3 Nā pilikia olakino Pono e ʻike nā wahine Bisexual e pili ana
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Ke wehe nei nā wahine hou aʻe e pili ana i kā lākou bisexuality, e like me ka loiloi aupuni e nā Centers for Disease Control and Prevent i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i ka mahina i hala. Ma luna o 5 pakeneka o nā wāhine i ʻōlelo he bisexual lākou i kēia manawa, ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 3.9 pākēneka i ka wā i hana hope ʻia ai ka noiʻi ʻana i ka makahiki 2011. Akā ʻo ka bisexual hiki ke paʻakikī. "Ke kuhi ʻo ia he pololei a male paha, maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kaiāulu e ʻae ana, akā me nā bisexuals, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā manawa," i ʻōlelo ʻo Aron C. Janssen, MD, ke kauka lapaʻau kōkua ma NYU Langone Medical Center, ka mea loea i ka wahine a moe kolohe. "ʻIke pinepine nā Bisexuals i ka stigma a me ka bias mai nā hui ʻelua."
ʻO ka mea hou aku, ua noiʻi ʻia e nā kānaka noiʻi mai ke Kula Lāʻau o Hygiene & Tropical London he aneane he 1,000 mau wahine bisexual a ʻoi aku ma mua o 4,500 mau wahine wahine ma UK a loaʻa kekahi mau ʻokoʻa lāhui nui ma waena o nā hui ʻelua-ʻo ia hoʻi nā wahine bisexual ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka loaʻa kālā ma mua o ka lesbians. Ua puka pū mai nā ʻokoʻa olakino koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi. I ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā lesbians, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka 64 pākēneka e hōʻike i nā pilikia e pili ana i ka ʻai, 26 ka nui o ke kaumaha a me ke kaumaha, a ʻo 37 ka nui aʻe o ka hōʻeha iā lākou iho i ka makahiki i hala. (Ua ʻike paha ʻoe ʻo ka hui pū ʻana o ka hoʻoikaika kino a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana hiki ke hōʻemi i ke kaumaha?)
He mea paʻakikī ke hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu e pili ai kēia mau pilikia i ka bisexual ma mua o nā lesbians a i ʻole heterosexuals no ka mea ua hauʻoli loa ka poʻe bisexual. Akā he mea nui ka hoʻokae ʻelua ʻana mai nā kaiaulu pololei a me nā kaiaulu. "Aia kahi manaʻo i kapa ʻia ʻo ke koʻikoʻi liʻiliʻi e alakaʻi ai ka hapa liʻiliʻi i ke kaumaha nui a hiki ke alakaʻi i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole i ke olakino noʻonoʻo a me nā kāʻei lapaʻau," wahi a Janssen.
I nā manawa he nui, hiki ke huli ʻia kēia koʻikoʻi i ka wā ʻōpio. ʻO ka bisise, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka moekolohe, hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻomāinoino ma ke kula. "ʻO ka manawa pinepine, hiki i ka hōʻeha kamaliʻi ke wānana i nā ʻike traumatic i ka wā makua," wahi a Janssen. "Inā hoʻomāinoino ʻia ʻoe i ka wā kamaliʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomau i kēlā pōʻai i ka wā makua a loaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi pilina kahi āu i hoʻomāinoino ai." Ma mua o 46 pākēneka o nā wahine bisexual ʻike i ka pākino i ko lākou wā e ola nei, e like me ka National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey Survey mai nā Centers for Disease Control and Prevent. He piʻi nui kēlā mai ka 13.1 pakeneka o nā wahine lesbian a me 17.4 pakeneka o nā wahine heterosexual e hana nei.
