Pehea e hāʻule ai i ke aloha me ka Position Sex Spooning

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• ʻO nā kumu kumu o ka Spooning Sex Position
• 1. Anuanu.
• 2. He mea maikaʻi loa ia no ka stimulus clitoral.
• 3. Hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani me ka ikaika.
• 4. He ala ia e pā ai i nā wahi leʻaleʻa kūloko.
• 5. hāmama i ka unuhi.
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ʻO ke kūlana moʻo spooning no nā mea āpau. ʻAʻole maikaʻi wale ia no nā kāne hetero, kāne like, a me nā kāne like ʻole, akā hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia me nā ʻano like ʻole e pili ana i kāu mau makemake. Pono ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka clitoral no ʻoe? Aʻole pilikia. E like me ke komo ʻana i ka puka hope? Ua uhi ʻia ʻoe i ke kūlana wahine spooning.

"Hoʻomaha ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka pilina i kēia kūlana," wehewehe ʻo Megan Fleming, Ph.D., sex therapist a me ka mea aʻo. "Kau pono ke kūlana iā ʻoe ma ka pili pono o kāu hoa a hāʻawi i ka pae piha o ka pili ʻana o ka ʻili. ʻO ka spooning kekahi mea maʻalahi e honi i ka ʻāʻī, kamaʻilio, a hāwanawana."

He kūlana hoʻi e waiho lima ʻole ai nā mea a pau. No laila, ʻo kēlā me kēia kūlana o kāu spoon, ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia kūlana e hoʻonui i kou leʻaleʻa. E heluhelu e ʻike i ke kumu e lilo ai ke kūlana moekolohe i kahi o kāu mau wahi punahele punahele - me nā ala e hoʻopili ai iā ia no ka leʻaleʻa hou aku, e like me ka ʻōlelo a ka poʻe loea.

ʻO nā kumu kumu o ka Spooning Sex Position

Ma ke kumu nui, ʻo ke kūlana moʻo wahine ke moe nei ʻoe a me kāu hoa, aia ʻolua ma kou ʻaoʻao a alo i ke ala hoʻokahi, me kahi hoa (ka hope a i ʻole ka puna nui) i hoʻopili ʻia ma hope o kekahi, e wehewehe ʻo Alexandra. ʻO Fine, co-hoʻokumu a me CEO o Dame Products.

"Inā ʻoe e moekolohe ana i ke kūlana spooning, ʻo ka mea maʻamau ke komo i ka puna hope a i ʻole ka puna nui, a laila hiki iā lākou ke komo i ka puna liʻiliʻi i mua," wahi a Fine. Hiki ke komo i ke komo i loko o ka vaginally a i ʻole anally, me nā mea pāʻani a i ʻole ʻole, hoʻohui ʻo Ashley Cobb, mea aʻo mea pāʻani wahine a me ka loea ʻo Lovehoney. (A he mea pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole pili ka nui o ke kino me ka mea e hana nei ma ke ʻano he puna "nui" a "liʻiliʻi".)

Ma kēlā me kēia ala āu e koho ai e hoʻokomo, "hāʻawi kēia kūlana i kahi ʻano o ka pili a me ka manawa kūpono no ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i ke kino holoʻokoʻa," wahi a Fleming. Maikaʻi ke kani, ʻeā? E hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana no nā kumu hou aʻe e makemake ai i ke kūlana wahine spooning.

1. Anuanu.

ʻO ke kūlana wahine spooning he mea pili loa a ʻaʻole koi i ka hoʻoikaika kino - no laila maikaʻi ia no ke kakahiaka a i ke ahiahi paha ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana, wehewehe ʻo Fleming. (ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ka ʻokoʻa o kēia mau kūlana wahine e pālua i ka hoʻoikaika kino.)

