Pehea e hoʻolālā ai i kahi Honeymoon ʻoniʻoni me ka ʻole o ka Sacrificing Romance a me ka Hoʻomaha

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• Pehea e hoʻolālā ai i kāu huakaʻi hana
• E noʻonoʻo e kali.
• Hoʻomaha i kāu mau lā mua a hala hoʻi.
• Hoʻopaʻa puka hapa lā o ke kakahiaka.
• Redefine "ʻeleu."
• E hoʻolālā i kekahi mau huakaʻi pilikino.
• ʻO nā wahi kiʻekiʻe no kahi hoʻomaha hoʻomaha
• Ka Mahi Kamaa Lio; Hendersonville, Karolina ʻĀkau
• Hale Bahama; ʻAilana ʻAilana
• Xinalani Retreat; Xinalani, Mekiko
• ʻO ka huakaʻi Momentum River; Kaleponi ʻĀkau, Oregon, Idaho, Alaska, Kanada, Chile, a me nā mea hou aku
• Nānā no

Aia kekahi kumu e neʻe pinepine ka poʻe male hou i nā kahakai kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke inu i ka wai anuanu anuanu i ka nānā ʻana i ke kai. hoʻoluhi a ʻo ka honeymoon ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomaha ai. Akā no nā kāne e pulu pū ana, ua ulu aʻe kekahi ʻano o ka jaunt post-wedding.

Hōʻike ka noiʻi mai Westin Hotels & Resorts he 80 pākēneka o nā kāne a ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hana i ka wā o ko lākou mau melemona ma mua o ka noho maʻamau ma ka home, a he 40 pākēneka o nā kāne e holo pū nei e kuʻi i ke koʻikoʻi a ʻike i kahi kūlanakauhale i kahi ala hou. i ka manawa ma kāu melemona?).

Akā maikaʻi ka hoʻoikaika kino no ka nui aku o nā maʻi puʻuwai puʻuwai. Ua hōʻoia ʻia ka hana ʻana i nā pono olakino noʻonoʻo — hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā pae o ka hormone stress cortisol (makemake nui ʻia ma hope o ke koʻikoʻi o ka hoʻolālā ʻana i ka male) a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke ʻano (me ka pale ʻana i nā hōʻailona o ke kaumaha). ʻO ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i kekahi mau hola i waho a puni — ʻoiai ka hele wāwae ʻana - hiki ke lawa no ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi leo maikaʻi no ka lā. Hoʻohui ʻia, ua hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana i ke komo pū ʻana i nā hana leʻaleʻa, nā hana hou, e like me ka holoholo a i ʻole ka luʻu scuba, hiki ke hoʻoikaika i ka pilina o nā kāne Kinohi ʻO ka lālā ʻo Brain Trust ʻo Rachel Sussman, kahi psychotherapist ma New York. I hoʻokahi o nā noi ʻana, ua hōʻike nā kāne i komo i kahi hana hoʻoikaika kino i ka hauʻoli loa me ko lākou pilina a me ka manaʻo nui ʻana i ke aloha.

"Ke haʻalele ʻoe i kāu hana maʻamau a hana pū i kahi mea hou, kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike hou i kekahi i kekahi - ʻaneʻane me he mea lā e pili hou ana ʻoe," wahi a Sussman. "Ma ka kaʻana like ʻana i kahi hana hoʻoikaika kino, ke hana nei ʻoe i nā endorphins. Manaʻo maikaʻi ʻoe e pili ana iā ʻoe iho, i kāu hoa, a me nā mea āu i hoʻokō ai."

ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ʻo nā hōkele, nā mākaʻikaʻi huakaʻi, a me nā alakaʻi e hoʻokō nei i kēia mau pono hou a me ka hana ʻana i nā hoʻomaha hoʻomaha ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manawa ma ka hale haʻuki. E noʻonoʻo: ʻO nā piʻi pali lani kiʻekiʻe ma nā kapakai ʻo Amalfi Coast a i ʻole nā ​​huakaʻi hele wāwae ʻana a me nā huakaʻi huakaʻi ma waena o nā kūlanakauhale ʻai ʻoi loa o ka honua. (ʻOi aku ka hoihoi i waho? E nānā i kēia mau glamping resort.)

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hoʻolālā ʻana i nā hikes maikaʻi loa, nā lā huakaʻi, a me nā mea hoʻohiwahiwa no ʻolua - ʻoiai e waiho ana i kahi lumi no kēlā mau ʻauʻau ʻauʻau a me nā manawa aloha - lawe i kahi hana liʻiliʻi. Eia, ʻelima mau ala e hoʻolālā ai i kahi wā hoʻomaha nui, a me nā wahi ʻehā e ʻaihue ai i kāu pīhoihoi — a me kou kuko.

