Pehea e hana ai me kahi luna weliweli

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I ka wā e pili ana i kahi luna maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe makemake e ʻakaʻaka wale a amo, wahi a kahi noiʻi hou i paʻi ʻia ma ka puke pai. Noʻonoʻo kanaka.

Ua ʻike nā mea noiʻi ʻo nā limahana i loaʻa i nā luna hoʻomalu - i wehewehe ʻia ʻo ka poʻe e ʻuā, hoʻomāʻewaʻewa, a hoʻoweliweli i kā lākou poʻe limahana - ua ʻike maoli lākou i ka pilikia o ka noʻonoʻo, ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli o ka hana, a ʻoi aku ka paʻa ʻana i ko lākou haku hana i ko lākou hakakā ʻana i ko lākou poʻe paʻahana ma mua o nā limahana i hana. 'aʻole hoʻopaʻi. (Nānā i nā Situa Hana Paʻa 11, Wehe ʻia!)

I kēia hihia, ua wehewehe ʻia ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana e "ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ko lākou haku, e hana ana me he mea lā ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i ka mea a ko lākou mau luna e kamaʻilio nei, a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka hana hapa puʻuwai," i wehewehe ʻia e ka nūpepa.

Inā haʻalulu ʻoe i kēia mau ʻike, ʻaʻole ʻoe wale nō. "Ma mua o kā mākou hana ʻana i kēia noiʻi, ua manaʻo wau ʻaʻole he alo o ka poʻe limahana i hoʻopaʻi kūʻē aku i ko lākou mau haku, akā ʻaʻole ia ka mea i loaʻa iā mākou," i ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo Bennett Tepper, ka mea kākau o ka noiʻi a me ke polopeka o ka hoʻokele a me nā kumuwaiwai kanaka ma The Ohio State. Ke Kulanui o Fisher College of Business.

ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia kēia e hele i nā mea a pau Nā Pāhoho weliweli i kāu keʻena. ʻAʻole ʻo ka lawe ʻana i nā limahana e hoʻopaʻi maʻalahi i kā lākou luna ʻenemi me kēia mau ʻano passive-agressive, wahi a Tepper i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana. "ʻO ka pane maoli ʻo ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā luna ʻenemi," wahi āna. (Eia, ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻoi loa mai nā Pule wahine.)

ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki i ka hapa nui o mākou ke paʻi i ko mākou mau manamana lima a hoʻopau i kā mākou mau luna ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻole, aia nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻoikaika i kou ʻano a hoʻomaikaʻi i kou pilina me kou haku. E hoʻomaka me kēia mau ala 10 e hauʻoli ai i ka hana me ka hoʻololi ʻole i nā hana.

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