E kamaʻilio pū ana me kekahi me ka nalo o ka lohe

He mea paʻakikī paha i ke kanaka me ka lohe pepeiao ke hoʻomaopopo i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. Ke noho nei i kahi hui, hiki ke ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kamaʻilio Hiki i ke kanaka me ka lohe pepeiao ke hoʻoliʻiliʻi a ʻoki ʻia paha. Inā ʻoe e noho a hana pū paha me kahi mea e lohe ʻole ai, e hāhai i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma lalo e kamaʻilio maikaʻi aʻe ai.

E ʻike pono i ka mea me ka lohe pepeiao hiki ke ʻike i kou alo.

• Kū a noho paha ma 3 a 6 mau kapuaʻi (90 a 180 mau kenimika) kahi mamao.
• E hoʻokū iā ʻoe iho i hiki i ke kanaka āu e kamaʻilio nei ke ʻike i kou waha a me nā ʻōuli.
• E kamaʻilio i loko o kahi lumi kahi lawa ka malamalama no ke kanaka me ka lohe pepeiao e ʻike ai i kēia mau ʻike ʻike.
• ʻOiai e kamaʻilio ana, mai uhi i kou waha, ʻai, a nau wale i kekahi mea.

E ʻike i kahi nohona maikaʻi no ke kamaʻilio ʻana.

• E hoʻemi i ka nui o ka walaʻau hope e ka pio ʻana o ke kīwī a i ʻole ka lekiō.
• Koho i kahi wahi mālie o kahi hale ʻaina, wahi lawena, a keʻena paha kahi e emi ai ka hana a me ka walaʻau.

E hana i kahi hana hou e hoʻohui i ke kanaka i kahi kamaʻilio me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

• Mai kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kanaka me ka lohe pepeiao me he mea ʻole aia ma laila.
• E hōʻike i ke kanaka i ka wā i loli ai ke kumuhana.
• E hoʻohana i ka inoa o ke kanaka no laila ʻike lākou ke kamaʻilio nei ʻoe iā lākou.

E haʻi lohi a akāka hoʻi i kāu mau ʻōlelo.

• Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka leo ma mua o ka maʻamau, akā mai HU ʻUʻU
• Mai hoʻonui i kāu mau ʻōlelo no ka mea e kuhi hewa paha kēia i ke ʻano o ko lākou kani ʻana a e paʻakikī ai i ka ʻike o ke kanaka iā ʻoe.
• Inā ʻaʻole maopopo ka mea me ka lohe pepeiao i kahi huaʻōlelo a huaʻōlelo paha, e koho i kahi ʻokoʻa ma mua o ka hana hou ʻana iā ia.

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