Pehea e hoʻolālā ai i kāu huakaʻi hana

E noʻonoʻo e kali.

"ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine mare a me nā kāne kāne e noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho i ka male ʻana a me ka lele ʻana i ko lākou huakaʻi honeymoon i ke kakahiaka ma hope-me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ka luhi," wahi a Hailey Landers, kahi loea huakaʻi me Audley Travel, kahi hui loea i nā huakaʻi hele. ʻO kou lā mare paha nā mea āpau āu e manaʻo ai, akā ʻo ia nō kekahi hoʻokahe oe. "ʻOiai ke hoʻolohi nei i kou haʻalele ʻana no ʻelua a ʻekolu paha lā ma hope o ka lā male male hiki ke lilo i pōmaikaʻi-e ʻae iā ʻoe e alualu i kahi hiamoe e makemake nui ʻia, e kipa a hoʻolauleʻa pū me kou poʻe ʻohana i hele lōʻihi mai e ʻike iā ʻoe, a hoʻonohonoho maʻalahi. ka uaki ma mua o ka lā huakaʻi lōʻihi. " (Hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i kahi manawa e hoʻomākaukau ai i ka meaʻai no kāu huakaʻi.)

Hoʻomaha i kāu mau lā mua a hala hoʻi.

Ke hiki mua ʻoe, hiki paha iā ʻoe makemake e pā i ka holo ʻana o ka honua. Akā koi ʻo Landers i nā mea aloha meli e makemake e hōʻalo i ka luhi e mālama ai i ka lā ʻekahi (a me nā lā hope o kāu huakaʻi) manuahi ʻole. E kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e hoʻololi i kahi wahi hou a me kahi ʻāpana manawa hou, a e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i ke ʻano hoʻomaha (a i ʻole ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana no nā hana e hiki mai ana). Eia kekahi, "hoʻomanaʻo mau ka poʻe i nā lā mua a me nā lā hope o kekahi wā hoʻomaha loa," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. No laila e kākau i kāu mau hōkele splurge i ka hoʻomaka a me ka hopena o kāu huakaʻi e hoʻomaha ai i ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli.

Hoʻopaʻa puka hapa lā o ke kakahiaka.

ʻO kahi holo he 100 mau kilomita a i ʻole he huakaʻi he ʻewalu hola (heluhelu: piha nā lā o ka hana) kani e like me ka leʻaleʻa, akā ʻo ka hoʻolālā ʻana i nā huakaʻi hapalua lā e komo pū ana kekahi mau kuʻina ma ke ala (he hale kūʻai waina no ka hoʻāʻo ʻana a i ʻole ka nānā nani no kahi pīknik awakea) e kōkua i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kāu huakaʻi, wahi a Dane Tredway, kahi mea hoʻolālā huakaʻi ma Butterfield & Robinson , kahi ʻoihana huakaʻi hele mua. "Ma ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hana ma mua o ka lā, ʻae pū ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi lumi hanu i ke awakea."

Redefine "ʻeleu."

Ma muli wale nō o kou holo kaʻa i ka hana a hoʻomaka i nā papa hoʻoikaika kino ma ka home, ʻaʻole ia ka mea e hana ai i kāu mahina meli. "He mea maikaʻi ka hana i kēlā me kēia lā-akā ʻo ka" ʻeleu "paha i ka hele mauna i hoʻokahi lā a hana i kahi huakaʻi huakaʻi hele i ka lā e hiki mai ana, a i ʻole ia he hana paha i kahi huakaʻi no ʻekolu a ʻehā mau lā i ka hoʻomaka o kahi huakaʻi a hoʻopau. no ʻeono mau pō ma kahi mokupuni a kahakai paha ma kahi, "wahi a Landers. Aia iā ʻoe a me kāu hapalua ʻē aʻe e noʻonoʻo ai i ke ʻano o ka "ʻeleu" āu e hele nei no-no ka mea, ʻoiai, he mea kēia āu e lāua ʻelua i loko o

E hoʻolālā i kekahi mau huakaʻi pilikino.

"Paipai mau au i nā ʻike pilikino ma luna o nā hui," wahi a Tredway. Hiki i nā huakaʻi like ke kōkua iā ʻoe e mālama i ke kālā (a hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i nā poʻe manaʻo like), akā e haʻo ʻoe i ka pili o kahi ʻike.

E noʻonoʻo e haʻalele i kahi alakaʻi i kēlā me kēia manawa. Wahi a Landers: "Aia kekahi mea aloha a kū hoʻokahi e pili ana i ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi wahi hou me kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe, me ka ʻole o kahi alakaʻi. Hiki ke lilo ke alakaʻi i mea waiwai a me kahi kumuwaiwai kupaianaha ma nā wahi kūpono, akā aia kekahi mea kūikawā e pili ana i ka lele i loko o ke kaʻa a paʻi i ka wehe pu ke alanui."

