No ke aha e moe ʻole ai koʻu hoa pili me aʻu?

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ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana aku o kāu hoa "ʻaʻole" i ka moekolohe he mea paʻakikī loa ia. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻouna iā ʻoe i kahi koloka i lalo o nā manaʻo kānalua iā ʻoe iho: He aha kaʻu pilikia? He aha ka pilikia o kā mākou pili? He aha inā ʻaʻole makemake wau e lawa?

Ma mua o kou hoʻohewa ʻana iā ʻoe iho (mai!), Aia ʻo Shape sexpert Dr. Logan Levkoff e kōkua; he mea kino a lāʻau paha (e noʻonoʻo: erectile dysfunction) a i ʻole he manaʻo, politika, a ʻuhane paha (ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia i mākaukau a makemake paha e kali a hiki i ka male ʻana). Akā ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ke kumu a hiki i kou wā e kamaʻilio ai. He mea weliweli ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka moekolohe (ʻoiai me kahi hoa pili āu e hilinaʻi ai a mālama ai), ʻoi aku ka mea e pili ana i kāu mea e makemake ai ma kahi moe, nā maʻamau porn a kāu hoa, a i ʻole ʻaʻole lākou makemake i ka moekolohe. Akā, e like me kā Kauka Levkoff i ʻōlelo ai, ʻo ke ala wale nō e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻiliʻili i nā uku hohonu loa o ka naʻau, ke kino, a me ka moekolohe o ka pilina ma ka waiho ʻana iā ʻoe iho i mea palupalu e hāpai i nā mea paʻakikī i ka wā kamaʻilio uluna. Pili mākou e hauʻoli ana ʻoe.

A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, mai hoʻokaumaha inā makemake kāu pakanā e lawe i ko lākou manawa e hele i nā ala āpau. ʻO ka helu kaulike o nā hoa no nā kāne makua ma waena o 25 a me 44 ʻeono, a ʻehā wale nō no nā wahine. No laila inā he conservative ʻoe a i ʻole kāu pākaua ke pili i ka moekolohe, hoʻomaha. ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi.

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