10 mau ala no ka pololei, ka poʻe Cisgender e lilo i mau mea kōkua maikaʻi ma ka Haʻaheo

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• Ke loli nei ka haʻaheo ... eia ka mea e pono ai e noʻonoʻo
• 1. E nīnau iā ʻoe iho no ke aha ʻoe e hele nei
• Nā nīnau e nīnau ai:
  
• 2. Google ma mua o kou hele a mālama i nā nīnau no ka hope
• LGBTQ + heluhelu ma mua o ka hele ʻana i Pride:
  
• 3. Kiʻi kiʻi me ka noʻonoʻo - a i ʻole ʻaʻole loa
• 4. Noho i hope
• 5. E lokomaikaʻi
• 6. Hoʻolauna iā ʻoe iho me kāu mau pronouns
• E lawe mai i nā pronouns, ʻōlelo paha ʻoe:
  
• 7. E noʻonoʻo i kāu ʻōlelo
• 8. E hāʻawi manawaleʻa i nā hui LGBTQ +
• E noʻonoʻo e hāʻawi manawaleʻa i:
  
• 9. Lawe mai i kāu poʻe keiki
• 10. E hauʻoli ʻoe iā ʻoe iho

Ua hala 49 mau makahiki mai ka parade Pride mua loa, akā ma mua o ka hiki ʻana o Pride, aia ka Stonewall Riots, kahi manawa i ka mōʻaukala kahi a ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + i hakakā kūʻē aku ai i ka hana hoʻomāinoino a nā mākaʻi a me ka hoʻokaumaha kānāwai. ʻO kēia makahiki ka makahiki he 50 o ka Stonewall Riots.

"Ua hoʻomaka ka haunaele Stonewall i ka lā 28 o Iune, 1969, a alakaʻi ʻia i ʻekolu mau lā o ke kūʻē a me ka hakakā kūʻē me nā luna hoʻomalu kānāwai ma waho o ka Stonewall Inn ma ke alanui Christopher ma New York City," i wehewehe ai ka alakaʻi kaiāulu LGBTQ +, ʻo Fernando Z. Lopez, ka luna hoʻomalu no San ʻO Diego Pride. "Manaʻo pinepine ʻia kēia mau hanana i ka hānau ʻana a me ka hōʻeleu no ka neʻe ʻana o nā pono kīvila ma United States."

I kēia lā, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hanana haʻaheo 1,000 i mālama ʻia i nā kūlanakauhale ma ka hona holoʻokoʻa ma ke ʻano he hōʻike no nā kaiāulu LGBTQ + e hoʻomau nei i ka hana kūʻē i ka hoʻokaumaha a me ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole. ʻOiai ke holomua nei, ʻo homophobia a me transphobia kahi pilikia ʻōnaehana maʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa a me ka honua.

I nā makahiki he 5 i hala iho nei, ua ʻike maka mākou i ka hana hoʻomāinoino ma LGBTQ + poʻe ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa.

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ʻO ia ke kumu i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Lopez: "He hōʻailona koʻikoʻi kēia 50 makahiki no ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + a hāʻawi ʻia i nā hoʻouka kaua hou a me nā wā hou e pili ana i nā kuleana LGBTQ +, he mea nui e like me ka wā ma mua." No laila i ka Pride i kēia makahiki, e hele ka poʻe e hoʻolauleʻa a hakakā pū - kūʻē i ka hana ʻino a me ka hoʻokae ʻana i kahi hana, no ke kuleana e lawelawe ākea i ka pūʻali koa a me ke komo ʻana i ke olakino, a no ka hoʻonui ʻia o ka ʻae ʻia, ka nui.

