Pau ka manawa

ʻO ka manawa manawa he ʻano hana makua e paipai i nā keiki e haʻalele i ka hana ʻana i nā mea āu e makemake ʻole ai e hana. Ke kuhi hewa ʻole kāu keiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke wehe mālie i kāu keiki mai ka hana a waiho i ka manawa i waho. E kāpae pinepine kāu keiki i ka hana ʻana e hōʻalo ai i ka hele ʻana i waho o ka manawa. Hoʻohana maikaʻi ka manawa manawa me nā keiki, 2 a 12 mau makahiki.

Ke waiho ʻoe i nā keiki i ka manawa i waho, hōʻike ʻoe iā lākou me nā hana āu e makemake ʻole ai i kā lākou ʻano. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka walaʻau ʻana, hoʻoweliweli ʻana a i ʻole ka palu ʻana.

Lawe ka manawa manawa i kāu keiki mai ka hana. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki i ka manawa e hoʻomaha a hoʻomalu iā ʻoe iho. ʻO nā keiki i ka manawa manawa manawa e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea a lākou i hana ai.

Koho i hoʻokahi a ʻelua mau ʻano hana āu e makemake ai e hana pū me kāu keiki. E hoʻohana mau i ka manawa me kēia ʻano. E mālama pono o ka hoʻohana nui ʻole i ka manawa i waho. E hoʻohana wale ia mea no kahi hana āu e makemake ai e hōʻoki.

E hoʻomaopopo i nā keiki ma mua o ka manawa e hoʻohana ana ʻoe i ka manawa i waho. ʻO kahi laʻana, e haʻi iā lākou, "I ka manawa aʻe e hakakā ana ʻoe no nā mea pāʻani, ke hele nei kēlā me kēia i kahi manawa no 3 mau minuke. E haʻi wau iā ʻoe i ka hala ʻana o 3 mau minuke."

Koho i kahi ma mua o ka manawa. E hōʻoia he wahi manakā ia mai ke kīwī a me nā mea pāʻani. ʻAʻole ia he wahi pouli a makaʻu paha. Inā ʻōpio kāu mau keiki, e ʻike pono hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā lākou. ʻO kekahi mau wahi e hana pū paha:

• He noho ma ke alaloa
• Ke kihi o ka lumi
• ʻO ka lumi moe
• Kahi moe moe

Ke hana hewa ʻole nā ​​keiki, hāʻawi i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kū. E haʻi iā lākou, "ʻAʻole hitting. He ʻeha kēlā. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻoki i ka pā ʻana, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa i waho."

• Ke pau nā hana hewa a nā keiki, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou no ka kaohi ʻana i kā lākou ʻano.
• Ke kū ʻole nā ​​keiki i ka hana hewa ʻole, e haʻi iā lākou e hele i ka manawa i waho. Hoʻokahi wale nō ʻōlelo ʻana: "ʻeha ke kuʻi. Pono ʻoe i kahi manawa i waho."

E mōakāka a mālie hoʻi. Mai haʻalele i kou huhū. Ke walaʻau a walaʻau ʻoe, hāʻawi nui ʻoe i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole a kāu poʻe keiki.

Hele paha kekahi mau keiki i ka manawa i waho ke haʻi koke ʻoe iā lākou. Ke hele ʻole nā ​​keiki i kā lākou iho, alakaʻi iā lākou a lawe iā lākou i kahi i waho o ka manawa. Mai ʻalalā a kīwaha i ke ala i ka manawa puka.

E kau i kāu keiki i ka manawa no 1 mau minuke i kēlā me kēia makahiki o ka makahiki, akā ʻaʻole i ʻoi aku ma mua o 5 mau minuke. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā he 3 makahiki o kāu keiki, 3 mau minuke ka lōʻihi o ka manawa.

Hiki ke haʻi ʻia i nā keiki makua aia lākou i ka manawa i waho a hiki i ko lākou mākaukau e hoʻi i kā lākou hana a hana. No ka mea hoʻoholo lākou i ka mākaukau, aʻo lākou e kaohi i kā lākou hana.

Inā ʻaʻole e noho kāu mau keiki i kā lākou manawa i nā kiko, e hoʻopaʻa mālie iā lākou ma laila. Mai kamaʻilio me lākou a hāʻawi ʻole i ka nānā iā lākou.

Inā hoʻonoho ʻoe i kahi uaki a kani ka leo a i ʻole hana hewa kāu keiki i ka manawa i hala, e hoʻihoʻi i ka manawa. Inā hele hewa ke keiki, alakaʻi i ke keiki i kahi a hoʻihoʻi i ka manawa. Pono ke keiki e noho mālie a me ka maikaʻi a hiki i ka hala ʻana o ka timer.

Ke pau ka manawa, e hoʻi nā keiki i kā lākou hana. Mai haʻi haʻiʻōlelo e pili ana i ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. Loaʻa i nā kamaliʻi ka leka me ka manawa i waho.

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