Ua loaʻa maoli ʻo Shawn Johnson e pili ana i ka 'Mom Guilt' Ma hope o ka hoʻoholo ʻana ʻaʻole e hānai

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Inā aia kekahi mea a Shawn Johnson a me kāna kāne ʻo Andrew East, i aʻo ai i loko o ʻekolu mau mahina mai ka hoʻokipa ʻana i kā lāua keiki mua i ka honua, ʻo ia ke kī maʻalahi.

ʻEkolu mau lā ma hope o ka lawe ʻana mai o nā mākua hou i kā lāua kaikamahine ʻo Drew, i ka home mai ka haukapila, ua hoʻopiha ʻia lākou me kāna uē mau. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i latching, he neʻe ʻo ia loaʻa ma ka haukapila, a ke hoʻohana nei ʻo ia i kāna mau kaula leo liʻiliʻi e ʻike pono i nā mea a pau o ka lumi. "Ua like ʻo ia, ʻAʻole wau makemake e hana hou i kēia, "Haʻi ʻo Johnson Kinohi.

Ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka wahine ma ka hānai ʻana i ka waiū, akā no ka nui o nā contraptions a lāua i hoʻāʻo ai a me nā kūkākūkā a lāua i lawe mai ai e kōkua, ʻaʻole loaʻa iā Drew. Ma hope koke iho, ua kāhea lākou i nā mea e pono ai-kahi pauma umauma a me kahi ʻōmole. "Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i ka puhi ʻana no ka manawa mua, hāʻawi iā ia i ʻōmole, a hauʻoli koke ʻo ia," wahi a Johnson. "Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi he kūpono nona."

Maikaʻi ka hana ʻana o ka ʻōmole a hiki i ʻelua pule ma hope mai, ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole lawa ka waiū umauma o Johnson. I kekahi pō paʻakikī, piha i ka waimaka, ua ʻōlelo ʻo East ua hele ʻo ia i kahi mode makuakāne piha a hoʻomaka i ka ʻimi ʻana i nā koho ʻē aʻe maikaʻi loa no ka waiū umauma. Ua pae ʻo ia ma Enfamil enspire, a ua hoʻoholo hope loa ka mea ʻelua (ʻo ia ka mea haʻi waha no ka brand) e hoʻohui i ka umauma o Johnson me ke ʻano.

ʻAʻole wale lākou nā mākua hou e koho nei i kēia koho. ʻOiai ke koi a ka American Academy of Pediatrics i ka waiū hānai wale no nā mahina mua ʻeono o ke ola, ʻoi aku ka hapa o nā pēpē i ka umauma wale ʻia i loko o nā mahina ʻekolu, a ua heleleʻi kēlā ʻāpana i ka 25 pākēneka ma nā māka ʻeono mahina, e like me ka Nā kikowaena no ka mālama ʻana i ka maʻi a me ka pale ʻana. A, e like me Johnson, hiki i kekahi mau makuahine ke koho e hoʻohui a hānai paha i ka waiu wale nō inā ʻaʻole lawa ka waiū, loaʻa kekahi mau maʻi olakino, e hoʻi ana i ka hana, a i ʻole he pēpē maʻi a hānau ʻia paha. (ICYMI, ua kū ʻo Serena Williams i ka hānai ʻana i ka waiū e hoʻomākaukau no Wimbledon.)

No Johnson, ʻo ka haʻalele ʻana i ka manaʻo "ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka umauma" ma ka hānai ʻana i kāna kaikamahine i ka waiū umauma a me ka waiu mai loko mai o ka ʻōmole, ʻo ia ka hoʻoholo kūpono, akā ua hoʻopiʻi mau iā ia me ka hewa. "Ke manaʻo nei au he ʻano hoʻomāinoino i laila inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hānai i ka umauma, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele pōkole no kāu keiki," wahi a Johnson. "He manaʻo weliweli loa ia e like me ka makuahine, me ka manaʻo e hele pōkole ana ʻoe, a ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo e like me ka manaʻo o nā makuahine no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou."

ʻAʻole e hāʻule wale kēia kaomi e lilo i makuahine "hemolele" ma nā mekala gula Olimpika wale nō. ʻO ka hapalua o nā makuahine hou e ʻike i ka mihi, ka hilahila, ka hewa, a me ka huhū (ma muli o nā pilikia i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a me ke kākoʻo ʻole), a ʻoi aku ka nui o ka 70 pakeneka e manaʻo e hana i nā mea ma kekahi ala, e like me ka loiloi o 913 makuahine i kauoha ʻia e MANAWA. No Johnson, hiki mai kēia ma ke ʻano o nā manaʻo i kēlā me kēia lā mai ka poʻe ma ka pāpaho pūnaewele—a i ʻole nā ​​hoaaloha—e haʻi ana iā ia e hiki iā ia ke hoʻomau i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka umauma a i ʻole ke nīnau ʻana inā ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻihoʻi iā Drew i kona umauma e ʻike ai inā e hoʻopaʻa ʻo ia. (Pili: ʻO ka ʻiʻo puʻuwai naʻau o kēia Wahine e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana iā #SoReal)

ʻOiai ua heluhelu ʻo Johnson lāua ʻo East i nā ʻōlelo hoʻohewa pūnaewele o kā lākou mau hoʻoholo makua, ua aʻo lākou e hoʻohana i ka ʻili mānoanoa. Hoʻāʻo lākou e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou iho ma ke ala kūpono inā hauʻoli, olakino, a hānai ʻia kā lākou kaikamahine — ʻaʻole e walaʻau a uē. I ka Hikina, ʻo ka neʻe ʻana mai kā lākou papa hana hānai kumu i hoʻokūpaʻa ai kā lāua male: Ma ka lawe ʻana i ka nui o ka ukana, ua hiki iā ia ke hōʻike iā Johnson ua hoʻopukapuka ʻo ia a makemake e hana i nā mea āpau i hiki iā ia. Hoʻohui, hiki i ka Hikina ke loaʻa nā manawa pili a me nā manawa kūpono e hoʻopaʻa ai me kāna kaikamahine i loaʻa ʻole iā ia.

A i nā mākuahine i kaomi ʻia e hānai i kā lāua keiki i kahi ala a i ʻole hoʻokolokolo ʻia no ka heʻe ʻana mai ke kūlana quo, he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo wale nō kā Johnson: E pili pono nāu me kāu pēpē. "Manaʻo wau, ma ke ʻano he mau mākua, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolohe i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe," i ʻōlelo ai ʻo ia. "Ke haʻi nei lākou i nā mea e pono ai no lākou, no laila heʻoiaʻiʻo manaʻo lākou he pono. Akā, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka mea kūpono iā ʻoe. ʻO ia wale nō ke ala e ola ai ʻoe. "

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