Ke loli nei ka haʻaheo ... eia ka mea e pono ai e noʻonoʻo

“20 mau makahiki i hala aku nei, he hopena pule ka haʻaheo no LGBTQ + mā a me kā mākou hoa aloha. He pāʻina pīhoihoi maoli nō ia, a he manawa kūpono e hoʻolauleʻa a lilo ai ʻoe i kahi ʻano i palekana, "i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka pelekikena ʻo FUSE Marketing Group a me ka loio o LGBTQ +, ʻo Stephen Brown. "I kēia manawa, ʻano ʻokoʻa ka haʻaheo."

Ke ulu nei nā hanana haʻaheo, aia kekahi ma waho o ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + e hele nei - a i kekahi manawa, no nā kumu manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole, e like me ke kala i ka pāʻina a inu a i ʻole i ka nānā wale ʻana i ka poʻe.

"ʻAʻole kau ʻia nā hanana haʻaheo no ka poʻe pololei, poʻe cisgender. ʻAʻole like me ka hapanui o nā hakahaka a me nā hanana a lākou e neʻe ai i loko a ma waena hoʻi, ʻaʻole i hoʻokau ʻia ka haʻaheo a i ʻole mālama ʻia i ka poʻe cisgender pololei a me ko lākou ʻike. " ʻo ka vibrator manuahi ʻole ke kāne, ʻo Enby.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻo Pride no ka mea ʻoluʻolu maoli nā poʻe cisgender, LGBTQA + mau hoa aloha. “Makemake au e hele nā ​​kānaka āpau i Pride. ʻO LGBTQ + māua a me nā mea pili pono like, "i ʻōlelo ʻia e J.R. Gray, kahi mea kākau o ke aloha hānai i hoʻokumu ʻia ma Miami, Florida. “Makemake au e hele pū mai ko mākou poʻe kōkua a hoʻoleʻaleʻa me mākou. E hele mai e hōʻike iā mākou i kou mahalo a me ke aloha ʻo wai mākou. ”

Akā, pono lākou e hāhai i ka mea āna i kapa ai ʻo "rula helu ʻekahi" o Pride. "E mahalo i nā poʻe āpau o nā moekolohe a me nā kāne āpau e hele ana."

He aha ke ʻano o kēlā a me ke ʻano o ka hana? E hoʻohana i kēia alakaʻi 10-ʻanuʻu e kōkua iā ʻoe e lilo i mea aloha a me ke kākoʻo i ke hele ʻana i Pride-the ally ka LGBTQ + kaiāulu e pono ai.

1. E nīnau iā ʻoe iho no ke aha ʻoe e hele nei

ʻAʻole kahi haʻaheo kahi e kāhea ai a nānā ka poʻe. ʻAʻole nō, ʻaʻole ia kahi e hōʻiliʻili ai i ka ʻikepili no kahi moʻolelo Instagram (hiki i ka hopena ke kū i kahi ʻiʻo ʻana). E like me kā Boyajian i ʻōlelo ai, "I think straight, cisgendered folks pono e nīnau iā lākou iho i kekahi mau nīnau ma mua o ka hele ʻana."

Nā nīnau e nīnau ai:

• Ke haʻaheo nei wau e hoʻohana i ka poʻe kuʻi i kumu no kaʻu leʻaleʻa?
• Kamaʻāina wau me ka mōʻaukala o Pride a no ke aha he mea nui kēia hoʻolauleʻa i ke kaiāulu aliʻi.
• He hoa aloha maoli wau no ke kaiāulu LGBTQ +?

"Hiki i kēia mau nīnau ke kōkua i ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo i kā lākou mau manaʻo i mea e maopopo ai ke komo nei lākou i ka Pride space me ka noʻonoʻo a me ka manaʻo."

Inā ʻoe e hele ana i Pride e hōʻike i kāu kākoʻo a hiki iā ʻoe ke komo i kahi me ka maopopo o ka Pride a no ke aha he mea nui e pīhoihoi i nā poʻe, ʻoluʻolu ʻoe!

