Ua hoʻomaka ʻo Carrie Underwood i kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa pūnaewele e pili ana i ka momona ma hope o ka makahiki 35
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In Puke ʻulaʻulaʻO ka nīnauele uhi o Sepatemaba, ua kūkākūkā ʻo Carrie Underwood i kāna album hou a me nā ʻeha i hala iho nei, akā ʻo kahi manaʻo āna i hana ai e pili ana i ka hoʻolālā ʻana o kona ʻohana i kau nui ka manaʻo ma waena o ka pūnaewele. "ʻO 35 wau, no laila ua hala paha mākou i ko mākou manawa e loaʻa ai kahi ʻohana nui," i haʻi aku ai ʻo ia i ka mag. "Kamaʻilio mau mākou e pili ana i ka hānai a me ka hana ʻana ke keu iki aʻe kā mākou keiki a mau keiki paha."
ʻAʻole ia e like me kahi ~ mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa ~ mea e ʻōlelo ai, akā ʻo kā Underwood ʻōlelo i hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi mau leʻaleʻa e pili ana i ka momona. Ua haʻi kekahi poʻe ua manaʻo lākou ua alakaʻi hewa ʻia ka ʻōlelo a Underwood. "Pono ʻoe e ʻike i kou puka aniani no ka loaʻa ʻole o nā keiki. ʻO ka mea wale nō e kāohi ana iā ʻoe ʻo kāu hoʻoholo a i ʻole. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā keiki olakino. ʻAʻole ʻelemakule 35, 35 ʻaʻole i lohi, 35 maikaʻi." hoʻokahi kanaka tweeted.
"Carrie no ke aha i kou manaʻo, i ka makahiki 35, ua pani ʻia kāu puka aniani e loaʻa hou kahi keiki? Sure ʻo ka nui ʻana o ka makahiki ʻaʻole hiki ke maʻalahi e hāpai. Inā makemake ʻoe, e hoʻokō!" ua kākau kekahi. (E pili pū ana: Kaʻana like ʻo Carrie Underwood i nā kiʻi nani loa e hana ana me kāna ʻohana)
ʻO kekahi i hele mai i ka pale a Underwood. "No ke aha i hāʻawi ai nā mea a pau iā Carrie Underwood i ka wela no ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua hopohopo ʻo ia no ka momona i ka makahiki 35? ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻo kāna kauka, ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike inā loaʻa iā ia kahi maʻi maʻi e paʻakikī iā ia ke hānau keiki," hoʻokahi kanaka i kākau. "Pololei ʻo Carrie Underwood. I ka huli ʻana i 35 mau makahiki, ua manaʻo ʻia he kiʻekiʻe loa kou hāpai ʻana. ʻOi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o nā pilikia no ka pēpē a me ka makuahine," i kau ʻia e kekahi.
E maopopo ai, ʻaʻole i ʻōlelo ʻo Underwood i nā wahine hiki ole he mau keiki ma hope o 35, ua ʻōlelo wale ʻo ia Mei ua hala kona manawa e loaʻa a nui ohana. ʻO lāua me kāna kāne ʻo Mike Fisher i kēia manawa hoʻokahi keiki. ʻO ka poʻe haʻi'ōlelo i kuhikuhi mai ʻaʻole ʻelemakule ʻo 35 no ka hāpai ʻana, ʻoiai. I nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua ʻike ʻo ʻAmelika i ka piʻi ʻana o nā wahine i loaʻa kā lākou keiki mua ma hope o ka makahiki 35, ʻo ia paha ma muli o ka puka ʻana o nā holomua olakino e like me IVF, ka hoʻoheheʻe ʻana o ka hua manu, a me ka surrogacy.
"ʻOiai nā pilikia, hiki i nā wahine he 35 a ʻoi paha ke loaʻa o nā hāpai hāpai olakino a me nā pēpē," e like me ka American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). (Eia nā pane i kāu mau nīnau a pau e pili ana i ka maloʻo hua manu a me ka momona i kou mau makahiki.)
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka poʻe tweeters i hele mai e pale aku iā ia he kiko. ʻIke ʻia e hoʻomaka ka hāʻule o ka momona ma mua o 24 mau makahiki me ka nui o ka hōʻemi wikiwiki ke hōʻea nā wahine i ka makahiki 30. "ʻAʻole hāʻule koke ka momona," ʻo Mary Jane Minkin, MD, he polofesa lapaʻau o nā hānau wahine a me nā gynecology ma ke Kula Lapaʻau ʻo Yale, i haʻi mua ʻia Kinohi. "Akā ma kahi o 35 mau makahiki, hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike i kahi emi maʻalahi, a ma 40 kahi emi nui. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole i hele ʻo Underwood i kumu no ka hōʻike ʻana i kāna mau mea nui i ka iho ʻana o nā keiki he nui. ʻO nā wahine hāpai ma mua o 35 ka mea i loaʻa ka manawa kiʻekiʻe o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē me kahi kīnā o ka hānau a i ʻole ka ʻeha ʻana i ka hānau ʻole a hānau hou paha, e like me ka ACOG. Hoʻohui ʻia, hiki i nā wahine i ʻoi aku ma mua o 35 ke maʻalahi i ka preeclampsia, ke kūlana weliweli i alakaʻi iā Beyoncé e loaʻa kahi ʻāpana C pilikia. (ʻO ia nō ke kūlana like i koi iā Kim Kardashian e hoʻohana i kahi pani no kāna keiki ʻekolu.)
TL; DR? He ʻano ʻokoʻa kā kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao i ka mea a Underwood i ʻōlelo ai, a aia kekahi mau ʻoiaʻiʻo ma hope o kēlā me kēia kiko kūpono. Akā hoʻokahi aniani o ka aniani: ʻO ka hānau a me ka ʻelemakule e lilo i kumuhana touchy-a me kumuhana.