Ma luna o nā mea āpau, kokoke i ka hapahā o nā bisexuals ʻaʻohe ʻinikua olakino, ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me 20 pākēneka o nā heterosexuals a me 17 pākēneka o ka wahine a male kāne paha, loaʻa kahi hōʻike mai ka Kaiser Family Foundation. Ma muli paha o ka ʻokoʻa o ka loaʻa kālā a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo ʻole ʻana i nā koho ʻinikua ma waho, wahi a Alina Salganicoff, Ph.D., hope pelekikena a me ka luna o ke kulekele olakino wahine ma ka Kaiser Family Foundation.
ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, hiki i nā wahine bisexual ke mālama i nā pale e pale aku iā lākou iho a me ko lākou olakino kūʻē i kēia mau pilikia.
ʻInikua
ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi ka hana o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻinikua i ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ma muli o ke kānāwai Affordable Care Act a me ka hoʻokahuli ʻia ʻana o ke kānāwai Defence of Marriage, wahi a Salganicoff. ʻAʻole kūʻē ke kānāwai i kēia manawa ke hōʻole i ka ʻinikua e pili ana i kahi kūlana mua-e like me ka maʻi noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ka maʻi HIV. A ua hoʻonui nā bisexual i kēia manawa ma waena o nā hoa like a me nā luna hana. ʻo ka hoʻokahuli ʻia ʻana o ka Defense of Marriage Act ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo nā kāne a me nā kāne like ʻole e male ʻia e hiki ke pōmaikaʻi ʻia mai ka ʻinikua olakino a kā lākou hoa. A ʻo ka manaʻo o ka poʻe i hoʻopaʻa ʻole ʻia ʻaʻole paha e like me ka ʻike. ʻO ka ʻikepili i loaʻa iā mākou ma mua o ke Affordable Care Act a me ka hoʻohuli ʻana i ka Defense of Marriage Act he hopena maoli nō, wahi a Salganicoff. I kēia mau lā, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā ʻinikua, no laila aia paha ka liʻiliʻi o nā wahine bisexual ʻole i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma mua o ka 2013.
E pale i kou ola kino
E hana hou a pale iā ʻoe iho me ka noʻonoʻo. "ʻO ka pahuhopu me kēlā me kēia papa hana hoʻomaʻamaʻa pilikino he mea pākahi ia," wahi a Janssen. ʻO ia ke mālama ʻia ʻana no ke olakino noʻonoʻo, inā he bisexual ʻoe, pololei, a i ʻole male kāne, e hoʻokokoke ʻia me ka mālama pilikino like. Aia kekahi ala e hoʻonui ai i kou olakino noʻonoʻo ma waho o ke keʻena o ke kauka. ʻAʻole hiki i nā bisexuals ke hele mai i ko lākou mau hoaaloha a me ko lākou ʻohana no ka mea ua manaʻo lākou he stigma, e like me ka poʻe noiʻi UK. ʻO ka hele ʻana i nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana he hana maikaʻi ia-a kōkua i ke kaiāulu bisexual ma kahi pae ʻoi aku. "ʻO ka hele ʻana i mua a ʻōlelo aku, 'ʻO kēia koʻu ʻike,' e kōkua ia e wāwahi i kēlā mau pale," wahi a Janssen. "He mea koʻikoʻi loa ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi kaiāulu o ka poʻe bisexual, a he mea nui ka wehe a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i kou ʻano." (Nā hopohopo olakino? ʻO nā ʻōnaehana kākoʻo pūnaewele ʻoi loa.)
Kiaʻi i ka hana ʻino kūloko
ʻO nā wahine Bisexual i hana ʻino ʻia i ka wā i hala e pono e mālama i kā lākou hoʻonui i ka makaʻu no ka hana hoʻomāinoino i ka home e like me ka hana ʻana o nā wahine me ka moʻokūʻauhau o ka maʻi ʻaʻai umauma: ma o ka ʻike ʻana i ka pilikia a me ka mālama pono ʻana e noho palekana, wahi a Salganicoff. Inā loaʻa ka pilina ʻino, pono nā wahine pololei, moe wahine, a me nā wahine bisexual e kelepona i ka hotline hotline home ma 800-787-3224 no ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi hoʻolālā palekana.