2. Google ma mua o kou hele a mālama i nā nīnau no ka hope

He nīnau paha kāu e pili ana i ke kāne, ka moekolohe, a me ka Haʻaheo paha? Google ma mua o kou hele ʻana. ʻAʻole ia ka hana a ke kaiāulu keu e lilo i mau kumu aʻo, keu hoʻi ma Pride. Hiki iā ia ke hele mai ma ke ʻano he maʻalahi ʻole a komo i loko e nīnau i kekahi e pili ana i ka ʻōlelo, ka loina o ka moekolohe, ma waenakonu o kahi parade (a me kekahi manawa ʻē aʻe).

No laila he mea nui no nā mea kōkua pololei e hana i kā lākou noiʻi ponoʻī ma kahi o ka hilinaʻi wale i kā lākou hoa aloha e pane i kā lākou nīnau āpau e pili ana i ka mōʻaukala LGBTQ +, ke kāne, a me ka moekolohe, wahi a Boyajian.

"Ke hele nei i ka papa ʻaina i hana i kāu noiʻi e hōʻike i kahi hoʻopukapuka ma LGBTQ +, kahi e hoʻonui i ka Pride," i kākau ʻo Boyajian. Loaʻa nā kumuwaiwai i ka poʻe hoihoi i ke aʻo ʻana, me kāu mau kikowaena waiwai ʻo LGBTQ +, makahiki a puni a me ka pūnaewele. ʻO nā ʻatikala ma lalo Healthline kahi wahi maikaʻi e hoʻomaka ai:

LGBTQ + heluhelu ma mua o ka hele ʻana i Pride:

• He aha ke ʻano o ke kuhi hewa ʻana i kekahi
• E ʻoluʻolu e hōʻoki i ka noi ʻana iā LGBTQ + Ka poʻe e pili ana i ko lākou ola kolohe
• Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i ka poʻe transgender a me ka binary ʻole
• He aha ke ʻano o ka bisexual a i ʻole Bi?
• He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka moekolohe a me ka wahine
• He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻike ʻana ma ke ʻano he Genderqueer?

E like me kā Lopez i ʻōlelo ai, "He mea maikaʻi ke noi no ke kōkua a me ke alakaʻi, akā e manaʻo i kahi hoa / hoaloha LGBTQ e ʻike i nā mea āpau a e mākaukau e aʻo iā ʻoe he noʻonoʻo ʻole." ʻO kahi hopena e kāpae i ka noi ʻana i ka hapa nui o kāu mau nīnau a hiki i ka Post-Pride.

"No ka hapanui o mākou, hiki i ka Pride kahi manawa o ke kūʻokoʻa kahi e pono ʻole ai mākou e wehewehe a hūnā paha i kekahi mau mea o mākou iho. He paʻakikī ke ola, ʻoiai weliweli no ka poʻe kuʻi, no laila hiki i ka Haʻaheo ke manaʻo he hōʻoluʻolu mai kēlā ʻeha. ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana iā ʻoe iho a me kou ʻike a i ʻole nā ​​ʻike ʻē aʻe ma Pride i kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe i ke kūʻokoʻa i ka lā e kū ai, "wahi a Boyajian.

3. Kiʻi kiʻi me ka noʻonoʻo - a i ʻole ʻaʻole loa

ʻOiai makemake paha ʻoe e hopu i kēia manawa, he mea nui e akahele i ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me nā mea hele Pride. ʻOiai ka parade a me nā hanana Pride ʻē aʻe e like paha me he op kiʻi kiʻi maikaʻi loa, ʻaʻole makemake nā poʻe āpau e paʻi kiʻi ʻia.

E noʻonoʻo i kēia: no ke aha wau e kiʻi nei i kēia kiʻi? Ke hana nei wau iā ia e hana i kahi hiʻona a hoʻomāʻewaʻewa paha mai kekahi a me / a i ʻole ka mea a lākou e ʻaʻahu nei? Ke kiʻi a kau nei paha i kēia kiʻi consensual? Hiki paha i kuʻu lawe ʻana a me ke kau ʻana i kēia kiʻi paʻi "mai" i kekahi a i ʻole pili i kā lākou kūlana hana, palekana, a olakino paha.