ʻO nā wahi kiʻekiʻe no kahi hoʻomaha hoʻomaha

Ka Mahi Kamaa Lio; Hendersonville, Karolina ʻĀkau

Ma kēia wahi hānai ʻo Blue Ridge Mountains, hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i kekahi o nā hale o ka manor a i ʻole nā ​​hale noho pilikino ma 85 eka o nā wahi e ʻoka ana, nā ulu lāʻau lush, a me nā kahawai e kahe ana. E hoʻomaka me ka ʻaina kakahiaka maikaʻi i ka pāʻina, a laila holo i ka Pisgah National Forest, lana ma lalo o ka French Broad River, lawe i kahi huakaʻi lawaiʻa lele alakaʻi, kaʻa, ka hoe, hana yoga, a ʻimi i nā wailele 250 ma ia wahi. Ma hope, puke i nā lomilomi i ka Stable Spa, kahi hale lio i hoʻihoʻi nani ʻia. Nā ahiahi? E ʻoluʻolu i ke ahi ke helu ʻoe i nā hōkū a nānā i ka mauna ʻo Pisega.

Puke iā: ʻO ka mahiʻai kāmaʻa Lio, nā lumi mai $250 i ka pō, me ka ʻaina kakahiaka

Hale Bahama; ʻAilana ʻAilana

ʻO kēia peʻe hūnā e like me kahi ʻāina utopian o nā kahakai kahakai, nā bougainvillea mālamalama, a me nā wai turquoise (kekahi o nā mea maopopo loa ma ka Caribbean). He 11 wale nō lumi, no laila e mālama loa ʻoe iā ʻoe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma mua o kāu huakaʻi e kamaʻilio ʻoe me ka luna e hoʻonohonoho i kahi papa hana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i ka lā holoʻokoʻa snorkeling a i ʻole ka luʻu scuba, lele i ka pali i loko o kahi lua sapphire-blue, a i ʻole lawaiʻa ʻana no ka ʻaina awakea ma kahi huakaʻi hohonu o ke kai. Aia ma laila ʻo Wakeboarding, tubing, a me Jet Skiing. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā ʻūhā i ka loko wai wai hou.

Puke iā: ʻAilana ʻo Bahama House Harbor; lumi pālua mai $530, me ka ʻaina kakahiaka, ka cocktails, ka moku holo kaʻapuni

a me ka hoʻolilo taxi, a me kāu hana āpau a me nā kahakai e pono ai

Xinalani Retreat; Xinalani, Mekiko

Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kahi ala ʻuhane me kāu mau hoʻomaʻamaʻa, e lanakila ana kēia hoʻi ʻana i ke olakino. E noho i loko o kekahi o 29 lumi ākea a i ʻole ʻehā casitas, a pā i nā studio yoga ʻeono i hoʻonohonoho ʻia i loko o ka ʻāina lush. Ke pau ʻolua i ka kahe ʻana, ka manawa puke ma Temazcal ("hale wela" ma Nahuatl), kahi hale i ka manawa i hoʻohana ʻia e nā mea hōʻola e hoʻomākaukau ai no ke kaua; He shaman e alakaʻi iā ʻoe ma o ka laʻa laʻa. Makemake hou i nā pīhoihoi? Zip ma waena o nā kumu lāʻau pāpū ma kahi Canopy Adventure.

Puke iā: Xinalani Retreat, $ 4,032 no kēlā me kēia kāne no ʻehiku pō, a i ʻole mai $ 576 i kēlā me kēia pō

ʻO ka huakaʻi Momentum River; Kaleponi ʻĀkau, Oregon, Idaho, Alaska, Kanada, Chile, a me nā mea hou aku

Hāʻawi kēia ʻoihana alakaʻi a me ka ʻoihana lawelawe i nā huakaʻi keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo-ala loa no nā mea ʻimi adrenaline a me nā newbies. Hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa ke koho i kahi huakaʻi i hoʻolālā mua ʻia (mai nā huakaʻi hapalua lā a i nā lā ʻeiwa mau lā ma nā pae āpau o ka ʻike) a i ʻole e hoʻonohonoho nā alakaʻi i kahi huakaʻi pilikino maʻamau: Koho ʻoe i ka muliwai, a na lākou e hoʻonohonoho i kahi hoʻomoana luxe a me nā meaʻai meaola. ʻAʻohe mea āu i koho ai, aia ʻoe i loko no ka leʻaleʻa koʻikoʻi a me ka hou a me nā wahi hiʻona.

Puke iā: Momentum River Expeditions, nā kumu kūʻai laʻana: $ 70 no ka hapalua lā huakaʻi; $ 990 i $ 1,250 no kahi huakaʻi ʻekolu a ʻehā paha lā, e like me ka noho ʻana a me nā meaʻai

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