No ke aha ʻo ia i hoʻololi ai ʻo Amal Alamuddin i kona inoa iā Clooney

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ʻO ka nani Epic, ke akamai, diplomat, a me ka loio kaulana honua Amal Alamuddin he nui nā poʻo inoa, akā ua hoʻouna ʻo ia i ka honua i kahi tizzy ke hoʻohui nei ʻo ia i kahi hou: ʻo Mrs. ʻO George Clooney. Wahi a ka papa kuhikuhi o kāna keʻena loio, ua hoʻololi ka wahine akamai i kona inoa hope e lawe i ka inoa ʻohana o kāna kāne kaulana, me ka ʻole o ka hyphen. Ua hoʻonāukiuki kēia neʻe i nā wahine he nui i manaʻo e hāʻawi ʻo ia i kona ʻano ponoʻī no kāna kāne. Akā, ʻo ka poʻe e hōʻino nei i kāna koho ʻana, nalo lākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia nō kāna koho.

No nā hanauna he nui, ua manaʻo ʻia nā wahine i nā kaiāulu he nui e lawe i ka inoa hope o kā lākou kāne ke male lākou akā i nā makahiki i hala iho nei ua kūʻē ʻia i ka kuʻuna. Nui nā kumu o ka wahine no ka makemake e mālama i ko lākou inoa, mai nā manaʻo ideological e like me ka ʻike no nā mea āpau a lākou i hana ai i kā lākou iho i nā kumu kūpono, e like me ka ʻeha o ka hoʻololi ʻana i kāu pepa. Jill Filopovic o Ke Kiai ua hōʻuluʻulu i nā kumu āpau ʻaʻole i ka wā āna i nīnau ai "No ke aha, i ka 2013, ke ʻano o ka male ʻana e hāʻawi ana i ka marker kumu nui o kou ʻike?"

Akā he mau kumu like nā ka wahine no ka makemake e hoʻololi. ʻAʻole ʻōlelo ʻo Amal e pili ana i kāna mau kumu e hele ai iā Clooney-a ʻaʻole pono nā wahine e wehewehe i kā lākou koho i kekahi.

Ua manaʻo kekahi he paʻakikī loa ʻo Alamuddin. "He inoa paʻakikī koʻu e haʻi a hoʻopaʻa inoa a malia paha ua luhi ʻo Amal i ka haʻi ʻole ʻana i ka 'Alamuddin' i nā poʻe āna e hālāwai ai i kēlā me kēia lā," wahi a kahi wahine ʻAmelika ʻAmelika no Celebitchy. "Ua luhi ʻo ia i ka 'He aha ke ʻano o ia inoa?' nā nīnau a me ka 'He aha kēlā? Pono wau iā ʻoe e spelling'."

Naʻu? Ua hoʻololi au i koʻu inoa kaikamahine i koʻu inoa waena a lawe au i ka inoa hope o kaʻu kāne i ko māua male ʻana a kākau au ma ka ʻoihana ma lalo o nā inoa ʻelua. Me he mea lā he kūkākūkā maikaʻi ma waena o ka moʻomeheu a me ka wahine a ʻaʻole wau i mihi i kaʻu hoʻoholo ʻana a ʻaʻole hoʻi i manaʻo maoli he mea nui ia. ʻAʻole māua ʻo Amal (a i ʻole Mrs. Clooney) ma kekahi ʻano. Ua nānā ʻia kahi noiʻi hou ma luna o 14 miliona mau mea hoʻohana Facebook a ʻike ʻia he 65 pakeneka o nā wahine ma ko lākou mau makahiki 20 a me 30 i hoʻololi i ko lākou mau inoa ma hope o ka male ʻana. (A ʻo ia, ʻoi aku ka paʻa o ka hoʻololi ʻana i kāu ʻaoʻao Facebook ma mua o ka hana kānāwai i kēia mau lā, ʻeā?) ʻO kekahi noiʻi ʻana i ʻoi aku ka nui o ka helu ma ka 86 pakeneka o nā wahine e lawe ana i ka inoa o kā lākou kāne. ʻOi aku ka hoihoi loa, ke piʻi nei kēia mau helu i luna me ka nui o nā wahine e hana nei i ka hoʻololi ma mua o nā 1990.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻo nā wahine i ʻoi aku ma mua o 35 a ua hoʻokumu i nā ʻoihana lehulehu ka mea e mālama pono i kā lākou mau inoa kaikamahine. Kūpono ʻo Amal i loko o kēia hui e like me ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e hōʻino ana i kāna koho. A ʻo ia, ke manaʻo nei wau, ʻo ia ka pilikia: ka wahine e hoʻohewa nei i ka koho a kekahi wahine no ka mea manaʻo lākou he hoʻouka pilikino ia i kā lākou hoʻoholo ponoʻī. Manaʻolana wau i kēia manawa ua ʻae ʻia mākou i ke koho ʻana i ka mea e hana ai me ko mākou mau inoa-he mea i hauʻoli ʻole ka nui o ko mākou mau kūpuna-e hiki iā mākou ke kākoʻo i ke kūʻokoʻa o nā wahine ʻē aʻe e hana i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai me ko lākou mau inoa. ʻo kēlā koho paha. No laila, hauʻoli, e Mrs. Clooney! (Hele, ehia mau kaikamahine pepehi e loaʻa i kēlā poʻo inoa?!)

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