ʻOiai ke hele nei kekahi i Pride, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo hōʻoluʻolu lākou e kaʻana like i kēlā me ko ke ao. Hiki iā lākou ke hele malū, a hiki i nā kiʻi ke hoʻoweliweli iā lākou.

No laila inā ʻoe e kiʻi i nā kiʻi o kekahi e nīnau mau ai i kā lākou ʻae ma mua, a i ʻole kiʻi kiʻi iki ʻole i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe - a hauʻoli i ka hoʻolauleʻa. E hauʻoli ka poʻe he nui ma mua o ka hauʻoli e kiʻi pū me ʻoe i kiʻi, a i ʻole kiʻi ʻia ʻia i ke kiʻi, akā ʻo ka noi ʻana ma mua o ka manawa e hōʻike ana i kahi pae haʻahaʻa o ka mahalo.

4. Noho i hope

ʻO ka haʻaheo e pili ana i ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ke kaiāulu LGBT +, ʻaʻole e lawe ʻia mai ia mea. A ʻo ia hoʻi ka hana ʻana i wahi no ka LGBTQ + poʻe ma Pride e hoʻolauleʻa ai iā lākou iho.

"Ma Pride, pili ke allyship i ka hāpai ʻana i LGBTQ + mā, e hoʻomālamalama ana i kahi no mākou, a ʻaʻole me ke keʻena luna. Ma mua o Pride ua noi mākou i kā mākou mea kōkua e hoʻokaʻawale i kahi no mākou, "wahi a Lopez. Pākuʻi ʻia i kēlā me kēia wahi kino, e like me ka lawe ʻole ʻana i ka lālani mua. A i ʻole ka lālani ʻelua a ʻekolu paha. E hāʻawi i kēlā mau noho kiʻekiʻe i ke kaiāulu LGBTQ +.

E nānā pono i nā ʻaoʻao hanana ma mua o ka hōʻike ʻana pū kekahi. "Maikaʻi loa nā mea hoʻolālā festival e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i nā mea āu e manaʻo ai e ʻike a hana ma kā lākou paina a me nā ʻahaʻaina ma kā lākou pūnaewele a me nā ʻaoʻao pūnaewele, a me ka mea e hoʻokipa ʻia," wahi a Gary Costa, ka luna hoʻomalu me Golden Rainbow, kahi hui. kōkua ia i ka hoʻolako ʻana i ka hale, ke aʻo, a me ke kōkua kālā kūpono i nā kāne, wahine, a me nā keiki e noho nei me ka maʻi HIV / AIDS ma Nevada.

E noʻonoʻo hoʻi ʻaʻole i nā ākea āpau a i ʻole nā ​​hanana i ka wā Pride e hāmama i nā mea kōkua. ʻO kahi laʻana, nā hanana i kapa ʻia he mau ʻili paʻa, Dyke Marches, Bear Parties, Trans Marches, Disability Pride Parades, S&M Balls, a me QPOC Picnics maʻa mau ʻole no ka poʻe kōkua. Inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe, e nīnau wale i kahi hoʻonohonoho a lālā paha o ke kaiāulu inā maikaʻi iā ʻoe e hele, a mahalo i kā lākou pane.

5. E lokomaikaʻi

E hoʻomaka, ʻo ia hoʻi ka haʻalele ʻana i ke kuhihewa (a makaʻu paha) e ʻumeʻume ʻia ʻoe e kekahi mea ʻike ʻole i ka heterosexual. "ʻO ke ala a kēlā me kēia kāne heterosexual e ʻumeʻume ai i kēlā me kēia kāne o ka wahine ʻē aʻe, ke kokoke nei i kahi kanaka ʻume ʻia i ka wahine ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻoiaʻiʻo e hahau ke kanaka iā ʻoe," wahi a ka loea ʻo LGBTQ + ʻo Kryss Shane, MS, MSW, LSW, LMSW.

