka nalo ʻana i ko mākou makemake a me ko mākou kumu. I ka ʻimi ʻana i ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā kaikamahine a me nā wahine e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa no lākou iho, hōʻike ʻo Alexis Jones i ka manaʻo wahine i ka moeʻuhane nui a hoʻomaka e ola i ke ola āu e makemake maoli ai i kēia manawa.

Ua hele hoʻokahi mākou me ka mea hoʻokumu o I Am That Girl a me ka mea kākau o ka puke e hiki mai ana ʻO wau kēlā kaikamahine: Pehea e ʻōlelo ai i kāu ʻoiaʻiʻo, e ʻike i kāu kumu, a me #bethatgirl e aʻo i kāna mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kiʻekiʻe no ka mālama pono ʻana iā ʻoe iho a pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻapo piha i kāu badass o loko.

Kinohi: He aha ʻO wau kēlā kaikamahine nā mea āpau?

Alexis Jones (AJ): ʻO ia ka mea hoʻomanaʻo hope loa i kou weliweli. Nui mākou i ka pōʻino me nā memo e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole lawa mākou. ʻO kēia kaʻu hoʻāʻo haʻahaʻa e hoʻomanaʻo i nā kaikamahine he ʻano ʻino lākou. ʻO nā mea āu e makemake ai i ke ola, hiki nō. Pono mākou e lilo i mea hoʻohauʻoli nui loa.

Helehelena: Manaʻo ʻoe he ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka lilo ʻana i wahine i kēia kaiāulu?

AJ: Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia hanauna kā lākou mau pilikia, akā he ʻokoʻa a paʻakikī hoʻi kā mākou i kēia lā me ka ʻenehana a me nā leka uila. Ma ka awelika, hoʻopau mākou i 10 mau hola o ka pāpāho a me 3,000 mau kiʻi kuni i ka lā. Ke ʻōlelo nei kēia mau memo, "ʻAʻole lawa ʻoe, akā inā kūʻai ʻoe i kā mākou huahana, malia paha ʻoe." He mea pupule ke noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia kēia iā mākou, akā ikaika ka ʻike ʻana he paʻakikī ia no mākou. No laila, ʻoiai nā polokalamu a pau, nā kiʻi, Photoshop, a me ke kālepa hoʻohuli, e hana wau i ka hana e pono ai ka manaʻo maikaʻi iaʻu. E pili ana i ka hilinaʻi.

Kinohi: Makemake nā wāhine e hoʻokau iā lākou iho i hope. Pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻonohonoho mua i ka mālama ʻana iā mākou iho?

AJ: Pono ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ʻae e lilo ai i mea aloha. Pono ka wahine e hānai, akā ʻo ia hoʻi hiki iā mākou ke lilo i martyrs: Hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi ke loaʻa ʻole nā ​​mea e hāʻawi. Pono ʻoe e hoʻopili ʻia i kāu kumu mana-inā paha ʻo kou manaʻoʻiʻo, kou mau hoaaloha, a i ʻole kāu hana-a lawe i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i ka mea nui iā ʻoe, i ʻole e nalowale ʻoe i kahi kūlana mau o ka hana. Hiki iā mākou ke hele i laila no kā mākou mau hoaaloha a hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo iā lākou, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo iā mākou iho. Mai hoolei aku i na mea nui ia oe e malama i ka mea nui no hai.

Helehelena: He aha kāu ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o kou kuko a me kāu kumu i ke ola?

AJ: Pono ʻoe e noho mālie, hāmau, a hemo. He paʻakikī loa ka lohe ʻana i ka leo o loko e pili ana i ka mea nui iā ʻoe. Āhea ka manawa hope loa āu i hana ai me ka manaʻo he ʻelima a 10 mau minuke o ka hāmau? Pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke lohe i kēlā hāwanawana o loko ke hoʻohoka a wehe mākou? ʻO ka mea aʻe, ʻo ka hele ʻana i waho o kāu wahi hōʻoluʻolu. Hana i nā mea e hoʻoweliweli iā ʻoe a loaʻa nā kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi. [Tweet i kēia kihi!]

Kinohi: He aha kāu ʻōlelo aʻo no nā wahine ʻoihana e makemake pū ana e hoʻololi?

AJ: E hoʻomaka liʻiliʻi. Noho mākou i kahi hanauna kahi i manaʻo nui ai mākou a loaʻa nā pahuhopu nui, akā poina mākou i ka hopena i loaʻa iā mākou i ko mākou kūlana i kēlā me kēia lā. Maʻalahi e like me ka nānā ʻana i ka mea kūʻai kālā ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kūʻai, waiho i ke kelepona, a nīnau iā lākou pehea lākou lā. ʻO ka pane i loaʻa iā ʻoe mai ka poʻe he haʻalulu! Manaʻo mākou e hoʻomaka ana ka hopena i kahi loaʻa kālā ʻole a i ʻole ke hāʻawi ʻana i kēia kālā āpau, akā hoʻomaka ia me hoʻokahi kanaka.

Kinohi: Aia ʻoe ma Mea Ola, ʻo ia ka hoʻāʻo hope loa o ka ikaika kino, noʻonoʻo, a me ka ʻuhane. Pehea ka hopena o ia ʻike i kāu mau manaʻoʻiʻo a me kāu puke?

AJ: Ma ka hōʻike ʻana he hana pupule ka! He junkie haʻuki koʻikoʻi au, akā ua hoʻopau wau i ka hele ʻana i nā lā he 13 me ka ʻole ʻai ʻole, haki koʻu lima i ka lā hoʻokahi, hoʻopaʻa i koʻu wāwae i ka lā 19-Ua manaʻo wau ua paʻakikī wau a hiki i koʻu hele ʻana. ʻAʻole hiki ke wehewehe ʻia hiki ke loaʻa ka manawa kūpono e ʻike ai i nā mea a mākou e hana ai. He haʻahaʻa loa. Ua hāʻawi iaʻu i kahi ʻike o ke ala o ke koena o ka honua e ola nei. Ua hāʻawi iaʻu i ka hana etika a me ka mahalo ʻole palena ʻole. ʻAʻohe oʻu aniani no nā lā he 30. ʻO nā mea a pau e like me ka maikaʻi a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hana maikaʻi ʻaʻole ia he mea nui ma waho. He mea hoihoi i ka ho'ākāka hou 'ana o ka nani. ʻO wai ʻoe ʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o ka mea ma waho.

E hoʻolohe i ka ʻōlelo aʻo maʻalahi a ikaika a Jones no kekahi kaikamahine ma ka wikiō ma lalo.

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