8 ʻ Tipslelo Aʻo Sexting no Convos Steamy (a palekana)

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• Loaʻa ʻAe ʻAe
• E hui mua
• E hoʻohana i ka Sexting ma ke ʻano he Foreplay
• Mai Paʻa i hope
• Kaha i nā ʻike i hala
• E hoʻohana iā ia e waiho i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
• E akahele me nā ʻike kiʻi
• Mai mālama a waihona
• Nānā no

Mai nā celebs i loaʻa nā kiʻi nude i hacked i 200,000 Snapchat kiʻi kiʻi pū ʻia ʻana ma ka pūnaewele, ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka ʻike pili mai kāu kelepona a lilo i neʻe ʻino. He mea hilahila ia no ka mea, ua hōʻike mai ka noiʻi ʻana he ʻano koʻikoʻi ko ka sexting: ʻO ka hoʻouna ʻana i nā kikokikona haʻahaʻa i kāu hoa ʻaʻole e hoʻopau wale i nā mea ma waena o nā pepa, e hoʻonui i kou hilinaʻi, e hoʻoikaika i kou pilina, a kōkua iā ʻoe ʻelua e ʻimi i nā ala e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe iho i ka moekolohe. He lanakila lanakila kēlā a puni. (E nānā: Hiki iā Sexting ke kōkua iā ʻoe i kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻoi aku ka IRL)

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i ka sexting ke ʻano ʻē inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hana mua ma mua, mai ʻike i ka mea e ʻōlelo ai, a mai ʻike paha i ka makemake o kāu pakanā a ʻoluʻolu paha. A ʻaʻole kekahi o kēia mau pōmaikaʻi o ka sexting mea inā ʻoe e kaʻana like i nā ʻikepili lahilahi hewa, a i ʻole e ʻae i kāu kamaʻilio a me nā paʻi e hāʻule i loko o nā lima hewa - inā he hacker a i ʻole he hoa hana e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole i ka hilinaʻi ʻole. Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei pehea e hemo ai i kahi ala palekana - a e loaʻa ai ka hapa nui o kāu mau leka - ʻo kēia mau ʻōlelo ʻelima ʻelima e kōkua ai i ka mālama ʻana i kāu ola wahine me ka ʻole o ka makaʻu ʻana i kāu pilikino.

Loaʻa ʻAe ʻAe

ʻO FYI, ʻo ʻoe mau pono ʻae e hoʻouna i nā kiʻi racy - a i ʻole i ka moekolohe- i nā huaʻōlelo kikoʻī a i ʻole i mua - i kekahi, e like me Carol Queen, Ph.D., Good vibrations sexologist, kahu o ka Hale Hōʻikeʻike Antique Vibrator, a me ka mea kākau oʻO ka puke moekolohe & ʻoliʻolihaʻi ʻia ma mua Kinohi. Inā ua hoʻolele ʻia ʻoe i kahi dick hōʻeuʻeu koho ma ke kaʻaahi a i ʻole he mea e pūʻiwa ai mai kahi pāʻani Tinder hou, ʻike ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka haki ʻana hiki ke hoʻoweliweli ʻia me ka ʻike moe kolohe ʻole, ʻoiai inā he mau pikika wale nō ia ma kāu pakuhi kelepona.

E hōʻoia e noi i ka mea e loaʻa ana ma mua o ka hoʻouna ʻana i kekahi mea. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e nīnau, "ʻAe ʻoe i ka sexting?" akā e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaopopo i kou manaʻo a hoʻopaʻa i kā lākou OK ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana. E hoʻāʻo i kekahi mea e like me: "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻōki i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana e pili ana i nā mea i hana ʻia i ka pō nei. E hoʻomanaʻo hou ma o ka ʻōlelo me aʻu?" a i ʻole "Ua wela ʻoe iaʻu a ua hoʻoluhi mai ma aneʻi. E lawe anei mākou i kēia convo i kahi pae aʻe?" a i ʻole "Ua lawe wale au i kahi 🔥 selfie... me ka ʻaʻahu ʻole. Makemake ʻoe e ʻike?" (He manaʻo maikaʻi pū kekahi e nānā i nā kānāwai ʻae pili kolohe o kou mokuʻāina.)

E hui mua

Ma muli o ka kaulana o ka launa pūnaewele, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻouna aku me kahi hoa hou no nā pule ma mua o ka hālāwai ʻana he alo a he alo. ʻOiai ʻoe e kali, e mālama i ke kani i kahi manaʻo a me ka maikaʻi akā ʻaʻole moekolohe Hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa i nā leko uila sexting ma mua, akā inā ʻaʻohe kemika i loko o ke kanaka, ua kaʻanalike ʻoe i ka nui o ka ʻike pilikino me kahi mea āu e makemake ʻole ai, e wehewehe ana ʻo Emily Morse, sexologist a me ka mea hoʻokipa o ka ʻO Sex me Emily podcast. E paʻa no kahi mea āu e ʻālohilohi ai. (Pili: ʻO nā polokalamu ʻoihana maikaʻi loa no ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kāu pilina)