ʻLelo ʻia, hiki i kahi nui o ka hoʻokalakupua ma Pride no ka mea he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hui ai nā poʻe kolohe me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. "Inā ʻoe e loaʻa ana i kahi hopena o ke aloha i makemake ʻole ʻia, e hōʻole mahalo e like me ʻoe me kekahi kanaka āu e puni ʻole ai. ʻAʻole hewa ka leʻumeʻa Queer, ke aloha, a me ke aloha no laila mai mālama iā ia e like me ia, "wahi a Boyajian.

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, mai "ʻimi" i ka poʻe i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e noho i waho o kāu mau moemoeā pilikino. ʻAʻole kahi haʻaheo kahi no nā kāne pololei e ʻike i ka huila ʻekolu. ʻAʻole hoʻi ia kahi no nā poʻe pololei e ʻike ai i kekahi mau kāne aloha e nānā i ka moekolohe no ka mea "ua pīhoihoi mau ʻoe."

6. Hoʻolauna iā ʻoe iho me kāu mau pronouns

ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi maʻalahi i ke kāne i ke kāne, ka moekolohe, a i ʻole nā ​​pronouns ma ka nānā ʻana iā lākou. "ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ʻaʻole loa e lawe i nā haʻiʻōlelo a makemake ʻole paha o kekahi," e wehewehe ana ʻo Boyajian. Inā ʻoe e hana, pilikia ʻoe i ka hana hewa ʻana iā lākou i hiki ke hoʻāla a hōʻeha loa.

Ma kahi o ka manaʻo wale, e nīnau wale - akā e ʻike pono e hoʻolauna mua i kāu mau pronoun ponoʻī. He ala kēia e hōʻailona ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe he pili aloha ʻoe, a mahalo a hoʻohanohano ʻoe i nā ʻike kāne āpau. A ma hope o ka haʻi ʻana o kekahi i kā lākou pronouns, mahalo iā lākou a neʻe i mua - mai ʻōlelo i kā lākou pronouns a nīnau paha no ke aha lākou e hoʻohana ai. ʻO kēia kahi maʻa maikaʻi ma 365 mau lā o ka makahiki, akā he mea nui ia no Pride.

E lawe mai i nā pronouns, ʻōlelo paha ʻoe:

• "ʻO Gabrielle koʻu inoa a hoʻohana wau i kāna mau pronouns."
• “Nani ka hui ʻana me ʻoe, [X]. ʻO wau ʻo Gabrielle a ʻo kaʻu mau pronouns ʻo ia / kāna. He aha kāu?

"ʻO wau iho, pono mau wau e hoʻoponopono i nā poʻe me kaʻu mau pronoun no laila he mea nui ia ke hoʻolauna kekahi iā lākou iho me kā lākou pronouns i hoʻopili ʻia," Boyajian. "Noʻu, hōʻike kēia i ka mahalo a me ka wehe e aʻo e pili ana i koʻu ʻike."

I kēlā helu like, mai kuhi i nā kāne ʻē aʻe i "nānā" pololei. E hoʻomanaʻo he hoʻokahi a i ʻole ʻelua paha i bi, pan, transgender, a i ʻole binary ʻole. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, mai manaʻo ʻoe i kekahi mea no ka mea, maikaʻi ... ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo kahiko.

