He aha nā makahiki maikaʻi e hāpai ai?

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• I kou mau 20s
• I kāu 30s
• I kāu 40
• Nā koho momona
• Ke hau ʻana i kāu mau hua
• Ka momona o ke kāne
• I ka manawa e loaʻa ai ke kōkua
• Lawe aku

Hōʻike Overview

Mahalo i ka pale keiki a me ka loaʻa ākea o nā ʻenehana hānau, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mana o nā kāne ma kēia manawa ke makemake lākou e hoʻomaka i ko lākou ʻohana ma mua o ka wā i hala.

Ke kali nei e hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana hiki, ʻoiai hiki ke hoʻoikaika iki i ka hāpai ʻana.

ʻO ka momona maoli e hōʻole me ka makahiki, a ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ma hope i ke ola e hiki ke hoʻonui i ka makaʻu no nā pilikia hāpai.

ʻLelo ʻia, ʻaʻohe "makahiki maikaʻi" e hāpai ai. ʻO ka hoʻoholo e hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana e kau ʻia ma nā kumu he nui - e like me kou makahiki a me kou mākaukau e lilo i makua.

Ma muli o ka nui o 30 a 40 paha ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi pēpē olakino.

E heluhelu e aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ka hāpai ʻana i kēlā me kēia pae o kou ola.

I kou mau 20s

Momona loa nā wahine a loaʻa ka 20 mau makahiki iā lākou.

ʻO kēia ka manawa ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka helu kiʻekiʻena o nā hua maikaʻi maikaʻi i loaʻa a ʻo kāu mau pōpilikia hāpai ka haʻahaʻa.

I ka makahiki 25, aia kou mau hemahema o ka hāpai ʻana ma hope o 3 mau mahina o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana.

I kāu 30s

Hoʻomaka hoʻomaka ka emi ʻana o ka momona ma kahi o ka makahiki 32. Ma hope o ka makahiki 35, holo wikiwiki kēlā hāʻule.

Hānau ʻia nā wahine me nā hua āpau a lākou e loaʻa ai - ma kahi o 1 miliona o lākou. Heleleʻi iki ka helu o nā hua i ka manawa.

I ka makahiki 37, ua manaʻo ʻia aia ma kahi o 25,000 mau hua i koe.

I ka makahiki 35, hiki i kāu hika e hāpai ma hope o 3 mau mahina o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana.

Hoʻomaka pū ka makaʻu no ka hāʻule ʻana o ke keiki a me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe ma hope o ka makahiki 35. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke alo i nā pilikia hou aʻe i kou hāpai ʻana a i ʻole i ka wā hānau hānau pēpē ma hope o ke ola.

Ma muli o kēia, hiki i kāu kauka ke koi aku i ka loiloi hou ʻana a me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana no ʻoe a me kāu pēpē.

I kāu 40

Aia kekahi emi nui o ka hiki i ka wahine ke hāpai kūlohelohe i kāna 40 mau makahiki. I ka makahiki 40, aia kou alo o ka hāpai ʻana ma hope o 3 mau mahina o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana.

Ma ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, hāʻule ka nui a me ka maikaʻi o kāu mau hua. Hiki i nā hua ʻōpio kahiko ke loaʻa i nā pilikia chromosome hou aku, kahi e hoʻonui ai i ka loaʻa o kahi pēpē me kahi kīnā hānau.

ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine i ka 40 mau makahiki hiki ke loaʻa i kahi hāpai hāpai olakino a me pēpē, akā piʻi nui nā pilikia i kēia manawa. ʻO kēia mau pilikia me:

• Hāʻawi i ka ʻāpana C
• hānau hānau mua
• kaumaha hānau haʻahaʻa
• hānau kīnā ʻole
• hānau hānau hou

ʻO nā kūlana olakino, e like me ka maʻi diabetes a me ke kiʻekiʻe o ke koko, ʻoi aku ka maʻamau o nā wahine ma hope o 35 mau makahiki. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia hāpai e like me ka maʻi diabetes a me ka preeclampsia.

Ma hope o ka makahiki 40, hiki i kāu kauka ke hana i ka hoʻāʻo hou a me ka nānā ʻana e nānā no nā pilikia kūpono.

Nā koho momona

Inā ʻoi aku ʻoe ma kahi o 35 a ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e hāpai ma mua o 6 mau mahina, ke hana nei paha ʻoe i nā pilikia momona. Hiki i kāu kauka a i ʻole kahi loea hānau ke kōkua i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ke kumu o kou hāpai ʻole ʻana a koi aku i nā hana hou e hoʻāʻo ai e hāpai.

Hiki ke kōkua i nā ʻenehana hoʻohua kōkua (ART) iā ʻoe e hāpai, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopau pono i nā hoʻoliʻiliʻi pili makahiki i kāu momona.

Mālama nā kauka i nā pilikia momona i nā wahine me nā lāʻau e hoʻoulu ai i ka hana hua, a me nā ʻenehana e like me ka vitro fertilization (IVF).

Akā ʻo ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hāpai hāpai kūleʻa me kēia mau hana e iho haʻahaʻa i kou mau makahiki.

ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe e hoʻohana i kahi hua manuʻai ola. Hoʻomaʻa ʻia ka hua manu me ka sperm a kāu hoa a laila hoʻoili ʻia i kāu kōpū.

Ke hau ʻana i kāu mau hua

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe mākaukau e loaʻa i kahi ʻohana akā ʻike ʻoe e makemake ana ʻoe i kekahi i ka wā e hiki mai ana, makemake paha ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka hau ʻana i kāu mau hua i kāu mau makahiki hānau kiʻekiʻe.

ʻO ka mea mua, e lawe ʻoe i nā hormoni e hoʻoulu ai i ka hana hua. A laila e kiʻi ʻia nā hua a paʻa. Hiki iā lākou ke noho paʻahau no kekahi mau makahiki.

Ke mākaukau ʻoe e hoʻohana i ia mau mea, e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia nā hua manu a injected me kahi sperm e hoʻouluulu ʻia. E hoʻokomo ʻia nā embryo i loko o kou kōpū.

ʻAʻole e hōʻoia ka hau i kāu mau hua manu i kahi hāpai keiki. ʻO ka hāpai ʻana - ʻoiai me nā hua ʻōpio - ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ke hala ʻoe i ka 30 a 40 mau makahiki. Akā hiki iā ia ke hōʻoia i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hua manu olakino ke mākaukau ʻoe.

Ka momona o ke kāne

ʻO ka momona o ke kāne e hāʻule pū me ka makahiki. Akā hana kēia hana ma hope, e hoʻomaka ana ma kahi o 40 mau makahiki.

Ma hope o kēlā makahiki, loaʻa i nā kāne ka nui o ka semen i lalo a me ka helu sperm. ʻAʻole ʻauʻau pū ka sperm a lākou.

Loaʻa paha nā hunaola Sperm o kahi kāne makua i nā ʻano kūlohelohe ma mua o ko ke kanaka ʻōpio.

ʻO ke kanaka makua, ʻo ka lōʻihi o ka hāpai ʻana i kāna hoa. A ʻo kāna hoa pili no ka hāpai keiki ʻana, me ka nānā ʻole i kona mau makahiki.

ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki i ke kāne ke makua kāne i nā keiki i ke 40 a keu. Akā he paʻakikī hou aʻe paha ma mua o kona mua i kona ola.

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Ma waho o ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i ka manawa e ʻimi ai i kāu ʻoihana a me ka pilina, ke kali nei i ka hāpai ʻana he mau pono ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe a me kāu pēpē.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noi ma 2016 ua hoʻomanawanui nā makuahine kahiko a ua ʻuʻuku lākou e ʻā a hoʻopaʻi i kā lākou mau keiki ma ka liʻiliʻi. Loaʻa ka liʻiliʻi o kā lākou keiki i nā pilikanaka, naʻau, a me nā lawena i ke kula haʻahaʻa.

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ua ʻoi aku ke olakino o nā keiki i hānau ʻia i nā makuahine makua a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke aʻo ʻana ma mua o kā lākou mau hoa i hānau ʻia i nā makuahine ʻōpio.

Ke kali nei no ka hāpai ʻana e kōkua paha iā ʻoe e ola lōʻihi. Ua ʻike ʻia kekahi noiʻi 2016 ʻo ka paʻakikī o ka noho ʻana a 90 i ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe ma luna o nā wahine hoʻolohi keiki.

ʻAʻohe mea hōʻike i ka hoʻokaʻulua ʻana i ka hānau keiki ʻana ke kumu o kekahi o kēia mau hopena. Hiki paha i nā kumu ʻē aʻe i nā makuahine makua ma mua o kā lākou mau makahiki i hoʻokani paha. Akā hōʻike kēia mau hopena aia kekahi mau maikaʻi i ke kali ʻana.

I ka manawa e loaʻa ai ke kōkua

Inā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo nei e hāpai akā ʻaʻole loaʻa kahi laki, ua hiki i ka manawa e ʻike ai i kahi loea hānau.

Eia ka manawa e ʻike ai i ke kauka:

• i loko o hoʻokahi makahiki o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana inā ʻoe ma lalo o 35 mau makahiki
• ma waena o 6 mau mahina inā ʻoi aku ʻoe ma luna o 35 mau makahiki

ʻO nā kāne me nā maʻi genetical i ʻike ʻia a i ʻole nā ​​mea i hala i ka nui o ka hānau ʻole ʻana e nānā pū me kā lākou kauka a i ʻole ka loea hānau.

Lawe aku

Hiki i nā makahiki i hala ke hoʻoikaika i ka hāpai ʻana. Eia nō naʻe hiki ke loaʻa kahi pēpē olakino ke hiki ʻoe i kāu 30 a 40 paha.

ʻO ka hope loa, ʻo ka manawa kūpono e hāpai ai ke kūpono ia iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole kūpono ke kali a hiki i ka wā e manaʻo nui ai ʻoe i kāu ʻoihana a me kāu kālā e hoʻomaka ai e kūkulu i kou ʻohana.

Inā koho ʻoe e kali, makemake paha ʻoe e nānā me kāu kauka a i ʻole kahi loea hoʻohua e hōʻoia i ka loaʻa ʻole o nā pilikia olakino i kou ala ke mākaukau ʻoe.