E hoʻohana i ka Sexting ma ke ʻano he Foreplay

Hoʻokumu ʻo Sexting i ka manaʻo nui a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i nā mea e hiki mai ana, wahi a Morse, no laila, kūpono ia no ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka wela a me ka haʻalulu. Hiki i ka leo kūpono ke hoʻokomo iā ʻoe i loko o nā hola sexy ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana i kekahi i kekahi a hoʻonohonoho i ke kahua no kahi pō hoihoi. E pili ana i ka sext, e nānā i ka mālama ʻana i nā leka pōkole - ʻaʻole ʻoe e kākau nei i kahi puke mele ma aneʻi, a ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka lohi hiki ke pepehi i nā vibe - akā ua ʻōpala ʻia me nā kikoʻī momona. "He huaʻōlelo nā aphrodisiacs, a ʻo nā hanana āu e kanu ai i ka manaʻo o kekahi e hiki ke kōkua i ka moekolohe ʻana i kāu moekolohe i ka wā e hiki mai ana," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. (Pili: 10 mau manaʻo Foreplay i hiki ke ʻoi aku ka wela ma mua o ke kiʻi ʻana)

Hoʻohui, nui ka poʻe e pono mau i ka foreplay naʻau, Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., L.FF., C.S.T., mea aʻo wahine a me nā kamaʻāina sexpert ma ka hui huahana ʻoluʻolu ʻo Adam & Eve, i haʻi mua ʻia.Kinohi. A ʻoiai ka pilina aloha ka ipuka maʻamau i ka pili kino, e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana - inā he IRL a i ʻole ma o ka sexting ʻana - hiki ke lilo i ala maikaʻi loa e kūkulu i kēlā.

Mai Paʻa i hope

Ua paʻi ʻia ka noiʻi ma ka Ka Nūpepa o ka ʻImiʻIke Ua ʻike ʻo nā kāne i hoʻopaʻa ʻole ʻia nā huaʻōlelo i ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli i ko lākou pilina a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka launa pū ʻana. Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pehea e sext, pololei, ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka convo me nā huaʻōlelo ʻehā; Hōʻike ʻo Morse i ka lalau ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka pāʻani ma mua o ka pornographic i ka mua. (E noʻonoʻo: "Ua hoʻomau wau i ka hana ʻana mai ka mea i hana i ka pō nei" a i ʻole "Ua hauʻoli wau i ka palupalu o kou mau lehelehe.") A laila e kiʻi i nā kiʻi e like me kāu pae hōʻoluʻolu. (Eia nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio haumia āu e hoʻohana ai no ka sexting a i ʻole IRL.)

Kaha i nā ʻike i hala

Ma ke kanaka, maʻalahi ka hele ʻana a heluhelu i ka mea a kāu hoa e makemake ai a e hauʻoli nei - akā hiki ke paʻakikī i ka kikokikona. Inā ʻaʻole maopopo ʻoe i ka mea e ʻōlelo ai, pololei, e noʻonoʻo hou i nā ʻike like i loaʻa iā ʻoe me ka wela loa, ua haʻi mua ʻia ke kumu aʻoaʻo wahine ʻo Gigi Engle. Kinohi. E haʻi iā lākou (me nā kikoʻī kikoʻī) i nā mea āu i aloha ai e pili ana i kahi pakele hou. He mea maʻalahi kēia iā lākou ke komo pū.

E hoʻohana iā ia e waiho i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo

Hiki i ke Sexting ke lilo i ala maikaʻi loa e hake i ka mea āu e makemake ai i kahi moe, i kahi lewa hoʻokipa maikaʻi loa. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i ka mea āu e makemake ai e ʻōlelo, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻoikaika i ka naʻau e hoʻopuka i ke kino. Ke hoʻokuʻu nei ʻoe i kāu mau mea paʻa ma ka haʻi ʻana i kāu hoa i kāu mea e makemake ai a me kāu mea e makemake ai e hana iā lākou, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu ʻike moe kolohe holoʻokoʻa, ʻo Fran Walfish, Psy.D., ʻohana Beverly Hills a me ka psychotherapist pili, i haʻi mua ʻia.Kinohi.

E akahele me nā ʻike kiʻi

ʻO ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi selfie olohelohe paha he ala maʻalahi ia e hoʻonāukiuki i kāu hoa. ʻO kahi mea nui e noʻonoʻo ai i ka pili ʻana i ka sext me ka palekana, ʻo ia, a hiki i kou hilinaʻi maoli ʻana i kāu hoa ʻaʻole e paʻi i mua - ʻo ia hoʻi, maoli Hilinaʻi iā lākou ʻOiai inā e hoʻouna ana ʻoe i kāu mau kiʻi i kahi kanaka naʻauao, hiki mai nā haʻihaʻi palekana, a hiki i ka pilina ke lilo i mea ʻino. E pāʻani iā ​​​​ia me ka hoʻouna ʻole ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻokoʻa, a i ʻole e mālama pono: e noʻonoʻo pono i ka mea āu e hoʻouna aku ai iā lākou, a ʻoki i nā hiʻohiʻona e ʻike ai, e like me kou helehelena a me nā peʻa kūʻokoʻa, Haley Hasen, hoʻonaʻauao wahine a me nā erotic. limahana, haʻi ʻia ma mua Kinohi. (E pili ana: 6 mau kikokikona ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e makemake e hoʻouna i kahi hoa pili)

Mai mālama a waihona

ʻO kēlā koi e hoʻopakele i kāu ʻoi loa, ʻoi loa nā epic sexting exchange. Ma waho aʻe o ka hoihoi ʻana i ka heluhelu hou ʻana, ua like ia me nā mea hoʻomanaʻo hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe i ka paʻa ʻana o ʻoe a me kāu hoa kāne a me nā lumi moe leʻaleʻa āu i hauʻoli ai. Akā no ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā mea ʻike hewa ʻole o nā maka iā lākou (a hacks a i ʻole i mua i ke kaula i heluhelu pū kekahi poʻe malihini iā ​​​​lākou), e hoʻopau, wahi a Morse. E noʻonoʻo e hana pēlā, kahi kala e haʻalele hou aku ai. 😉

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