7. E noʻonoʻo i kāu ʻōlelo

Ma kahi haʻaheo Pride, lohe paha ʻoe i nā poʻe e kāhea iā lākou iho a me nā ʻōlelo a ko lākou mau hoaaloha i manaʻo ʻia he mea hoʻowahāwahā, a i manaʻo ʻia paha he mea hoʻowahāwahā. ʻAʻole ia he kumu e hiki ai i kekahi ke hoʻōho i kā lākou makemake. Ma ke ʻano he pilina, pono ʻoe ʻaʻole loa hoʻohana i kēia mau huaʻōlelo. Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei no ke aha, eia kahi wehewehe:

Hoʻohana nā poʻe ma ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + i kēia mau ʻōlelo ma ke ʻano he ala e kiʻi hou ai i kahi mea i hoʻohana mua ʻia ma ke ʻano he hōʻeha hōʻeha kūʻē iā lākou a i ʻole ke koena o ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + - manaʻo pinepine ʻia kēia he mana o ka mana.

Ma ke ʻano he ally, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i ke kiʻi hou ʻana i kahi huaʻōlelo i hoʻohana kūʻē ʻia i kahi hui ʻike ʻole āu. No laila ʻo nā mea kōkua ke hoʻohana i kēia mau huaʻōlelo e manaʻo ʻia he hana kolohe. A inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo inā maikaʻi paha kahi huaʻōlelo na ʻoe e hoʻohana ai, mai ʻōlelo wale ʻoe.

8. E hāʻawi manawaleʻa i nā hui LGBTQ +

Ma mua o ka hele ʻana i nā hanana Haʻaheo, e nīnau iā ʻoe iho i nā mea ʻē aʻe a i ʻole hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hana no ke kaiāulu LGBTQ +, e ʻōlelo ʻo Shane. "Inā makemake ʻoe e uku no ke kaʻa kaʻa a i ʻole Uber, komo i kahi kālena ānuenue a i ʻole nā ​​lei ānuenue, a hulahula pū i ka holo ʻana o nā lana i ka pā, hiki iaʻu ke paipai iā ʻoe e ʻae like e kākoʻo i kēlā kaiāulu like. ke emi ka leʻaleʻa a liʻiliʻi ka ʻōlinolino. ”

I kēlā manawa, ʻōlelo ʻo Lopez: "Ke noi aku nei mākou i kā mākou mea kōkua e hāʻawi manawaleʻa i kā mākou kumu, nā kōkua manawaleʻa, a me nā hui."

E noʻonoʻo e hāʻawi manawaleʻa i:

• LGBTQ + poʻe ma o Venmo, Cash-App, a me Patreon
• kekahi o kēia mau hui LGBTQ +
• kou kikowaena LGBTQ + kūloko

Inā ʻaʻohe ou waiwai kālā e hāʻawi manawaleʻa ai, manaʻo ʻo Boyajian e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā ala ʻē aʻe hiki iā ʻoe ke kākoʻo i ke kaiāulu. "E hele paha i ka parade sober a hāʻawi i nā holo i a mai nā wahi no nā poʻe aloha, e pale ana i nā poʻe kūʻē mai ka poʻe kūʻē anti-LGBTQ + a me ka poʻe e hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻeha iā mākou i nā hanana haʻaheo a i ʻole, a i ʻole e kiʻi wai iā mākou."

Pākuʻi ʻia paha kēia i ka hōʻoia ʻana i nā hanana Haʻaheo no ka poʻe kīnā ʻole LGBTQ + poʻe, e hoʻokiʻekiʻe nei i nā leo o ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + ma o ke kiʻi hou ʻana / hoʻopaʻa hou ʻana i kā lākou ʻike, a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā poʻe e hoʻomākeʻaka nei e pili ana i ka "Straight Pride" .

9. Lawe mai i kāu poʻe keiki

Inā he makua ʻoe, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe, "E lawe anei wau i kaʻu keiki i Pride?" ʻAe ka pane! ʻOiai ʻoluʻolu ʻoe e hana pēlā a mākaukau ʻoe e lawe i kou hoihoi a me kou kākoʻo.

