4 mau ala helehelena ke hānau ʻoe e pili ana i kāu ʻano

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Inā ʻoe he hiapo, keiki waena, pēpē o ka ʻohana, a he keiki wale nō paha, ʻaʻohe kānalua āu i lohe ai i nā clichés e pili ana i ka hopena o kāu kūlana ʻohana i kou ʻano. A ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo kekahi o lākou (ʻo nā keiki wale nō ʻaʻole narcissists mau!), hōʻike ʻia ka ʻepekema ʻo kāu kauoha hānau i kou ʻohana a hiki i ka mahina āu i hānau ai ke wānana i kekahi mau ʻano. Eia, ʻehā mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻopilikia me ka ʻike ʻole.

1. ʻOi aku ka nānā aku o nā pēpē o ke kauwela a me ke kauwela. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi i hōʻike ʻia ma Kelemania i ke kau i hānau ʻia ai ʻoe e hoʻopili i kou ʻano. ʻO ka wehewehe: Hiki i ka mahina ke hoʻopili i kekahi mau neurotransmitters, hiki ke ʻike ʻia ma o ka wā makua. ʻAʻole maopopo ka poʻe noiʻi i ke kumu i loaʻa ai ka loulou, akā ke nānā nei i nā hōʻailona genetic hiki ke hoʻololi i ke ʻano.

2. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o nā keiki hānau o ka wā hoʻoilo i nā maʻi ʻano kau. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi holoholona mai ke Kulanui ʻo Vanderbilt i nā hōʻailona māmā-i.e. pehea ka lōʻihi o nā lā-ke hānau ʻia ʻoe hiki ke hoʻopili i kāu mau mele circadian ma hope o ke ola. Hoʻoponopono kāu uaki olaola i ke ʻano, a ʻo nā ʻiole i hānau ʻia i ka hoʻoilo ka pane like ʻana o ka lolo i ka hoʻololi ʻana o ke kau e like me ka poʻe me ka maʻi maʻi kau, hiki ke wehewehe i ka pilina ma waena o ka wā hānau a me nā maʻi neurological.

3. ʻOi aku ka mālama ʻana o nā makahiapo. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi Italia ua ʻoi aku ka makemake o nā hiapo i ke kūlana quo ma mua o nā hānau hānau ʻelua, a no laila ʻoi aku ka nui o nā koina conservative. Ke ho'āʻo maoli nei ka poʻe noiʻi i kahi manaʻo mua e hoʻokomo nā hānau mua i ka waiwai o ko lākou mau mākua, a ʻoiai ʻaʻole pololei kēlā manaʻo, ua aʻo lākou he mau waiwai conservative nā keiki hiapo iā lākou iho.

4. Lawe nā kamaliʻi ʻōpio i nā pōpilikia hou aʻe. Ua hoʻāʻo ʻia kahi haʻawina ma ke Kulanui o Kaleponi, Berkeley i ke kuhiakau e ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kaikaina e komo i ka hana pilikia ma ka nānā ʻana i ka papa hānau a me ke komo ʻana i nā hana haʻuki kiʻekiʻe. Ua ʻike lākou ʻo "nā hānau hope" ma kahi o 50 pakeneka ʻoi aku ka nui o ke komo ʻana i nā haʻuki pilikia ma mua o ko lākou mau kaikuaʻana hānau mua. ʻOi aku paha nā mea kahamoe ma hope o ka extroverts i hāmama i nā ʻike, a ʻo nā hana "ʻimi ʻoliʻoli" e like me ka gliding hang kekahi o kēlā extroverion.

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