"ʻAʻole au makemake e ʻōlelo ʻo ia ke kūlana palaualelo loa no ka mea ʻo ia ka ʻaoʻao maikaʻi loa e pili ana iā ia," e ʻae ʻo Fine. "No ka mea, ʻaʻohe kanaka e hoʻopaʻa i ko lākou kaumaha kino, hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli i ka leʻaleʻa me ka maʻalahi loa. ʻOiai ma nā ʻehā a pau, i ke ʻano ʻīlio, hoʻohana ʻoe i kou mau lima a me kou mau wāwae e paʻa i kou kino a manaʻo wau. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i kēlā ma ke kūlana spooning."

ʻAʻole koi ka spooning i ka hana nui mai kēlā me kēia hoa a ʻo ia kekahi o nā kūlana wahine liʻiliʻi e hāʻawi i ka pili kino piha (heluhelu: ʻo ka pā kino a pau) me ka ʻole o ka hoʻololi ʻana, no laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokokoke loa i kāu hoa me ka noho ʻoluʻolu. a me ka manao maoli.

2. He mea maikaʻi loa ia no ka stimulus clitoral.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo leʻaleʻa (e manaʻo ʻoe ua ʻike mua ʻoe): ʻAʻole hiki i ʻelua o ʻekolu mau wahine ke kiʻekiʻe mai ke komo wale ʻana, wahi a Fleming. ʻO ia ke koho maikaʻi loa i kēia kūlana lima lima no ka poʻe e pono ai ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka clitoral e hoʻokō ai i ka orgasm.

"Ke kū ʻoe i kahi kūlana kahi e komo ai ke kua mai hope, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi iā ʻoe a i ʻole kāu hoa e komo i kāu clitoris, ke manaʻo nei wau he kumu ʻē aʻe e hiki ai i kēia ke lilo i kūlana maikaʻi loa," wehewehe ʻo Fine. "Inā wehe ʻoe i kou mau wāwae i kahi liʻiliʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopā hou aku iā ʻoe iho a i ʻole hiki i kāu pakanā ke hoʻopā hou aku iā ʻoe." (E ho'āʻo pū i kēia mau kūlana wahine maikaʻi no ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka clitoral.)

"Hoʻohui, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kahi mea haʻalulu maʻalahi i kēia kūlana, keu hoʻi i kahi mea i kau ʻia ma ka lima a maʻalahi paha e paʻa," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. E hoʻāʻo e hoʻohui i kahi haʻalulu manamana i ka hui ʻana, e like me Dame Fin (Buy It, $ 85, dameproducts.com) a i ʻole kahi vibe poka, e like me ka Lelo Mia 2 (Buy It, $ 85, lelo.com).

3. Hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani me ka ikaika.

Hiki i nā hoa ʻelua ke hoʻololi i ka hohonu o ke komo ʻana i ka spooning sex position, ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki i kēlā me kēia hoa ke hoʻololi i ka mana ikaika a lawe i ka mana i kēlā me kēia manawa - hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ke kaikamahine pipi/rider-on-top a i ʻole mikionali, no ka laʻana, kahi o ka hoa kiʻekiʻe. aia ka mana a pau.

No ka laʻana, "hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia ka wāwae luna o ka puna liʻiliʻi i kēia kūlana e hāʻawi i ka leverage maikaʻi ma o ke kāʻei ʻana iā ia a puni ka hoa ʻē aʻe," wehewehe ʻo Fleming. Hiki i kēia ke hāʻawi i ka puna liʻiliʻi i kahi mana hou aʻe ma luna o ka pacing. A i ʻole, "inā neʻe ka puna liʻiliʻi i ko lākou wāwae kiʻekiʻe a hāmama a puni lākou ma ke kua, hiki i kā lākou hoa ke hoʻopaʻa i ka wāwae kiʻekiʻe, kahi e hāʻawi ai iā lākou ka leverage."

Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu, hiki i ka puna liʻiliʻi ke wili i ko lākou mau kuli i ko lākou umauma. "Hiki iā ʻolua ke hoʻoluli i kou mau kuli i luna a hoʻopili ʻia kāu hoa iā ʻoe," wahi a Fine. E noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kēia ʻano he ʻoi aku ka ʻoi aku o ka cuddle, ʻoiai ʻo ka hāpai ʻana a me ka ʻōwili ʻana i ka wāwae e hiki ke hoʻohua iki i nā mea. (Pro tip: Inā pilikia ʻoe i ke komo ʻana a i ʻole ka noho ʻana i kekahi ʻano o kēia kūlana, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohana i kahi uluna hoʻonohonoho kino e hāpai i kou pūhaka - a i ʻole ko kāu hoa - e like me Pillo, Buy It, $95, dameproducts.com.)

4. He ala ia e pā ai i nā wahi leʻaleʻa kūloko.

ʻO ka moekolohe maikaʻi e pili ana i ka huina, wahi a Fleming. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻōpala a ke komo nei i ka spooning sex kūlana ma ke ʻano he puna liʻiliʻi, aia kahi nūhou maikaʻi: Kuhi maoli kēia kihi o ke komo i ka pelvis i kahi ala kūpono no ka paʻi ʻana i nā ʻāpana erogenous kūloko i ka puki, wahi a Cobb.

No ka mea, i ka wā e moe ana ʻoe ma ke ʻano spooning sex me ke ʻano o kou mau kino (e noʻonoʻo: ke ʻano āu e hiamoe ai), hiki iā ia ke hoʻokau nui i ka paia o mua o ka ʻōpū - kahi i loaʻa nā toni o ke aʻalolo clitoral. welau, wahi a Fine. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo kahi kiko ʻo G kahi mau ʻīniha i loko o ka aʻa puʻupaʻa ma kēia paia, a ʻo kahi kiko A kahi hohonu hohonu.

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i loko o kēlā manaʻo - a makemake paha e pāʻani me ke kihi - ke hoʻololi nei i ka mamao ma waena o kou mau kino he mea hoʻololi pāʻani i ke kūlana wahine spooning. ʻO kahi laʻana, e hoʻāʻo e hilinaʻi i kou kino i mua no laila ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ke kino o kāu hoa (ʻaneʻane like me ka style doggy horizontal), wahi a Fine. "E noʻonoʻo i kou kino me he uaki lā: E hoʻomaka ma ka ʻumikūmālua a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe i hoʻokahi hola a hoʻokolohua maoli me kēlā me kēia huina a ʻike i nā mea e pono ai iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa."

5. hāmama i ka unuhi.

ʻAʻole wale kēia kūlana e hana no nā ʻano kāne āpau, akā hāʻawi pū kekahi iā ia iho i ka hana. "E noʻonoʻo i nā ala āpau e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke neʻe i kahi kūlana spoon," wahi a Fleming. He kūlana maikaʻi loa ke kūlana wahine spooning e hoʻololi i ke ʻano cowgirl a i ʻole ka ʻīlio ʻīlio ma ka hoʻopaʻa paʻa ʻana i kāu hoa a kaʻa pū i ka ʻaoʻao.

ʻAʻole pono i ke kūlana spooning e hoʻopili i ka moekolohe. (Hoʻomanaʻo: ʻAʻole kūlike ka moekolohe iā P-in-V! Hiki i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka waha, nā mea lima, a i ʻole ka masturbation ʻelua. "He nui nā ala e moe kolohe ai ke komo ʻole," wahi a Fine. A he kūlana maikaʻi loa kēia no kēlā mea. "Kaomi ʻia kou mau wāwae i kekahi i kekahi i hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻano intertwine i kou mau wāwae a maikaʻi ia no ka hakakā," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Hiki i ka puna nui ke lalau i kou mau lima a puni a ma lalo paha e komo i loko o ke kikohoʻe a hiki i ka puna liʻiliʻi ke kaomi i hope a hamo aku i ko lākou hoa.

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