"Hiki i ka haʻaheo ke lilo i manawa aʻo kupanaha no nā keiki a me ka poʻe ʻōpio," wahi a Boyajian. "ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke aloha i nā mākua he mea maʻamau ia a maʻamau ke ʻano maʻamau ke aloha nui. Ke hōʻike nei i ka poʻe ʻōpio hiki ke lilo i mea maikaʻi i mea maikaʻi wale nō e hōʻoia iā lākou e lilo i mea a lākou e makemake ai me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo.

E kamaʻilio mua me kāu poʻe keiki, e ʻōlelo ana ʻo Antioco Carrillo, ka luna alakaʻi no Aid for AIDS o Nevada. "E wehewehe iā lākou i ka waiwai a me ka like ʻole o ko mākou kaiāulu a me ke ʻano kū hoʻokahi o ka manawa kūpono e hele ai i ka hanana kahi e ʻae maoli ʻia ai kēlā me kēia. E wehewehe ia i ke ʻano e maopopo ai iā lākou a hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi aia hiki i ka LGBTQ + lākou iho. "

ʻAe ʻo Costa, me ka hoʻohui ʻana: "No ka pehea e wehewehe ai i kāu poʻe keiki i ka mea a lākou e ʻike ai he mea ʻokoʻa ma mua o ka hana a kekahi inā ʻike nā keiki i kahi mea a lākou i ʻike ʻole ai ma ka kīwī a i ʻole i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma mua. ʻO ka ʻōlelo e mau ka ‘nani ke aloha’. ”

I kāu wehewehe ʻana, kau i ka Pride i loko o ka pōʻaiapili. E wehewehe i ke koʻikoʻi o ka mōʻaukala a me ka nui o Pride, wahi a Shane. ʻO ka ʻike hou aʻe hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i kāu keiki ma mua, ʻo ka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. "ʻOiai he haʻaheo o ka leʻaleʻa Pride me nā ānuenue a me nā mele he nui, inā ʻaʻole maopopo i kāu mau keiki aia he mea hou aku ma mua o ka pāʻina ʻana, ua nele ʻoe i kahi manawa kūpono e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka ʻike waiwai kupaianaha," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

10. E hauʻoli ʻoe iā ʻoe iho

Inā ʻoe e hele i Pride, e hele a hauʻoli iā ʻoe iho. "E leʻaleʻa ka manawa, ka hulahula, ka uē a me ka hauʻoli, e leʻaleʻa, e pūʻiwa i ka nui o nā poʻe e kākoʻo ana i ke kaiāulu LGBTQ + a ʻo lākou iho nō," paipai iā Brown.

"ʻO ka Pride parade kahi hoʻolauleʻa o ke aloha a me ka ʻae ʻia, a hōʻike nā lālā ʻokoʻa i kēlā aloha i nā ʻano like ʻole," wahi a Brown. "Inā ʻoe e hōʻike aʻe he mea nui loa ia e hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā me kēia manawa." A inā ʻoe e hana, e kākoʻo ana ʻoe i ka LGBTQ + me ke akahele a me ka mahalo.

E hoʻomanaʻo wale, e nā mea kōkua, "Pono mākou iā ʻoe i ka makahiki āpau. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke lanakila i kēia hakakā me ka ʻole o ʻoe. Ke kākoʻo nei i ke kaiāulu LGBTQ a ke lilo i mea kōkua maoli ʻaʻole hiki ke manaʻo wale i ke kau ʻana i nā kākini ānuenue i hoʻokahi manawa i ka makahiki, "wahi a Lopez. "Pono mākou e kū me mākou a no mākou i ka makahiki holoʻokoʻa. Hoʻohana iā mākou i kāu ʻoihana. Koho i nā poʻe e hoʻoholo i nā kulekele e kūkulu i ka pono LGBTQ. Kākoʻo i nā ʻoihana ʻo LGBTQ. E hōʻoki i ka hana hoʻomāinoino a me ka hana hoʻomāinoino i kāna alahele ke ʻike ʻoe iā ia. ”

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