ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e pane aku ai i nā poʻe kelepona

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ʻO ka hoots, ka ʻūhū, ka puʻupuʻu, a me ka ʻōlelo hoʻomāinoino paha, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kāhea ʻana i ka pōpoki ma mua o kahi hoʻonāukiuki liʻiliʻi. Hiki ke kūpono ʻole, makaʻu, a hoʻoweliweli pū paha. A ʻo ka mea pōʻino, ʻo ka hana ʻino ma ke alanui he mea ia i ʻike ʻia e 65 pakeneka o nā wahine, e like me kahi noiʻi hou mai ka nonprofit Stop Street Harassment.

I kēia mau lā, ua hana kekahi wahine 28 makahiki mai Minneapolis i kapa ʻia ʻo Lindsay i poʻomanaʻo no ke kāhea ʻana i nā kāne kāhea pōpoki i kahi papahana hou i kapa ʻia ʻo Cards Against Harassment. Ma ka pūnaewele, hāʻawi ʻo ia i nā kāleka i hiki i nā wahine ke hoʻoiho, paʻi, a hāʻawi aku i nā mea hoʻoluhi. Ke manaʻo nei nā kāleka e hōʻike i ka hopena o nā ʻōlelo a ka mea kelepona i nā wahine-e wehewehe ana he makemake ʻole ia hana, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa a i ʻole ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa. ʻElua o kā mākou punahele:

Kākoʻo mākou me ka naʻau āpau i kāna leka i kāhea aku ai ka pōpoki ʻaʻole "mahalo." (E nā kāne, aia kekahi mau ala ʻē aʻe e kamaʻilio ai me nā wahine ma mua o ka "Hey, nani!" a i ʻole "Damn, kaikamahine," ʻike ʻoe.) Ua ʻae ʻo Jarrett Arthur, kahi loea pale ponoʻī a me ke kumu aʻo Krav Maga: "He mea kupaianaha kēia. Hāʻawi ka papahana i ka wahine i ka ʻae e kū maoli a loaʻa i kahi leo e kūʻē i ka hoʻomāinoino o ke alanui. "

Eia nō naʻe, e like me kā Lindsay i kākau ai ma kāna pūnaewele, ʻaʻole no nā mea āpau a i kēlā me kēia kūlana. Ua noi mākou iā Arthur e wehewehe e pili ana i ka wā e pono ai a ʻaʻole pono e kū i mua i ka poʻe kāhea pōpoki.

1. Mai:E kamaʻilio pū iā ia inā ʻoe ma kahi kaʻawale. Inā aia ʻoe ma kahi ākea, kaʻa kaʻa kaʻaahi a i ʻole ka elevator, a i ʻole ma ke alanui, ʻōlelo ʻo Arthur ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hāʻawi i kahi kāleka a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kahi mea kelepona no ka piʻi ʻana o ke kūlana.

2. Hana: E ʻōlelo mai. Aia kekahi ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o ke kāhea ʻana i ka pōpoki waha a me ka uhaki ʻana i ka palena kino. "ʻO kēlā kahi kūlana e hōʻoia i kahi pane nui aʻe," wahi a Arthur. "Inā haki ka palena o ke kino, pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio me ia i kahi ʻano ʻoi aku ka wiwo ʻole." Akā ʻaʻole ia manaʻo e hakakā ʻoe i hope-ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kino ka mea hope loa, wahi a Arthur. "E hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo maʻalahi a pōkole, e like me 'Stop. Mai hoʻopā mai iaʻu,' a i ʻole 'E haʻalele iaʻu,' me ka mālama ʻana i ka nānā ʻana i kou manaʻo."

3. Mai: Hoʻokaʻulua e kelepona i nā mana. "No laila ʻaʻole makemake nā wahine e kāhea i ka mākaʻi no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou makemake e hōʻino, akā i kēlā me kēia manawa ke ʻano palupalu ʻoe e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻolohe i kāu ʻōpū o kou ʻōpū," wahi a Arthur. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, lohe pinepine ʻo ia mai ka poʻe i hōʻeha ʻia ua manaʻo lākou ua hewa kekahi mea, akā ʻaʻole lākou i hana i kekahi mea.

4. Hana: Hana i kahi hanana. "E hoʻāʻo e hoʻoneʻe i kahi e noho ana inā e ukali ana kekahi iā ʻoe a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo ana e hāwele iā ʻoe, a huki i ka maka iā ʻoe iho ma ka ʻuā ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo kikoʻī:" Pono wau i kōkua! " 'Attacker!'" wahi a Arthur. "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i luna inā manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻoweliweli ʻia. ʻO ka ʻōlelo 'Oi aku ka palekana ma mua o ka minamina' pili maoli i kēia kūlana."

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